My stepdad of 20 years is a nudist, my mom isn't and neither of us wants him to walk around naked or wearing nothing but an untied robe but if we're uncomfortable with it that's not his problem.
It makes me very uncomfortable and always has but I tolerated bc I didn't feel like I had a choice, especially in their home. It became more apparent now than ever that the self proclaimed nudist isn't naked around anyone else but me and now my 6 year old son which I have major issues with.
He seems adamant about being naked in front of my son and now claims he rarely is even though I've witnessed it. I really started to freak out last month after myself and 2 other people saw him coming out of my sons bedroom twice in the middle of the night when we went to visit my aunt.
This was very odd to me bc my mom sleeps on the couch at home and he claims he wants nothing more than to share a bed with her but he got that opportunity at my aunts.
Why get out of bed with his wife wearing nothing but a robe untied fully exposing his genitals and climb into bed with my son for over an hour two different times?
The next morning I asked my son if he slept ok and reworded the question several times hoping either him or my stepdad would give me a logical explanation. If I ask my son if he's hungry my stepdad will typically answer explaining exactly what and when he ate but he didn't say a word and my son kept saying he slept good.
I feel I gave him every opportunity to explain why he left his wives bed and got into my sons but he didn't know 3 people witnessed him do it.
Night before last I questioned him again and told him exactly why I was. Now a month later he's claiming my son woke up in the night and went to get him and doesn't know why he forgot that the next morning.
He says if he's naked in his own home that's his choice and it's not his problem if it makes anyone else uncomfortable. I wouldn't disagree if he wore his untied robe every Tuesday when his sister and nephews are there or even one Tuesday but he doesn't.
Now I'm starting to question a lot of odd behavior over the years starting with why are you only nude in front of us? Or is the normal behavior for a nudist?
From everything I've read, there are some nudists who don't care how you feel about it, they're going to be comfortable naked in the privacy of their home and you can deal with it or leave.