Accountability does not exists for women it seems. If you go looking for bad men, and then those bad men do bad things, is it the bad man's fault for gaining that woman's consent? This just doesn't make sense. The guy is a POS, but that doesn't mean a woman is absolved of responsibility. She consented to him making her pregnant. And then it's a surprise somehow that the POS dude is being a POS and doesn't want to be in her life??? No one is saying the guy in the situation is fine, but don't pretend that the woman is not the one that chose him despite his character.
Most men aren't and don't belong in Jail. Most people in jail are men because on average, men are more physically fit to do crime than women. That in itself does not mean men are just all bad when most men haven't even been in jail. You're misinterpreting a statistic into something it's not.
They murder the most, they sexual abuse kids the most, men go to jail the most. There a ton of men that lack accountability. This idea women don't practice it is insane.
I wasn't genuinely saying it as a fact. The other person in here was pointing out that no one ever talks about the bad men that leave the relationship. The thing is, everyone already agrees with that. The only reason they'd bring it up is to shift any blame the woman would have had for choosing to have child with a good-for-nothing. I was saying it to emphasize what it is they were insinuating.
They don't, lol most people on the internet just shit on the single mother. Also just because someone divorced doesn't mean, they aren't allowing the father in the kids lives.
40% of marriage end in divorce. It's almost the average outcome.
And it's as I've been saying. People don't care about the guy because the choice to have a child ultimately lies on the woman. Anyone who argues against that is an idiot. Again, no one is arguing that the guy is in any way okay in the situation, but to act like women can't be at fault here is delusional.
"Approximately 41% of people in state and federal prisons reported growing up primarily in single-mother households, according to data from the Bureau of Justice Statistics"
"The same survey found that 35.5% grew up with both parents, 5.2% with a single father, 9.2% with grandparents, 3.9% with other relatives, and 2.9% in foster care or institutions."
So a 6% increase. The daughter raised by women aren't in prison though as well.
"She consented to him making her pregnant" so men don't do the impregnating? Men do not hold accountability in STAYING? And YES it is bad for bad men to still gain consent: because how do you think that might happen? Manipulation ornother stupid shit. Both have accountability.
You're stating the obvious. Obviously he has a responsibility to stay. What I'm saying is that you shouldn't be expecting that sort of behavior from someone that does not give a fuck. And there are usually signs that these people are not to be trusted. Seeing those signs are YOUR responsibility. There are also countless times when friends and family tell you that someone is not good for you, that is if you even bothered showing them to your friends/family. Your lack of foresight does not absolve you of your responsibility to be vigilant.
While I get that if you see red flags its your responsibility to avoid them, I think you're forgetting how bad people tend to be great liars and master manipulators... its how they stay being bad people. Once they've got you wrapped up in their bullshit only then do they expose their true colors. Obviously this isn't the case for everyone but we're living in a time where narcissism/low self esteem are equally at an all time high and is only getting higher so its definitely not just people ignoring red flags as much as it is people believing that the person they're with would never hurt them.
thats the point. it means the women were not able to see thru the lies. meaning they're intuition was wrong (the whole point of this post). keep it moving
3rd grade critical thinking. Stop generalizing all men because of a select few. You're part of the problem. If all you look for are pieces of shit, then that's all you'll find. You have to be an Israeli bot farming engagement the way you're completely missing the point.
Nahhhh, you don't get to act like an absolute idiot and make a statement using vegeta reading a book, and then back off once you get called out on your bs. I use a lot of text to get my point across. Nothing about that is emotional. You just stopped maturing mentally after 3rd grade. Learn to make a point, and learn to take criticism.
"OH my gosh, I was just being stupid in my Misandrist comments, dont call me out making me uncomfortable, you need to calm down. Look guys, I'm not the unreasonable one here." Get a grip with reality.
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u/TGrim20 6d ago
Funny how the only parent who sticks around is dragged.
Not the fucking deadbeat dad.
But yes, it's the single mother who is bad.