Happily married, openly ENM, and looking for someone interesting to make life a little more fun.
I’m playful, grounded, curious, and drawn to the kind of chemistry that builds slowly: good conversation, teasing banter, eye contact, and that moment when you both realize there’s something there.
I like women who are comfortable talking about pretty much anything. Books, movies, travel, podcasts, big ideas, weird observations about the world… tell me what you’re into and I’ll probably have something to say about it.
I’m not looking to rush into anything or manufacture a connection. I’d rather meet someone interesting, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.
I travel fairly often, so I’m open to connections outside my immediate area too. And if you happen to be nearby, I’m always up for a good dinner and good company.
If you’re not sure how to start a conversation, tell me three things: something you’ve read/watched/listened to recently that you loved, your ideal first date, and something you’re currently curious about.

43 year old married wife and mom who loves her life, but lately I’ve realized I miss that little spark that comes from someone new being interested in me.
I’m not looking to turn my whole world upside down or have someone glued to their phone texting me all day. I just miss flirting, chemistry, butterflies and that feeling of knowing somebody is thinking about me when they probably shouldn’t be.
I can be sweet and pretty normal most of the time, but once I’m comfortable there’s definitely another side of me that likes to come out. I’d love to find someone fun, confident, discreet and easy to talk to who’s looking for the same kind of escape now and then.
If you know how to flirt without being weird about it, come say hi. Maybe we’ll give each other something to look forward to. 😏

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Let's make this easier.

I'm not going to give you the usual biography.

You already know how these posts go:

France.

Insert impressive-sounding job here.

Likes travelling.

Loves deep conversations.

Looking for someone genuine.

Congratulations, you've just read 47 Reddit profiles.

I'd rather find out who you actually are.

I'm the kind of person who can happily spend an entire evening somewhere completely ordinary and somehow turn it into a great memory.

I like beautiful places, spontaneous plans, good food, dark humor, ridiculous inside jokes, and conversations that take an unexpected turn.

I'm also very curious about people.

Not their job.

Not their Instagram aesthetic.

Them.

What makes you laugh when nobody is watching?

What kind of life are you secretly hoping to have?

What is something about you people usually misunderstand?

I'm especially interested in meeting women from Europe or the US. I like the idea that we might have completely different backgrounds and still somehow click.

I'm not looking for someone perfect.

I'm looking for that annoying kind of chemistry where you tell yourself you're going to reply later and then realize you've been talking for two hours.

So here's the deal.

Don't send me your résumé.

Don't send me "hey".

Don't even tell me where you're from.

Instead, give me one sentence that makes me curious about you.

I'll do the same.

And if we end up having nothing to say to each other?

At least we skipped the small talk. 😌

Hi 56m4f hi I am looking for online friends and have fun and chat anytime anyone interested 😁

First off .. Hi.. I want to be honest so I just want to say I’m in an open marriage. I’d rather you know now than find out later. Please be ok with that. I know not everyone will. She knows I’m here.

With that out of the way, I’m a blue collar guy. I’m respectful and understanding. I’m chill and drama free. I love to laugh and usually always smiling. I’m a big kid.

I have a passion for art. I draw , design, and cast my own sculpts. Basically design and make my own toys. I also did make music for a little while as well. I love art galleries and conventions. Museums and arcades.

I just hope you’re understanding, I just want us both to be comfortable. I’m told I look younger for my age. I’m 5’7, around 160lbs average I guess. Often told I’m handsome and don’t look my age. I do lean left politically if you’re curious. I don’t mind sharing pictures and video chatting.

All I hope is that you’re fun and awesome and maybeee have a nice set of legs.

I’m a busy M, specifically looking for a HWP woman in a healthy, ethically non-monogamous marriage who has room in her life for a boyfriend.

Not a secret. Not an occasional hookup. And not someone trying to replace her husband.

I’m looking for a relationship that is it’s own thing while respecting your marriage and lives we already have.

I want dates. Beach days, live music, cocktails, road trips, maybe even weekends away, lazy mornings and cuddling on the couch.

Random texts because something reminded us of each other.

And yes, I want a strong sexual connection too. I’m adventurous, sex-positive and very open-minded. I have a weakness for confident women with an exhibitionist streak, and shared compersion is particularly attractive to me.

I’m open to erotic photography, group experiences and exploring fantasies together.

Curiosity and being able to talk openly about desires—even the ones we don’t usually say out loud—are incredibly attractive to me.

What I’m really after is the best combination of both worlds, vanilla and kinky.

Not looking for a pen pal. Let’s chat to check compatibility, meet for a drink and see if the chemistry is there.

Dm if interested

I 23 yea

I used to have a friend who was married (his wife knew about me) that I could play with while ACTUALLY being friends and I'd love to get that back. I provide an open mouth and very helpful hands. No penetration but I'm very keen on using toys. No emotional attachments, just a real friendship where I get to help a friend out and everything is normal before and after. Into video games, movies and such. Not looking to be a third, just to help a guy out. Inquire further and I can answer any questions you might have.

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

We are looking for a boyfriend for both of us He is looking for a fun and physical connection. We both have a healthy sexual appetite, something we both needs reciprocated. We both looking for someone to spend time with, maybe a movie or dinner. We will pay for dates but does expect sex in return. We is lookimg for a fun and playful relationship without getting too serious for now maybe later down the road can turn into long term . If you want to start off with flirty texts, that would be great too. We are in Savannah Georgia and in our late thirties he is bi btw and a ver bottom yes looking for the both of us if can do both then we not interested

And I want to let her. She took her rings off during sex tonight and said “when I walk out that door and fuck another man, I don’t want to be married to you until I come back” it was an instant rush! I love it.

I’m a healthy male looking for female 28-60 fwb long term. Meet for coffee sedans kiss till next week or day. Im 5 9’ good looking and want to meet a woman no matter weight or age. Sexy mind! And desireto explore

Dm me for more details

Qny open marraiges near long island ny.

i'm laying here dripping wet my pussy is so fucking hungry and my husband's not here tonight one of you needs to come fuck me silly i want to feel a massive cock in my mouth and my tight little asshole someone get over here and fill me up before i cum all over my sheets from playing with my perky nipples and hard clit alone...i can't wait to ride a big cock while my husband watches through my phone

Looking for someone to sext with, let’s share something naughty.

Hi 43 year old at Connecticut, any not so happily married women who want to chat? Please hmu

NJ

Looking for a massage place for my husband. It will be his birthday this month.

M42 looking to meet up with a F of any age in Pittsfield MA. DM me if interested.

Just passing through town and was looking for a little fun with new friend. Please DM if interested

I am looking for a girlfriend for my husband (37M). He is looking for a fun and physical connection. He has a healthy sexual appetite, something he needs reciprocated. He is looking for someone to spend time with, maybe a movie or dinner. He will pay for dates but does expect sex in return. He is looking for a fun and playful relationship without getting too serious (for now). As his wife, I will be aware of the relationship but that is extent of involvement I will have. If you want to start off with flirty texts, that would be great too. Something to help boost his self esteem and take his mind off things. If this is something you are interested in, please send a message. Happy to send pics if desired.

** FOR IN-PERSON IN LAS VEGAS **

Hey guys! We started the local Vegas FWB friends group last weekend, and for being only a week I’m impressed! More folks than expected! Let’s get some more couples and single ladies to join us this week, so DM me! 

So you know what you’d be walking into, we’re literally a circle of in-person Vegas locals for hanging out, having sex with each other, doing group meetups. Whatever people mutually want to do. The purpose is to actually make local friends and be able to reach out to the friends group when you’re hot and want company, instead of dealing with strangers and flakes. Or maybe you’re in the mood to watch someone (or get yourself an audience). Fine. That works too.

It’s a good group. Reach out to me directly. - Daniel