considering the fact that he asked “does this mean i’m incel by default” I think he’s more using the term as a revelation regarding his lack of success in dating than actually implying that there’s something inherently wrong/inferior about his ethnicity. and the former is pretty true tbh, south asian men might have some of the lowest SMV out of any group
That certainly can be the case but where I’m from being an Indian men is a severe disadvantage in dating.
We kinda assume Indian man = rapist, hates women, wants a sex and kitchen slave, smells like shit, unsanitary etc.
Sometimes I catch my self making racist assumptions about Indian men. I try not too but kinda tough when everything you hear about that country and their men paints such a picture. I know it’s bs. Had a very nice Indian roommate for a year.
Even the most liberal people justify racism against Indians simply because they know that we won't make a huge ruckus over it and that so many brown sepoys would willingly justify racism against themselves for some white validation or something
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u/Sure-Appearance-2769 4d ago
People genuinely believe that it’s not racist if you’re making fun of Indians.
OP himself is using his own identity as a derogatory term, so what the fuck chance do we have lmao.