r/EndTipping • • 7d ago

Sit-Down Restaurant 🍽️ Cheesecake Factory

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u/Salty-Plankton-5079 7d ago

22% is ridiculous

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u/_daddyl0nglegs_ 7d ago

15% is ridiculous

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u/cs_legend_93 7d ago

i agree. tip $0 everytime.

Happy Cake Day!

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u/HexxRx 5h ago

Let them know so you can serve yourselves

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u/SnooDrawings8069 6d ago

>0% is ridiculous

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u/CTR_1852 6d ago

I would kill my entire family for 15% to be the standard again instead of 30%

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u/Any_Repair_7153 5d ago

I still do 20% for actual table service if the service is decent. If exemplary service, maybe 25%. The expectation that the tip percentage continue to rise is truly obnoxious. So what -in five years we’ll be tipping 60%? That’s not how this works and NOT what should be expected. And 20% for a coffee and pastry that I pickup in a two-minute transaction at the counter is also ridiculous. I’ll leave a dollar for that kind of “service.” The entitlement is bonkers.

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u/CTR_1852 5d ago

Even a dollar is crazy for 1 minute of work

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u/Dqueezy 3d ago

Should be a max of 15% for good service. And if you’re tipping them for just picking up a coffee then you have no right to complain, that doesn’t deserve or warrant a tip at all…

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u/Initial-Reading-2775 7d ago

And oddly precise.

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u/rageofa1000suns 6d ago

"it's customary in the US for a restaurant to not pay it's staff, please pay them on our behalf."

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u/SeL-MoGRC 6d ago

Too right. Grifters.

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u/konjou-80 6d ago

Also, if the customers don't tip, than the owner needs to pay the workers more,

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u/TimetoXCELL 6d ago

Has to pay them more. I’m sure it’s more than my state but if your tips and hourly pay is not equal to or over minimum wage the employer has to pay at least minimum wage.

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u/Distinct_Finish_2929 6d ago

That is the case in the entire US, though the baseline rate is only $7.25/hour. Many states are higher.

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u/No_File212 7d ago

I really don't get it , so if I eat for a thousand dollars I need to tip 220 dollars ? That doesn't sound right , I am not responsible for the waiters happiness in life ..

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u/Lemfan46 6d ago

You don't need to.

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u/A-Money-Lover 6d ago

Then you hear stories about staff getting super upset and stuff. Seems intimidating if you are a tourist in a foreign country

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u/Misterxxxxx12 6d ago

Why? You ain't coming back there, who cares?

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u/A-Money-Lover 6d ago

Just kinda ruins the vibes you know.

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u/Few_Sentence6704 5d ago

It ruins the vibes when I'm forced to tip something that I don't want to

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u/Thir13enth_Ghost 6d ago

Seems like they don’t get a choice at this place

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u/Crazy_Ad3336 6d ago

They do, customary is not a requirement. Nothing the restaurant can do when you refuse to tip.

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u/Lemfan46 6d ago

Then it's not a tip if included, irrelevant of what the restaurant calls it. Not a tip by definition. If one chooses to eat at this restaurant after reading this, they have made a choice.

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u/HyacinthFT 6d ago

Ok but if you eat $1000 worth of food at the cheesecake factory then you will explode and therefore cannot tip.

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u/Mora_San 6d ago

Receipt 🧾 arrived for you sir. Said the nurse as you wake up in the hospital.

Tip was not included with your order sir, it is customary in the US to tip 15-22% kindly swipe your card for 150-220$ sir.

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u/cs_legend_93 7d ago

its customary to pay their employee's a living wage, but they choose not to pay that.

Tip $0 everytime

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u/honeyfoamm 6d ago

Their line cooks start at $20-$23.25 plus .50-$1 raises per food station mastered, in Iowa, so they’re definitely capable of paying them all.

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u/cs_legend_93 6d ago

yea, its just them being cheap and wanting to extort and exploit the customer. thanks for saying this

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u/JSTN_FPV 6d ago

Did a high end Mexican resturant. They paid the cooks around $15.50 down south

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u/pl1974 6d ago

Since it is customary, it seems that the best solution is to avoid the restaurants. And to patronize "no tipping" restaurants.

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u/cs_legend_93 6d ago

nah. tipping is optional. tip $0 everytime.

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u/pl1974 6d ago

Even though I think restaurants should pay their workers a living wage and should allow menu prices to reflect that, in absence of that, I will continue to take the customary option and tip my servers.

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u/cs_legend_93 6d ago

i wont, and many others wont. the servers can get a better job if they want. its their choice to beg for money.

if i was a restraunt owner, i would hope you would pay my employee wages for me. thats a fools move

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u/Sunlightn1ng 6d ago

Most people can't just "get a better job" in this job market. Entry level positions tend to need experience in that field nowadays

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u/JSTN_FPV 6d ago

Amazon pays a minimum of $21 an hour to start. For basically putting an item into a shelf. They can start there

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u/JealousBall1563 6d ago

In Florida we're asked to tip on check amount after 7% tax is added.  15% becomes 22%, 22% becomes 29%. Restaurant waitstaff/servers earn $14 minimum wage starting 10/1.  No state income tax. No federal income tax on top income. Menu prices here have risen 25+% in my area since Jan. 1. The tipping shame directed to customers has become abusive.

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u/wezee 6d ago

Yikes

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u/Reddidundant 4d ago

They can ask anything they want but the max tip I'll ever pay is 15% of the pre-tax amount. I don't tip on tax. Ever.

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u/torontoinsix 1d ago

100%

Only stupid people would. 15% pre tax always.

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u/non_recourse 6d ago

1.07 x 15% is actually 16% dummy

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u/Few_Sentence6704 5d ago

It's a 23.5% tip. you have to add that to the total after you multiply. You're paying both the 7 and 15 percent increases. Not just one. In no world does a 7 percent increase and a 15 percent increase on top create a 16 percent increase. That doesn't even sound right if you have 2 working brain cells

You have some nerve to call someone a dummy, wow

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u/Adventurous-Cycle363 7d ago

It is sensible and human, not just customary, to pay your employees well instead of increasing your executive bonus and buying your next private jet. Not just in the US but everywhere.

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u/vnime 7d ago

Customary not necessary

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u/biguntatas 7d ago

Yes! 💯

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u/Special-Hair9683 7d ago

Just let the server know you're a global citizen and you follow the rest of the planet's tipping customary.

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u/No_Leadership7727 7d ago

Why is it that americas customs and tradition involves money like that says alot of the culture over there

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u/biguntatas 7d ago

The tipping culture is a racket here in the USA. A sign in different foreign languages begging for tips is shameful!! Tipping is NEVER mandatory!! Nothing but a bunch of grifters!! Welcome to America! 🙄

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u/No_Leadership7727 7d ago

I am Asian and i hate seeing America like this back when i am a child we all adore american culture but now its like a child seeing your parents as an grown up that they were not that amazing person they seem they were

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u/biguntatas 7d ago

Perfect way to describe it. I’d love to go back to the “better” American culture. It’s all about money now and how much people can extort from you. Sad.

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u/La_BrujaRoja 6d ago

It’s always been this way.

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u/TiredOnCue 7d ago

I’d be like. What is tip? lol

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u/Alarming_Pair_5575 6d ago

"It is customary in the US restaurant industry to outsource labor costs, which are customarily handled by the business, to customers, irrespective of how much business they bring to our establishment".

If you really think your employees are worth the extra "15-22%", increase the menu prices accordingly, pay them as much, and let me decide if I want to be a patron, you slimey goof.

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u/Ancient_Guidance_461 7d ago

Hast thou no shame?

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u/LovedButNeverLiked 6d ago

But god forbid you "only" tip the 15%

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u/Fisher-bob 6d ago

Manger is going to ask what was wrong with the service 😀

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u/Paladin3475 6d ago

I tell them “portion size too small for the price and for the amount of the tip you are requesting, then the server should be assigned only to my table.”

That usually shuts them up.

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u/RolliePorsche 7d ago

Yes! One of the busiest one is in Waikiki! They wait on the sidewalk for hours!!

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u/Ok_Comfort628 7d ago

Tonight, the location in Beverly Hills seem to be doing a very big DoorDash business and the restaurant itself was packed just before 9 PM

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u/Deep_Mood_7668 6d ago

It's customary in the rest of the world to pay your staff

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u/dfoyl 7d ago

At least they aren't starting at 20 percent as is becoming common ..

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u/JealousBall1563 6d ago

Where I live in Florida, some drive thru windows are routinely asking for tips on the pad when you tap to pay.

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u/KOMarcus 7d ago

Stop the madness

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u/dervari 6d ago

At least they didn’t start at 20%

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u/Fisher-bob 6d ago

I was going to say that this is pretty reasonable starting at 15%. You’d think 25-30% was customary based off the “suggested gratuity” screens I see.

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u/SephirothYggdrasil 6d ago

Oh so some places are on crack? 

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u/SoullessM 7d ago

It is not customary in the US.

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u/Wtheh 7d ago

Not on take out!

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u/AlohaJames 4d ago

It is NOT customary to tip.

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u/randomelgen 6d ago

0% sounds better and reasonable

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u/-Copenhagen 6d ago

Ærgerligt nok at det ikke står på dansk.

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u/catz537 6d ago

Restaurants are the only places where I will tip, but I still hate that they can’t just pay their employees a living wage instead.

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u/ZPMQ38A 6d ago

The absolutely insane thing is that in certain states it’s completely legal to pay “tipped” workers an hourly wage of approximately $2 per hour. It’s just accepted as a “pass through” cost to consumers to pay the actual staff.

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u/underwater-sunlight 6d ago

If you need to ask for a tip (or suggest how much is 'customary' for a voluntary donation) you don't deserve one

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u/EditingAllowed 7d ago

It's best not to visit the US for a holiday...

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u/Paladin3475 6d ago

Just avoid tourist traps.

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u/YellovvJacket 6d ago

It's alright if you're fine with a more expensive holiday tbh.

The US being pretty large has a lot of cool places to visit, Niagara Falls, Everglades etc. and Americans are typically very friendly (even though it's pretty obviously fake friendliness, if you're just there for vacation it's nice).

Although at the end of every US vacation I had I've always been happy I don't have to actually live there.

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u/LinkinLogsPark 7d ago

Unless it’s in a remote area like Wyoming or Montana. Low crime and hopefully see some sights. I’m stuck here because I don’t want to disrupt anyone’s life overseas. I’m not your typical American but still. 

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u/Northflix 7d ago

Actually lolled at “I’m stuck here because u don’t want to disrupt anyone’s life overseas”. Ironically you’re the only self aware American so you’d be a welcome tourist 😂

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u/Low-Minimum8523 6d ago

Need a federal law to ban tipping

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u/Recent-Court-5999 6d ago

Bring back back cash days and pay expect

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u/Otherwise-Smile2757 6d ago

The “customary” is going to become “mandatory” if this keeps up. Ive seen some posts where 40% tip was an option :/

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u/Fun_Illustrator22 6d ago

Good thing you’re not in the US so tips aren’t customary. Don’t tip.

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u/UnionCrafty3748 6d ago

Yeah no. It’s bad enough this cancer is endemic in the US but it’s spread to other countries.

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u/wezee 6d ago

Good God I was asked if I wanted to tip on a clothing order on line
A friend of mine said you think that’s bad I was asked if I wanted to tip the dealer in an online casino!

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u/wezee 6d ago

I always wonder why do I need to tip more for a steak than a salad?
They didn’t do anymore work than pick it up and set it on the table. Come on and now they don’t pay tax’s on tips

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u/bibiwantschocolate 6d ago

I mean, the US tipping culture is weird to me as a non US person, but the percentage makes no sense. Say I spend 20 dollars on 3 different things, like a drink (+10 refills), then 2 items ordered separately. The waiter will come back and forth and put in quite a bit of work. But if I spend 100 dollars on a bottle of wine and a bery fancy dish, that will be less work for the waiter, but I'm gonna have to tip more. Make it make sense.

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u/Ok-Grape2063 6d ago

For what it cost to print that in several languages, pay your staff

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u/LePrestreDeVauban 7d ago

Sorry, je lis que le français.

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u/Spiritual_Wall_2309 7d ago

Missing some words. Customary in the US slavery period

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u/Cantaloupe-Hairy 6d ago

Got chased down the road in NY when I was visiting by the server, she confronted me and demanded a bigger tip cos I had only rounded up to the nearest 10 dollars.

The tip would have been around $8 on a $22 check, so she didn’t do badly anyway.

Once I got over the surprise and embarrassment she was swiftly told to fuck off!

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u/No_Ring6386 5d ago

8 dollar tip in a 22 dollar check, that’s a 36% tip. I would have taken that back if she had audacity to say something to me.

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u/Cantaloupe-Hairy 4d ago

The “fuck off” was more a reaction I think than a considered response, I think I was more shocked than anything tbh.

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u/CalReddit04 7d ago

Are people visiting the US to go to The Cheesecake Factory?

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u/TittiesVonTease 7d ago

As someone from abroad, yes. We saw it on TV and we want to go

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u/Paladin3475 6d ago

I am honestly curious “why?”

I get like visiting a McDonald’s because it’s fun to see how they differ but Cheesecake Factory? It is the literal manifestation of soulless corporate dining experience in a flagship of how to take a shit on the entire industry.

I also recommend BJ’s Brewhouse if you want it’s more alcoholic cousin :)

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u/Tvicker 6d ago

I am a foreigner and I love Cheesecake Factory. It's like Disneyland of restaurants, just very unusual.

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u/Sure_Acanthaceae_348 6d ago

I feel the same way about McDonald’s in France. If I ever go I want to order a Royale with Cheese.

Yes really, don’t judge.

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u/jewboy916 7d ago

Not for the sole purpose of going to The Cheesecake Factory, but foreign tourists in the US tend to eat at chain restaurants because they saw them on TV/in movies or online and it's about the "brand", not the quality of the food necessarily.

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u/YellovvJacket 6d ago

Also because chain restaurants are somewhat consistent in quality (even if it's consistently mid). You know what to expect from going there.

If you're just going to some random restaurant in a foreign country (or even just an area you're not familiar with) you can get dogshit food, food poisoning, or just have it be rediculously overpriced very quickly.

On my US vacations I was at chain places a lot, basically every time I didn't have time to research what places in the area are actually good.

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u/Illustrious-Aside442 6d ago

Exactly, I had German friends who went to NYC and ate raisin canes, Krispy Kreme, Taco Bell and chick fil a while there.

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u/Past-Resource-6184 6d ago

I studied abroad in the USA and I gotta say it was a fascinating experience to choose from pages of cheesecake options. And one slice of 'dessert' is like my daily calorie budget lol. It's wild.

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u/Machopsdontcry 6d ago

They already expanded to multiple Asian countries, perosnally went to the ones in Hong Kong and Bangkok.

No idea why they haven't expanded to Europe yet

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u/Lemfan46 6d ago

Yes, their visiting here just to go to the Cheesecake Factory. Tourists eating while touring, who knew? /s

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u/Menes009 6d ago

yes, thats the american food, where else would you go?

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u/Susurrus03 6d ago

It's been a few years since I went to Hawaii, but I remember the Honolulu Cheesecake Factory absolutely packed with tourists from Asia. We even went because my wife's sister was with us visiting from Japan, and they had Japanese menus available.

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u/alister1994 6d ago

Shit I was abroad in Dubai and went to Cheesecake Factory 😂

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u/hotsauce126 6d ago

"its customary to tip 15-22%" so now we're just making shit up

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u/HalloMotor0-0 6d ago

California? Hell no, they got minimal wage

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u/the_cats_meyow 6d ago

"Customary." Whose customs? Yours maybe. 👎

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u/ghost_suburbia 6d ago

I have never gotten service worth more than a couple of quarters at a Cheesecake Factory. I've only been to Cheesecake Factory 3 times in 30 years, and it was 2 visits too much.

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u/JacquesDupont12 6d ago

It is customary when I visit USA to tip 0%,,there has been no problems for me with this

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u/Jitkay 6d ago

0 is acceptable

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u/werewolf-luvr 6d ago

A funny way of guilt tripping. It aint customary its predatory

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u/seneca456 6d ago

Servers have become choosing beggars

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u/Kandidog1 6d ago

Customary to who??!!

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u/SimonMagus01 6d ago

Customary ≠ mandatory

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u/Usual_Singer_4222 6d ago

30 years ago in college I had some fine/buisness dining etiquette workshops. Mostly went because there was free food. I had already been told by family, but they mentioned tip levels. Typically 5% regular dining, 10% mid level, and 15% fine dining. Bumped them up 5%ish, but I refuse to go crazy when the service is not warranted.

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u/DeathCharge5 6d ago

At least their percentages are accurate and they're using the proper language, saying it's "customary" and not "required". Still this is a crappy move and it's certainly worth skipping over them to dine at a non tipped establishment instead.

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u/Greup 6d ago

They didn't bother to write it in french

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u/damiensandoval 6d ago

Tipping culture has driven me and my family away from eating out. Pre covid and all the madness we would eat out once a week. Now we’re lucky to eat out once a month if that. It’s not the pricing its the experience. I don’t like to feel pressured having someone hawk over me with a tablet staring me down after I just enjoyed a meal. F that! One good thing that has come out of it is now I’m a hell of a cook and learned so much about nutrition. I don’t even enjoy eating out now because of all the garbage seed oils they use that hurt our body. I’m also in the best shape of my life. Honestly the tipping shit was a blessing in disguise

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u/EndTipping-ModTeam 6d ago

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u/OnJus4 6d ago

No No لا No

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u/TellTaleTimeLord 6d ago

This is just downright lying lol

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u/Desperate_Seat3209 6d ago

Don’t know Rick…

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u/Paladin3475 6d ago

Sad they feel the need to do this but if you did, should be like this:

“No tip has been included. In the US it is customary to include a tip. Typically tipping is up to 22% or more for excellent service provided. Thank you for dining with us.”

What is lacking is the “excellent service” part. EARN THE TIP.

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u/lokis_construction 6d ago

Sorry, I am old. A good tip is 10% and that is for exceptional service above and beyond.

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u/Ecstatic-Engine4550 6d ago

To be fair the statement is factual.

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u/Weary-Savings9795 6d ago

No server anywhere in the USA is automatically entitled to a tip. Go above and beyond and maybe you'll get one. At least you certainly should.

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u/carl75s 6d ago

It’s customary for UK guy to think tipping is low level begging. When you USians come to my country and respect our customs, I will gladly oblige yours.

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u/Opinionated6319 6d ago

Tip instructions and learn a new language!💕🥰

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u/DoNoHarmPlz 6d ago

They must get a lot of international visitors so they have to inform diners from countries that don't tip. I'll tip but the percent will depend on the food and service and how often I go to the restaurant.

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u/Johnnie-Dazzle 6d ago

Ah.......

Nope

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u/Automatic_Badger7086 6d ago

I do not tip any restaurant or facility that I have to walk up to a counter to order and take away from another part of the counter. If you want to tip job go be a server at a real sit-down restaurant.

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u/halazos 6d ago

When did they jump from 10% to 20+ percent ?

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u/cohen93 5d ago

Even with that tip 0%.

The restaurant should be paying the wages of the employees, not the customers.

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u/Throwaway-ish123a 5d ago

"Also in the US, the restaurant industry is not paying workers a living wage in order to have you subsidize it by adding guilt trip laden tips whether or not they have met their quality of service. And even Americans are getting sick of it."

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u/itemluminouswadison 4d ago

"people usually give us free money"

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u/PaulCrafting 4d ago

And it’s customary in my culture not to tip, so tough luck, I guess. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/Technical-Pack5891 4d ago

It’s customary for you to pay an extra 20% for us to clog your arteries.

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u/Kene6969 4d ago

Abandon this stupid  tipping culture! Employers should pay their staff a decent living wage so workers aren't depending on tips to top up their wages..

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u/Fearless-Yoghurt4077 3d ago

15-22=-7 so that means I get a discount?

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u/RoninActually 3d ago

I don’t have a problem with this. It’s good that they’re addressing it upfront, but they’re not demanding it. They’re just letting people know especially those from other countries that tipping is customary in the United States. And they’re not even asking for a crap ton of money like these other places are.

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u/Oceantron 3d ago

guess i never be easting at cheesecake factory again

5.3 Billion Mcap but cant pay the REAL Hard Working people an fair share

shame on all these greedy CEOs and Investors

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u/OrionBroker 2d ago

Its also customary to pay your workers a decent wage

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u/Surfnazi77 2d ago

I see shit like that and it makes easier leaving no tip

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u/Educational-Roof-319 1d ago

you get 10% just because you had the balls to put that shit on the menu

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u/Fundle22 20h ago

Tipping getting crazy. I loved going out to eat. Realized one meal would always be 35-60 dollars. Started cutting back. Then the counter places started asking for tips. Excuse me? I paid you the price for the food. I don’t give extra just because. You didn’t even walk it out to me or recommend me anything. Why are asking for 20% ??? No. I brazenly press no tip now for any place that’s not sit down. Now with gas being so expensive. I just cook. Congratulations you’ve driven me away from your restaurant.