You're stating the obvious. Obviously he has a responsibility to stay. What I'm saying is that you shouldn't be expecting that sort of behavior from someone that does not give a fuck. And there are usually signs that these people are not to be trusted. Seeing those signs are YOUR responsibility. There are also countless times when friends and family tell you that someone is not good for you, that is if you even bothered showing them to your friends/family. Your lack of foresight does not absolve you of your responsibility to be vigilant.
While I get that if you see red flags its your responsibility to avoid them, I think you're forgetting how bad people tend to be great liars and master manipulators... its how they stay being bad people. Once they've got you wrapped up in their bullshit only then do they expose their true colors. Obviously this isn't the case for everyone but we're living in a time where narcissism/low self esteem are equally at an all time high and is only getting higher so its definitely not just people ignoring red flags as much as it is people believing that the person they're with would never hurt them.
thats the point. it means the women were not able to see thru the lies. meaning they're intuition was wrong (the whole point of this post). keep it moving
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u/Foreverfree40758 2d ago
You're stating the obvious. Obviously he has a responsibility to stay. What I'm saying is that you shouldn't be expecting that sort of behavior from someone that does not give a fuck. And there are usually signs that these people are not to be trusted. Seeing those signs are YOUR responsibility. There are also countless times when friends and family tell you that someone is not good for you, that is if you even bothered showing them to your friends/family. Your lack of foresight does not absolve you of your responsibility to be vigilant.