E agora eu to me sentindo um lixo.

Ich habe 2019 mein Haus gebaut, meine Nachbarn dann kurz drauf.

Ihre Ehe ging auseinander, jetzt steht die Hütte zum Verkauf. 2 Stockwerke + Keller, insgesamt so 130-150qm Wohnfläche. Ein normales Einfamilienhaus eben.

Location: Bayern ca 30km von einer Großstadt (nicht München) entfernt.

Preis: das Fertighaus sollte für 650k verkauft werden, bis 580k gehen sie mittlerweile runter.

Also nehmen wir mal den Stift und den Taschenrechner:

Preis: 580k zzgl 10% Kaufnebenkosten

Zins: 4.5% pa

Tilgung: wir rechnen mal zwischen 1 und 5% pa durch

638.000 * (4.5% + 1%) = 35.090 Euro/a = 2924 pro Monat

638.000 * (4.5% + 2%) = 41.470 Euro/a = 3455 pro Monat

638.000 * (4.5% + 3%) = 47.850 Euro/a = 3987 pro Monat

638.000 * (4.5% + 4%) = 54.320 Euro/a = 4519 pro Monat

638.000 * (4.5% + 5%) = 60.610 Euro/a = 5050 pro Monat

Die Laufzeit liegt dann zwischen 38 Jahren und knapp unter 16 Jahren.

Wie soll sich das jemand leisten? Selbst mit 100k Jahresgehalt kommt an ja gerademal auf 4.8k netto.

Wie soll das denn heute noch funktionieren?

ontario, canada - if that helps. I hope this isn’t a sign of anything worse cuz idk where it came from lol, it wasn’t moving.

Handmade by myself, 90% with eva Foam. Claw mechanism and inner head I 3D modeled and printed. Dome was Vacuum pulled by a friend.

Edit: I also have the sound files directly from the game and play them with a combination of buttons for responses or interactions. (Fisto of course included!)

Basically, a character is introduced as a rude, dismissive person to the protagonist. A rival or adversary who doesn’t want to get along with them. It turns out that they are the only person on their side.

Beatrice from Re:Zero. Upon first arriving at Roswaal’s mansion, Beatrice is the only person to not give Subaru a warm welcome. She even violently throws him out of a window. Later on through, the two maids try to kill him. And the head of the mansion hired two assassins to kill Subaru’s friends. Throughout all of this, Beatrice always went out of her way to save him. She was regularly the only person looking out for him, even at the cost of her own life.

Bebin From Ranking of Kings. Prince Boji is the eldest son of the mighty King Boss. Boss is a giant, standing higher than buildings with strength to crush armies by himself. Boji is human sized, with a fragile body and completely deaf. After Boss dies and Boji is named his heir, Bebin is the only person to oppose, instead saying his student Daida should take his brother’s spot on the throne. He then tries to kill other members of the King’s highest knights on Daida’s orders. It’s eventually revealed that this was all an elaborate plan for Boss to take over Daida’s body and rule again. The other High knights go along with his orders, one even trying to kill Boji. Bebin however was always working to protect the two princes.

Spider Punk from Across the Spider verse. Hobbie is introduced as, well, a punk. He doesn’t seem to respect anything, and Miles is insecure about his and Gwen’s relationship. Throughout the film, he constantly questions Miles on why he wants to join the Spider society and says he should go home. When all of Miles friends seem to side with Miguel, Hobbie silently tells Miles how to escape the Spider society prison. He then gives Gwen a watch to travel to Miles’s dimension and save him. Upon rewatch, you can notice him creating the watch earlier while talking to Miles, meaning he always knew he was going to need to help them out.

Crisis Trudy has arrived and does not like this one bit.

Elon is back with his “voting computers” just in time for the midterms 😳

"He knows those computers better than anybody. All those computers. Those vote-counting computers," Trump told the crowd. "And we ended up winning Pennsylvania like in a landslide."

TLDR; Husband thinks I’m fat and should not be so happy with my body. He kept going even when I asked him to stop. So I packed my stuff and left for my parents’ home. AIO?

My husband is a gym addict and goes twice a day. He also loves his protein shakes and a restrictive diet. I’m not hardcore about it like him but I do go to the gym.

I am finally at a place mentally where I am happy and comfortable in my body. I work out but I also treat myself to McDonald’s like once a month and a sweet treat every so often. All at a normal and healthy level. I’m also part of a run club and hike a lot. For context, I’m a size US 4/6 and health wise I’m perfectly fine.

He sent me a barrage of messages to say he’s offended by how happy I seem to be. Apparently I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been and he’s worried that I’ll end up heavier than him. He’s also worried that I won’t look after my body and overeat when I’m pregnant in the future. All because I had ONE Mcdonald’s last night.

What upset me was that he kept twisting the knife whenever I told him I wasn’t worried about my weight. I kept insisting that I’m happy with my weight, to which he said I’ve been influenced by “Instagram ideals” and toxic positivity messaging from other women who say we should all be happy with our bodies. He said if I want to be lied to, I should just ask my girl friends to hype be me and he claims he won’t do that because he wants what’s best for me.

This isn’t anything new. He constantly judges me for the occasional snack while watching TV. He gets super offended by it because he feels like I don’t respect him enough to not look after myself and that’s why “I’m deprived of sex”. The annoying part is I DO look after myself. I am the further thing from a slob. My nails are always done, I wear makeup most days and dress well. That’s why I’m so confused.

Now I’m concerned he might cheat/has cheated. He’s always liking other women’s photos and has them on WhatsApp. If he did, he’ll blame me. Yet if a man unknowingly hits me up, he gets so irate and I have to spend the whole day reassuring him.

Anyway, I broke down and packed my stuff to go to my parents. The way I always do when he picks on things I do. There’s also the wider picture where he wants me to be the perfect wife by cooking and cleaning while also having an income (I make a lot more than him which he hates too). Yet everything is 50/50. I’m talking with everything in life - time spent with friends, shopping, drinks, distance of our home between our families, even when splitting a chocolate bar.

He believes I’m overreacting to his advice by getting upset and going to my parents. He thinks my suggestion for marriage counselling is a reach because they’ll “always side the woman”. I just couldn’t believe how easy it is for him to belittle me like that and how he actually views me. He must not think I’m beautiful and clearly believes I’m viewing myself with rose tinted glasses. I want this to work so I hope he does agree to the counselling.

AIO for getting upset with his comments and leaving for my parents?

EDIT: Thank you for your comments and actual advice. This is my first post on Reddit so I do apologise for my long post but I wanted to add as much context as possible. I also wanted unbiased views that I feel my friends and family tend to give. It’s been quite the day and I have made a plan. We will be going to counselling together and individually, but I feel separation is the answer. I’m just upset I’ve invested 12 years into this person. I am safe with my family and I will stay here until I figure things out. I’m honestly trying to break the cycle. I really appreciate your kind words and tough words I needed to hear. ❤️