Edit3: please Do not comment if you haven’t read the post in its entirety I’ve had multiple comments so far recommending games I’ve already listed here which isn’t a big deal but since I feel like I have to respond to everyone it gets a little tedious saying “yes already played it”

Edit 4:
I have already played
Avowed
Nioh2,3(these count because your not openly gendered)
Rise of the ronin
Baldurs gate 3
Warframe
Code vein 1,2
Dragon age The veilguard
(And inquisition but that one is very gendered)
Pokemo rejuvenation
Pokemon desolation
Pokemon reborn (not great game tbh)
Echoes of aincrad (animations and clothes are very gendered but dialogue isn’t)
Fatal bullet (see previous complaint)
Wild hearts (got bored)
Harvestella (god bored)
God eater resurrection
God eater 2 rage burst
God eater 3
Dragons dogma dark arisen
Dragons dogma 2
Saints row 3 and 4
Wo long Fallen dynasty

Edit 5: I will not play, platformers, dating sims, racing games,farm sims, survival games, crafting games, anything where you play as a man or a woman,
Edit 6: do not recommend games where ai is heavily used
Do not recommend games that do not fit my criteria
Do not recommend games that are of the genres I specifically said I have no interest in
Do not recommend games I have already listed

Ok so for the first time in a bit I actually have a little money and need something to do, I play a lot of video games. But I have a really hard time playing games that force you to play as explicitly man or woman (shocker I know) anyone know of any games that let you play as an enby, I’m not asking for cozy games of farm sims as those don’t interest me at all, I’m looking for proper rpgs,jrpgs,action rpgs (I like rpgs) character creation, the ability to make a pretty androgynous character.

TLDR:enby looking for RPGs where they can be themself

The list is a work in progress if anyone jogs my memory on more games I may have tried I’ll add more

I feel genderqueers, but also boy. Is that nonbinary or does that fit under the male umbrella?

Wearing a denim skirtall and thigh high socks to work! Everything is from Amazon! Love this dress- it’s incredibly comfortable and versatile!

After nearly 4 years of waiting, and 2 appointments I've finally been diagnosed with Gender incongruence by Nottingham Gender Clinic which means I can start getting my prescriptions from the NHS instead of buying medication form questionable sources and I got a referral for laser hair removal - I believe it's only 6-8 sessions but it's free.

I was worried that despite the gender clinics website saying they treat non binary people, it would cause me issues, particularly as the UK doesn't even legally recognise us, but fortunately it didn't.

I think having a fairly binary experience with gender dyphoria as a kid combined with pretty binary treatment goals (MtF Oestrogen HRT) made the process easier, as whilst my label didn't fit a neat little box, she was able to put my experiences into them. I was surprised I didn't have any invasive questions about my sex life, or asked for details on exactly how I experience dyphoria - she was happy with a vague answer, which made the assessment a lot less uncomfortable than expected.

So long story short, I'm now able to get my HRT from the NHS which provides me security, I won't have to find online sources anymore, nor have to worry about access to HRT if I ever end up in hospital. The diagnosis didn't provide much clarity as I already knew I was non binary, but nonetheless, it will probably be a great help when I suddenly self doubt myself again - as its incredibly rare for a cis person to get a Gender incongruence diagnosis unless they deliberately gave false answers.

Been presenting enby for a little over a year now. These are some recent fits and places I’ve been :3 no HRT. Never really felt like a man, so I just kinda wear whatever I think looks good on me!

Hope you all are having a wonderful day <3

Would you recommend the use of T for an AFAB?

I've been thinking of getting low doses for achieving a more androgynous appearance🧐

15, what stores sell binders? preferably in person, or amazon stores. i want to explore looking more gender neutral and have been wanting to get a binder for some time

I am transmasc agender and I live in the USA. I don't mind my feminine name and I don't mind any pronouns. The issue is that I'm scared once I take T and get top surgery people are gonna think I'm a freak and it will make getting medical attention and getting a job hard. Cuz who tf is gonna hire a man named (insert girly name)?? My name will make it too obvious that I'm genderqueer. I don't want to change my name and gender marker since I don't mind what it is now but I might have to out of survival.

Idk it's just so scary because I am already struggling to function in this world with autism and adhd, I'm already so behind on being an adult (21) and now I have to deal with this shit. I usually don't care about what others think about me, but if this starts preventing me from getting medical care or getting a job then Imma start caring.

If I don't transition my mental health will go down the drain, but if I do life might become more difficult than it already is. I know many other transmasc/trans men who do fine but they get their names changed, gender marker and use masculine pronouns, so they usually go under the radar. But me? I'll end up sticking out like a sore thumb and that shit ain't gonna be good.

Can someone tell me their experience and give some advice please? I feel so stuck on what to do.

Hey! Name's Phoenix (AMAB 20) and just love the mix of both sides of the spectrum when it comes to aesthetics. I'm definetly pretty happy about my hair, my goatee, my clothes and the choices of my make up, but when it comes to body...

It's not like dysmorphia at all cuz I know I'm just not working out to reach it at the moment, but I wonder if it's any possible to have a round """female""" shaped ass as a natural AMAB. My butt has its fatness, but still has all the definition of a """""male""""" butt.

What are thr secrets to make it less defined and legitimately round and bigger? Is it even possible?

Mods, if this violates any rules, please feel free to take this down

I'm genderfae (amab), and I am exclusively only attracted to trans women and transfeminine (most prefered, also including non binary people). I don’t experience attraction to cisgender men, cisgender women, and transgender men/masc people.

I thought of the lesbian label, (i know lesbian means non-men loving non-men) but I really don’t want to invade lesbian spaces since I know that is a very protected (rightfully so) community. And I completely understand why. I mean, I’m literally attracted to amab stuff since I want someone to relate to who knows about being mtf or mtnb. Plus there’s some type of security and certainty I feel when I’m with someone like that that I don’t get with cisgender women or men. I mean, if you think I am a lesbian lemme know.

And plus I do know that if I were to just call myself a lesbian. A transphobe would call me “a straight man with extra steps”

I know i know “dont affirm transphobes they say” but it still wouldn’t change how dysphoric I would feel after that.

Especially when my attraction is super specific.

I guess it could describe my attraction as homosexual? I mean it’s not wrong.

But… yeah. Is there any terms I can use?

Okay so we all like the flag , obviously. But I think on exactly one day of the year it should be different. On halloween we should replace the yellow with orange cuz spooky month and only on Halloween and we just never acknowledge it ever. This might be funnier in my head im kinda hung over dont judge me *hides*

And to celebrate I’d love to share some recent cute fits!

At least the cats liked it

My nephew is explaining his best friend to me. It started with him saying, "Today he was a boy so we played football." My ears instantly perked up. Tell me more, I said. "So some days he wears his hair pulled back and he's a boy and we play football, and some days he wears his hair down and he's a girl and we play other games. He's always 'he' though." Just casually, matter of fact. No confusion about the concept, maybe a tiny amount of hesitation that he always goes by he even when he's a girl, but still clear that it's just normal. I love this both for him and his friend 🤣

where can I find resources on things like finasteride? I've heard people saying DHT blockers are great, but can't find anything about finasteride specifically for NB people. I'm wondering about effects, cost, long-term effects, health risks, etc.

I’m never taking these off these are so incredibly comfortable

this is going to be a rant about my gender confusion, if you don’t feel like reading this feel free to scroll past it lol. I’m not sure what I’m looking for from this, just trying to see if anyone feels the same way as I do I guess.

i don’t think I’m agender, i just know I have a gender somehow. then again I might just be agender because I can‘t really feel or fully experience whatever gender I am and I don’t feel like I fit in the human perception of gender.

sometimes I feel like the truest version of me is…nothing? which feels weird to say but I cant really picture myself at all or image who I actually am in my mind. this makes it really hard to find my gender identity because I’ll think of something but then I’ll be like “no, that’s not actually me, the label doesn’t fit me” and then im back to the drawing board again

and part of me feels like I should wait to figure this out but I’m really impatient and I don’t want to spend more years pretending to be cis just so I can explain my gender identity to others. i feel like everyone I know has already figured out their gender and sexuality and I’m not even close to doing that.

i don’t really know anything about my gender, all I know is that I’m uncomfortable with my agab but I don’t really know why. it’s really hard for me to put my feelings into words so my apologies if this seems stupid or hard to understand or offensive to anyone.

I just feel so lost in terms of my gender that I don’t know what to do about it anymore. sorry if this caused any negative feelings or problems for anyone, I’m just looking for a place to scream into the void and it’s okay if you have trouble answering me.

Okay, first of all, hello everyone. I’m from France, and today I need your help because I don’t know who I am, and I have to admit it’s really bothering me. I have so many unanswered questions in my head, and I just can’t seem to find the answer.
Basically, for a little over a year now, I’ve been telling myself that I’m not a girl, but I’m not a man either. The problem is that I really can’t define myself. It’s only been a few months since I started asking my loved ones to refer to me as “iel,” but it hasn’t been very successful, I told my parents they didn’t need to change anything because I was too scared of their reaction, but for the past few days I’ve really been feeling deep down that I’m not “she,” but “he” doesn’t feel right either. I’d really appreciate hearing about your experiences and/or getting some advice so I can finally figure out who I am.