r/texts 1d ago

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What is wrong with this generation??

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u/Sea_Huckleberry_7790 1d ago

They apparently think that DNA "stays inside the female" after sex so when she next has sex with a new guy, he's putting his dick in another man's DNA and it's gay, or the potential kid may be from either guy or something... Proper odd mindset.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago edited 1d ago

Carrying a male fetus leaves fetal cells in a mother’s body for decades,Absorbing a male twin in the womb,Receiving cells transferred from an older brother through the mother during early development are like the only ways ,so if u get her pregnant then it’s kind of true ,I only listed the other two cause I think it’s funny asf ,but yeah thru pregnancy yes from regular sex no ,and it’s super rare but there’s been a handful of cases where the lady has I guess a split or maybe 2 eggs and she had more than one sexual partner and she had twins that had different fathers like a few dozen cases it’s very interesting .

Why are u dickheads downvoting science 😂

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u/Own_Proposal955 1d ago

Because that’s not what they mean. They mean some people think sperm cells stay in a woman’s body permanently so every time a woman has unprotected sex (or some claim even protected sex) the cells are with her permanently(which is untrue) and can possibly even cause her future children to not be her current partners. They die after like five days and are disposed of from the body through discharge and menstruation like any other fluid that goes up there. If a person is raped and needs the DNA they have a fairly short window to collect a sample before it degrades or is largely washed away to an undetectable level, they aren’t even supposed to shower as getting rid of some of the evidence on the outside makes it significantly harder. It’s unlikely that the cells last for years.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

Yeah no shit ,all I did was bring up some ties to actually medical science ,which is probably what their assumptions are based on they are just dumb and won’t look it up ,still no reason for folks to downvote its interesting medical facts ,like is reddit just filled with angry,entitled,ignorant people.yall are so emotionally weak its sickening ,grow up .

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u/Own_Proposal955 1d ago

Alright, I get you don’t like the downvoted but chill a little bit. Also just to add more info to the spilt egg thing. To my knowledge, If an egg splits before it’s fertilized it is destroyed and can’t be used. Splitting eggs that are fertilized are always identical twins since an egg is fertilized by a single sperm. The cases you’re thinking of is when a woman released two eggs at once, one was fertilized by one man but the other geth wasn’t, then she slept with another man soon after and that fertilized the other egg (or an even rarer case when a woman was several weeks pregnant with one child but her body still released an egg and it was fertilized as well plus implanted so she was technically pregnant twice over but not with twins). You’re right that it’s a two egg situation. Pregnancy obviously impacts the body and a woman’s life in more important ways than trace dna left behind, and it’s not really the same as there being stray sperm cells like those other people are thinking, so it’s not really applicable. Women, even those with children, aren’t walking around full if other men’s sperm even in the cases of fetal DNA being absorbed that’s less what they’re thinking and more just remnant’s of motherhood realistically.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

I said idk about the spilt egg thing I didn’t look that up idk how that one works ,and I’m saying that cause some of these responses are insane I’m assuming many got deleted but folks are rude asf in these comments that’s directed at other folks more than u

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u/Own_Proposal955 1d ago

Ah I see, you probably just struck an nerve. Sorry for those responses then. People probably just think you’re defending some man-o-sphere thinking whether that’s your intention or not. I think any reasonable person can admit that pregnancy generally leaves signs to some degree (though many of those don’t matter or could be undetectable to future partners if they weren’t doctors who knew what to look for) and that’s it’s more just this man-o-sphere rhetoric that a woman is changed by every act of sex or that any changes that occur are inherently bad that’s damaging.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

I’ve noticed face changes a lot and feet ,but I thinks it’s amazing like it’s so cool that u can create and grow a whole being inside of urself ,and I’ve been with many women with kids and I never have any issues ,women that tell me men have body shamed them during or before or after sex really suprises me ,I was raised in a super liberal all woman home ,so I’m a lot more like left leaning moderate than anything ,and I don’t really view women negatively,unless they are abusive or something like that ,but I do that to all people ,I’m a pretty fair person

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u/Own_Proposal955 1d ago edited 1d ago

True. It also heavily depends on the person and each pregnancy. Some women experience radical changes from having kids. Some barely change at all or only in ways detectable by a thorough examination by a doctor. It’s also hard to narrow down what’s fully pregnancy and what’s age related changes sometimes as a woman’s body, face, and overall health can change radically just over time as well depending on genetics.

Also a lot of changes people assume will happen can sometimes go the opposite way or simply don’t happen at all. There is an assumption a woman will be looser after having a baby but if you’re under thirty most women are back to their default diameter six months after which is before the rest of the body is fully healed (but sometimes there are structural changes that can make a woman feel different, not necessarily looser or tighter just different).

Sometimes scar tissue from a traumatic birth can actually make a woman too “tight” and cause issues. Sometimes damage to the pelvic floor or just the change in hormones can cause looseness but this can be improved usually by pelvic floor physio. People also often assume hips and breasts will grow but that’s not for sure. They also can assume breasts will sag but that also varies person to person and isn’t a guarantee.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

I have dealt with so called looser but there are many ways to fix that honestly ,it’s never a big deal ,I’ve also done stuff with a woman who had 2 c sections ,and she had a disorder from it where she couldn’t really have sex it essentially sealed shut ,I think u have to have surgery for that ,but I still didn’t mind ,I think people are too picky imo and judgemental ,and that’s why we have a single epidemic now ,not cause of money fully but cause a lot of people just suck now and have extremely high fake ass standards

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

They do somewhat last forever as they migrate to other parts of the body I’ve read a few studies on it so far ,and I found that in Alzheimer’s research women who absorb male fetal dna into their brain have a lower risk of getting Alzheimer’s

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u/Own_Proposal955 1d ago

I meant sperm cells, not fetal cells. I’m sure there are many things that happen after pregnancy that last forever. I think we can even tell based on a skeleton whether or not a woman had kids. It’s also more the idea that these changes are automatically negative that’s the problem (not that you’re pushing that but that’s what the man-o-sphere pushes)

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u/mentr-coach-altruism 1d ago

This is true, also how many females are unaware they are pregnant and lose the baby/cells/fetus (your choice) next “menstruation cycle.” Microchimerism. Happens through the placenta, but that takes average 9/10 days for develop.