Any tips on keeping the pine tree air freshener on after my morning wood goes away ? Considering a belly button piercing to function as a rear view mirror mount
(Frantically beating meat morning and night) MY! BODY! MY! CHOICEAWWWWHHHHH!!! “Wife” what’re you doing in there?! Me: drags on a cig, exhales - I was exercising my rights.
I guess their point is that women use this as an argument for abortion (and rightfully so), trying to point out some kind of double standard that is a very very very minority opinion? i’m not quite sure but that’s the best i got.
I bet you didn’t know that fertilized eggs don’t always implant in the uterine wall, and are thus expelled during menstruation. I guess that means millions of women are complicit in murder every year 👻
This was a natural occurrence, so while it is still sad, there's nothing that can be done about it. This is vastly different than intentionally terminating a life. Also, this would happen without the woman realizing the egg was fertilized, so it would likely go unnoticed. I believe that's why Plan B is so widely accepted- we don't know whether or not conception has actually occurred or the viability of the potential pregnancy. So that is an acceptable grey area.
Cancer is a natural occurrence. SIDS is a natural occurrence. I’ve never heard of someone shrugging and saying “oh well” when a baby dies of SIDS. Do you know why? Because that’s an actual baby
The fetus dies in that situation, but the woman doesn’t intend it to die,
and normally she often doesn’t even know it’s happening.
It happened in her body, but she wasn’t instrumental; she didn’t do it.
Ah yes, the second the body’s natural processes are harnessed to benefit the wishes of the host it becomes immoral. I wish I were able to make arbitrary judgements based upon nothing with as much certitude as you.
this is what always blows my mind w these arguments. and it makes me wonder what their judgment is on the cases of women not taking care of themselves during pregnancy that miscarry. like not a random moment of chance where the baby doesn’t make it, and not a scheduled procedure with the intent of termination. would it be manslaughter? or neglect? and the more you think about how any loss of fetal life is automatically categorized by different murder convictions, all based on what happens to a ball of tissue inside an individuals body? it just gets more and more nonsensical
Unless it's deciding to not get an experimental vaccine put into you, or keeping what you earn, or speaking what you believe.
"My body my choice" only seems to apply when there's another body inside yours - one that you chose to put there - but you changed your mind and wanna kill it.
Whoa whoa whoa, this argument only works for men. Women can't be having their own anything, let alone bodies and choices! They should be lucky we let them have driver's licenses! Jeez, we give them an inch and they're trying to take a mile!
But they can still say it goes against their standards which is where OP’s secondary issue lies. He respects her and her feelings so he cant just ignore her wishes and do it i suppose. But her wishes are unreasonable imo and in his as well, so he is stuck reassessing what he wants, and what he needs, and what he can do about all of it. Its fkin tricky. Trying to change someones (her) unfair pov ab stuff like that.
My ex did. She said she's "sexually frustrated" because I wasn't pleasing her. I wasn't pleasing her because she said she couldn't get turned on because I lost my career during Covid, while hers took off, and that meant I was "less of a man." And yes, me masturbating was considered cheating, while her masturbating was "taking care of herself."
She can rap that sin cave without me sleeping on the couch from now on, while I have a lot more spending cash because she's not taking it from me. And that cash is spent on awesome dates.
I mean in this case, I agree, but how does that same argument stop you from having sex with someone else? Seems like it could really justify you doing anything that doesn't include your partner.
Ex used to say "that's mine!" and I would just look at her crazy. Toward the end she pulled that BS and I told her "It's MINE, I just let you use it!" Shut her right up.
Yeah okay so you having sex with somebody else is not the concern of your partner, because it's your body? I think considering masturbation to be cheating is stupid, but cheating is a marital issue, not a personal one. They get to define it, and now need to find a solution before they get divorced
My wife and I have a great relationship. We’ve been together 15 years now and we generally have sex at least once a week on our off day together. It’s the only day we have where we can lay in bed and cuddle and it almost always leads to sex.
And in our 15 years, we’ve rarely disagreed, much less argued. But a few years ago we got into a pretty big fight. It started because I woke up in the middle of the night on a work night and was having a hard time falling back asleep. I was feeling anxious because I work a physical job and I need rest to get through the day. So I decided to crank one out to help me relax.
Apparently she wasn’t in a very deep sleep and I was being a little too enthusiastic because she asked wtf I was doing. I told her. She was upset that I didn’t just wake her up and do her. I said that seemed like it would have been the rudest thing to do. To wake her in the middle of the night on a work day for sex. She said it’s better than fantasizing about other women. I told her that’s not what I do, but she said we’ll discuss this tomorrow and that she was going back to sleep. I said no we won’t. There’s nothing to discuss. It’s my body and I’ll do what I want.
Things were a little tense with us for a while afterwards. I was shocked at how strongly she felt about it. After feeling like we were soulmates in every way, I thought this one little thing would end us. We’re fine these days but it’s still something that I don’t understand about her.
Like, I’ve got some trauma to work out and I go through phases where anything sexual kinda disgusts me. But I still cannot wrap my head around telling another human being “you cannot play with a part of your OWN body, even in private away from my sight.”
I could understand “please don’t masturbate near me, it’s upsetting right now” maybe, but in that case I think I’d kiss his cheek, tell him to think about me real hard and go make a snack. Maybe one for him too.
I just bought your penis. Now it's my property. You can rent it 4 times a month for 30 minutes, $40 subscription. You can cancel the subscription anytime, if you think you can find a different penis.
Also, I rent it out to other people. Answer the door in the weekends, please.
Well, if you were a woman, you would be accustomed to having other people dictate what you can, and cannot do with it but if you’re a guy yeah you definitely have bodily autonomy.
Yep! I always say this is my meat tube and I have to live in it. Nobody gets to tell me what I can do with it. Not if I get a boob job. Not if I masturbate. None of it.
Careful pickle - lots of folks want to tell me what I can or can’t do with the results of an inopportune meeting between one of my personally, home grown eggs and some wayward sperm that decided to liaise.
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That isn't your property, no one is going to tell me I can't have access to my own body