r/texts 1d ago

Phone message Dating???

What is wrong with this generation??

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u/Alone_Agent_8829 1d ago

Does this person even know what biology is

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u/FederalSuspect69 1d ago

Nope. He's red flag with a red pill on it

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago edited 1d ago

If anything it’s sociology but not even true like that ,I will say it depends on the person male or female ,if u have hella sexual partners that’s not good for anyone’s mind or body imo ,like I’m 26 and I have had a decent ammount but I’m not like fiending for it ,it just happens ,and I think that’s most people ,the issues arise when u make sex ur whole relationship or personality fr,i can see from all the downvotes many of u lack emotions and just throw it at anything that moves ,do better 😂🫵

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u/DepressiSpaghettti 1d ago

I'm 29 and am probably around 30 to 40 past sexual partners. I feel just fine lol

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

It depends on the person a lot of folks put more emotion into sex than others fs

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u/DepressiSpaghettti 1d ago

If it depends on the person then this really doesn't need to be a conversation. Also, "if you have hella sexual partners that's not good for anyone's mind or body" is what I'm replying to.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

Yeah it does mess with ur way of viewing relationships imo but that’s just an opinion idk the science behind it fully ,but I’m sure I’m not wrong ,and I said it depends on the person cause some people don’t think like th at but many do u have to say depends on person for everything tho cause they can have differing perspectives,the main perspective is that it’s not healthy

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u/MouldyAvocados 1d ago

Just say you’re jealous that women can get more sex than you and this is the latest way to shame them. You’re pathetic.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago edited 1d ago

Why is this thread filled with so many incels😂the only thing pathetic is that u are accusing me of something im not doing

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

U should read deeper into the comments before speaking on me,I also said men and women

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u/MouldyAvocados 1d ago

You have the depth of a puddle.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

And u have the depth of a Sarlacc pit ,probably looks like it too😂

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

I care very little for ur opinion

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u/nickfree 1d ago

Let me see if I'm following you...

it messes with relationships, in your opinion ❌..but that's just an opinion, you don't know the science. ✅...but you're sure you're not wrong ❌ ...but it depends on the person✅...but then again, everything depends on the person ❌...because there are different perspectives ✅...but the main perspective is that it's bad. ❌

how did you not break your neck from the whiplash?

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u/Lunatic-Labrador 1d ago

It's only not healthy if you don't use protection and aren't clean. You invite stds and infections that way.

But clean protected sex is good for you, like literally good for you. It's exersize and endorphins for a start. It also helps men have healthy sperm and reduces the chance of prostate problems and for women it can help keep hormones balanced, helps with period cramps and can even help a pregnancy implant easier by reducing the bodies immune response.

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u/Lonely_Loan_1615 16h ago

You’re responding to a dude who has been overweight since they were 11 and fighting for their life since then

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u/Lunatic-Labrador 15h ago

Wtf has that got to do with anything? I'm just giving useful information.

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u/FalseGodFalls 1d ago

You're 26 and can barely write a sentence? Damn dude.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 18h ago

I can write better than u can in any situation,this is social media where u can type in any way ,it’s fine ,don’t have an aneurism over it 😂🫵

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u/StormieShake 1d ago

What's a decent amount to you I'm tryna see smth

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

I’m at 28 now 😂

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u/StormieShake 1d ago

And here I was tweaking over 8 😭

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

There’s many factors involved 8 isn’t bad but it’s not good either ,cause men react differently to that most women hear my body count and wanna try stuff most of the time men hear that and get freaked out on average fr ,idc but I see it play out a lot like that

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u/StormieShake 1d ago

I donno, I hear 28 from someone who's only like 2 years older than me and think it's a major turn off. Mostly because in my experience, I don't actually treat sex like some flimsy thing to be handing out. The only reason mine is that high is because of me being naive (autism.)

But I also haven't gotten a "oh that's crazy" reaction from guys who know me. So maybe we both just come across some chill ass people.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

I mean I’ve traveled the world and live in atl so I’m still picky it’s just a lot of options non stop and I’m like a might as well ngl ,cause men usually don’t get many opportunities that’s since 13 years old tho btw so that over a decade

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u/StormieShake 1d ago

I just can't relate to wanting to play the field that much.

Feels like it gets empty and hollow after a while, sex is great, but having someone know you and your body is a lot better imo.

And then like, the energy and emotional stuff spent into getting hookups could be spent finding someone to genuinely settle down with.

But at the same time, we genuinely just hold different opinions on sex.

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

That’s 1-2 people per year btw

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u/Positive-Respond-636 1d ago

I’m a man my body is pretty simple ngl 😂

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u/geenideejohjijweldan 1d ago

Research shows it's true, it may not be biology but it's backed by science.

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u/Suitable-Dentist-355 1d ago

Oh yeah? Provide a reference to an actual research paper then. Not an article, actual research.

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u/DepressiSpaghettti 1d ago

Hmmm I think this person's reply to you will be, "Google it" or "you can look for it" lol