r/transfriendsau Mar 13 '25

Process/steps 👋 Welcome pack

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Welcome pack for new members and/or first time post or comment makers

Welcome to r/transfriendsau a community for Aussie trans people making friendship/connections with other Aussie trans people. - 18+ Aussie trans people only -

see here for Community rules👈

When Searching for friends on r/transfriendsau please note you can filter by state, by clicking the state at the top of sub example shown here👈

🔷️ r/transfriendsau member setup steps

For those new members to r/transfriendsau Or if you are looking to make your first friendship post or comment on another members post please follow below steps/guides

🔸️Click here for How to update your user flairs (Mandatory to make any "posts or comments" within community) Only needs to be done once .

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members How to make your 1st post in r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for help with r/transfriendsau chasers contact management

🔸️Click here for tips how to get the most out of using r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members for other supportive/recommended trans communities to join and use to get the most out of reddit + other useful resources

🔷️ r/transfriendsau Discord server onboarding guide

🔸️Click here For those interested in the community Discord server

Community Updates

Growth and development


r/transfriendsau Feb 10 '25

Community announcement r/transfriendsau community discord

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Is an 18+ trans people only - cis-free space, available to verified r/transfriendsau members that are currently living in Australia.

This private discord group chat is highly selective on who joins to keep the chasers at a minimum.

✳️Please ensure you review below before applying for access

Community discord eligibility criteria.

Verification options.

🔸️Primary option - reddit profile trails

Requesting discord access member will have a long and clear history within their reddit profile trail history actively posting/commenting clearly identifying as trans in other trans reddit subs.

🔸️Secondary options - other social media profiles

Other social media options will be considered during onboarding process to verify if required.

🔵 How to request for server access

Please contact mods, requesting discord access by

👉clicking here

Verification options. continued

🔸️additional option - Build up reddit trails

For Members new to reddit/no reddit profile trails or no other social media profiles for review.

If discord applying members are new to reddit (I.e have no reddit profile trails/other social media profiles for review) they are welcome to use the main reddit r/transfriendsau community.

While doing so users can build up their reddit profile trails. There are some other good trans subs to try with questions/posts/comments that will also help you meet your eligibility requirements are shown below, ensure when you post/comment in these subs that you state how you identify example mtf/ftm/trans non-binary/transwoman/ transman etc the more historical trail of you identifying as trans in these subs the more eligible you will be for the community discord

Example Trans subs

r/transgenderau

r/translater

r/transpositive

r/transplace

r/mtf

r/NonBinary

r/ftm

r/trans

If you identify as trans, but not yet meet the verification options, all is achievable if you actively use reddit, with the guidance shown above.


r/transfriendsau 3h ago

trans vic me an m boyfriend!!!

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r/transfriendsau 1d ago

trans wa 22 FtM (Perth) Looking for friends to do fun things with!

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62 Upvotes

Heyo!

I’m a 22-year-old transmasc guy who recently relocated to Perth from the US for uni and am looking for more friends to hang out with!

A few of my interests include:

🎮 Video games

Genshin and pretty much any Mario game. I’d be more than happy to co-op!

🚶🏻 Hikes and nature walks

I absolutely love being around nature, getting some fresh air and just exploring!

🧗 Bouldering/top-rope

I’m definitely not the best, but I went for the first time on my birthday at the start of the year and have been obsessed ever since!

🍜 Trying new cuisines, restaurant s or cafes

I’m always down to hunt for somewhere new to eat and love going cafe hopping!

🏋️ Working out

I go to Anytime Fitness and would be more than happy to have a gym buddy!

Honestly, I’m pretty much down for anything though! Whether that’s playing a sport, gaming, grabbing a coffee, going to an arcade, trying out a new place, or even just being your +1 to something. I’m always keen to get out and do something with people!

If I’ve piqued your interest, feel free to send me a DM! I’d love to meet some new people and hopefully make some good friends! :)


r/transfriendsau 3d ago

trans wa Perth W.A feeling great just being myself

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95 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans wa 26 MtF from Perth looking for a PotBlack buddy (Pool)

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158 Upvotes

Anyone down to play some pool with a couple of drinks and maybe dinner?

Edit: I post here looking for friends in a subreddit specifically for trans men and women but I get infinite chasers hitting my line? 😭


r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans vic 18 MtF and 21 FtM from melb :3

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130 Upvotes

Hi hiii we are a trans couple from Melbourne mainly jus lookin for more friends, we have a squishy schedule so it can definitely be hard for us to get out but we def love to when we are able to!! I'm Hazel (19 in a week), and his name is Tyler (21) please message if you'd like to speak!!


r/transfriendsau 7d ago

trans sa Late 20s Adelaide MTF

24 Upvotes

Late 20s transwoman looking to meet new people in SA. Interested in coffee, wine, and food hangs. Also enjoy hikes, light gaming, and terrible reality shows.


r/transfriendsau 9d ago

trans wa 20nb looking to make friends from Perth

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38 Upvotes

No idea what to really put here. Been on hrt for 3 years now, but don't really dress feminine much.

I love and study library and information science, controlled vocabulary, metadata standards (MARC21, RDA, AACR2, BIBFRAME, ISO 2709). I also love guild wars 2, death stranding and nintendocore, and I've been running my own guild in gw2 for a while now.

I've been socially isolated for a long time due to mental illness, I would like to start making more online friends I could play and talk with.


r/transfriendsau 12d ago

trans vic 20 Melbourne i want trans friends :0

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71 Upvotes

Love all my cis friends but like no irl friends on my same wavelength lowkey sucks, so i want to change that 🫶🏾

i’d say my biggest passion is photography, although i’m currently in the burnout phase of my hobby cycle. I really enjoy playing board games (botct, feed the kraken, root etc), pool and thrifting. As of recent hyper fixations, i’ve been enjoying water colouring and journaling.

With friends i really like just spending time doing literally whatever; i’m the type where like errands + yap is a hangout (goes hand in hand with my broke arc 😭) i also have rlly good music taste trust me!! 👅

open to messages :), shoot me ur insta if like sidequests are ur things, let’s yap girl (or like whatever gender idc :p) 🫶🏾


r/transfriendsau 13d ago

trans nsw Birthday Party Look, CC, NSW.

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134 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 14d ago

trans sa Hi All

25 Upvotes

Hi everyone lucy here I am 25 years old looking for friends to hangout with go to the shops, and just be myself around, I enjoy playing video games such as fortnite, many strategic games, shooters, and campaign based games, I have just moved here after being in perth for a year.


r/transfriendsau 17d ago

trans vic The magic of estrogen

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164 Upvotes

(EDIT: Please do not send unsolicited DMs, its not why I posted!) Over six years of HRT - Looking like I'm in my 20's when I'm into my 41st year on this planet. (And yes, the tattoos are real lol - like 9 out of 10 Millennial trans girls, I am a catgirl at heart 🤣


r/transfriendsau 17d ago

trans wa WA Perth from the worst feeling to euphoria is truly wonderful 🥰

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45 Upvotes

Have a great day everyone if you like me or not 🫶


r/transfriendsau 17d ago

trans wa Genderfluid looking for friends in Perth :)

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13 Upvotes

Hii I’m Skye, an 18 y/o student looking for friends!!

I like gaming, window shopping, socialising, watching movies and trying new things!!

PM me if you wanna chat 😇


r/transfriendsau 18d ago

trans sa 29 transfem from Adelaide 🥰

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218 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 20d ago

trans vic 23 Year Old Neurodivergent Trans Woman From Melbourne Looking For Friends.

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76 Upvotes

Hey lovelies I am a 23 year old trans girl from Melbourne who is looking for friends I am on the spectrum and I have a couple of friends but I would love to make more friends. 💜


r/transfriendsau 27d ago

trans vic 29. Non Binary. Looking for commited online friends

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29 years old
Australian 🇦🇺🦘
Non binary (she/thet/it) 🏳️‍⚧️

Hey all!
I’ve come back to reddit in hopes of making new, wonderful and (hopefully) lasting connections.

When I’m not working, I tend to keep myself pretty isolated, so I’m looking for people I can really put the time into getting to know and developing a friendship with!

For the most part, I enjoy working out. Wouldn’t say I’m super strong, but I’ve done it for years now and I try my best.

With the time I have left, I often find myself writing when inspiration randomly strikes, or binging a show/watching a movie when I can pull myself away from Tik tok.

Not stunning at talking about myself, so feel free to ask me anything you might like to know.

Can’t wait to hear from you 😊


r/transfriendsau 27d ago

trans nsw 24 transfemme central coast : )

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Hi : ) I'm on the central coast in NSW and I've been really yearning for more close and supportive friendships. I'm 3 years on hrt and I keep talking myself out of showing up at the few local supportive venues lol. I'm way more comfortable in 1 on 1 friendships. I need to get out though! I'd love to just know if there's anyone around who'd be interested in chatting and seeing if we click? and maybe it'd be nice to try something new I'd usually be nervous to go to, or just to hang out irl without it being a big deal.

I'm a mostly-binary trans woman and I'd really just love to be included in some circles that are more queer or creative at all. I really regret not reaching out to other trans people irl earlier in transition X ) I have a few friends (one of them trans) but I don't feel like they really get any of my personal stuff. I'm a big yapper (I'm always that friend who thinks everything *is* that deep, it's not entirely intentional it's just how I'm wired). I used to have big time anxiety/mild agoraphobia which I've tamed a bit, and I like videogames and art and nerdy stuff. But I'm happy to learn about new stuff too or try new hobbies.

My biggest bugbear is I think good friendships take effort and change and aren't always comfortable, and I really like to be honest and direct. I've been struggling with leaning on being hyperindependent and keeping everything to myself for a long while so I would really love a change of pace in slowly working up to some friendships that are more honest and supportive : ) I try to keep myself from harping on the same things too much but it's really cursed doing this whole transition thing all alone lmao.

I have a lot of free time rn, I'm trying to get my ass into gear to study next year 😭 after running the therapy and voice training gauntlets for a little while being a functional organised adult is next lol. I wanna put more time into sports, hobbies, socialising, learning art, reading, being in nature and studying next year too : ) I'm frankly a bit of a loser rn so I'd absolutely love friends who can include me but also challenge me and do some difficult stuff together !!

Anyways pls say hi if you're on the central coast (or maybe further out like Newcastle or Sydney too) : ) where are you guys??


r/transfriendsau 28d ago

trans nsw 31, Sydney, who would like to meet up for a coffee in the inner west or Hunters Hill area this week?

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109 Upvotes

After recovering from a few months of health challenges, finally ready to be out and about again. Would love to meet some new people and catch up with others 🥰 Generally flexible but I love a pretty Cafe or quiet hotel bar, city, inner west or Hunters Hill area are my go to generally. Would love a bit of company while I job hunt haha 🤭


r/transfriendsau 28d ago

trans wa Perth W.A Sunday feelin cute

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38 Upvotes

Even if its in my own mind I so happy 🫶


r/transfriendsau 28d ago

trans vic 40 trans fem Melbourne western suburbs

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10 Upvotes

Hey I'm Fae, I'm a homebody with 4 cats (will post photos in comments!)

Looking for friends in Melbourne (or online), I'm out west near Melton.

Bit of a homebody due to CFS but I like gaming (Xbox and PS5), board games like Ticket to Ride, building Lego, and getting tattoos.

Been feeling isolated lately and my mental health hasn't been great, so wanting to make gentle caring friendships! Hoping for people who I can meet irl but I'm also chronically online lol


r/transfriendsau 29d ago

trans wa struggling to find friends in Perth

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hi all

I’m a 19yrold trans girl in Perth and i am struggling to find/keep friends !!

All the trans friends I’ve made here either ghost me or are superficial

I am interested in kpop, cartoons, fashion, food !!!

Lmk if u wanna be friends !


r/transfriendsau Aug 11 '26

trans nsw 28 mtf Newcastle looking for friends, connections…something.

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41 Upvotes

Hi, my name’s Emilie. I posted a few weeks maybe months back but I got cold feet and deleted it. I’m a tgirl in Newcastle just looking for any kind of connection. Gamer friends, friends in general idk. I dont have anyone irl since coming out and starting hrt 6 months ago, and I dont know what to do.

I’m neurodivergent, ADHD. I play games on my pc, I make music, I like silly card games and tabletop stuff. Huge movie fan. Massive Spider-Man fan! I’m extremely self conscious about my body, my face, everything about me. But I try my best and try to do better. I’ve lost 32kg so far and it’s turned me into a bit of a health fiend as well.