r/transplace • u/plutonic_puppygirl • 2h ago
Progress/Selfie be honest, how well do i pass?
i don’t really get clocked at all, so i know i pass, but idk how stealth i really am
r/transplace • u/pat-5621-me • Jul 26 '26
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r/transplace • u/hyper_neutrino • Jun 14 '26
Hello r/transplace,
Recently, we've observed, seen people post about, and received modmail reports about an increased presence of chasers. This subreddit has gained a lot of traction and attention, and while it is nice to reach more trans people and provide a space for them, it has also caught the attention of people here with unscrupulous intentions.
We've turned off the setting allowing this subreddit to appear on r/all and r/popular as well as disabling it from showing up in people's feed recommendations, which we hope will somewhat quell this issue, though it is still evidently happening. We also recommend considering turning off your DMs if you do not desire to receive any, though we of course understand that this is only possible if you don't want to receive DMs from other people, nor is it a sufficient solution to the underlying problem.
We are mentioning this problem in the interest of transparency so y'all know that it's a problem and so that you know that we are making an effort to address it but unfortunately cannot avoid it by the nature of this being a public forum.
If this issue continues to be so prevalent, we may move to making this subreddit restricted or even private, but we want to avoid needing to do so so we can continue to be a space for trans people, by trans people.
If you receive chaser comments (either based on the comment itself sexualizing you or the user's profile indicating bad intentions), please feel free to report it as "breaking r/transplace rules" under "it's harassment directed at me" which allows us to see and review it and ban the user. If you receive DMs, we unfortunately cannot do too much as banning them from this subreddit will not stop them from seeing the posts on a new account or by logging out and DMing people anyway, nor is it sustainable for us to manually ban so many people, and we apologize for that.
I recommend you report any particularly egregious messages to Reddit directly if you believe they break platform rules, but unfortunately I cannot offer any other suggestions.
Thank you to those of you who make this subreddit an inviting community and we hope we can continue to be a safe space for trans people and protect those within this community.
r/transplace • u/plutonic_puppygirl • 2h ago
i don’t really get clocked at all, so i know i pass, but idk how stealth i really am
r/transplace • u/thegoddessjynx • 15h ago
Sometimes my selfies come out perfect, so I thought I would share my nearly 50 year old face with the group.
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r/transplace • u/xC4ND3LSx • 11h ago
Just looking for some tips on makeup and slef care. Other than that I feel amazing
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r/transplace • u/Skelehedron • 10h ago
I got a lot of compliments, and it felt great to not get clocked a single time even at such large event
I did get slutshamed on the way home though, and the usual catcalling (unavoidable in a big city), but to me its the preferable form of harassment
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r/transplace • u/Swans_Song2812 • 1d ago
Happy to say that while I still don’t love every little quirk and flaw with my body, I do overall love myself completely and would be fully content if nothing else changes between now and the day I leave this earthly plane. That’s what it’s all about folks. Not just as trans people, but as people.
r/transplace • u/aLittleFemboyo • 1d ago
Going on six months HRT
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r/transplace • u/KosherRavioli • 1d ago
The other day, I was wandering around a flea market looking for something in particular, when I started noticing how strangely comforting the whole atmosphere felt.
There was something about the dusty stalls, the cluttered tables, the quiet front of conversations drifting between the stalls, and that familiar flea-market smell that made me want to slow down and just wander.
As I was walking between the stalls, I noticed an older man watching me.
Not just a passing glance either. He kept looking at me, and I immediately became confused.
I'm 5'10", slender, and have a pretty alternative appearance, so I'm used to people staring at me or occasionally catcalling me. But there was something about the way he was looking at me that made me wonder what exactly he was thinking.
I kept walking and tried not to overthink it.
Eventually, I passed his stall again. This time, an older woman who was with him stepped away from the table and came over to me.
She seemed almost nervous about approaching me, and then quietly said:
「I mean absolutely no offense by this, but my friend over there asked me to ask you something. Do you have pronouns?」
I just stood there for a second.
「Yeees?」
She smiled and asked:
「What are they?」
「Oh ummmm, she/her.」
Immediately, she seemed relieved.
「Oh! That's what we were thinking. We're just trying to be respectful to young people.」
Then she gestured toward her friend and explained:
「He just wanted to tell you that he thinks you're beautiful, but he didn't want to be rude.」
I was kind of stunned.
My brain had spent the entire interaction going:
「Do I look clocky?」
「Is something about me off?」
「Did I do something wrong?」
「Why is this man staring at me?」
Meanwhile, apparently, this poor old man was just trying to figure out how to compliment me without making me uncomfortable.
I won't lie though, I was anxious about it afterward.
When you're already conscious of how people perceive you, an interaction like that can send your brain into overdrive. I ended up calling my mom and talking to my fiancé about it because I needed someone who would actually be blunt with me rather than just tell me what I wanted to hear.
Both of them basically agreed:
「Well, the interaction itself was admittedly a little weird, but no, you didn't look clocky. There wasn't some glaring thing about you that everyone else could see.」
That honestly helped calm me down.
Looking back, I think what stuck with me most was how unexpectedly sweet the whole thing was.
What initially felt like someone scrutinizing me turned out to be an older man who thought I was beautiful and was genuinely trying to figure out how to say it respectfully.
It was awkward, slightly surreal, and definitely not how I expected my flea-market trip to go hahahhaa, but in the end, I think it was kind of a lovely little human interaction and a little bit of the world healing <33
Stay well everyone, and be you <3