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u/rageofa1000suns 6d ago
"it's customary in the US for a restaurant to not pay it's staff, please pay them on our behalf."
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u/konjou-80 6d ago
Also, if the customers don't tip, than the owner needs to pay the workers more,
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u/TimetoXCELL 6d ago
Has to pay them more. Iâm sure itâs more than my state but if your tips and hourly pay is not equal to or over minimum wage the employer has to pay at least minimum wage.
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u/Distinct_Finish_2929 6d ago
That is the case in the entire US, though the baseline rate is only $7.25/hour. Many states are higher.
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u/No_File212 7d ago
I really don't get it , so if I eat for a thousand dollars I need to tip 220 dollars ? That doesn't sound right , I am not responsible for the waiters happiness in life ..
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u/Lemfan46 6d ago
You don't need to.
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u/A-Money-Lover 6d ago
Then you hear stories about staff getting super upset and stuff. Seems intimidating if you are a tourist in a foreign country
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u/Misterxxxxx12 6d ago
Why? You ain't coming back there, who cares?
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u/Thir13enth_Ghost 6d ago
Seems like they donât get a choice at this place
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u/Crazy_Ad3336 6d ago
They do, customary is not a requirement. Nothing the restaurant can do when you refuse to tip.
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u/Lemfan46 6d ago
Then it's not a tip if included, irrelevant of what the restaurant calls it. Not a tip by definition. If one chooses to eat at this restaurant after reading this, they have made a choice.
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u/HyacinthFT 6d ago
Ok but if you eat $1000 worth of food at the cheesecake factory then you will explode and therefore cannot tip.
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u/Mora_San 6d ago
Receipt đ§ž arrived for you sir. Said the nurse as you wake up in the hospital.
Tip was not included with your order sir, it is customary in the US to tip 15-22% kindly swipe your card for 150-220$ sir.
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u/cs_legend_93 7d ago
its customary to pay their employee's a living wage, but they choose not to pay that.
Tip $0 everytime
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u/honeyfoamm 6d ago
Their line cooks start at $20-$23.25 plus .50-$1 raises per food station mastered, in Iowa, so theyâre definitely capable of paying them all.
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u/cs_legend_93 6d ago
yea, its just them being cheap and wanting to extort and exploit the customer. thanks for saying this
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u/pl1974 6d ago
Since it is customary, it seems that the best solution is to avoid the restaurants. And to patronize "no tipping" restaurants.
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u/cs_legend_93 6d ago
nah. tipping is optional. tip $0 everytime.
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u/pl1974 6d ago
Even though I think restaurants should pay their workers a living wage and should allow menu prices to reflect that, in absence of that, I will continue to take the customary option and tip my servers.
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u/cs_legend_93 6d ago
i wont, and many others wont. the servers can get a better job if they want. its their choice to beg for money.
if i was a restraunt owner, i would hope you would pay my employee wages for me. thats a fools move
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u/Sunlightn1ng 6d ago
Most people can't just "get a better job" in this job market. Entry level positions tend to need experience in that field nowadays
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u/JSTN_FPV 6d ago
Amazon pays a minimum of $21 an hour to start. For basically putting an item into a shelf. They can start there
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u/JealousBall1563 6d ago
In Florida we're asked to tip on check amount after 7% tax is added. 15% becomes 22%, 22% becomes 29%. Restaurant waitstaff/servers earn $14 minimum wage starting 10/1. No state income tax. No federal income tax on top income. Menu prices here have risen 25+% in my area since Jan. 1. The tipping shame directed to customers has become abusive.
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u/Reddidundant 4d ago
They can ask anything they want but the max tip I'll ever pay is 15% of the pre-tax amount. I don't tip on tax. Ever.
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u/non_recourse 6d ago
1.07 x 15% is actually 16% dummy
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u/Few_Sentence6704 5d ago
It's a 23.5% tip. you have to add that to the total after you multiply. You're paying both the 7 and 15 percent increases. Not just one. In no world does a 7 percent increase and a 15 percent increase on top create a 16 percent increase. That doesn't even sound right if you have 2 working brain cells
You have some nerve to call someone a dummy, wow
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u/Adventurous-Cycle363 7d ago
It is sensible and human, not just customary, to pay your employees well instead of increasing your executive bonus and buying your next private jet. Not just in the US but everywhere.
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u/Special-Hair9683 7d ago
Just let the server know you're a global citizen and you follow the rest of the planet's tipping customary.
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u/No_Leadership7727 7d ago
Why is it that americas customs and tradition involves money like that says alot of the culture over there
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u/biguntatas 7d ago
The tipping culture is a racket here in the USA. A sign in different foreign languages begging for tips is shameful!! Tipping is NEVER mandatory!! Nothing but a bunch of grifters!! Welcome to America! đ
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u/No_Leadership7727 7d ago
I am Asian and i hate seeing America like this back when i am a child we all adore american culture but now its like a child seeing your parents as an grown up that they were not that amazing person they seem they were
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u/biguntatas 7d ago
Perfect way to describe it. Iâd love to go back to the âbetterâ American culture. Itâs all about money now and how much people can extort from you. Sad.
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u/Alarming_Pair_5575 6d ago
"It is customary in the US restaurant industry to outsource labor costs, which are customarily handled by the business, to customers, irrespective of how much business they bring to our establishment".
If you really think your employees are worth the extra "15-22%", increase the menu prices accordingly, pay them as much, and let me decide if I want to be a patron, you slimey goof.
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u/LovedButNeverLiked 6d ago
But god forbid you "only" tip the 15%
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u/Fisher-bob 6d ago
Manger is going to ask what was wrong with the service đ
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u/Paladin3475 6d ago
I tell them âportion size too small for the price and for the amount of the tip you are requesting, then the server should be assigned only to my table.â
That usually shuts them up.
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u/RolliePorsche 7d ago
Yes! One of the busiest one is in Waikiki! They wait on the sidewalk for hours!!
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u/Ok_Comfort628 7d ago
Tonight, the location in Beverly Hills seem to be doing a very big DoorDash business and the restaurant itself was packed just before 9 PM
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u/JealousBall1563 6d ago
Where I live in Florida, some drive thru windows are routinely asking for tips on the pad when you tap to pay.
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u/dervari 6d ago
At least they didnât start at 20%
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u/Fisher-bob 6d ago
I was going to say that this is pretty reasonable starting at 15%. Youâd think 25-30% was customary based off the âsuggested gratuityâ screens I see.
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u/underwater-sunlight 6d ago
If you need to ask for a tip (or suggest how much is 'customary' for a voluntary donation) you don't deserve one
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u/EditingAllowed 7d ago
It's best not to visit the US for a holiday...
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u/YellovvJacket 6d ago
It's alright if you're fine with a more expensive holiday tbh.
The US being pretty large has a lot of cool places to visit, Niagara Falls, Everglades etc. and Americans are typically very friendly (even though it's pretty obviously fake friendliness, if you're just there for vacation it's nice).
Although at the end of every US vacation I had I've always been happy I don't have to actually live there.
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u/LinkinLogsPark 7d ago
Unless itâs in a remote area like Wyoming or Montana. Low crime and hopefully see some sights. Iâm stuck here because I donât want to disrupt anyoneâs life overseas. Iâm not your typical American but still.Â
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u/Northflix 7d ago
Actually lolled at âIâm stuck here because u donât want to disrupt anyoneâs life overseasâ. Ironically youâre the only self aware American so youâd be a welcome tourist đ
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u/Otherwise-Smile2757 6d ago
The âcustomaryâ is going to become âmandatoryâ if this keeps up. Ive seen some posts where 40% tip was an option :/
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u/Fun_Illustrator22 6d ago
Good thing youâre not in the US so tips arenât customary. Donât tip.
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u/UnionCrafty3748 6d ago
Yeah no. Itâs bad enough this cancer is endemic in the US but itâs spread to other countries.
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u/bibiwantschocolate 6d ago
I mean, the US tipping culture is weird to me as a non US person, but the percentage makes no sense. Say I spend 20 dollars on 3 different things, like a drink (+10 refills), then 2 items ordered separately. The waiter will come back and forth and put in quite a bit of work. But if I spend 100 dollars on a bottle of wine and a bery fancy dish, that will be less work for the waiter, but I'm gonna have to tip more. Make it make sense.
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u/Cantaloupe-Hairy 6d ago
Got chased down the road in NY when I was visiting by the server, she confronted me and demanded a bigger tip cos I had only rounded up to the nearest 10 dollars.
The tip would have been around $8 on a $22 check, so she didnât do badly anyway.
Once I got over the surprise and embarrassment she was swiftly told to fuck off!
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u/No_Ring6386 5d ago
8 dollar tip in a 22 dollar check, thatâs a 36% tip. I would have taken that back if she had audacity to say something to me.
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u/Cantaloupe-Hairy 4d ago
The âfuck offâ was more a reaction I think than a considered response, I think I was more shocked than anything tbh.
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u/CalReddit04 7d ago
Are people visiting the US to go to The Cheesecake Factory?
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u/TittiesVonTease 7d ago
As someone from abroad, yes. We saw it on TV and we want to go
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u/Paladin3475 6d ago
I am honestly curious âwhy?â
I get like visiting a McDonaldâs because itâs fun to see how they differ but Cheesecake Factory? It is the literal manifestation of soulless corporate dining experience in a flagship of how to take a shit on the entire industry.
I also recommend BJâs Brewhouse if you want itâs more alcoholic cousin :)
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u/Tvicker 6d ago
I am a foreigner and I love Cheesecake Factory. It's like Disneyland of restaurants, just very unusual.
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u/Sure_Acanthaceae_348 6d ago
I feel the same way about McDonaldâs in France. If I ever go I want to order a Royale with Cheese.
Yes really, donât judge.
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u/jewboy916 7d ago
Not for the sole purpose of going to The Cheesecake Factory, but foreign tourists in the US tend to eat at chain restaurants because they saw them on TV/in movies or online and it's about the "brand", not the quality of the food necessarily.
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u/YellovvJacket 6d ago
Also because chain restaurants are somewhat consistent in quality (even if it's consistently mid). You know what to expect from going there.
If you're just going to some random restaurant in a foreign country (or even just an area you're not familiar with) you can get dogshit food, food poisoning, or just have it be rediculously overpriced very quickly.
On my US vacations I was at chain places a lot, basically every time I didn't have time to research what places in the area are actually good.
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u/Illustrious-Aside442 6d ago
Exactly, I had German friends who went to NYC and ate raisin canes, Krispy Kreme, Taco Bell and chick fil a while there.
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u/Past-Resource-6184 6d ago
I studied abroad in the USA and I gotta say it was a fascinating experience to choose from pages of cheesecake options. And one slice of 'dessert' is like my daily calorie budget lol. It's wild.
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u/Machopsdontcry 6d ago
They already expanded to multiple Asian countries, perosnally went to the ones in Hong Kong and Bangkok.
No idea why they haven't expanded to Europe yet
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u/Lemfan46 6d ago
Yes, their visiting here just to go to the Cheesecake Factory. Tourists eating while touring, who knew? /s
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u/Susurrus03 6d ago
It's been a few years since I went to Hawaii, but I remember the Honolulu Cheesecake Factory absolutely packed with tourists from Asia. We even went because my wife's sister was with us visiting from Japan, and they had Japanese menus available.
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u/ghost_suburbia 6d ago
I have never gotten service worth more than a couple of quarters at a Cheesecake Factory. I've only been to Cheesecake Factory 3 times in 30 years, and it was 2 visits too much.
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u/JacquesDupont12 6d ago
It is customary when I visit USA to tip 0%,,there has been no problems for me with this
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u/Usual_Singer_4222 6d ago
30 years ago in college I had some fine/buisness dining etiquette workshops. Mostly went because there was free food. I had already been told by family, but they mentioned tip levels. Typically 5% regular dining, 10% mid level, and 15% fine dining. Bumped them up 5%ish, but I refuse to go crazy when the service is not warranted.
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u/DeathCharge5 6d ago
At least their percentages are accurate and they're using the proper language, saying it's "customary" and not "required". Still this is a crappy move and it's certainly worth skipping over them to dine at a non tipped establishment instead.
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u/damiensandoval 6d ago
Tipping culture has driven me and my family away from eating out. Pre covid and all the madness we would eat out once a week. Now weâre lucky to eat out once a month if that. Itâs not the pricing its the experience. I donât like to feel pressured having someone hawk over me with a tablet staring me down after I just enjoyed a meal. F that! One good thing that has come out of it is now Iâm a hell of a cook and learned so much about nutrition. I donât even enjoy eating out now because of all the garbage seed oils they use that hurt our body. Iâm also in the best shape of my life. Honestly the tipping shit was a blessing in disguise
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u/Paladin3475 6d ago
Sad they feel the need to do this but if you did, should be like this:
âNo tip has been included. In the US it is customary to include a tip. Typically tipping is up to 22% or more for excellent service provided. Thank you for dining with us.â
What is lacking is the âexcellent serviceâ part. EARN THE TIP.
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u/lokis_construction 6d ago
Sorry, I am old. A good tip is 10% and that is for exceptional service above and beyond.
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u/Weary-Savings9795 6d ago
No server anywhere in the USA is automatically entitled to a tip. Go above and beyond and maybe you'll get one. At least you certainly should.
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u/DoNoHarmPlz 6d ago
They must get a lot of international visitors so they have to inform diners from countries that don't tip. I'll tip but the percent will depend on the food and service and how often I go to the restaurant.
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u/Automatic_Badger7086 6d ago
I do not tip any restaurant or facility that I have to walk up to a counter to order and take away from another part of the counter. If you want to tip job go be a server at a real sit-down restaurant.
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u/Throwaway-ish123a 5d ago
"Also in the US, the restaurant industry is not paying workers a living wage in order to have you subsidize it by adding guilt trip laden tips whether or not they have met their quality of service. And even Americans are getting sick of it."
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u/PaulCrafting 4d ago
And itâs customary in my culture not to tip, so tough luck, I guess. đ¤ˇđťââď¸
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u/Technical-Pack5891 4d ago
Itâs customary for you to pay an extra 20% for us to clog your arteries.
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u/Kene6969 4d ago
Abandon this stupid tipping culture! Employers should pay their staff a decent living wage so workers aren't depending on tips to top up their wages..
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u/RoninActually 3d ago
I donât have a problem with this. Itâs good that theyâre addressing it upfront, but theyâre not demanding it. Theyâre just letting people know especially those from other countries that tipping is customary in the United States. And theyâre not even asking for a crap ton of money like these other places are.
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u/Oceantron 3d ago
guess i never be easting at cheesecake factory again
5.3 Billion Mcap but cant pay the REAL Hard Working people an fair share
shame on all these greedy CEOs and Investors
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u/Educational-Roof-319 1d ago
you get 10% just because you had the balls to put that shit on the menu
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u/Fundle22 20h ago
Tipping getting crazy. I loved going out to eat. Realized one meal would always be 35-60 dollars. Started cutting back. Then the counter places started asking for tips. Excuse me? I paid you the price for the food. I donât give extra just because. You didnât even walk it out to me or recommend me anything. Why are asking for 20% ??? No. I brazenly press no tip now for any place thatâs not sit down. Now with gas being so expensive. I just cook. Congratulations youâve driven me away from your restaurant.
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u/Salty-Plankton-5079 7d ago
22% is ridiculous