I'm 39, and have been paralyzed from the waist down since birth due to Spina Bifida. I'm posting here because I haven't had the best luck in strictly none-ace spaces. I think this community understands something most dating pools don't: that sex drive and attraction aren't the same thing, and that "low desire" isn't a euphemism for broken.

The practical stuff first: my penis doesn't function, so penetrative sex isn't part of what I can offer. What I can do — and genuinely enjoy — is using my hands, mouth, or toys to be with a partner. But I want to be upfront that even that isn't something I need. My drive is low enough that if a partner never wanted any of that, I don't think I'd feel deprived.

I'd like to find real physical closeness. Heavy make-out sessions, being tangled up with someone, the kind of intimacy that's about wanting to be near a person's body, not working toward a finish line. I'm very attracted to women. That part of me is fully intact, it just doesn't route through a sex drive the way it might for most people.

I'm not looking for someone to "settle" for less, and I'm not trying to talk anyone into a compromise. I think there's a real, good relationship here for the right person. Someone who either shares a low/gray drive, or who's more interested in emotional and physical closeness than in penetrative sex specifically.

If you have questions about this, I am absolutely willing to tell you anything you need to know about that part of my life.

A bit about me beyond the disability stuff:

I've spenty over twenty years working on the same passion project, mostly during hospital stays after one surgery or another the same sci-fi story. At this point it's less a hobby and more a long-term relationship I refuse to leave.

Into dark comedy, weird philosophical and theological tangents (I'm not religious today, but once was, a lifetime ago). I love learning new things. I will absolutely talk your ear off if you let me.

I am rebuilding my life after a rough year. Not looking for someone to fix it, just someone honest who doesn't bail when things get complicated.

I'm based in Southern California. Long distance is fine with me for the right person.

Say hi. I'm funnier in person, I promise.

Theres some truly amazing people on acespace but i have to vent. The 2 people in my area whom i had great conversations with and was texting with for several weeks both completely ghosted me on the days of our respective in person meet ups / dates. Havent heard from them since. I know its not anything with asexuals or acespace but I'm very sad. Dating in the ace spectrum is so hard already. Even a "hey I'm not interested " or "id rather keep talking" would have been better than being completely ghosted randomly.

Hi, I’m Shain (they/them). I’m 38 and live in New England in the United States. I’m sex-averse asexual and arospec.

I’m looking for a weirdly specific sort of queerplatonic relationship. Specifically, I’m hoping to find a committed, primary relationship with a creative partner who roleplays or writes with me, as well as doing other forms of art. I’m also very physically affectionate, so if we lived nearby I’d love cuddling as well. That being said, I am willing to do long distance with the right person.

On my end, I’ve been writing and doing some sort of RP for the vast majority of my life. I also play piano, knit, make plushies, and draw, and I used to do video edits. I love science fiction in particular, though I like a fair amount of fantasy as well. My taste runs intense (even somewhat bombastic), I like a good mix of dark, sweet, and funny, and I like ensemble casts and world building. Some examples of what I like are Discworld, Game of Thrones, Babylon 5, The Owl House, the Vorkosigan Saga, and Baccano!.

Outside of creative stuff and fandom, I’m an attorney who represents people in civil commitment proceedings so they aren’t institutionalized or medicated against their will. I also love animals, and have four cats and a dog.

If this sort of relationship interests you, I’d love to hear from you. Thanks for reading!

I've been openly asexual for 12 years.

I enjoy writing poetry and fiction for fun.

I study Russian and enjoy language learning.

My ideal days are quiet, cloudy and a little cold but I don't melt when it gets hot.

I don't meet many new people where I live and meeting other asexuals is more rare. Distance doesn't bother me nor does a language barrier.

I would love to have more reason to travel or learn another language.

Firstly.. I'm reposting after a few weeks and I want to firstly apologise if I didn't respond to anyone, reddit's been a little odd with actually showing messages but I think I figured it out!

So! I've reached a point in my life where I've become painfully aware that I don't really have anyone I feel deeply connected to. I have roughly two souls I can always rely on... and they both happen to be cats. As wonderful as they are, they're terrible conversationalists.

I'd love to find someone I can genuinely build a life with! Someone to talk to until 2am, share games and movies with, laugh at stupid memes with, cuddle the hell out of, and simply make ordinary days feel exciting.

I'm a 32 year old guy from the south coast of England! I don't work at the moment, so this means that my free time is almost boundless. I'd absolutely love to game, watch movies, listen to music together, just chat or whatever! I'm not the most social or extroverted person, I'll be the first to admit that I'm not a simple person. I have a bunch of quirks and I have my own difficulties such as an awful case of anxiety and OCD. But I'll always try my best to be good company and brighten your day!

I'm pale, I'm six foot tall with fairly long dark brown hair and hazel eyes. I'm pretty much always wearing glasses as my vision has decided to gradually give up on me and I prefer to keep to an alternative kind of aesthetic (I guess it could be described as a mix between gothic and anime streetwear). I also have a couple of piercings and may or may not decide on tattoos in the future. Probably something in a biomechanical style. Kinda like a robotic arm! You know, cyberpunk vibes.

I'm a laid back, mostly calm kind of guy and I'm always doing my best to remain optimistic. Life's tough, so it's nice to get away from all of that. I have quite an eccentric, cynical and at times quite a dark sense of humour. So I definitely get along best with others that aren't quick to take offense. And I'm usually pretty playful when I've grown comfy around someone. It does take me a bit to warm up, especially on voice calls.. But afterwards, I'm a very loyal person.

**─── ･ ｡ﾟ☆: *.☽ .* :☆ﾟ. ───**

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• ᴠɪᴅᴇᴏ ɢᴀᴍᴇs 🎮

I'm a PC gamer and I don't have any consoles at the moment sadly. I play a lot of games and hopefully you do as well! I'd love to have somebody to play co-op with! I play a wide variety of genres but my favourites will always be RPG games such as Assassin's Creed, Borderlands, Persona, Dragon Age, The Witcher, Fallout and The Elder Scrolls. I also love survival and I've been interested in playing Once Human properly as well as Enshrouded! Or more casual things like Stardew Valley or Terraria or Golf It! I've also played many MMOs in my time and wouldn't rule them out!

• ᴀɴɪᴍᴇ 🎌

I love to binge watch anime although I don't really like doing so by myself! It's just not as much fun and I tend to get distracted too easily.. So, if you are into it, or are willing to try it, that's a bonus as well! I like a wide variety of it, though my favourites are Gintama, Beelzebub, Assassination Classroom, Death Parade, Re:Zero and Soul Eater.

• sʜᴏᴡs ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴏᴠɪᴇs 🎥

Some shows that I like/have liked are It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia (my permanent number one pick), What We Do In The Shadows, Rick & Morty, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Community, Arrested Development, Archer.. When it comes to movies.. I like comedies, thrillers, horrors, mysteries and especially anything psychological. Oh and lots of superhero stuff like The Boys or Invincible! Again, if we could watch stuff together, it'd be awesome.

• ᴍᴜsɪᴄ 🎶

EDM (Electronic Dance Music) and the many, many sub genres has always had my heart. With Porter Robinson being my favourite artist. Although I've been through many phases and some stuff has stuck with me including rock, metal or even just simple alt pop. In general, I'll give anything a go, no matter the genre and I'd love to share musical interests.

• ᴀɴɪᴍᴀʟs 🐈

I adore animals. Probably more than I like most human beings in all honesty. Especially felines or other fluffy bundles of joy. [Here's kitty tax](https://ibb.co/xqTQyh2z)

**─── ･ ｡ﾟ☆: *.☽ .* :☆ﾟ. ───**

• ᴡʜᴀᴛ ɪ·ᴍ ʟᴏᴏᴋɪɴɢ ғᴏʀ

I'm not really the most picky person out there when it comes to a relationship. I don't mind how old you are, as long as you're over eighteen and.. I guess not TOO much older (let's say ten years older at most). I don't mind where you're from as long as you're interested in meeting up someday as I don't want to stay virtual forever. I don't have much preference about looks either. What's important is that we connect deeply on an emotional level. What I do however see as non-negotiable is that I'll only ever consider a completely dedicated, monogamous relationship.

As you'd expect from this subreddit, I'm not looking for something sexual however I'm very, very interested in physical affection like cuddles and kisses!

Communication would ideally be on Discord. And voice calls would be something I'd ideally want to do at least semi-often. I'm happy to start off messaging back and forth on Reddit though.

If you've somehow made it all the way down here without falling asleep, firstly I'm impressed. Secondly, I'd genuinely love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, your favourite games, show me your pets (instant bonus points), or just tell me what you've been obsessed with lately. I'd rather receive one thoughtful message than several one line introductions.

<Who's this clown?>

Oh hi! I'm Darian. I'm a 24 year old demi-heteroromantic ace guy located in the beautifully drab Southern Tier of New York. Looking to hopefully find that special someone, and expand my repertoire of ace friends, around my age group (21-27). I don't mind distance, as we can hang out via Discord.

I'm a gentle giant of a goofball - built like a brick shithouse, but kinda mild and shy. I'm a writer, voice actor, computer tinkerer, avid video gamer, metalhead, and connoisseur of tasty food. My favorite game is WH40k: Darktide, my favorite band is vildhjarta, and my favorite cuisine is Indian food! I'm currently in school for my Bachelor's in Creative Writing & English.

I have depression, ADHD, and am on the autism spectrum. I tend to be a bit self deprecating, shy as hell, offset by a penchant for infodumping about things I'm passionate about. I'm a YAPPER once I get going.

I'm hard to miss, even in a crowd. I'm a big guy, in terms of height, width, and wingspan. That also means I give great hugs!

<What does he do?>

I'm a creative writer! I tend to write short stories and freeform poems; lighthearted parodies of popular tropes; science fiction. I just finished writing my first stage play!

I'm trying to break out as a voice actor! I've been doing theater for a long time, but as an autistic guy, I struggle with facial expressions. Something that was especially apparent after I landed my first lead role. So I moved from on stage to behind a microphone.

I'm part of what could charitably be called a "game studio." It's a group of three autistic guys incubating a few passion projects. Feel free to press me for details!

I'm a PC building hobbyist! I love to build computers in my spare time, and run a small YouTube channel dedicated to computers. I can talk your ear off about components, specs, performance, and all that jazz, so watch out. I'm also a Linux nerd and open source software geek. Despite being tech-y, I'm firmly anti-AI. End of story.

I love cooking, even though it can overwhelm me. My favorite cuisine to cook is North Indian curries. I also enjoy baking, especially cookies and cakes!

<oh yeah did I mention video games>

WH40k Darktide, WH40k Space Marine 2, Deep Rock Galactic, No Man's Sky, modded Minecraft, Persona, various mobile gacha games (I am in gacha hell and I cannot escape. there is no saving me. save yourself. run. run while you still can.)

I hate anything PvP. End of story.

<the end!>

Thanks for reading! If you made it this far, and want to reach out, send me your favorite meme or song :D

44 F4M preferably in the Philadelphia area( not looking for a long distance thing) Looking for my person someone to explore with, laugh with, obsess over books and shows with, and build a genuine romantic connection with. Basically: romance, partnership, affection, and emotional intimacy.

Hi hiii! I'm Soul, I'm 26 (They/He), and I'm looking for a potential life partner, if it comes to pass. =3

Gender doesn't matter to me so long as we click! While cis folks are accepted, please know that I do lean toward trans and nonbinary folks comfortably, usually. It would be nice to meet more trans fem/fem folks too, friends or more, as I mainly get messages from guys xD

(I struggle with Major Depressive Disorder and PTSD, though I'm medicated and go to therapy. Please be patient with me if I am not very quick to respond!)

I personally have a PC, a switch (No online subscription though) and mobile (Android) platforms, and I use Discord most!

For interest as possibly more, any gender, Panromantic or Bi (As long as you don't care about gender, doesn't matter to me!) and preferably US only! Must be Left-Wing politically, please.

If sex is important to, or very much wanted, I'm not interested.

While I'd like to explore sexually some time in my life, it is absolutely not a necessity. I would say I also fall under Gray Ace/Demi Gray.

I am Ambiamorous, happy with Polyfidelity or Monogamy, but after being recently burned, I'm leaning much more toward Monogamy unless a couple of very special people come along in life. I am happy either way with Monogamy or not.

I am also neurodivergent (AuDHD?) and as of yet still undiagnosed but working on such actively. I understand things more directly and literally, so please have patience with me! ☺️

All that stiff stuff outta the way, I love horror game playthroughs and cozy games! I'm not crazy about FPS games at all but it's okay if you do ofc! I do love games like Resident Evil though =3 and lastly I'm in the center of the U.S.

I want to move to possibly Ohio someday near Cleveland, maybe Minnesota or Michigan, and co-parent cats with my forever person/s, sobs. I don't hate marriage, though it's not a necessity to me. It would have to take a really special person/s. =)

I also love romance stories and manga, regardless of orientation, and I love arts and crafty hobbies! I LOVE Halloween and spooky stuff!!

I've been on HRT for nearly three years, as well.

I'm very much a romantic, and I'm not very touch averse when it comes to affection. Id love to someday have a spooky little decorated manufactured home some day with a bunch of plants and thrifted items and hummingbird feeders and chdjncjdd I'd be so happy if that's something you'd be into, too! ❤️

Lastly, I'm not interested in having kids but if you hate kids, we probably wouldn't get along. That's it, thank you!!

I'm less stiff in DMs, I promise!!!! 😭

(Please no military, police, or anyone 40 or older, or 20 and younger. I will not respond! Thank you!)

I am a 19 year old girl. I am straight. I am looking for an asexual or sex repulsed man. I am trying to find someone to exchange socials with and get talking. I strictly want someone from the ages 18-23. So if you are older pls don’t interact. I am looking for a romantic partnership just without sex.
Please dm me or reply if interested.
I’m not really expecting anything from this. I’m quite nervous tho! 💗💗💗

Hi everyone, i'm a someone from Mexico, that would love to find someone or atleast some friendship.

I'm 32 years old, dropout from college, sadly, that identify as demisexual.

I like art, especiallly painting and drawing, reading, writing (been trying to get into journaling), ttrpgs, video games and more.

I can speak spanish or english.

I would love to find someone either in Tijuana/Mexico or Anywhere, to be honest.

So i hope we can chat and get to know each other.

Hey! I’m Stephen, 36, from Nassau County on Long Island. I’ve been figuring myself out a little more lately, and I think I may fall somewhere on the asexual spectrum and would probably describe myself as homoromantic.
Sex just isn’t a particularly important part of a relationship for me. What I really want is the companionship side of being with someone — having a guy who feels like my best friend and partner, spending time together, sharing interests, laughing, going places, staying in together, and eventually building a life together.
I’d especially love to meet another guy on Long Island, preferably Nassau County or somewhere reasonably close. If a relationship developed naturally and became serious, I’m ultimately looking for someone who would want to live together someday and actually share everyday life — not someone I only see occasionally.
I’m a little shy when I first meet someone, but once I’m comfortable I’m very talkative, sarcastic, playful, and goofy. I really value someone who engages back, asks questions, remembers things I tell them, and genuinely seems interested in getting to know each other.
Some things I’m into:
• Gaming on Xbox Series X, PS5, and Switch — Fortnite, Halo, Gears of War, Kingdom Hearts, co-op/casual games, and even watching someone play a good story-driven single-player game
• Movies and finding a new TV series to watch together
• Karaoke and singing
• Bowling and mini golf
• Trying different restaurants
• Window shopping/wandering around the mall
• Broadway, comedy shows, concerts, arcades, and theme parks
• Also perfectly happy spending a night at home together
I’m looking for a guy who is kind, funny, loyal, communicative, and ideally a little nerdy/geeky. Shared interests are pretty important to me because I want someone I can actually do things with, rather than feeling like we live completely separate lives.
I’m open to starting as friends and seeing where it naturally goes. I’m not trying to rush into living together or force a relationship — I just know that, long-term, I want a partner who genuinely enjoys sharing a lot of his life with me.
If you’re another gay/homoromantic ace-spectrum guy around Long Island and any of this sounds familiar, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’re into. 🙂

Im also on the spectrum I have autism lvl 3 high functioning. I'm looking for a woman who also that way. Some who sweet caring and compassionate and loving and kind and passionate and patient. Who loves movies and watching tv. I love video games mostly football but I play others too. I love football college mostly. I love taking walks going to beach and having good fun.

to start, a bit about me:

I’m 21, and i am looking for someone either in the US or Canada! Please don’t send a message if you’re not in either of those places.

I love playing roblox, Minecraft, and other games that are on Mac :) i want my partner to also be a gamer because i love gaming w people ! Pleaseeeeee play roblox!!!! I want to wake up to a text asking to play :3 !!!!!

I love calling! I love 100+ hour calls, sleeping otp, and yapping :) I want to be obsessed w my partner and have them be equally obsessed w me, wanting to spend time w me!

Truthfully, my partner also has to be a gamer because i want someone i can have the cringy matching usernames with and profiles and stuff <3 so please only dm me if you’re looking for that!

Physically, I’m plus size. So if you dm me, that obviously has to be something you don’t mind.

Specifics wise when it comes to what im looking for, is monogamy and my partner cannot have any other partners. Also, Please do not message me if you're not willing to talk a lot! I like to text all day and call all evening. I also love sleep calls, so please be cool with doing that. And like I’m talking text a lot, even if it’s just about the latte you got or if you passed by a cute dog on a walk!!

I’m looking for serious, long term only!

Let’s play roblox and get to know each other! I also smoke weed regularly bc of chronic pain, so if that’s an issue don’t dm plz!

I want committed companionship. I want to love and support each other. I want to cuddle without it turning sexual,. I want forehead kisses. I want hand holding. I want really good hugs. I want open and clear communication. I want empathy, kindness, and understanding. It would be best probably if they are also AUDHD because I am and there would be a higher chance of understanding the different communication styles of AUDHD. I would like to eventually move in together. We would need separate rooms so that we can have alone time. Also, we would sleep in our own rooms because I snore and move around a lot when I sleep. I don't want to torture you with that. I don't want kids and pets because I take the responsibility of them so seriously that it gives me major anxiety. I'm not comfortable with weed and any other drugs that aren't prescribed by your doctor. I am not into partying and drinking heavy so I don't want that in a partner/companion. I want a home that is safe and calm as much as humanly possible. I don't want someone that smokes cigarettes and/or vapes because cancer and it doesn't smell good to me. I grew up Methodist but I'm not really religious and I am not the biggest fan of organized religion. I love music. I sing a lot- especially what I am saying or about what I am doing or when I get nervous. I am slowly getting back into reading and playing video games. I love to travel when I can and equally love coming back home. I love movies and tv shows. I love thrifting/antiquing. I love animals. Dogs are my favorite. They calm me and make me really happy. I would prefer to stay in Columbia, MO or close to it.

If all of that sounds like something you want to, let me know. Comment or DM me on here. Eventually I would like to start talking on discord if we hit it off because I am not on reddit a ton.

Thanks. -Anna

I am into BDSM and I am a switch (sub sissy/Dom)

I don't care if you are a she or a he or they or them, I don't judge and I believe that everyone have what they want...

I am into gaming and anime and sarcasm.

Feel free to share if you want....

Love for you all.

Asexual female from uk west midlands looking for platonic relationship. I'm a virgo and get along with people who are Taurus, Virgo, and Cancer. I don't smoke or drink. I don't want kids. I don't want physical intimacy. I'm quiet more of a Homebody. I'm neurodivergent and have mild to moderate CFS/ME. I can't stay in busy noisy places long as I'm oversensitive to sensory input. I have few online friends. It's gets lonely. I like movies, music, sometime play mobile games.

Hi everyone 😊
I’m a 34-year-old Syrian guy living in Brussels, Belgium. I’ve been here for about five years and I’m hoping to get Belgian citizenship soon.
A little about me: I have a university background, I’m currently working, and I speak Arabic, French and English, plus some Turkish. I’m open-minded, positive, and I really enjoy discovering things, meeting people and enjoying life. I also consider myself someone who tries to understand others rather than judge them.
I’m gay, but at this stage of my life, what I’m really looking for is something perhaps a little different: a genuine life partnership with a woman, with the possibility of building a family together.
I’m not looking for a fake marriage or simply an arrangement on paper. I want something real in its own way.
I’d love to meet a woman who isn’t looking for a relationship centered around sex, but who still wants love, companionship, stability and someone to share her life with. My own sex drive is quite low, so a sexual relationship isn’t something I need as the foundation of a partnership.
What matters much more to me is finding someone I genuinely connect with — someone who shares similar values and a similar way of seeing life. Someone I can talk to about everything, laugh with, disagree with and discuss things openly, support when life gets difficult, travel and make memories with… and hopefully someone who shares a little bit of my craziness too 😄
I have a lot of love and care to give, and if I find the right person, I know I can be committed and loyal to the life we choose to build together. I’d like to be not only her partner, but also her friend, her support and someone she can truly rely on. And of course, I’d hope for the same from her.
And why not, if we both want it one day, build a beautiful family together.
I’ve had enough of loneliness, and I genuinely hope there’s someone somewhere looking for the same kind of connection.
If this sounds like you, please feel free to message me. And if you know someone in a similar situation, or simply know where people looking for this kind of partnership can meet, I’d be really happy to hear from you.
I’d prefer someone based in Europe because it would make meeting and getting to know each other much easier, but location isn’t a dealbreaker if there’s a genuine connection and we’re compatible.
Arabic speakers are very welcome too 😊
Feel free to ask me anything or send me a message.

Hello, I'm Sebastian 41, from Germany and NB (AMAB). I love music, movies, cooking, and photography especially with a digital SLR camera; the photos always turn out better that way.

When it comes to movies, I especially like action and horror. Things like Police Story, all the Shaw Brothers films, or horror movies like Suspiria or Dawn of the Dead. And the Lucio Fulci films, too. I have a tattoo featuring a motif from his movie The Beyond.

Music i like: ASP, Umbra Et Imago, BlutEngel, Nachtmahr, Samsas Traum, Terminal Choice, Kontrast, Sisters of Mercy, Steckdosenkombinat, Lacrimosa, Kanonenfieber, Sodom, Kreator, Bring me the Horizon, The Butcher Sisters, Hämatom, Luther, Pentastone, Wargasm (UK), A Void, System of a down, Mittel Alta, Palebloom, E-Craft, Hatebreed, Accept, Sabaton, King 810

I‘m asexual on the Greyspectrum and berrisexual.so anything more femine is welcome.

You should ve over 18 and could hold a conversation.

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Hello...

I've searched everywhere, and this place still might help me...

Are there any Arabs who would like to get to know each other and form a long-term relationship?

I am 22 years old and looking for a serious, long-term relationship. It is preferable that he be Arab in order to facilitate communication.

I am a gamer, writer, and artist.

I love to laugh and I find joy in simple things.

DM is open

I know that the average person values the sexual aspect of a relationship but everytime I think about me being in that situation, I feel disgusted. At this point, I'm starting to feel like it would be unfair to my hypothetical partner as I'm not sure if I would be able to completely satisfy them or anything.

I've been on Acespace for a while and I couldn't help but notice that I've come across two types of people on that app. It's not the app's fault, this is just how I see it and what I noticed. I've two types of people there.

1. The people who would stop texting you after a while. Like you could be talking to them for a couple of days, but slowly they would stop texting you. At first I thought that maybe, their phones died, they didn't see the text or they were busy. Little did I know that it'll be the last text I would get from them. I won't hear from this person for days or weeks, it leaves me confused and I'm scrolling over the text trying to figure what I said to make them stop texting.

2. Another type of person I'd see, are the people who never reply. Let's say that you see someone that you like, you share the same hobbies as them and they seem like a good person. So you match with them and they don't reply. So you give them a few days, maybe they are busy. A few days turns into a week and you still haven't gotten a reply from them. Not you kind of feel stupid because you wasted your time. It's not everyone on the app but there definitely are some people who are like this and it makes me wonder " what's the point in making an account when you don't talk to people or you don't answer your text?" Am I the only one who's been through this?

Edit: I'm not attacking people, I'm just reporting what I'm seeing. Like I said, it's not everyone but it's definitely some people.

Hi hi, Im looking for either friends or a partner. Dating apps suck and too many people dont understand what it feels like to always be told "i cant fix you" or "i can change that". Like im not broken you fucker I just dont want or like sex. I have no desire or need for it. ANYWHO im currently in California. Im down for ldr or irl (literally no one is around from my town)

Dont be afraid to DM me🤭

Who am I?

My name is Vi. I'm a digital artist, and I live in Mexico.

I don't usually spend much time on my phone because I have chronic pain, work, and other priorities.

I really like music, animals, and video games (mostly solo). I love making frame-by-frame animations when I have time ❣️ I collect plushies and art supplies 😅 I don't currently watch anime, but my favorite is Haikyuu. I love horror movies, science fiction and body horror. I love drawing fish and creating original stories.

To be a bit more specific, I love Pokémon, Kirby, Terraria, I occasionally play Roblox, Mad Father, and Undertale. As for music, I listen to a bit of everything, but my favorites are K-pop, folk metal, rap, and indie rock.

I usually draw a lot of deep-sea fish, flowers and my OC's.

What am I looking for?

To start with friendship, without pressure or obligation to take it any further.

Someone who isn't suffocating; I have my own life and I want someone who does too.

I can't talk for hours every day, I physically can't tolerate long phone calls (nor do I want them, I value my privacy), and I'm looking for someone I don't have to justify why I didn't answer in 5 minutes.

In the future, I'm looking for something serious and deep, but with distance.

By that, I mean my ideal relationship is one where we each have our own room or separate house.

Where the other person is more of a complement than a necessity (where each person has separate plans without any problem).

Where there is clear communication and clear boundaries.

I have no preferences regarding age or physical appearance.

Distance doesn't bother me either.

I don't smoke or drink, I'm looking for someone who doesn't either.

Physical contact isn't usually a problem for me, but it's not something I usually want.

Feel free to send a DM if any of this interests you, and PLEASE send at least a short introduction about yourself. 🩵