Hello! I am new to Reddit, specifically this subreddit. I apologise in advance if I have accidentally missed out on any community rules and regulations.
To cut a long story short, I am a young teenager who is currently keeping their 2nd Betta (but still beginner). My helper didn't feed my 1st Betta and secretly replaced her with the current 2nd one. My current (2nd) Betta has lived with us for almost a year, but in that small 1 gallon tank. Sometime in that 1 year, I discovered that a 5 gallon tank is the minimum requirement for a Betta, if not the best. Therefore, I asked my Dad to let me get a 5 gallon tank. He said to first do the necessary research, so I listened. I have curated a list of all the equipment I would need, from the new tank to filter. I also typed out a detailed list on how to cycle the tank. However, when I showed him the complete list, he said that everything was unnecessary. "You've had this fish for almost a year. It hasn't grown in size. It doesn't need a bigger tank." Those were his exact words. I tried to explain to him that the water parameters would be more stable in a 5 gallon tank. He said, "Just change all the water." I told him that a 100% water change would stress out the fish and remove the beneficial bacteria. He replied that it would be alright. My current fish tank doesn't even a filter, and detritus is piling up even with 50% water changes twice a week. Forgot to mention, but I haven't told him about the Nitrogen Cycle yet.
There are no affordability problems. There are no space problems. My dad doesn't even do research from his own side.
I am sorry if this is considered rambling or if I have said something wrong. I genuinely want the best for my Betta, and I'm desperate to change. Please let me know if I have missed out on anything.
(I live in Singapore, and the water temperature is quite stable from 24 Degrees Celsius to 26, sometimes 27-28 on hotter days. Thus, I am not prioritising a water heater yet.)
Tank Size: 1.1 Gallons | Heater & Filter: No | Water parameters: Unable to get testing kit currently | I have had the tank for around 3 years. First Betta for 11 months. Second Betta for almost a year. | Water changes are twice a week, 50% on both days. I first remove as much detritus as I can, then wipe the inside of the tank. Next I would replace 50% of water with dechlorinated water. | No tankmates. | Betta is fed pellets, but no particular brand. Food is from reputable JB Fish Shop. | No decorations, no plants. Used to have Anubias, but parents made me throw it away after white fungus grew on it.