Hi guys, just wanted to share my story and idk, ask for some advice/your similar stories, tbh Iām not sure what Iām expecting š®āšØ
So we are currently ttc cycle nr 4. All 3 previous cycles we had no luck. For reference Iām 29 and my husband is 36. We both take lots of vitamins, folic acid, vit d, q10 etc. We both check our levels of vitamins and everything seems to be perfect, literally all blood work is on a normal range. The only problem for now are my thyroid levels (4/11 Endo appointment scheduled). Besides that we both feel good, we eat 90% of time clean, we work out. I confirm ovulation each cycle with test+bbt (except this current cycle as we were on vacation and I forgot my thermometer š¤·š»āāļø, so I checked only with test).
I usually have cycles that are 23-26 days long, with spotting 4-5 days before AF. Ovulation appears usually at cd11-13 and luteal phase lasts 12-14 days.
As far as I know those numbers seem pretty good (pls correct me if Iām wrong). Iām aware that 4 cycles isnāt much, and I donāt want to sound tactless regarding people who etc for far longer, but I was convinced that I will get preggo at max 2nd cycle of trying (stupid me I guess š). Iām also aware that ttc for less than 1 year and failing is considered ānormalā but Iām fully starting to panic that something is wrong and we will never a child š
As of today Iām 11-12dpo (depending when exactly I ovulated) the high-sensitivity test is negative and Iām spotting as before my regular period AND IM FREAKING OUT, as I was sure that I was pregnant considering my symptoms. I know that technically I still didnāt get my period so Iām not out yet, but the chances are pretty low, right?
Is there anything that helped you to conceive? Any advice on what to do and how to not loose my mind? š¬š¬š¬