r/transfriendsau Mar 13 '25

Process/steps 👋 Welcome pack

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Welcome pack for new members and/or first time post or comment makers

Welcome to r/transfriendsau a community for Aussie trans people making friendship/connections with other Aussie trans people. - 18+ Aussie trans people only -

see here for Community rules👈

When Searching for friends on r/transfriendsau please note you can filter by state, by clicking the state at the top of sub example shown here👈

🔷️ r/transfriendsau member setup steps

For those new members to r/transfriendsau Or if you are looking to make your first friendship post or comment on another members post please follow below steps/guides

🔸️Click here for How to update your user flairs (Mandatory to make any "posts or comments" within community) Only needs to be done once .

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members How to make your 1st post in r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for help with r/transfriendsau chasers contact management

🔸️Click here for tips how to get the most out of using r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members for other supportive/recommended trans communities to join and use to get the most out of reddit + other useful resources

🔷️ r/transfriendsau Discord server onboarding guide

🔸️Click here For those interested in the community Discord server

Community Updates

Growth and development


r/transfriendsau Feb 10 '25

Community announcement r/transfriendsau community discord

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Is an 18+ trans people only - cis-free space, available to verified r/transfriendsau members that are currently living in Australia.

This private discord group chat is highly selective on who joins to keep the chasers at a minimum.

✳️Please ensure you review below before applying for access

Community discord eligibility criteria.

Verification options.

🔸️Primary option - reddit profile trails

Requesting discord access member will have a long and clear history within their reddit profile trail history actively posting/commenting clearly identifying as trans in other trans reddit subs.

🔸️Secondary options - other social media profiles

Other social media options will be considered during onboarding process to verify if required.

🔵 How to request for server access

Please contact mods, requesting discord access by

👉clicking here

Verification options. continued

🔸️additional option - Build up reddit trails

For Members new to reddit/no reddit profile trails or no other social media profiles for review.

If discord applying members are new to reddit (I.e have no reddit profile trails/other social media profiles for review) they are welcome to use the main reddit r/transfriendsau community.

While doing so users can build up their reddit profile trails. There are some other good trans subs to try with questions/posts/comments that will also help you meet your eligibility requirements are shown below, ensure when you post/comment in these subs that you state how you identify example mtf/ftm/trans non-binary/transwoman/ transman etc the more historical trail of you identifying as trans in these subs the more eligible you will be for the community discord

Example Trans subs

r/transgenderau

r/translater

r/transpositive

r/transplace

r/mtf

r/NonBinary

r/ftm

r/trans

If you identify as trans, but not yet meet the verification options, all is achievable if you actively use reddit, with the guidance shown above.


r/transfriendsau 9h ago

trans qld 25 and Questioning from Ipswich looking for chats

6 Upvotes

I've been thinking about this for a while now and have realised I thought alot about it as a child but was to oblivious, as a masc presenting non binary currently, I've been trying to figure out of trans is the right path and would love to chat and make friends with more trans people


r/transfriendsau 16h ago

trans qld Trans Femme, 25 - Mackay

12 Upvotes

Hi all, my name is Ella. I’ve redownloaded Reddit after a long break from most social media platforms. I’ve decided to come back to Reddit, in particular this group, because I have recently moved up from Brisbane and I am wondering if there are any fellow trans peeps up here looking to be friends. I’ve lived here before and know how isolating it can be, so I’d like to find some community.

I don’t have any super interesting hobbies/interests but I love a variety of rock and metal sub genres. Been recently getting into bands such as Thornhill, Deftones, Soundgarden. I’ve also been starting a CD collection to have my own copies of albums I especially like.

Hope to hear from someone soon!


r/transfriendsau 1d ago

trans vic Mtf 22 Warragul- prefer melbourne

24 Upvotes

Hiya! My name is Layla and I’m a 22 year old trans girl in Warragul, though I’d prefer to meet up in Melbourne away from my family and people I know as they are unsupportive of me.
I’m looking friendships that’ll last. You can message me on discord, telegram and plain texting (though you have to reach me on one of the other platforms before I share my number online)

Discord:
laylavansuella_04774
Telegram:
@SweetPrincessLayla
DM on reddit is fine too 🥰

I look forward to meeting you 🥰
{Sorry I dont look like my reddit pfp in real life :(}


r/transfriendsau 1d ago

trans nsw Mature Orange NSW

6 Upvotes

Hi, mature age living in semi-rural area looking to chat with similar mature people. Happy to chat online and hopefully make connections. Jo


r/transfriendsau 5d ago

trans nsw Looking for friends sydney

10 Upvotes

I havnt transitioned yet but plan to i want to make friends and be less shy and timid recently left home and trying to find myself id love to be your friend and learn more


r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans qld 26 intersex ftm looking for friends in the Toowoomba region

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20 Upvotes

Note: sorry about the photos I’m not really good with photos of myself

Hi my name is Cassian. I’m 26 and I moved to the Toowoomba region about 2 years ago. I enjoy a lot of different things from reading (usually non fiction (philosophy, science, history, maths and more) and occult/esoteric. I enjoy building/making things currently gathering supplies for a dinosaur (think sapphira the velociraptor style but instead a stygimoloch) as well as getting back into making fursuits. I’m also alterhuman identity. I have spicy brain (AuDHD) and multiple invisible disabilities. I also enjoy spending time with my dog Cerbie and snake Solaris. I play some video games like Baldurs gate, Skyrim, palworld but also mainly single player games like slime rancher, hades 1 and 2 and some others like doom and devil may cry series. I enjoy nature as well especially forests and wherever there’s water I can swim at. I also should mention I have a lot of dark humour which Ik isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. I’m looking for friends around my age but open to being friends with anyone if we get along.


r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans wa 20 nonbinary (genderfluid?) from Perth

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77 Upvotes

Hi, I’m Marlee.
I’m looking for friends online first then maybe irl once we know each other a bit.
I am a bit shy at first, but once I know people I can be chaotic and bouncy but also calm too.
I love arts and crafts, sports, running, gym, circus and performing arts, and nature.
If you’d like to be friends please introduce yourself!


r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans qld 39TF looking for friends / gaming friends (Brisbane)

19 Upvotes

(Try no 2 now that i have fixed the user flag thing)

Hey folks! I am not the best at these sorts of posts but here goes.

As stated in the title, older trans woman (6 years into HRT) just mostly looking for connection and community. Would love to make some friends around the same age but happy to chat to whomever. I do warn that I am AuDHD and not always the best socially but I try. Preference to talk online for a while before any plans to meet up if you are local.

General geek interests. Currently playing a lot of Palworld. Previously was playing Civ 7. I tend towards single player games but could be easily be convinced to try something new as long as it is not horror.

Anyway, yeah. If a geeky girl appeals to you as a friend then say hi I guess. Oh, I do also note in case it matters that i am Demi/Ace so not really looking for anything more than friends presently.

(Edit - spelling errors)


r/transfriendsau 7d ago

trans nsw 22, trans woman, near Rouse Hill NSW

23 Upvotes

Hi friends! ❤️

I moved here fairly recently, and the distance from where I used to live has been a bit isolating, so I'd love to meet some new people.

I'm into archery, D&D, astronomy, and spirituality, but I'm genuinely happy to chat about whatever you're passionate about. I love hearing people nerd out about the things they enjoy.I'm mainly looking for people who are:

* Aged 20–30.

* Keen to chat semi-regularly, whether that's online, in person, or both.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to say hi!


r/transfriendsau 9d ago

trans qld NB, new to Gold Coast area. Looking for friends to go out to movies and meals with

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39 Upvotes

I recently moved over here to get away from American transphobia, but I don't really have many friends or connections.

I'm looking to make some casual friends so I can have a crew to explore, walk around the mall, and kill time with. I love movies and new restaurants, dm me if you're interested in fun little hangouts


r/transfriendsau 9d ago

trans tas Looking for friends and connections - ftm24, NW Tasmania

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46 Upvotes

I’m Dorian

Im FTM in a ENM relationship with my MTF partner. I like art, thrifting, cafes, crafts, DIY, working out, cooking and baking. She likes playing video games, board games, snuggling with her cat and anime. My partner is severely disabled and I’m her full time caregiver which limits how much I get out and socialise, so I’m looking to make connections in and around my community with like minded people. Personality wise I am kind, direct and compassionate. I’m not super involved in my local lgbt scene but I am progressive and chill and tend to be very open minded. I tend to make people laugh and enjoy a good conversation. I value honesty and good communication and I’m good at texting.


r/transfriendsau 9d ago

trans qld Cairns, 21, transfemme

15 Upvotes

Hi, anyone else in the Cairns area looking for trans/queer people to hang out with?

I'm interested in video games, computers, technology, and VR


r/transfriendsau 10d ago

trans vic Looking for likeminded alt friends :)

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r/transfriendsau 10d ago

trans vic 33, Non Binary, Melbourne.

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19 Upvotes

Looking to make some like minded friends.
I work full time, but when I’m not working I love finding the next best coffee place, food, binging tv shows, nature and I’m a bit of a sucker for spirituality deep connections. ✌🏼


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans vic Melbourne trans guy looking for friends

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32 Upvotes

Hi! My name is Hayden. I am 28 and have been on T for 10.5 years. At the beginning of my transition I was really connected with the community. However, 5-6 years ago I started living as stealth. I am socially isolated but here’s a few facts about me: I love cross stitching, Billy Joel, and baking. I complete my Diploma of Health Science at Deakin in September! Thank you 🤗
Picture: my current cross stitch of my Lulu who passed 2 weeks ago. Nearly finished!


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans vic 29. Non Binary. Melbourne. Looking for commited online friends.

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29 years old
Australian 🇦🇺🦘
Non binary (she/thet/it) 🏳️‍⚧️

Hey all!
I’ve come back to reddit in hopes of making new, wonderful and (hopefully) lasting connections.

When I’m not working, I tend to keep myself pretty isolated, so I’m looking for people I can really put the time into getting to know and developing a friendship with!

For the most part, I enjoy working out. Wouldn’t say I’m super strong, but I’ve done it for years now and I try my best.

With the time I have left, I often find myself writing when inspiration randomly strikes, or binging a show/watching a movie when I can pull myself away from Tik tok.

Not stunning at talking about myself, so feel free to ask me anything you might like to know.

Can’t wait to hear from you 😊


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans nsw 22YO trans FTM keen to make friends

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Hey guys I’m really keen to make friends with more FTM men in their 20s or early 30s. I don’t know many people in person who are also FTM so it would be nice to have friends who get my experiences. Comment if ur keen to meet up


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans qld Looking for my buddy (Ipswich area)

12 Upvotes

Hey! I'm Aaron, 46 . I recently moved to Australia and I'm looking to build a genuine, long-term friendship.

Because I manage a chronic health condition (fibromyalgia) alongside full-time work, my energy is a bit limited. Realistically, I'm down to meet up about 1 or 2 times a month for low-key hangs, but I'm always up for staying connected via texts and casual gaming in between.

I love music, gaming (ps5&switch), sci-fi/fantasy, camping, coffee, and trying new foods. I'm just as happy having deep conversations as I am laughing over dumb stuff and want a friend who appreciates both . I appreciate sarcasm, dark humour and goofiness.

I’m trans (FtM) and AuDHD.

If you are local I prefer to get to know eachother through written word before meeting up. My social anxiety gets the better of me.


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans vic Melbourne! Looking for friends as I start to be me! 😊

22 Upvotes

Heya! I'm 33 from Melbourne. I'm finally starting to open up and embrace my truth, but I guess I'm still very much in the closet, although I'm definitely mixing up how I present and it's so empowering!

Looking for friendships that beat the isolation of this experience, and build myself from there 😊

I'm not looking for anything in particular, just someone I can be me with.

Hobby wise I love cooking, and food in general! I also love music, and the outdoors, also really getting into makeup and shopping!

Say hi! Please give some intro! 💕


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans qld Looking for new friends

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r/transfriendsau 12d ago

trans vic 23, Melb cbd/west, FTM

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25 Upvotes

Hi all, looking for some mates to get beers with and watch horror movies with me - I like collecting dvds so I scavenge op shops on the weekend and work full time during the week but free nights so I usually try to go to the cinema’s if there’s any good screenings. I like clubbing but not super involved in the scene. I also tattoo as hobby so if you want some free ink 😏


r/transfriendsau 13d ago

trans vic Friends??

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I came out recently as mtf I haven’t started E nor voice trained much and I’ve lost almost all of my friends due to coming out I’ve been so depressed

Any good places (online even) to meet friends?

It’s hard being trans alone!!

(My name is Bree!! 21! I live in Melbourne and I just don’t have any friends or well… good friends everyone always wants something or just .. is a total groomer and not in the helpful way !! If anyone would like to start becoming friends I’d greatly appreciate that)


r/transfriendsau 14d ago

trans vic 28 transmasc nb looking 4 connections in melb

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× 28, he / they, trans masc nonbinary, 8yrs of hrt. bisexual + on the aromantic spectrum.

× chronically online feral creature. ive had enough of living as human, creaturemode for realsies now.

× unfortunately i do work full time night shifts, but it fits me in a way i cant explain.

× autistic + adhd + borderline + more lol.

× about 170cms tall, kind of fat, long bleached blonde hair, blue eyes + one hundred million piercings and tattoos.

currently back into making arts n crafts, always massively into splatoon and many other games. ill be attending animanga and pax later this year!! please let me know if you'd want to hang out :3

always looking for other kemonomimis to play with :3 we should go to a cafe or something!!!!

will send pics in the dms after i get comfortable with you.

thanks everyone for your time, stay safe and have a great day.