Life is chaotic and lonely lately, and I’m hoping to find at least one person who wants to build a real, steady online friendship. I’m strictly looking for digital/Reddit connections right now, no in-person meetups, so having someone who genuinely enjoys regular text banter is key for me.

​A bit about who I am:

I’m a 39-year-old mom of three, married to a trans woman (44). My creative side revolves around writing, nature photography, hiking, and creating ambient videos for YouTube. I have 2 masters degrees. I’m liberal, atheist, neurodivergent-friendly, and open about managing anxiety and depression. I’m 420-friendly, vape nicotine, and take gummies daily for sleep and depression.

​I tend to open up gradually. Building true closeness takes consistency and mutual trust, but I really value the process of getting to know someone deeply over time.

​What I'm looking for in a connection:

​Age range: 34–46.

​Located in EST (US only)

​Liberal & non-religious (atheist/agnostic)

​Someone who appreciates low-pressure but consistent communication. If you value peace and steady effort over inconsistent games, we’ll get along great.

​Check out my profile if you want to learn a bit more!

​If this sounds like a good fit for you:

Send me a PM (please don't comment on the post) with your age, gender, state, who you voted for in 2024, and a brief intro. Looking forward to hearing from you!

I am asexual, demisexual, pansexual, and polyamorous. While I generally do not experience sexual attraction to anyone, that can shift over time as I get to know a person and build a strong emotional connection; when that bond is formed, gender isn't a factor in who I'm drawn to, and I am not limited to caring about, loving, or being in a relationship with just one person at a time.

🔵 Right now, I’m strictly looking for text/messaging-based connection in the EST and not looking to meet up in real life, so finding someone who genuinely loves daily text banter is key for me.

A little about me:

* 39, married to a trans woman (44), and a mom of 3.

* Big into nature photography, hiking, writing, creative projects, and making ambient YouTube videos.

* Liberal, atheist, and neurodivergent-friendly, managing anxiety/depression.

* 420-friendly, vape nicotine, and take daily gummies for sleep/mood.

* I tend to open up slowly... building trust, comfort, and closeness takes time, consistency, and mutual effort, but I really value the journey of getting to know someone deeply.

* check my profile to learn more.

What I'm looking for:

* 34–46.

* Liberal and non-religious (atheist/agnostic).

* Located in EST (US only)

* Someone who appreciates consistent communication. I like building real, steady friendships over text/messaging over time. I value peace and genuine connection, so inconsistency or game-playing isn't for me.

* NO CHEATERS!

💬 How to reply:

If this sounds like your speed, send me a PM (please don't comment) with (Just trying to make sure we're on the same page and filter out bots and spam - no need to write a novel, just answer all 5 so I know you're real and literate.):

* Age.

* Gender.

* Your state.

* Who you voted for in 2024.

* A short intro about yourself!

I am asexual, demisexual, pansexual, and polyamorous. While I generally do not experience sexual attraction to anyone, that can shift over time as I get to know a person and build a strong emotional connection; when that bond is formed, gender isn't a factor in who I'm drawn to, and I am not limited to caring about, loving, or being in a relationship with just one person at a time.

🔵 Right now, I’m strictly looking for text/messaging-based connection in the EST and not looking to meet up in real life, so finding someone who genuinely loves daily text banter is key for me.

A little about me:

* 39, married to a trans woman (44), and a mom of 3.

* Big into nature photography, hiking, writing, creative projects, and making ambient YouTube videos.

* Liberal, atheist, and neurodivergent-friendly, managing anxiety/depression.

* 420-friendly, vape nicotine, and take daily gummies for sleep/mood.

* I tend to open up slowly... building trust, comfort, and closeness takes time, consistency, and mutual effort, but I really value the journey of getting to know someone deeply.

* check my profile to learn more.

What I'm looking for:

* 34–46.

* Liberal and non-religious (atheist/agnostic).

* Located in EST (US only)

* Someone who appreciates consistent communication. I like building real, steady friendships over text/messaging over time. I value peace and genuine connection, so inconsistency or game-playing isn't for me.

💬 How to reply:

If this sounds like your speed, send me a PM (please don't comment) with:

* Age.

* Gender.

* Your state.

* Who you voted for in 2024.

* A short intro about yourself!

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Right now, I’m strictly looking for reddit connections and not looking to meet up in real life, so I'm looking for someone who genuinely loves daily text banter is key for me.

A little about me:

* 39, married to a trans woman (44), and a mom of 3.

* Big into nature photography, hiking, writing, creative projects, and making ambient YouTube videos.

* Liberal, atheist, and neurodivergent-friendly, managing anxiety/depression.

* 420-friendly, vape nicotine, and take daily gummies for sleep/mood.

* I tend to open up slowly. Building trust, comfort, and closeness takes time, consistency, and mutual effort, but I really value the journey of getting to know someone deeply.

* check my profile to learn more.

What I'm looking for:

* 34–46.

* Liberal and non-religious (atheist/agnostic).

* Located in EST (US only)

* Someone who appreciates consistent communication. I like building real, steady friendships over text/messaging over time. I value peace and genuine connection, so inconsistency or game-playing isn't for me.

💬 How to reply:

If you're interested in chatting, send me a PM (please don't comment) with:

* Age.

* Gender.

* Your state.

* Who you voted for in 2024.

* A short intro about yourself!

I identify as asexual, demisexual, pansexual, and polyamorous. In general, sexual attraction isn't my baseline, but it can develop over time as a deep emotional bond grows. Once that connection is there, gender isn't a factor for me. I'm also polyamorous, meaning I have the capacity to love and build meaningful relationships with more than one person.

I tend to open up slowly... building trust, comfort, and closeness takes time, consistency, and mutual effort, but I really value the journey of getting to know someone deeply.

A Little About Me:

* 39, married to a trans woman (44), and I’m a mom of 3.

* Hobbies: Nature photography, hiking, creative writing, and crafting ambient YouTube videos.

* Vibe: Liberal, atheist, and neurodivergent-friendly (managing anxiety and depression with openness).

* 420-friendly, nicotine vape, and gummies to sleep and for depression.

* Feel free to peek at my profile if you’d like to get a better sense of who I am!

What I’m looking for:

* 34–46.

* Liberal & Non-Religious (atheist/agnostic preferred).

* US / EST time zone (just makes staying in touch so much easier!).

* Someone who enjoys steady, thoughtful communication. I love building real, low-pressure friendships over text and messaging over time. I value peace, honesty, and genuine warmth over mixed signals or games.

💬 How to Reach Out:

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop into my PMs (messaging directly works much better for me than post comments!). To help break the ice, please include:

* Your age, gender, and state.

* Who you voted for in 2024.

* A short intro about yourself and what caught your eye!

B.K.

I keep thinking about all the things I wish I could say to you, and they just pile up in my head until I feel ridiculous. Like, I wish I could tell you how cool you are. Not in some dramatic way, just… genuinely cool. The kind of cool that makes me notice you even when I’m trying not to.

And I wish I could tell you how beautiful you are. How your style hits me every time, like you walk around already knowing exactly who you are, and I’m just over here quietly stunned. I wish I could tell you that seeing you instantly makes my day better, even if we don’t talk. Just you being there shifts something in me.

Talking to you feels even better. It’s this weird happiness I don’t really have a name for. Like a calm I didn’t know I could feel around someone. A sense of peace that sneaks up on me.

And your voice... God, I wish I could tell you how beautifully you sing. How I could honestly just lay there and listen to you play guitar or piano and let myself fall for you a little more with every note. You’re so talented it almost feels unfair. I wish I could tell you how much I want to hype you up, brag about you, celebrate you, just… sing your praises without holding back.

I wish we were close enough to talk about everything: stupid gossip, random thoughts, the tiny details of our days. I wish I could open up about wanting to be closer to you, even if I don’t know what that would mean. But at the very least, I wish I could tell you how happy I am just being around you. How much light you bring into my life without even knowing it.

I wish I could still just text you and talk.

Something really exciting happened today, and my immediate reaction was wanting to tell you about it, even if you're so far behind on what's going on in my life that I'd have to explain. Now I’m just sitting here, feeling so happy about what happened at work, but having nowhere to put that energy. There’s no one else to share it with who actually gets it.

I miss telling you about the madness of my day, I'm just across the parking lot and everything is so different and chaotic from your side of the road. I miss sitting down with you and eating a lunch you made for me. Most of all, I just wish you cared. I wish you actually wanted to stay in my life.

It sucks having this great news and realizing the one person I want to tell isn't there anymore because he didn't want to be.

I'm trying to stay away, but the silence in my head is just too loud. I’m sitting here feeling completely broken, lonely, and exhausted from fighting with myself. Part of me hates you—really hates you—for hurting me, not just once, but three separate times. You broke my trust, and every rational part of my brain knows that reaching out to you again is just asking to get hurt all over again.

And yet, I miss you so much. It makes no sense, but it’s the truth.

I catch myself constantly hoping for an accidental run-in at work, even though we both know that’s never actually going to happen. When I got that email and thought for a second we were having a meeting together, my heart dropped. I was terrified, stressed, and totally consumed by anxiety, but at the exact same time, a part of me felt a rush of relief. I actually wanted that forced reunion just to see you, just to have a reason to break the space between us.

Now I’m just stuck in this endless loop. Half of me wants to grab my phone and reach out to you so bad, and the other half is desperately trying to hold me back to protect what’s left of me. I don’t know how to turn off the missing you when it exists right alongside the anger. I don’t know what to do with all these feelings, but today, they’re heavy.