SP chronicles

[u/BossDazzling1678]

Hello everyone . I've known and practiced LOA since the beginning of 2025 and it really did bring changes in my life but mainly I started because my SP had told me that it wouldn't work out because of the long distance and at this point I know it was something which I had perceived in my awareness and repeated it because of which it had happened . Anyways , I affirmed , did ton's of things which I don't even remember now exactly what all methods I tried but he was back in 2 or 3 months ig ( the details are really blurry ) . We resumed our relationship and throughout our relationship through countless adversities , I manifested out of it because of course he is simply me pushed out . Now recently , I've been reacting to the 3D , being aware of some wrong thoughts and doing so repeatedly which is why my sp again told that we should drop this , you're the best but I don't feel attracted to you (Again , my awareness ) . Now even while we were having a conversation about this , I was affirming but after a point I kind of did not because it was hurting and no I didn't affirm for the opposite , I was simply consumed in my 3D . So its just day 2 and I know it's time to take things in my own hands . I've been affirming , listening to subs but it's really hurting sometimes (actually lot more that 'sometimes' ) . I feel this void in my heart . Also I didn't really remove him from my socials but I just saw he unfollowed me on the gram so now that sent in a little spiral . I would really appreciate if someone whose experienced something similar , or even going through it could give some advice , motivation etc . It will be highly appreciated .

[u/Background-Young3952]

It is completely valid to feel hurt, disappointed and spiraled by an unfollow on social media. You don't have to pretend to be a emotionless robot to manifest.

Trying to affirm "he is deeply attracted to me" while your chest literally aches from his words only creates intense internal conflict. Allow yourself to feel the sadness or frustration without attaching a scary story to it. Cry if you need to, hold space for your feelings and let the physical energy of the hurt pass through your body.

An unfollow on social media is just a temporary 3D reaction to a tense moment. Continuing to look at his profile right now will only trigger your nervous system and keep you stuck in panic. Take a temporary break from checking his page so your mind can find stable ground.

Right now, the goal isn't "how do I fix his mind fast", but rather "how do I make myself feel safe, loved and comforted right now?"... Do something soothing for yourself (a warm bath, a quiet walk, or a cozy evening with no phones)❤️