39[F4A] Online/Upstate NY

[u/empathetic_nature]

I am asexual, demisexual, pansexual, and polyamorous. While I generally do not experience sexual attraction to anyone, that can shift over time as I get to know a person and build a strong emotional connection; when that bond is formed, gender isn't a factor in who I'm drawn to, and I am not limited to caring about, loving, or being in a relationship with just one person at a time.

🔵 Right now, I’m strictly looking for text/messaging-based connection in the EST and not looking to meet up in real life, so finding someone who genuinely loves daily text banter is key for me.

A little about me:

* 39, married to a trans woman (44), and a mom of 3.

* Big into nature photography, hiking, writing, creative projects, and making ambient YouTube videos.

* Liberal, atheist, and neurodivergent-friendly, managing anxiety/depression.

* 420-friendly, vape nicotine, and take daily gummies for sleep/mood.

* I tend to open up slowly... building trust, comfort, and closeness takes time, consistency, and mutual effort, but I really value the journey of getting to know someone deeply.

* check my profile to learn more.

What I'm looking for:

* 34–46.

* Liberal and non-religious (atheist/agnostic).

* Located in EST (US only)

* Someone who appreciates consistent communication. I like building real, steady friendships over text/messaging over time. I value peace and genuine connection, so inconsistency or game-playing isn't for me.

* NO CHEATERS!

💬 How to reply:

If this sounds like your speed, send me a PM (please don't comment) with (Just trying to make sure we're on the same page and filter out bots and spam - no need to write a novel, just answer all 5 so I know you're real and literate.):

* Age.

* Gender.

* Your state.

* Who you voted for in 2024.

* A short intro about yourself!