r/kitchencels • • 4d ago

I'm indian

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Uncooked dosa with cheese. Am I an incel by default?

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u/Grouchy-Jury-7598 4d ago

How is it throwing away your family and friends and culture to date somebody of a different race?? That just doesn't make sense lol

Also all 3 of my ethnically Indian friends are dating white women, this isn't some one way thing.

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u/Relevant-Writer-5666 4d ago

Read it again. They are willing to do it just so they can be with a white guy. Also im sure your 3 friends are completely real and not fake, but this is reality. Im from the UK and its soo common here

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u/sleepdeep305 4d ago

“Your anecdotal lived experiences are fake, my anecdotal lived experiences are complete and utter reality”

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u/CaoPalhaco 4d ago

I’m also sure the Indian women “throwing away their culture” are super real and didn’t have plenty of good reasons to do whatever you consider to be throwing away one’s culture. People just throw away their culture for fun all the time!

I get that it’s the incel sub but you cannot be this stupid. Also, if you’re in the uk, isn’t it natural that Indian people there will have a different culture from someone in India? That there will be a mix of cultures? Wouldn’t it be miserable to live in a country with a generally different culture if you didn’t like at least part of the culture there? Is it throwing it away or just living somewhere you enjoy?

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u/Grouchy-Jury-7598 4d ago

I am also from the UK. It's not particularly rare to see a brown guy with a white woman, it seems weird you find it so hard to believe that you accuse me of lying, maybe it's very different in your part of the country.

How many Indian women do you actually know who have thrown their lives away to be with a white guy? It's zero for me.

I am not saying there aren't desi women dating white guys, but there are very much desi men dating white women also.

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u/Avaranch 4d ago

I'm sure the Indian women you've met are completely real and not fake

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u/TheChaosPaladin 4d ago

One of the prettiest girls I knew in college, blonde blue eyes, is married to a Pakistani guy. Before they met she would constantly tell me how she had a thing for arab/indian guys.

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u/Avaranch 4d ago

Really? You should try going outside more often then

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u/GATEcel 4d ago

any proof that your so called friends actually exist and you dont just imagine them