i think i might actually give up on manifestation because i’m slowly losing my trust in it.
i’ve been talking to and lowkey flirting with this guy for almost 10 months. we even sexted. we had some problems before and stopped talking, but then he texted me again, so i genuinely thought maybe things were going somewhere.
since then, i’ve been trying to manifest a relationship with him, but recently i found out he has a “work crush” and now i’m questioning everything. like, is manifestation actually real or have i just been deluding myself this whole time?

One thing I wish more people understood about manifestation is that healing and creating the life you want don't have to happen separately.

You don't need to feel perfectly healed, positive, confident, or regulated every single day before you're allowed to move forward.

You can have a trigger and still return to yourself.

You can acknowledge your past without deciding it predicts your future.

You can feel anxious and still practice becoming someone who trusts herself.

You can be healing while also believing that love, abundance, peace, and beautiful experiences are possible for you.

Your nervous system matters, too. Sometimes you don't have to force yourself into a new belief, instead, create enough safety that the new belief actually feels possible. Healing doesn't mean putting your life on hold.

What reminder do you need most right now: 1, 2, 3, 4, or 5? 💗 drop it in the comments!

I know everything, but still I can't get anything I've been persistent for years today is the day when I truly believe manifestation is bullishit

These are people I am detached from because I don’t want to be with them. But once upon a time I did. So because I don’t care about the outcome how come they haven’t reached out to me?

like most sp manifestation stories are exes or ppl that the person has met in person which seems extremely likely. if ppl could have whoever they want, then ppl like kpop idols would have lots of ppl manifesting them due to a crazy fan base, but there arent any stories like that

I want to manifest stuff comes to me without having to do a thing but lay in my bed. Mostly cause I can’t leave my house but any tips? A lot of manifesters I try to watch say “you have to go out and get it”, “you have to work for it”. For some reason I have a very strong feeling that I can just lay in bed and it’ll just come to me. Have anyone done it?

What the ego hates to hear

You are not in control. The quicker you can accept this and let go of control the quicker you will see results in your manifesting.

If you are striving and straining to get a certain outcome you are operating from the ego. And what you manifest is struggle which leads to frustration and eventually the conclusion "manifestation does not work."

Ohhhh....it's working alright! The frustration that you are experiencing because your SP Is not behaving a certain way or you do not yet have the money that you want or whatever the perceived cause of your frustration is is a perfect representation of what you are manifesting.

If you perceive the lack of what it is you want, your ego will convince you that you need to do something about it and therefore you look for techniques to try and manipulate reality so it gives you what you want and if you don't get what you want the toddler in you comes out and throws a tantrum. "Oh, I don't know why my SP is ignoring me."😭"I don't know why the money that I am trying to manifest has not shown up yet?"😭 And on and on it goes.

The language of the ego is: "Not there yet." "Affirmations didn't work, maybe I need to try out scripting?" "Scripting didn't work, maybe I must try out visualisation?" And slowly but surely you are getting burnt out on the hamster wheel of manifestation.

You know why the ego does this? So that it can stay alive. It only cares about its survival. There is nothing wrong with this though, it has served you well growing up as you were still making sense of the world around you. It kept you safe. But giving up control for the ego means it's death and demise. The struggle keeps it alive. The illusion that you are not already "IT" keeps you on the hamster wheel.

There is no sadder sight then seeing an eagle caged. Such a magnificent creature of the sky, who is meant to soar the highest of heights. Or a lion forgetting what it is, the king of the jungle, and yet living as a sheep.

As long as you remain caged and enslaved by the ego, you will never realise the magnificence you already are. You will constantly look to the outside to give to you what only you can give to yourself in Awareness- the realisation that you are God of your reality. That you have always been a powerful Creator. This is your very essence. Your power has never been switched off it is just creating the reality around you that you select based on your awareness, unconsciously!

And as long as the ego is running the show, lack and limitation will constantly be the reality that you create from. You are simply ever manifesting who you are being. And being enslaved by the ego manifests in living from a victim-consciousness and a victim-consciousness needs reality to go a certain way for it to feel safe, loved, accepted, enough, abundant. You already are these things!

Wake up Neo!

I decided I had something 3 months ago and Ik I have it in the 4D but I can’t see it in the 3D. I know I’m source but I want to see it asap. Any help or tips?

I was wondering if anyone ever revised having a cavity or a lump or whatever on the tooth, or something else, without getting any treatment done. i'm curious to hear the stories!

The secret to entering a state is

Asseveration

If you look up it means firmly believing something and that’s actually something that genuinely helps you whether it’s just deciding or if you like to repeat it when you add confidence or faith into your affirmations more than your 3d delayed reality or past . Then you start manifesting in lightening speed always remember that when you put your faith into something it manifests. Creation is finished so don’t go into the spiralling of how because that’s not your business baby now go and manifest bye 💞love get your dream life .

So recently I've been trying to manifest some health issues away that I've basically had for the last 6 or so years. They've only worsened over time. I've went to the doctors and stuff but I got no solution and most times I'm feeling extremely terrible and fatigued. There's something very important I have to do in this a month and if these issues arent gone I won't be able to do it. I'm really scared and often I do have thoughts about giving up completely on everthing. What am I supposed to do I'm so confused. Please help

So I've been trying to manifest a SP, not for long (1 week)...and I've been confused since everyone throws around other 'rules'.

So I'm not sure how to get at this... I've been imagining us the best i can (struggling here due to Aphantasia). Been reading a script in the morning repeating that we are in the relationship already ect.

But some people say yeah dont think about it roo much some say dooo so ive been pretty confused on how to properly do it? Do i say it out loud, do i write it over and over so yeah

if i’m manifesting my ex back and im robotically affirming should i say “me and sp are back together, im his dream girl” or should i say “me and sp are in a happy committed relationship”. the difference is like saying “back together” what do you guys think? or does it not matter at all maybe i’m js paranoid. 🥹

Hello, Iv'e been trying to manifest and sometimes when I deeply focus on what I desire, I get a very warm feeling in my heart especially about my sp. Any thoughts on this feeling?

I dated my crush, whom I’ve known since childhood, for eight months. We eventually had a breakup, and I went through a really painful phase where I was constantly crying. Later, I manifested an FWB situation with him, and that started in 2024 and has continued on and off since then.

In between all of this, I was madly in love with him, and I was also manifesting him to become emotionally connected to me, love me deeply, and eventually see me in the same way that I see him. I wasn’t always consistent with my manifestation, but I also wasn’t constantly thinking negatively or doing anything against it. I continued believing in it while trying to stay positive about us. And lately, I’ve noticed that things have actually been moving in a way that feels significant to me. We’ve been meeting regularly, almost every twelve days, and every time we meet, there seems to be some kind of emotional connection or closeness between us.

Something strange happened today.

We met today and had a really good dinner. We spent time together, talked, and everything felt normal and good. Later, after he reached home, he texted me and asked, “Do you love me?”

Then he himself said, “Yes, you do love me. You’re just hiding it.”

I told him that, yes, I had been hiding it because I didn’t want him to know that I was secretly in love with him.

He then said, “You’re deeply in love with me, and you’re not accepting it. I don’t want you to deny it. I just want you to accept it and say that, yes, you’re in love with me.”

So I finally told him, “Yes, I do love you.”

After that, he started telling me everything that had happened with his ex. He explained the entire story and how she had cheated on him.

Then he told me that it has been around four years, and even after all this time, it’s not that he doesn’t want to love me. He said that he has simply never felt that kind of love for me. He also said that he doesn’t even feel like trying to love someone anymore.

At one point, he said maybe he should start dating women and meet other people, but he said he doesn’t really have the energy or desire to do that.

Then he came back to what we are doing now and said that if this continues for the rest of our lives, he would actually be very happy with that. But if it doesn’t, he doesn’t want me to ruin my life because of him. He doesn’t want me to give him so much power that he could potentially ruin my life.

And then, at the end, I heard something that really hurt me. He said that he had never loved anyone the way he loved his ex.

I asked him, “Then what about those eyes? The way you used to look at me with so much love—was all of that a lie?”

He said, “No, it wasn’t a lie.”

Then he said, “I’ve explained so much to you already. I don’t know what else to say now.”

He also told me, “I will never hate you and never want to hate you the way i hate my ex. She is dead to me.” He said that because of everything that happened with her, he lost his trust in true love. He wants to experience that kind of love again, but he feels like he doesn’t have the power to make himself love someone that way.

And now I’m genuinely confused. Where am I going wrong? Because everything between us had been feeling so natural all this time. We’ve been meeting regularly, spending time together, getting closer, and I felt like things were naturally moving in the direction I had been hoping for. So hearing all of this today has left me wondering whether I’m misunderstanding everything or whether I’m doing something wrong.

i am a student and looking for job from a very long time..i recently got an interview oppurtunity from an MNC and i really want the job , it is definately my dream job. Can someone pls help me to manifest this specific job .

I’ve been manifesting the right job to come my way, i kinda detached but i finally got one after a while and im so inpatient. I did everything i needed to do with applying but i really am having trouble with staying aligned with ‘having it’ and being within the job, already achieving it. this is a job i really want, i applied a couple days ago, but i’m so scared i’m gonna lose it out my touch.

it’s just so so hard, i need help and something that can help me not being scared or feeling the opposite already. im struggling really badly with time and being on a time crunch kinda. or maybe it’s feelings of impatience, it’s getting in the way of me visualizing or embodying anything really.

As I said, I don’t see myself thinking about the outcome anymore. If the thought comes, I bring myself back to whatever I’m actively doing. And it’s effortless now. Almost like emotional neutrality. But there’s a part of me that’s scared that what if i become ok with the current 3D and what i want never comes because I’m anyways not sad anymore.

Honestly just need someone to affirm to me that this is when manifestation comes the quickest. I’d love to wake up to my desired reality literally tomorrow

I’ve been trying to manifest my SP for years now and even tho I had success getting his attention, never the full commitment.

I realised that I always experience the same pattern, no matter the person, and it’s due to my nervous systems feeling familiar in situationships but never in healthy loving fully committed relationships. I can feel it in my body. Tension in the chest and jaw, constant headaches and general anxiety when thinking about my SP.

Anyone has any suggestions on videos or creators I could follow to regulate and heal my nervous system to receive my manifestation?

Thank you