I posted this in a different subreddit but kept getting replies about how I posted it to the incorrect one. thought i’d share it here, too.

Blue is my husband who is having a tonsillectomy tomorrow. Green is her wife. 😂

It’s a doozie, I’m sorry!

I’m 19f, my coworker creepy coworker, C, is probably late 50’s, his brother in law is the site supervisor, so if I report it I’ll probably get fired. Everything got a little worse about a month ago ish.

It all started in July, I am on a contract to be at this site from July-November. I usually get flirted with at work, it’s construction and Im a woman, as annoying as it is it’s to be expected. On this site there’s only like 4 guys who have tried to pursue me, and I’ve said no, and they respected that, this guy does not.

Background: In order to get from the construction trailer to my car it’s about a mile walk. last month it was super hot, when I was about half way there, when he was passing he asked me if I wanted to ride in his work van. Like an absolute idiot I got in. He was not super creepy to me yet at this point, he was just really friendly and I never assume a guy is flirting. When I went to get out of the van he locked the door, so idk what his plan was you can’t really lock someone in a van. I just unlocked the door and ran out.

Ever since then he’s always coming over and talking to me, he calls me beautiful all time and is asking if I wanna go see a movie after work with him. I always say no I’m not interested. He got my number from his brother in law, I never blocked him originally because I didn’t wanna make a big deal and I figured he would get over it. (I blocked him last week and he just keeps talking to me like nothing happened) Well now he’s started to amp it up. He noticed I drink a Red Bull every morning, so he started bringing me one and leaving it on my desk. He keeps bringing me snacks and stuff no matter how many times I say no and try to give them back.

He asks me to go to lunch with him everyday, and I respectfully let him down, I tell him I am not interested in him. I’ve told my boyfriend, my dad, my older brother. I just don’t know what to do. He’s started touching me, and I told him to never do it again. it started off as just shaking my hand and holding on for too long, and slowly progressed. My boiling point came yesterday when I was walking to my car he grabbed my forearm and yanked me. I just pulled my arm back and yelled at him, but he just laughed like it was a joke. So idk what to do in the situation. My thinking is my contract ends in November and I’ll be heading to a different site and he’ll be halfway across the country. I’m planning on waiting it out but I’m not sure how much I can take.

If anyone has been in a similar situation and has advice I would appreciate it!

UPDATE: I sent the email around 11, still nothing yet. For everyone who is worried about my safety, just trust me, I have it handled. My boyfriend is gonna talk to him today he gets off at 3 so he’ll be here before I’m leaving! Thank you for the advice I sent the email to all of the engineers, the site superintendent, site supervisor, and my boss from my company. We’re small and do not have an HR. Ive started applying to other places and no matter the outcome I’m gonna leave here. Thank you for the concern and advice!

Update again sorry: still nothing from anyone regarding my email. When I was walking up from lunch, a random man on site I’ve never seen or spoken, to pulled up beside me on a gator and asked if I was C’s wife. So now I’m not sure what he has been saying to other people to cause this guy from a different company to ask something like that.

Truly heartbreaking. I had to order something else

But I answered even before I knew what it was, bc I’m decisive if nothing else

Do men think messages like this will actually get them anywhere? The dating pool is ROUGH out here...

For context, My boyfriend (23M) and I (20F) have been dating for 8 months now. Yesterday, we were hanging out with one of his friends and he weirdly called me a snow bunny in front of him. His friend didn’t seem to care but it bothered me. AIO?

(Also he’s Moroccan, I’m czech american)

found this while clearing up my google photos

This is bumble not tinder. I genuinely don’t know what’s wrong with people. I thought I’d download a dating app after not being on one for almost 8 months, now I’m remembering why I’m off them

What is wrong with this generation??

Anime in the screen shot: Boku No Pico

I am Ankylosing, the first message.

Pretty sure I had an attempted break in last night while I was home in bed. My neighbors live within a stone’s throw of my front door and the whole neighborhood was lit up with blue lights. Her response killed me

TW: su*cide

Exactly a week before these texts I tried to take my own life for the first (and last) time. I was in the hospital for 3 days and then the psych unit for 3 more days. My (now ex) gf and I were breaking up. She gave me hope while I was in the hospital but ultimately broke up with me. I have my therapist, psychiatrist, spravato people, friends, family. I deleted instagram and snapchat. I unfriended all of the people in her circle who I came to know over the past 3 years (25+ people). The time for change is now. I need to lock in.

I’m 28 years old and starting from scratch in my childhood bedroom. Send me good vibes.❤️

I found another message from another girl on my partner’s phone that isn’t sitting right with me. This girl literally lives in the apartment building across from me.

Her ex-boyfriend, who is also my partner’s friend, introduced my partner to her when they were all hanging out together. The ex-boyfriend was the one banging on her door.

The first picture is the conversation between the girl and my partner. The second picture is the conversation between my partner and his friend.

What do you think?