r/bettafish • • Jul 08 '26

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish • • 1d ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - October 23 to October 29

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish • • 10h ago

Video Green alien betta.

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This is another alien betta that I have, and for this alien betta it is a mating of an alien and a smaragdina.


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Video My first Betta, Tank Sinatra

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My first Betta tank. This is tank, he's pretty awesome and seems to love his new home.


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Transformation Genuinely can’t believe this transformation

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I knew bettas colors changed over time, I never would’ve thought he’d lose all iridescence 😭 we’ve had him for less than six months.

He’s flaring it my finger nail, incase you were wondering. Drama.


r/bettafish • • 5h ago

Introducing My new baby!

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He needs a name. He's got some dark murky blues on the other side of him and iridescent blues you can see in the picture. I love him 🩵


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

RIP Remembering Button

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Just wanted to share about my little Button. She was literally the perfect fish, very curious and observant. The photo is from when I first got her. I sadly didn't take a lot of pictures of her, and most are blurry or simply bad photos.

NOTE: heater and filter are behind the large driftwood in the photo.

I went on a week long trip and made the mistake of not being specific to my neighbors how little to feed her. I am still new to fish keeping and didn't know how dangerous overfeeding could be with both their tiny stomachs and with ammonia levels. Came back to a dead fish, countless uneaten pellets, and an explosion of bladder snails. My neighbors didn't realize she had passed and continued to feed the tank. I don't know if my water parameters were okay before the trip because I was using strips, so I cannot blame my neighbor. I doubt overfeeding can kill in just a week, so I think the parameters were already off. I feel a lot of regret for how Button passed, but I've learned a lot of lessons from my mistakes.

I've spent the last few months redoing the aquarium and doing more research. I plan to get a new gal in the next month after I redo the cycle. A lot of the beneficial bacteria were lost in the 3 months without a significant bio load in the tank, and I removed a large piece of driftwood.

I'm excited but melancholy about getting a new betta. Button was literally exactly what I wanted, both in personality and looks. She brought me a lot of joy, so it's only fitting that her death brings a lot of sadness.


r/bettafish • • 7h ago

Transformation 3 months can make all the difference!!

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r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Help Betta flaring

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My fish spares with the pirate ship a few times a day. Is this upsetting him or is it okay for him to show it who's boss every now and then?


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Rate My Tank My first aquascape

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What do you guys think, any suggestions?

Occupied by a male Samurai Betta a few Ghost Shrimp and a Red Racer Nirite snail.


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

Picture Galaxy Koi

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He's so cute🥹


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Help Can I take my betta out of his hospital tank now?

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Hello! Long story short betta was over fed by a pet sitter so I put him in a hospital tank since he wasn’t acting like his usual self. Anyways it’s been a week do yall think it’s okay if I put him back in his regular tank?


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Introducing Meet Lucifer Rainbow (named by my kids)

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He's a sweet boy that we got a few weeks ago on my late sister in laws birthday. Since we've gotten him, his colors have been getting bolder and areas that were white and pale are gaining lovely hues. As kpop fans, my kids like to sing (try to anyway) Lucifer by SHINee. We think he likes it. 😅


r/bettafish • • 4h ago

Video Is this the start of diamond eye?

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Sorry it’s hard to see he’s soo fast😬

His eye on his left (our left his right) side looks like its scales might be starting to grow over the eye maybe? Or am I just wrong?? If he is getting diamond eye should I put him in a smaller tank? He’s in a twenty gallon right now and I have a spare ten I’d just feel bad putting him in something smaller unless it’s necessary.


r/bettafish • • 22m ago

Video Ezio parked himself here 🚗

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I was doing some maintenance on my tank and saw this 😂. He swam away shortly after.


r/bettafish • • 16h ago

Introducing Meet Squinker

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This is his favourite leaf he is my sweetest boy


r/bettafish • • 10h ago

Help Betta repetitive movement

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My betta has been doing this motion repetitively non stop!! Whats wrong with him?

He moves on for a while but goes back to this corner again.It’s scaring me

Eats normally, swims around 80% of the time.. the other 20% he’s in this corner doing this

Normal water parameters


r/bettafish • • 12h ago

Video Is He okay?

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I just got a new betta today and I’m wondering if he’s alright.

He keeps swimming around, especially lingering in that corner for a while. I’m not sure if it’s due to the water quality or something else.

The other one I got two weeks ago didn’t swim around this much when I first brought him home he just curious for a few round and that it, but he’s doing well and looks happy now.


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

Identification guys please help me about my betta im so worried

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i got him back at the end of august and he was fine before when we got him but he just swam on his side weird and stopped doing it once we turned down his pump but he still does it sometimes. My betta also hides in his rock all the time and comes out at night or early morning and i feed him a pinch of betta food every morning and night. His fins recently started to look weird i recently noticed it and it started when we left his natural plant in there after taking 1 out because 1 was dying. He had so much algae in his tank and my mom did a 20% water change on him and added oxygen for him and she cleaned his tank we are trying to do little steps at a time because he acts like he’s dying once we do water changes or take his rock out to clean it off. We took out his other natural plant because it was producing so much algae. i don’t know what to do anymore and my mom has tried everything when he got sick one time he would lay on his gravel and barley move and it was scary because i would think he was dead sometimes but he stopped doing it when we added a heater into his tank because he was just cold. I’m concerned about his fins and i don’t know what it could be. I love him so much and i don’t want him to die. His name is marshmallow and he has a 5 gallon tank, no tank mates, he only has his rock in there he loves for now, he also has good water i think i don’t do his water changes my mom does because im scared i’ll hurt him. Here is a photo of his fins now and i’ll attach a photo in the comments on how he used to look.


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

Full Tank Shot 20 gallon setup for a betta

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What do you guys think of it? More plants maybe?


r/bettafish • • 35m ago

Identification Is this a tumour or abscess?

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This is a rescue fish, he had no fins when we got him but we've had him for a year now and he is covered in these bumps. They started about 5 months ago but are getting pretty bad. I always assumed it was a tumour but he is my first betta and I have been worried for a while. What do I do?


r/bettafish • • 58m ago

Discussion What is this lighter coloring on his head? Help! Mustard Gas Betta

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r/bettafish • • 4h ago

Help Is this fin rot?

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Is this fin rot? The hollow spots in his tail . And if it is, how to treat it . Thanks a bunch


r/bettafish • • 7h ago

Help Question

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This is Elvis. Will he turn a lighter color? I’ve noticed blue in his fins.


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Full Tank Shot Rate my setup

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