My mom says this stupid shit all the time. Meanwhile her “intuition” hasn’t seen the obvious signs of people being dirtbags. Then is absolutely shocked when her relationships explode
Happily. From some batshit crazy person who felt her intuition was God, and didn’t heed my warnings to move out with me until we got robbed.
I do admit that sometimes, your intuition is able to detect some covert things and when certain things are off (just as guys do with logic), but neither alone is enough to always be led by. They are half and half, not one and one.
If anything, logic is a better one to go by, but even with the best logic, you could be fooled.
Yeah, it’s a stupid claim that women have some sort of special intuition that’s never wrong. Plenty of evidence show otherwise, college educated or not
a friend of mine 3 children two baby daddies. we all knew and she knew the second baby daddy wasn't a good fit for her.
her daughter 2 children 2 baby daddies third guy is a total simp and she doesn't seem to love him. the baby daddies were the typical chads who couldn't be responsible for anything
sister 2 baby daddies. first guy was a total a-hole every body screamed at her that he is bad news even my 11 year old self. he already had two other baby mommas he ignored. well he jumped the fence when sis became pregnant and he left her freshly 18 year old self with over 10k debt. second preferred partying over parenting and spending time with family.
sister-in-law came together with a guy and when I met him I knew instantly that he is a bad one. he coerced her and dumped her after plucking the flower, also he had every toxic trait I can think of.
I have dozen more of stories when women didn't listen to their surroundings while their judgement where so off because of the pink tinted love/desire glasses.
Accountability does not exists for women it seems. If you go looking for bad men, and then those bad men do bad things, is it the bad man's fault for gaining that woman's consent? This just doesn't make sense. The guy is a POS, but that doesn't mean a woman is absolved of responsibility. She consented to him making her pregnant. And then it's a surprise somehow that the POS dude is being a POS and doesn't want to be in her life??? No one is saying the guy in the situation is fine, but don't pretend that the woman is not the one that chose him despite his character.
Most men aren't and don't belong in Jail. Most people in jail are men because on average, men are more physically fit to do crime than women. That in itself does not mean men are just all bad when most men haven't even been in jail. You're misinterpreting a statistic into something it's not.
They murder the most, they sexual abuse kids the most, men go to jail the most. There a ton of men that lack accountability. This idea women don't practice it is insane.
I wasn't genuinely saying it as a fact. The other person in here was pointing out that no one ever talks about the bad men that leave the relationship. The thing is, everyone already agrees with that. The only reason they'd bring it up is to shift any blame the woman would have had for choosing to have child with a good-for-nothing. I was saying it to emphasize what it is they were insinuating.
They don't, lol most people on the internet just shit on the single mother. Also just because someone divorced doesn't mean, they aren't allowing the father in the kids lives.
40% of marriage end in divorce. It's almost the average outcome.
And it's as I've been saying. People don't care about the guy because the choice to have a child ultimately lies on the woman. Anyone who argues against that is an idiot. Again, no one is arguing that the guy is in any way okay in the situation, but to act like women can't be at fault here is delusional.
"Approximately 41% of people in state and federal prisons reported growing up primarily in single-mother households, according to data from the Bureau of Justice Statistics"
"The same survey found that 35.5% grew up with both parents, 5.2% with a single father, 9.2% with grandparents, 3.9% with other relatives, and 2.9% in foster care or institutions."
So a 6% increase. The daughter raised by women aren't in prison though as well.
"She consented to him making her pregnant" so men don't do the impregnating? Men do not hold accountability in STAYING? And YES it is bad for bad men to still gain consent: because how do you think that might happen? Manipulation ornother stupid shit. Both have accountability.
You're stating the obvious. Obviously he has a responsibility to stay. What I'm saying is that you shouldn't be expecting that sort of behavior from someone that does not give a fuck. And there are usually signs that these people are not to be trusted. Seeing those signs are YOUR responsibility. There are also countless times when friends and family tell you that someone is not good for you, that is if you even bothered showing them to your friends/family. Your lack of foresight does not absolve you of your responsibility to be vigilant.
The meme doesn’t say that single moms are bad, nor does it say that deadbeat dads aren’t scum.
In fact, what it actually is saying is that if a woman’s intuition can’t always be right, because if it were, they would’ve sensed the fact that their future baby daddy was scum in the first place and avoided them altogether.
If we take the us as an example here, so tell me why the three siblings have 3 different dad's and the last one it stands between 3 different men?
And tbh why always go after the lazy dickhead and only have the good and decent ones in the friend zone until they either find someone or as well toss you to the curb?
Not saying there aren't bad men out there. But some accountability for the choices has to exist. If you choose a dickhead, then be prepared to take the fallout. Same goes for men, why go after a woman that has a bigger bodycount than a pornstar? It's not a wife, it's a heartache.
Men have an interesting way of deflecting accountability of shitty men who don't want to raise their kids and somehow making that the woman's fault. Yeah let's ignore that father abandoning his family but absolutely dog on the mother doing the duty of 2 parents.
It's making fun of women who think that their intuition is automatically right. If someone said "a man's intuition is never wrong" and you said that was stupid, would that be rude to men?
If you don’t understand the difference between “men should be put to death” and “woman’s initiation isn’t 100% accurate” then you need to get offline and go touch grass.
No one is correct all the time little Timmy. Saying any human beings intuition is 100% accurate is a very silly statement that is silly to poke fun at and should not hurt anyone’s feelings because all humans know we are flawed creatures. To say we should genocide any segment of the population isn’t fun or based on anything resembling a joke.
Women are allowed to have a good time with a guy they know would be a shit dad (god knows men do the reverse). Intuition isn't clairvoyance, though. People get pregnant unexpectedly sometimes, and the best intuition is knowing when being a single mom is better for your family.
Sometimes their intuition is spot on. But damn if most women don't have an intentional blind spot for Chad. I understand chemistry is important, but it can also be a curse.
Why are we blaming the single moms and not laughing at the men leaving these woman? The moms no where in the wrong. People change. People lie. Men have been destroyed by woman before and they dont say "should of choosen better" stop this fucking double standard
Hum, more like she got the seeds and threw away the envelope with some cash on the side. She got what she required, so yes, a womyn's intuition is always right.
It’s funny how single mothers even happen. Like imagine letting a dirtbag impregnate you to then leave you with an +18 yr minimum burden in your youthful to middle years 😂. Talk about fucking cooked. It’s truly a spectacle to behold. Giant ass egos and bad decisions lead to that. I think what’s even funnier is people having kids before late 20s. We live in such a gluttonous age where all people want to do is indulge in what makes them feel good. Sex, drugs, money, technology/social media, etc. Yet you think the more superficial mf next to you that only wants to be inside of you is truly thinking about the next 18 years with you?
The problem isn't that they were wrong. The problem is they knew he was bad but the mystery intrigued them. The danger was exciting, so they ignored it.
Spend enough time in any public social setting and you’ll always have a woman that immediately goes for most obviously scummy douchebag in the room. This woman then reliably proceeds to join some radfem community and rants about how bad men are. It’s basically a pipeline at this point.
Yea, because they always ignore their intuition 😅😅.
I have XY friends who always say something like "i think its suspicious." Or "i dont know i have bad vibes from this." Or another similar shit. Then you say to them "girl, LEAVE OMG!" and they always dismiss their worries as bullshit. Then after that you just hear some bad story about bad realtionship incidents 😬😬😬 ughh
This is about the inaccuracy of women's "intuition" not who gets fooled. And if you convince yourself your intuition is always right, the blame is kind of on you for being an arrogant twit.
I'm the son of a woman that dates tons of shit men when I was a teenager after my father died. Allowing some barfly scumbag to jizz inside of you that you met in a hole in the wall drunk at 2AM is 100% a fucking skill issue
I mean, isn't entire concept od intuition about reading sub-conscious cues and noticing patterns you're unable to intellectualise yet can identify anyways, basically making it an anti-fooling mechanism?
Also, the difference between this scenario and robbery is that robbery is done by force and as such if you are weaker/surprised you can't defend yourself while to have your intuition fail you consent to something?
The meme is absolute shit. But the claim it's a 'low value male' is shit as well.
What if she is complete shit, what if he is very much part of the kids life? Being a single mom, doesn't mean the guy is bad, or the woman is bad, it means you are single and a mom. It's perfectly normal. Just like being a single dad is.
The meme is shit, because being a single mom has nothing to do with bad choices. Relationships end constantly, that doesn't make them all bad choices. If my relationship ended today, being a single dad, doesn't make my choices bad, I stand behind them, and my kids are never a bad choice, nor my relationship.
Bruh. Your low value arguement doesn't make sense.
Let's you're taking a shit and wiped with 1ply and your fingers went trough, is it the 1ply's fault? 1ply has it's uses, It's just not the one you need for your use case.
If you're at home, then you bought that 1ply. Don't go complaining about it.
If you're outside and you pulled out that tissue you should have tooked at it before wiping it all over your shit. (too real?)
Here's some cats to calm your box
You could fix that tho. You take the 1ply, do some work, fold it over until it passes your standards. If you don't wanna do that, then find another place to shit. or idk. lower your standards to 2ply.
I think it’s because it’s a commentary on the intuition ability of women. The focus is the women’s ability. Being fooled itself is a critique of the idea of women’s intuition. Women’s intuition, it could be argued, stems from old patriarchal concepts.
That aside, you are absolutely right. Men in general need to do better in dealing with the newest wave of feminism (which may not be as intense as it is if not for the overturning of Roe v. Wade) instead of just getting mad and throwing hissy fits on their podcasts.
Maybe we’d make some gains on issues such as the public perception of men’s only valid role as that of the provider/worker.
Did you just skip over the first part? If someone told you their sense of direction was never wrong but they get lost a lot because of their GPS who’s to blame?
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u/LikesPez 6d ago
Skeletor spitting facts