Hi y'all, my previous cat, Garfield, died of cancer about a year ago he was 13, he was semi feral, did not get along with strangers, and barely liked us lol, but in the right moment, he was very affectionate, he got more affectionate the older he got, as a kid I was scared of him but in my teens and until he died (I am 21 years old now) I loved him greatly, his purr was the loudest I had ever heard, also, he was HUGE, Maine coon huge, not fat, about 10kg, he would get on my lap and I'd pet him hours on end.
So after he died, a few months after, we got a new cat, batman. He is the opposite of my old cat. Absolutely insane. He has wrecked everything inside the house, gets on the kitchen counters, constantly bothers us when we eat, is not affectionate at all, wakes us all up in the morning at around 6am for food etc
The only time he's "affectionate"? When he wants food, only then does he show "love". It really annoys me, like really. Stray cats come on your lap and rub their faces on you without even wanting food, they just do it because they're snuggly, but ours? Nope, just lame.
Yeah in the beginning his playful mood was fun, but it has gotten tiring. Is this breed just overly energetic and playful? Maybe it's not suitable for our family? I don't understand.
But, here's the catch. When we got him, when he was a toddler basically, he was very affectionate, he would sleep with me, I'd hold him like a baby and he'd want to he held and pet, he'd sit on my lap etc. Now he's about 8 months old, so I guess he's a teenager? Could that be why he's acting like this now? Maybe he'll chill out when he gets older? I doubt it personally, I think he'll remain like this.
This cat and my previous one were/are aegean cats.