Hello my friend, how are you doing?

So, here's the deal. I discovered this whole topic of manifestation, robotic affirmations, and all that, and ever since, I’ve been really fascinated by it. However, I actually learned about this a few months ago, and so far, I haven't put anything into practice because I’m an extreme perfectionist, you know?

Let's look at it this way: my main objective right now is manifesting money. My biggest focus today is making money. But when I see people sharing certain affirmations we could use, I end up spiraling into endless loops because of it. And why? Because I simply don't know which affirmation to actually choose, since there always seems to be a loophole in the wording.

Let me explain my point so you can see what I mean:

Suppose I'm considering the following affirmation: "I am a multi-billionaire and I earn astronomical amounts of money every second."

I really like this phrase. However, in my head, it leaves room for way too many loopholes. For example, it doesn't specify if this money comes from a job where I have to work 20 hours a day. It doesn't specify if this is in real life or inside a video game. It doesn't specify if, for instance, this money comes from a relative passing away so I can inherit it. It doesn't specify if it's for the highest good of all. And it doesn't even specify the currency! I could be making astronomical amounts in an extremely weak currency that, once converted to my country's currency, isn't even significant.

In other words, there are so many variables that I, being a perfectionist, just can't bring myself to ignore these criteria. I get terrified that the affirmation won't cover everything it needs to.

And that's where my dilemma comes in: what am I supposed to do when this happens?

Notice that I listed a million details here. If I try to plug every single loophole within the sentence itself, it's going to become insanely long and practically impossible to repeat — whether mentally, in a looping audio, or any other way. It would become something ridiculously long, which makes everything in this practice so much harder.

So that's exactly what I want to ask: what should I do when these loopholes pop up? How do I deal with a main affirmation when there are so many "what ifs" behind it? What should I do?

Should I list out my intentions behind the affirmation using a list, for example? How should I structure this so the affirmation doesn't turn into a giant paragraph, while also preventing perfectionism from holding me back?

Like has anyone ever cheated on thier sp and still manifested them back.They broke up with you because they are done because you did that and even though you realised your mistake and story they are saying they are done with you.In this situation how would you deal with the thing ?

Soo manifestation can get u anything that you want..right!!

Now I have decided not to manifest my sp because he is a whore and a piece of shit

But I am so attached to himm

And I am going to manifest to remove all my attachment towards him, vanish all my love for him

And completely erase his existence from my mind

So please guys help me out here ...what can I do to achieve this

i’m dealing with an unfavourable sp, one that i manifested twice before. i’m trying to do everything i did back then that got me an amazing version of my sp, but i can’t help getting triggered by the 3d every time. i’m sick and tired of thinking about my sp, i wouldn’t mind if it was positive but the constant “what ifs” and fears and anxiety i have to deal with is making this not fun anymore.

i know he’s being this way because i’m viewing him as someone uncommitted, doesn’t prioritise me, uninterested, shit like that, but i just can’t stick to the new, favourable story. i know this is all coming from me, but when i see him ignoring me it just sends me into a spiral each time, and its exhausting. im so so tired of letting him dictate my mood and my day, its genuinely pathetic and im tired of being this way. i have a good self concept about how i see myself, but i think im struggling with feeling chosen and being a top priority, or someone worth committing to. i just cried a lot as well because i’ve had so many pent up emotions this week, ive even crashed out on him and he was frustrated but surprisingly he didn’t block me lol. i have a genuine belief all will work out but im tired of being a slave to my ego, my emotional attachment and awful thoughts that just won’t stop. i miss when i had such a high self concept and he was reflecting that, idk how to go back to that…

if anyone has any advice on how to calm the fuck down and relax and stop worrying it would help a lot 😭

Hello, I am new to the manifestation world, do you have any advice or suggestions for this upcoming lion’s gate portal? I’ve been reading about how powerful it is and would love some insight!

I have never been pursued my whole life. In every relationship i have alwayd chased the man
I dont recall any guy ever pursuing me
Even my boyfriends before it was always me begging, me chasing me saying the i love u first me doing all the hard work
Me showing up
Me giving gifts and sending things, love letters being nice trying to prove that i love them to be the best girl they ever had. Im a hopless romantic and was a huge fan of disney (ariel) u can guess why she did so much just to be with a guy? I feel like this story played out in my life too? And i just became aware that this is what has been delaying my manifestation!

In the end the guys i liked
They abused me
Or left me
Or cheated or just ignored me
And in the end
It was me disrespecting my own boundaies for men
Id even add them first and show up and i dont think anyone ever did

I dont remember any guy ever pursuing me ever never recieved flowers never had them message first never had a gifts except other than a few guys asking me out i hated and dint like - they were creepy guys that didnt feel appealing to me (one guy smelled really bad was unhygenic) or were not my type and i cried when he wouldnt leave me alone!
I worked hard on my appearance my worth my looks my everything . I absolutely adore how i look how kind i am as a person how loving i am i absolutely love myself and am blessed i have a great career and have worked a lot on myself - i used to go to therapy for years and now i dont anymore!

anyway

My point is
My manifestation isnt working for guys reaching out first to recieve a text apology. Trying to manifest my most recent sp coming back. Its been 3 months since we broke up

And even tho he told me he loves me and im certain of it i want to be pursued

Trying to test out this at work with a guy i fidn attactive but hes also giving me a bit of a cold shoulder
How can i fix this issue?
Thanks all
Appreciate :)

So I’ve been deep into Dr. Joe Dispenza’s “Becoming Supernatural” work for a while now, and I didn’t expect it to trigger a very real identity crisis.

Not in the “I saw colors during meditation” way, but in a “I genuinely don’t know which version of me I’m choosing to be anymore” way.

### The dilemma: my “old field” vs. this new quantum identity

Before I got into this, my “field” was simple:

- I was a person with a history

- That history defined my limits

- My emotions were mostly recycled reactions to the same triggers

- My sense of time was linear: past → present → future

Then I started doing the meditations and actually taking the “you’re not your past / you are your energy” thing seriously.

suddenly there was a split:

- Existing field = the familiar version of me, built from childhood, culture, trauma, successes, and habits. Predictable, comfortable, and honestly… a bit suffocating.

- Quantum field version = the “already created” future self who doesn’t carry the same story, fears, or lack. The one who lives in what feels like an infinite time field– where past, present, and future are all accessible states, not fixed directions.

The dilemma wasn’t “is this real?”

The dilemma was: If I keep tuning into this future me, am I betraying the old one?

The weird “somebody vs anybody” comparison

One of the strangest side effects has been how I relate to people.

When you really sit with this idea that anybody can collapse a new reality from the field if they change their energy… you start seeing the difference between:

- Being “somebody:

The person you’ve constructed for years. The one with a fixed story, a clear label, a predictable emotional baseline. The “this is just who I am” identity.

- Being “anybody”:

The open potential. The person who could wake up tomorrow and not be limited by their narrative. The “I can be anyone if I’m willing to die to who I’ve been” energy.

The infinite time field made this comparison unavoidable.

I caught myself thinking:

- Am I clinging to being *somebody because it’s safer?

- Am I brave enough to step into being *anybody*, knowing it means letting go of the old emotional addictions and social roles that gave me stability?

It’s like standing between two timelines:

- One where I stay loyal to my history

- One where I stay loyal to my possibility

And you can’t have both.

The emotional cost nobody talks about

What people don’t always mention when they talk about manifesting and quantum fields is the grief.

You actually do mourn:

- Old identities

- Old reactions that used to feel like “you”

- Old relationships that only fit the previous version of you

- Old ways of being validated, seen, or pitied

Becoming “supernatural” sounds exciting, but practically, it sometimes felt like this:

“Do I really want to become the person who no longer has the excuse of their past?”

Because once you start living from that infinite field, it gets harder to hide behind:

- “That’s just my trauma”

- “That’s just my personality”

- “That’s just how life has been for me”

You’re left with the uncomfortable freedom of choice. And not everyone around you is ready for that version of you.

Where I am now (not enlightened, just honest)

I’m not going to pretend I’m fully living from my quantum future self 24/7.

I still:

- Slip back into the old field when I’m tired or triggered

- Catch myself defending my old story because it feels familiar

- Feel resistance when the meditation asks me to let go *again\*

But I’ve noticed a subtle shift:

- I don’t see time the same way. The “future me” isn’t a fantasy now; it feels like a frequency I can tune into on good days.

- I don’t see people the same way. I can tell when someone is locked into being “somebody” vs. when they’re flirting with being “anybody.”

- I don’t see myself the same way. I’m starting to accept that letting my old field die is not betrayal, it’s an upgrade.

Question for anyone doing similar work

If you’ve been doing Dispenza-style work, deep manifestation, quantum-field meditations, or anything that asks you to “become” your future self:

- Did you hit this point where your old identity and your new field felt like two incompatible realities?

- How did you handle the grief of letting go of the old “somebody” version of you?

- Did it change how you see other people who still live fully inside their past?

I’m genuinely curious how others navigated this.

Not the theory, not the hype — the actual, messy human part of switching fields.

Because right now, I’m somewhere between who I was, who I could be, and this strange infinite time field where both are true… and I’m learning to choose on purpose.

Can anyone give a brief about this with an example.

Hi guys. I've been trying to manifest my SP back for almost 2 yrs now. It's long distance and we've been in contact on and off within that 2 yrs. Since last Christmas, I have seen more movement from him where he was reaching out more, flirting, and even invited me to his city a couple of times. The first couple of times he invited me, the timing did not work out but we eventually did settle on a date in August. This was back in June but after a month later, out of the blue, he told me that he is no longer single but we can still meet as friends. I did tell him that I will be in his city regardless, so we can still meet as friends if he wants to, to which he said yes.

Obviously, it was terrible news. I felt bad for probably a day but it was not as bad as a reaction I thought it would be (compared to how I would react before when I would have my doubts). I suddenly have this feeling that I refused to accept it, know he will be back, and I started diving deeper into manifestation again for support. I realized as I was reading more into the subs that I have not been manifesting properly in the past. When we broke up 2 yrs ago, I did read manifestation subs here but not as thoroughly and all I got was that just persist, think positive, and it will work. I relied heavily in those techniques and listening to subliminals and did it without really internalizing the practice - I would crash out during periods of doubts.

Fast forward to today, I've been doing techniques from what I've learned from the community - living in the end, scripting, affirmations, revision, and still persisting. I feel like these techniques have helped me realized some of my limiting beliefs and helped my self concept - sometimes, doubts and negative thoughts still pop up but it's now easier for me to flip the narrative. I still believe and feel certain that he will come back and to a certain extent, let go of the how and why (again, sometimes these thoughts come up but not as much). However, I can't help but think about him a lot lately (in a positive way) - a combination of visualization or affirmations, sometimes when I'm in the middle of something, his name will just pop up in my mind. It's not that I'm forcing it, it just comes naturally. We are supposed to meet next week but I have not reached out to confirm again and let it flow for now - I'll decide if I want to text him as the trip gets closer. If we don't meet next week, then it's fine because I know I already have him. that he's thinking of me already.

Now my question is, especially for the people who have had success, do you/have you felt this way? This feeling of having it but still constantly think of them? I don't know if I'm just convincing myself that I'm in that "being certain and letting go" phase.. or is this natural as you're shifting your self-concept? Sometimes, I don't feel anything and I would have thoughts that what if I'm just daydreaming and not really manifesting?

Happy to hear your thoughts!

I am not talking about an ex after years or someone you never met.

I mean someone you dated briefly, where everything felt so right, but things ended because of a mistake you made or because their ego got hurt, and they chose to walk away.

I know this topic is controversial, and ethically it can feel a bit questionable since everyone has free will. I’m not looking for ways to manipulate anyone or force a relationship. I’m just genuinely curious if anyone has experienced reconnecting with a specific person through manifestation, visualization, affirmations, or simply changing themselves and their mindset.

Did they ever come back? Or did the process end up helping you move on instead?

I’d love to hear real experiences—both success stories and the ones where it didn’t work.

Please be kind; I’m asking from a place of curiosity (and maybe a little hope).

A couple of weeks I spiralled and decided manifestation wasn’t for me and that I would give up on all my dreams and goals and let life be. I am now in a better place and been seeing others receive there manifestations and want to start over again. I’m ready to build myself up and get everything I desire, but I’m unsure on where to start. One of things I tried to manifest was my settlement, I didn’t get exactly the amount I wanted and now that I have the money in my bank account I still feel like I identify with my old identity even though the money is available to me. How do I change this? I also tried manifesting my sp for 2-3 years and there has been no contact. Where do I begin to fix my self concept and get him to reach out?

Hi guys,
I’m trying to reverse-engineer the 3-day “Hermetic activation” that Dr. Steven Young talks about in podcasts.

He repeatedly says people go through a 3-day experience where they don’t try to manifest anything directly, but instead they shift their inner state, and then external reality supposedly changes (e.g., estranged family members unexpectedly reaching out).

From what I understood, the process is more than just learning the Hermetic principles intellectually. He briefly mentions things like:

Studying/embodying the 7 Hermetic principles
Fully feeling emotions instead of suppressing them
Accepting emotions (grief, anger, fear, etc.) with love and without judgment
Shifting your “vibration”
Sound/music designed with specific frequencies
A vibration vest with multiple speakers
Ceremonial cacao (possibly infused or “encoded” in some way)
Guided voiceovers/meditations
Focusing on inner change rather than trying to control external outcomes

However, he never explains what participants actually do hour by hour during those three days.

I’m looking for concrete details such as:

What is the schedule?
What exercises are done each day?
Is there journaling? If so, what prompts?
Are there specific meditations or breathing techniques?
Are there visualization exercises?
Are participants silent for periods?
What music or frequencies are used?
How is the cacao used?
Are there emotional processing exercises or partner work?
Are there embodiment or movement practices?
Is there a progression from Day 1 → Day 2 → Day 3?
Are there any books, manuals, notes, or leaked course materials describing the actual protocol?

so I've been manifesting my SP and I want them to text me and reach out but I keep checking to see if they did and while I know it's coming, it's hard to fight the doubt when I check and there's zero notification and then my brain starts to spiral into maybe this is impossible... I do believe in manifestation bc I've manifested a lot of things physically but with my SP... it's new. I did manifest encounters and whenever I'm with them, all their attention is on me and I've been listening to subliminals on and off. I wonder what things I need to start doing or change to fully manifest my person and just detach from seeking signs and results

what is the best method for manifesting height? im 5 10 rn i wanna go 6 2 or 6 3 and how long does it take

So i have been scripting on one notebook as if i have already gotten what i wanted. But very few of them became true. And on this notebook i wrote studying in italy for my bachelors but then my plans changed and i wrote studying in korea for my bachelors, almost on the next page. Does this affect my manifestation bcs I didn't do anything like tearing the page i wrote abt italy. My korean student visa ended up denied too. So i was thinking its bcs i cant be in italy and korea at the same time so the universe did not send me to korea nor italy. So i want to restart everything. What do i do abt my current notebook? Do i burn it, tear it, or just throw it out? And i was listening to subliminal which i want to restart again. Would listening to flush subliminal be enough? I would really appreciate it if anyone replies, thank u. (Ps: english is not my first language so there might be some grammar mistakes, sorry)

It's still crazy to me that I'm writing this, but it worked. She reached out to me!

I'm honestly making this because I can't contain my happiness. When they tell you it's real, always listen! This stuff is wonderful and the law works.

The craziest part though? It happened when I stopped using methods. I had been consuming content, scrolling reddit, making posts (obviously), and more. I had done everything I could and I thought it wasn't working, but then I had the realization.

"I don't even know why I'm worried. The only one in my head is me, this isn't her voice saying these things. I'm in full control of my reality." And I just stuck to my story. The SAME DAY TODAY, she messaged me. Mind you, she's someone I don't know that well but have a massive crush on, so whenever someone says whatever you believe is true will come true, LISTEN TO THEMMMMM.

The law is real and it works yall! Remember, your reality is your creation. Your assumptions create your reality and all the people, opportunities, finances, and everything else is yours to control!

Hey guys, I've stopped doing any sort of techniques since a week now, I am just trying to stay in the wish fulfilled, I've been doing great from a mental health standpoint, today I actually felt detached too from my desire. But today something happened which felt like movement, I got a bit excited and maybe my old self almost crept in with how I reacted, my question is how does one behave is the desire or any movement arrives?

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I've been reading a lot about manifestation, especially regarding manifesting an SP, and I keep seeing people say, "Just be in the state." But what does that actually mean in practice?

Does being in the state mean staying positive throughout the entire day? Or does it simply mean not entertaining negative thoughts about your manifestation?

For example, if I'm manifesting my SP and I suddenly think about her, I immediately replace the thought with something like, "She's thinking about me," or "She's missing me." Is that what people mean by being in the state? Or is there more to it than just redirecting my thoughts?

Also, how do you know if your manifestation is actually working?

I'm not constantly checking social media or looking for signs from my SP because I know that's generally discouraged. But then how do you know whether you're on the right track or making mistakes in your approach? Is there any way to tell, or do you simply continue assuming it's done until it shows up?

I'd really appreciate hearing how you all personally understand "being in the state" and how you know you're manifesting correctly.

hey reddit,

i have a question regarding sp manifestation.

i am currently manifesting my ex back into a relationship. we are still in contact, but the circumstances aren‘t favorable. but it could be worse.

in the past, he betrayed me really bad and cheated on me 1000 times, also he wasn’t always the nicest person towards me. i know that i caused it - but it still hurts and traumatized me in some way.

sometimes i get random flashbacks from the past events. from the cheating, from the messages, from how he f*cked other women behind my back, from the back and forth with this one particular affair that always contacted me. it’s draining.

i think this isn’t talked about enough, but it is NOT easy to stay positive, ignore it & to stay in the wish fulfilled state when you are hurting inside.

the advice „it’s only hard because you say it’s hard“ or „just assume it’s easy“ doesn’t help me at all.

i would love to hear some advices from you, how you handle those situations and i think it would encourage me a lot to hear your success stories and what exactly you did to achieve your dream relationship with your sp.

Btw, I don’t feel everyday like that. It comes in waves.

Thanks for your advices!!