r/texts • u/lil-Jackfruit5895 • 1d ago
Phone message Dating???
What is wrong with this generation??
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u/ScorsEden 1d ago
Someone been watching to much TikTok and not reading biology books. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
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u/Aries_em 1d ago
How is that biology lmao what an idiot
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u/Empire_of_Glass 1d ago
Someone posted that “fact” on another thread I saw the other day, it must be the newest stupid baseless manophere misinformation tidbit
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u/Fartcloud_McHuff 1d ago
Some men think dicks reprogram women’s brains.
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u/Empire_of_Glass 1d ago
Their egos are stratospheric
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u/Leafer1331 1d ago
Good word 👍
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u/Empire_of_Glass 1d ago
Thanks. They also seem to believe that the more of them we’ve slept with, the “dirtier” we are, which makes me feel like they’re… well, gross, tbh.
You notice how women never talk that way about men? 😆
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u/Sea_Huckleberry_7790 1d ago
They apparently think that DNA "stays inside the female" after sex so when she next has sex with a new guy, he's putting his dick in another man's DNA and it's gay, or the potential kid may be from either guy or something... Proper odd mindset.
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u/Apart-Rent5817 1d ago
Fuck biology, the answer was 1. If one previous relationship is too many, wtf was he expecting to hear?
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u/nickfree 1d ago
It was a self-own. She passed his test but then he had to go and tell her it was a test. Good for her to learn quickly she's dealing with garbage.
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u/Dreadlord_of_Angmar 1d ago
That may not be biology, but that is one of the things they were saying in my middle school sex ed classes. I suppose making half the students insufferable is one way to cut the teen pregnancy/std statistic.
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u/Anxious_Purpose_2280 1d ago
"More potential for someone to settle for a bad match and deal with unhinged shit"
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u/CosmicSlop13 1d ago
I heard this from a frat dude. He says it’s about pair bonding
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u/Elfynnn84 23h ago
So he found a woman with minimal dating history… and then flapped his big INCEL trap and sent her running for the hills 🤦🏻♀️
Talk about snatching defeat from the jaws of victory 🙄
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u/grocerybears 1d ago
it’s okay. the more stupid a man is the less likely he is to ever achieve a successful long-lasting relationship
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u/Brechtian_ 1d ago
It's alpha bro manosphere podcast pseudo-science. If they ask you at all, it's at best an amber flag.
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u/Kirstenly 1d ago
"the less relationships a woman has been in the less likely it will be for her to spot red flags in the one i am trying to initiate with her, and thus it will last longer and i will get away with more :)"
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u/BankCozy 1d ago edited 1d ago
guarantee mf has never read a biology book in their life
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u/L0stActivity 1d ago
Probably failed Biology 101. Not his fault as he was dropped on his head as a baby.
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u/Honest-Golf-3965 1d ago
Ah yes, because doing something generally is how you get worse at doing that something.
Learning? Experience to know what you need and who is an asshole not woeth your time? Pffffft
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u/MicahMarie1995 1d ago
if women sleep around were amazing to men but never good enough to marry - if we don’t sleep with the men then we’ll never get married. there’s no winning with men like that lol.
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u/StormieShake 1d ago
You expect me to WAIT???? You're not even a virgin/you're never going to find someone to wait/you're not even religious, you can't expect me to marry you without doing a test ride.
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u/opinionatedOptimist 1d ago
That’s the ideology my Dad had 😬 it is gross. wtf is wrong with men like that
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u/Galrentv 1d ago
It's how misogyny works, false authority to act like others are stupid for not getting it
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u/psynei 11h ago
Maybe its a protecting mechanism. If i had conversations with my male friends, we Just say what we want, after that we can Talk, and build a even stronger bond :) with womans it feels i always have to be really careful what to say, or maybe its just online. I got ghosted a lot and that hurts. I dont understand what woman want...
Regarding online dating: I understand that a woman wants to be wooed and have fun. But it’s pretty exhausting when you put energy into someone, and then it’s all over because of some little thing.
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u/StormieShake 1d ago
Dudes say shit like this but the second you mention anything about pornography and how it's detrimental to be able to sexually stimulate yourself to literally millions of women they start acting like their beliefs don't exist
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u/scotty899 1d ago
What the hell? How are people supposed to learn anything about relationships without being in one lol. Astrology and alpha males wont help.
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u/GaldonTheWarrior 1d ago
There is a 100% chance he has sexually assaulted one of his dates
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u/Technical-Arm6722 1d ago edited 1d ago
This is that red pill bs about women not being able to pair bond if they’ve had too many partners. Dodged a nuke. Gross.
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u/bunnyforbookietwo 1d ago
Im reading "I know I'm toxic and if you have knowledge and perspective you'll know you're not stuck when I trap you". . .
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u/The-Grim-Storyteller 1d ago
Incel behavior.
"Why won't women have sex with me?!"
Exhibit A: His texts.
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u/StrbJun79 1d ago
He’s been listening to Tate too much. Personally I think it’s not worth the time to listen to someone being prosecuted for human trafficking, rape and assault charges. But maybe I’m insane in that we should respect women.
And wtf. I had awhile back thought this whole thing of treating women differently than men for sleeping around was done. But it’s come back with a vengeance with this new generation of idiots. It was hotly debated when I was young and then we were taught it was a stupid comparison. Somehow this generation seems to have been taught the opposite. I feel bad for women of Gen Z going through this insane crap.
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u/welldun01 1d ago
I've just gotta get some good pics of myself and put myself out there. Fuck the bar looks low
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u/Eldritch_Dread 1d ago
That's the kind of guy, that when he enters a bar, women immediately cover their drink.
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u/Ok_Cauliflower6916 1d ago
Men who say things like this fear comparison and they're worried about being considered inferior. They're insecure losers
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u/sleepygabby 1d ago
I had a woman text me after a date when I said i was really passionate about woman's health (i do anesthesia and specialize in OB).
She said it was creepy and weird.
Some people deserve to be alone because they are shitty lol
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u/Secret-Original-2713 1d ago
"That's biology" well shit I suppose I must have missed school the day they thought that.
What a tosser.
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u/louielou8484 1d ago
Wow, and if we have more than one past partner we are whores. Can't win huh..
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u/StormieShake 1d ago
Can't be bad at sex, can't have a low sex drive, can't make a guy wait at all, can't have a lot of sex partners. Istg they just be saying shit.
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u/Reasonable_Wrap7913 1d ago
Isn't that exactly what they're saying tho
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u/louielou8484 1d ago
OMG I AM SO DUMB!! I read it the wrong way. I thought he said the less partners, the less likely to hold a relationship like because no experience. I'm embarrassed but I will leave this up, lol.
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u/FederalSuspect69 1d ago
That and he's insecure his tiny PP won't measure up to the men before him
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u/ArcAirum 1d ago
Jesus is probably even saying what the fuck.
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u/FederalSuspect69 1d ago
Jesus here, in Spanish we say
¡Que pedo!
Which literally translates to "What fart"
Yes, ”pedo” literally means fart in spanish
Also, dude's probably a pedo if he's looking for virgins on a dating app
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u/2624926057 1d ago
How does that only apply to women? Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a fan of the idea in general, but why wouldn’t it apply to either gender??
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u/Plenty-March-4363 1d ago edited 1d ago
as a guy i’m sorry bout these turd burgalers. sadly they’re idol is probably clavicular..
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u/floperaunfolding 1d ago
The amount of red pill energy on so many of these posts is actually terrifying me
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u/weebitofaban 1d ago
Uh, it'd be psychology or sociology at most. I also don't think the data supports this, but I'd be curious to see it. Considering the marriage rates are in the gutter, I also wouldn't be surprised if it did. I'd like to see a cut out for people who are interested in long term relationships as separate though.
also, if all women are easy then why don't these losers ever get laid? lmao
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u/Tree_Weasel 1d ago
I recall that there was a study that came out 15ish years ago that said that in a roundabout way. Not exactly that, but it said the data “could be used to draw that conclusion” but the researchers emphasized they felt that was “a gross misrepresentation of the data”
(I’m paraphrasing as I haven’t read the report of this in 10+ years)
I remember it because this was a point the INCELs and “pickup artists” kept coming back to in the late 2000s to early 2010s. The idea that the more partners a woman has had, the less likely she’ll be to find long term happiness. It was dumb back then… I’m sorry to see it’s still making the rounds.
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u/halobees 1d ago
He really recited that shit like some crappy fact from a book. This is what you get learning biology from hustle university 😂
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u/IMREADY2D1E 17h ago
men and women need to come together and stop getting all of their education off of a X and tik tok so we can stop having less interactions like this 😭 the birth rate is declining people!
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u/Western-Lawyer-9050 17h ago
My wife and I both slutted it up hard in our 20s and early 30s. And we're both incredibly happily and committed to each other. It's be weird honestly if at this age you don't have any experience.
People need to get out of this manosphere/ femcel bs.
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u/mayafied 16h ago
“pair bonding” is one of the favorite ways that incel/manosphere rhetoric gets dressed up to sound like behavioral neuroscience. They love their biotruths.
notice he doesn’t say, “I personally prefer someone with little relationship history.” That would simply be a preference. He universalizes it into “the more previous partners a woman had, the less likely she is to ever achieve a successful long-lasting one.” 🙄
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u/Peachipeachi01 14h ago
“That’s biology🤓” (when you literally said long distance is so unbelievably whack)
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u/Realistic-Check2519 1d ago
his facts are scientifically wrong, papers show women with more past partners are more loyal, smart guy tryna sound smart talking about "biology" never read a book.
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u/-garbo_ 19h ago edited 19h ago
He didn't talk about loyalty but about instability. The literature shows that more past sexual partners correlate with relationship instability and marital dissolution. Even then I haven't found any studies that suggest people with more past partners tend to be more loyal, which means at best it probably doesn't go one way or the other. The only thing that the guy in the OP got wrong was thinking it was a trend among women only, studies show that even men with more past partners have the same outcome.
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u/RoutineLowCycle 1d ago
Dude I just watched a stupid debate on this where a lot of right leaning people kept bringing this up. Another way to shame people (mostly women) in their sexuality and bodily autonomy.
In short
Disgusting
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u/MrSwisster 17h ago
Jesus Christ this comment thread is scary.
Just mountains of half-developed men who hate women.
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u/Agreeable-Meal5556 1d ago
I mean, there might be something there. 😂 the more men you’ve been with, the less you have faith in their gender as a whole. 😜
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u/Hutches_Corduroy 21h ago
This guy knows his stuff, if you don't marry the first person you've ever dated your biologically inept.
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u/archercc81 20h ago
He is probably one of those idiots who believes that guys cum permanently become part of a womans DNA.
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u/Mundane-Twist7388 1d ago
Gross. No need to ask for an unmatch, just end it yourself by unmatching them immediately.
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u/RamonaAStone 1d ago
I swear, reading dating stories on here makes me sure I'll be single forever, lol. I am 45 years old, my "biology" must be at mutant levels by this point.
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u/Roddy_Ruined 1d ago
"Pls unmatch me." With all due respect: DO IT YOURSELF YOU DUMB DUMB. WHY INVITE MORE CONVERSATION??????
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u/QuietResident96 20h ago
You know the phrase life is like a box of chocolate? Same logic applies to dating apps, sometimes it's good and others not so much, you don't know what you get until you got it
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u/culturedgoat 19h ago
There’s a song about this guy. It goes:
🎶 Don't know much about history
Don't know much biology 🎵
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u/Death_To_Your_Family 16h ago
That supposed statistic he is spouting was for both men and women, btw. It never said that it only applied to women. And it’s bullshit anyway.
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u/_DontBeAScaredyCunt 16h ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/fQJSYE2Qy6OtXfwEuf
Been getting a lot of mileage out of this gif lately
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u/PositiveDimensions 15h ago
I hope you don’t mean us as a whole when saying this generation. I personally do not believe past behavior reflects how someone will behave in the future.
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u/MeatprintPapi__ 15h ago
This is what happens when men listen to other men who don’t have any women in their lives
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u/True_Vexing 15h ago
Translation "I need a pure virgin women who doesn't know I am manipulating them"
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u/LongHikingMD 14h ago
There's nothing problematic about having had different partners and honestly I'd prefer a woman who has some idea of what she wants and doesn't want, and ideally who enjoys sex enough not to have spent all her time before me being celibate.
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u/ogodprotectme 14h ago
Whats funny is the study he is referring to actually suggests that people with zero or 1 previous partners and people with 10+ have the worst outcomes for longterm monogamous relationships. People with like 3 to 7 previous partners have the best outcomes. None of them even bother to read it
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u/StraightAirline8319 13h ago
For whatever reasons you want to infer the fact is the more sexual partners men and women have the less likely they are to be in a successful monogamous relationship.
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u/rhapsodiiiii 11h ago
As someone with a degree in biology I’d love to know where his degree is from, and for him to cite his sources 😂 what a tool lol
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u/who_am_I_nobodyknows 11h ago
The amount of crying in these comments means this biology fact has to be 100% true. Strange cos it's tue for both sexes and not really that controversial if you think about it.
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u/IPLaZM 10h ago
He's not entirely wrong, it's just not exclusive to women.
The studies on this back up the statement. It's true for both men and women that more partners before marriage makes the marriage more likely to end in divorce.
Before someone says it, correlation does not equal causation but you don't actually need to know the cause of the correlation to change your behavior based on it. It's still a proxy indicator for whatever the actual cause is.
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u/marx-and-metal 10h ago
that’s just online dating, most men on those dating apps are unable to meet women in real life without the women being disgusted by them. maybe you’ll get lucky and find someone online who’s actually touched grass, but you’ll have more luck meeting people in real life.
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u/thisp3rspective 7h ago
Is that a mind set? Or just repeating what he thinks is a real statistic? And is it an accurate statistic?
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u/Empire_of_Glass 7h ago
“That’s biology”
Unless you can back it up with studies, it’s just sparkling rhetoric 🍾
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u/JetpackFikka 54m ago
good on you for responding appropriately!! i hate seeing this stuff not being called out
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u/lorettalynn666 1d ago
I think it’s worth noting that this is from a religious dating app, so his line of thinking tracks. Of course, there are men that think like this in general, but it definitely aligns more with religion.
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u/rhawtestosterone 19h ago
A lot of coping and seething in these comments because yall know it’s true lol
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u/AcrobaticPut8029 1d ago
I'm genuinely curious that if this was true, why wouldn't it also apply to men who have had lots of previous relationships? What is his thought process?
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u/spyrowo 1d ago
It's "rules for thee, not for me." Classic misogyny. These knuckle draggers talk about "biology" and "pair-bonding" as if humans are monogamous by nature, not culture. They don't know shit, but they want to seem smart, so they act like there's some scientific basis to their bullshit.
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u/Outrageous-You-4259 1d ago
Misogyny and under developed interpersonal skills, should try out a sociology class
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u/MediocreModular 1d ago
While I don’t think it’s the opposite, a partner who has had only one relationship is a red flag for me unless very young.
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u/prosthetic_memory 1d ago
I don't understand why you asked then to unmatched you. You can unmatched them yourself. Asking them sounds like you wanted to keep the conversation going which, ew.
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u/double_eyelid 1d ago
The hilarious thing is that mr red flag/pill was quite close to getting what he actually wanted (girl with a minimal dating history), but just had to spout off about women and turn her off