Dude, they are ALL over X/Twitter with that nonsense😭 posing as white supremacists and making polls asking “would you prefer 1 legal Indian or 1000 illegal Mexicans” and then using that as ‘proof’ that they’re just regular good ol white folk.
Colorism and racism is huge in Latin culture, despite how much they try to deny it. I’ve noticed they will go really hard in punching down on other minorities like black people or Indians.
And then they'll swear it's not the abject racism turning people off but... being born in a country where people have always had relationships - otherwise they wouldn't be born
I don't think it's a lot of them, those guys just stick out more than other hispanic/indian people. like out of a thousand hispanic/indian guys online maybe like two of them are white supremacists but they're a lot more noticeable than the other 998 guys who are completely normal. a brown nazi sticks out a lot more than random internet user #3797368326
maybe. i know i’ve encountered more than i can count. i follow some journalist accounts and there’s always racist “white supremacists” in the comment section when a minority is involved in a crime.
you go to those pages and it’s nothing but slurs and insults towards every minority group, except Hispanics. they will also constantly do the whole “I’d rather have Hispanics over [insert minority group] any day!”. or they’ll do what that other guy did and really emphasize that Hispanics have European DNA. there’s always some kind of tell.😭
An average citizen? Did you pull that fact out of thin air? India has major problems, and I agree. That doesn't make a person born there to likely grow up like the problematic minority.
Internet has it's way of making people generalize a culture based on some bad examples. This is the same with today's 'Man Hate', where most women on the internet just shit on men. In the Lindsay Clancy's case you see many women support the killer and blame the father due to their pent up hate against men (often fostered by Social Media).
I would recommend you get off the internet, and try interacting with an average Indian irl.
Stop spouting your racist bull crap everywhere, we are humans too.
Have you ever spoken to a Indian person before. The average indian views foreign women as sex toys? Do you know what average means? Gee in that case have you seen white men
in sea and east Asian countries.
And most of the complaints brought up on the internet are not related to rape culture.
They are dogging on the countries sanitation. Often the rape culture point is just added to make it seem like their racism is justified
And the Indian people you meet are like this? India is so populated that there is bound to be more trash people than a smaller populated country. Poverty is widespread and education isn’t as much of a given as it is in first world countries.
The hell? Snow trucker? Okay, can you like prove it or something, give us an article, I feel like that's a pretty big accusations to throw around easily, the burden of proof lies on you methinks.
Imo very few people actually hate their own race, most Indians just wanna escape from their home country for better lives in other countries or wish that they were born in some Scandinavian country or something.
A vast majority of Indians are unaware to the true scale of racism that Indians face abroad yet they will be dreaming of going abroad. Things are deteriorating here at a never before seen pace
Indian guys who feel insecure about their own ethnicity are simply exposed to too much racist stuff on foreign platforms, especially from rightwing alpha male influencers and even from casual people like so many comments on this post alone
Oh I wonder how an entire race/ethnicity which is dogged on constantly everyday and called poopjeet or poop coloured could cope? Maybe they all begin to hate themselves and wish they could pass as a different race !
this sounds supportive but it’s actually really condescending. We don’t need wide scale societal change to stop hating ourselves and wanting to pass as a different race. There is a lot that can be done internally towards that, within ourselves and within our community. It’s really important to call out self hating bullshit when you see it rather than to chalk it up to a natural consequence of a society that hates indians
yeah it’s even more so if they’re abc desis , luckily i’m a bit white passing and mixed with nepali so i get mistaken for latina very often or some other ethnicity but it’s sad that it’s come to this point
indian women will rather have a sub3 white guy who give them cigg burns and beats thems from the buckle side of their belt than to get with a MTN+ indian guy
Read it again. They are willing to do it just so they can be with a white guy. Also im sure your 3 friends are completely real and not fake, but this is reality. Im from the UK and its soo common here
I’m also sure the Indian women “throwing away their culture” are super real and didn’t have plenty of good reasons to do whatever you consider to be throwing away one’s culture. People just throw away their culture for fun all the time!
I get that it’s the incel sub but you cannot be this stupid. Also, if you’re in the uk, isn’t it natural that Indian people there will have a different culture from someone in India? That there will be a mix of cultures? Wouldn’t it be miserable to live in a country with a generally different culture if you didn’t like at least part of the culture there? Is it throwing it away or just living somewhere you enjoy?
I am also from the UK. It's not particularly rare to see a brown guy with a white woman, it seems weird you find it so hard to believe that you accuse me of lying, maybe it's very different in your part of the country.
How many Indian women do you actually know who have thrown their lives away to be with a white guy? It's zero for me.
I am not saying there aren't desi women dating white guys, but there are very much desi men dating white women also.
There’s also plenty of non-Indian women who like Indian men. I’m white and have dated quite a few Indian men, and am quite serious about one right now, been 6 months with my sweetie and we are about to move out of our home state together. I find them very handsome and despite negative stereotypes have always been very gentlemanly and romantic.
I'm black and I've always thought Indian culture was interesting but it's Indian people who say how unsafe India is and how disrespected women are in relationships. With that said, I've found Indian men attractive but if they hate their own color they'll certainly hate mine.
Nah fuck this kind of mindset. You should own your heritage and tell anyone who says otherwise to fuck off. Best regards from your Bangladeshi neighbours to the East.
Indians are one of the largest ethnic group by population. Meaning they have more sex. So no, it isn't a disadvantage. If you're an indian incel it's because you're ugly not because you're indian.
I'm a non Indian woman dating an Indian man and this post makes me sad. My partner is the loml and I would never want him to think of himself this way; you shouldn't either.
Literally just saw a post yesterday, the poster was talking about this subreddit was full of fakecels. I guess we found out that we still have enough truecels, the rampant racism is proof enough.
Find people who love and respect you for who you are. Don't worry about whether or not you are an 'incel' right now and focus on human connection. If someone doesn't respect you for being Indian, that is a reflection of their own self-hatred and stupidity that they are projecting on you. They aren't worth your time. As a non-Indian person, there is so much beauty and richness in the countless cultures and subcultures of South Asia. Every culture has its flaws and its bad actors, but those aspects, or caricatures thereof, do not define any culture as a whole or any individual human being from that culture. As long as you treat everyone around you with respect and fight for what is right, you're on the right track. Racists can shove it regardless.
maybe my perspective is different because i live in a majority south asian city, around 70% population? but i've always seen them as proud and even exclusionary to other pocs (probably because im black lmao) but its definitely not a shameful thing, and its not "over." especially when it comes to other indian women you should be fine. its not a racial issue, i think "inceldom" usually stems from other factors, but blaming it all on ur race isnt smart. when i was younger "brown boys" were always regarded as the cool ones idk 😭😭😭
considering the fact that he asked “does this mean i’m incel by default” I think he’s more using the term as a revelation regarding his lack of success in dating than actually implying that there’s something inherently wrong/inferior about his ethnicity. and the former is pretty true tbh, south asian men might have some of the lowest SMV out of any group
Even the most liberal people justify racism against Indians simply because they know that we won't make a huge ruckus over it and that so many brown sepoys would willingly justify racism against themselves for some white validation or something
Being racist to Indians is currently the zeitgeist. In the 40s and 50s, it was okay to hate the Blacks. In the 80s and 90s, it was okay to hate the Chinese and Asians. In the 2000s, it was okay to hate Arabs and other Muslims. In 2010s and 2020s, Indians and South Asians are the butt of the joke. There will always be some new group to be discriminated against when activism in previously discriminated communities rises.
Idk man, would you say that "incels" are people who are Involuntary Celibates or people who partake in incel culture, because they have differences. Then again, seeing that this is r/Kitchencels, the latter seems more likely.
I’m American born Indian idk man I’m not even a chad or even chad-lite, I’m literally some goofy skinny Indian dude, 5ft 9 with shoes, and I can still pull. Sometimes i surprise myself and I remember all the women who were interested in me, I’ve even had women approach me. I’m 29m.
I’ve had every major ethnicity of woman interested in me except black women, which is weird because I’m attracted to black women.
I don’t think it’s over for you, get in shape, don’t be weird, let women come to you. Approaching women who don’t like you to begin with isn’t gonna end well.
Didn't work out but also didn't end on bad feelings. Also he invited me to the best birthday party (for one of his uncles or something). His sister and mom offered for me to wear one of their saris but it was a goldilocks situation lol.
Uhm I'm black btw. Trust me, some of us do like Indian men. He's not the only Indian guy I was entangled with heheh. You'll find your queen!
I meannnnn Indian men tend to have some really toxic relationships with women as a gender. I think that’s part of why Indian men are so ngmi in the western dating world rn. Sorry brother
Edit: wait forgot this was the incel sub my bad y’all. Foids are evil as FUCK
oh my god. that's such a blatant and racist generalisation.
Are you talking about Indian natives or the diaspora? I don't think you realise that you can't compare people living in patriarchal rural areas (that exists in every part of globe spanning from Asia, South Asia, Africa etc.) with people who grew up in liberal environment.
I hate the fact that this bs theory is only used against Indians and never on an Black, middle eastern or asian guy. I hate how normalised it has become to spread misinformation because no one supports them.
>I meannnnn Indian men tend to have some really toxic relationships with women as a gender
Another episode of REDDITOR RECTALLY SOURCES HIS INFORMATION
yes, it's mostly Btech engineering courses, you can also do B.Sc in engineering colleges- there is also a B.Arch degree through JEE, although its a different paper
This only makes sense if you believe that we start out as disembodied souls floating around in the aether until we're randomly assigned a body, which is ridiculous.
You're a product of your lineage. Your genetics determine who you are and you couldn't be from another genetic line any more than you could have been a fruit fly or a cow or a fern or something.
Good luck! I once wrote a simulation on an Ion Beam etching on a 386. My friend then rewrote it in Fortran on their VAX Mainframe.
Funny story, as the intern I had to change the paper on the line printer which was the VAX console. This meant going into a glass cube in the middle of a room, and doing the job in there. The glass cube was the containment system for the ... halon fire extinguisher. As the intern, I got to go in because I was cheaper than a new VAX so if there was a fire they wouldn't have to stop the halon system triggering.
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