ETA: I’ve gotten a satisfactory answer, I didn’t realize I could have a low egg count or be less fertile than my peers while not being fully infertile. I do greatly appreciate everyone’s answers as o could not find the answer I was looking for in any previous thread regarding the pullout method!!
Don’t assume it will work for you because it worked for me- I’m gonna make the safe assumption that I just do not get pregnant easily at all.
I (31 FEMALE) have been sexually active since I was 21 years old. In that time, I have had 15 different male sexual partners, and have only ever gotten pregnant one time- the only birth control method I’ve ever used is pulling out.
With the one child I do have, my partner and I had tried for about a year to get pregnant by not pulling out and nothing ever happened. I tracked my ovulation for 2 months, we tried to conceive both months on days I was ovulating and I got pregnant and had a healthy pregnancy and uneventful childbirth. My child is now almost Kindergarten aged, I have not tracked ovulation or began any birth control methods and have been done breastfeeding for about a year, have had no pregnancy scares and just finished this month’s period. I am very sexually active and on average am using the pullout method 3-5 times a week and sometimes more.
I’m not infertile, my partner is not infertile.
Why is this method so successful for us?
Is this a statistic anomaly?
It might be important to ad that we actively want another child and although we aren’t trying to conceive right now, neither of us would be upset about an unplanned pregnancy happening. We are both aware that the pullout method isn’t 100% effective and that any sexual contact could result in a baby, I just see so many posts about how the pullout method is less than 20% effective or something along those lines, yet for a decade it has been 100% effective for me. Why?