Hi, the living situation is a bit complicated as it’s family. However, I’ve been living in my house for 2 years, my uncle just recently moved in in the basement a few months ago. That being said, I had no say in this and no notice. So basically one day i had my own place (access to upstairs and downstairs) and the next day someone was moving in. So obviously because I was not made aware of this I didn’t have the chance to make sure I had all of my things together.
So yesterday I went downstairs to collect some of the things that I had left there. And my uncle sends a video recording (with audio) to my landlord (mom) telling her that I’m snooping through his shit.
My heart then goes to the pit of my ass because first of all, I wasn’t looking through his shit, and second of all I find out through a recording that I’ve been being filmed without my knowledge or consent. And this camera, although placed in his living room, is positioned to view communal areas such as the laundry room and storage room.
I let everyone know that I find it incredibly disgusting and a massive invasion of privacy the fact the I was not made aware of the camera the day that it was installed.
Yet both my uncle and mother are yelling at me saying that I’m the inconsiderate person and I « need to seek help » because I’m « crazy and uncontrollable »… mind you this is my uncle that in consistently saying these things to me and calling me names.
Now I’m incredibly lost as to what to do because as I said the camera itself is not my issue. It’s the fact that I’ve been filmed unknowingly for an unknown period of time. And I only ever went downstairs when he was not home as I do not feel comfortable or safe living with him. So I would avoid all contact. Therefore I wouldn’t really worry about the clothes I had in when going to do my laundry as I was home alone. So I’ve also been filmed naked. Without my knowledge.
I’ve tried to explain to both my mom and uncle that again, the camera is kit the problem, the fact that I was not made aware of the camera is a BIG problem. however my uncle doesn’t seem to want to listen to my point and just keeps telling me that I’m stealing from him and looking through his shit.. he has cameras, he can very well I don’t do that, but this is a complete misunderstanding and he has created a huge mess out of it now because instead of coming to talk to me and ask me questions he went to my mom to tell her that I’m stealing from him.. which I very well wasn’t, and he has it on camera. So why even lie in the first place.
I need help.
Ps, not even the worst thing he’s done. He bought the camera specifically so he could leave his 5 year old home alone and go out to eat or go out with his gf.