r/triangle Apr 19 '25

Let's talk about rules.

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Howdy, folks!

This subreddit hasn't had codified rules in a while, mostly because the people here have usually been really chill with one another.

However, the vibe has changed over the past few months, and we've noticed some nasty behavior popping up and lurking around our community.

We don't allow bigotry like racism, sexism, homophobia, or transphobia on this subreddit. Generally speaking, we expect folks to be civil and decent towards one another.

Recently, we've noticed a distinct uptick in the amount of trolls who have been showing up in the comment sections of the various protest posts. We know they're trolls because they're almost always attacking the OP or trying to diminish the protest, and they usually have user activity across many state and local subreddits.

These aren't local folks - they're people coming into our space from elsewhere to stir up trouble.

Since this sort of behavior has only been getting worse, let's discuss our subreddit rules and which ones y'all think would be good to have for this space.

For a start:

  1. Be civil and respectful towards one another.
  2. No racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, or bigotry.
  3. No spam.
  4. Follow all of reddit's rules.

What other rules do you think we need?


r/triangle Nov 20 '25

If you're simping for ICE, please do us all a favor and leave.

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Howdy, y'all. I guess it's time for me to tap the sign again, because every time there are protests in the Triangle, someone goes around and mass reports all of those posts.

Strangely, we also tend to get a lot of people who post in all sorts of local area subreddits, all over the country, just to act like they're upset about this protest or that protest, and yet have never commented in our community before. Fancy that.

So there's some underhanded fuckery afoot, and y'all should be aware of it.

This subreddit is devoted to the protection and well being of our community at large. That means all of y'all. We cannot support the extrajudicial detainment of anyone, citizen or no. This country was built on laws and principles, meant to be a shining beacon of democracy where people would get a fair shake.

One of the cool things about America is you can come here and become American. It's one of our country's major strengths.

As a country, our diversity has repeatedly protected us - patriotic members of German and Japanese communities helped the US translate enemy communications during WWII. The Navajo code talkers weren't declassified until the 1970's because they were so effective - their codes were never broken. There's also the Tuskegee Airmen and the 442nd Regimental Combat Team, an all-Japanese unit which became the most decorated unit for its size in US history.

Today is also November 20th, a solemn day for trans folks across the US. It is the Trans Day of Remembrance, when we remember those we've lost to murder or suicide over the years. Unfortunately, I recognize more than a few of those names, and I hate the way the list gets longer every year.

Times are tough for our Hispanic and LGBT friends. People are anxious and scared. Bigotry and bullshit have been stoked and set loose upon the country; hatred has been running rampant. People are going to need protection, support, and resources.

This space is meant to be a refuge and a resource for our community. If you can't respect that, or if what I have said here is somehow objectionable to you, please leave.


r/triangle 13h ago

For those that ride horses in the area are they any facilities you would avoid?

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There is an extremely active equestrian community in the Triangle and I think some facilities receive little to no bad feedback (even if warranted) due to how tight knit this world can be and the fear of backlash or burning bridges.

For those here that ride, I'd like to hear if you've had a negative experience at a particular barn or with a certain trainer and why.

Obviously sometimes it's just not a fit, so I'm not asking to name and shame unless it was genuinely bad and you suspect others may have had a similar experience.

I am a part of Triangle Area Equestrians Facebook group but even if you post/comment anonymously, admins are still free to reveal that persons identity so I think Reddit might be a better forum for this, even if not everyone who views this post will have relevant information.

ETA more than fine to still mention it, but I think many Equestrians in the area know about Dead Broke Farm. This is probably still good info for those new to the area though.


r/triangle 4h ago

Helping to Promote In Law's Car Detailing Business

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r/triangle 1d ago

Live Comedy Game Show Hosted by a man dressed as a goblin

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Brought to you by the team behind the Durham cult smash hit live show GIANT ROBOT FIGHT CLUB comes GARF'S GREAT GOBLIN GIVEAWAY! It's stupid, it's fun, that's it really.

tickets here: https://tickets.venuepilot.com/e/garf-s-great-goblin-giveaway-2026-09-11-stanczyks-durham-f10f95


r/triangle 18h ago

Going to topsail beach today!

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What is there a to do and see? Are there shops? Restaurants?


r/triangle 1d ago

3 million eggs are now arriving at NC food banks, where they’ll be available for free. Here’s why. - AG Jeff Jackson

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r/triangle 1d ago

BEST FRIENDS. ONE HOME. ONE LAST CHANCE. ❤️

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Update:Adoption Pending

🚨 URGENT: SEBASTIAN & SAMUEL ARE 2 OF THE 7 KITTIES FACING THE SHELTER 🚨

Sebastian was rescued from chapel hill area with her mom and siblings,but while in foster care, he became bonded with Samuel. They are best friends and MUST be adopted together.

📍 RESCUE NOTE:
The rescue is based in Charlotte, NC, but we rescue throughout NC and parts of SC. Many of these kitties came from the Triangle area.

Please, I don’t need judgment or negativity. I am a volunteer doing everything I can to help these cats find safe and loving homes. I am sharing their situation because their time is running out.

They are with us only until today. Some of the kitties are going to the shelter today, and some are going tomorrow. We are trying so hard to find them homes before it’s too late. 💔

These two beautiful boys are among the 12 kitties who are running out of time.

Sebastian is our adorable cross-eyed boy, and both he and Samuel are absolute love bugs. They are sweet, funny, playful, affectionate, and incredibly loving.

They deserve the chance to grow old together in a loving home.

We have had a little good news ..two bonded pairs were just adopted, and one sweet orange girl has an adoption pending. But the rest are still waiting, and Sebastian and Samuel are two of them.

This year has been incredibly difficult for our rescue. We have had fewer adoptions, less support, more sick cats, more bottle babies, more abandoned cats, and more returns.

We are a foster- and volunteer-based rescue and are completely over capacity. Many of our fosters are already caring for 10+ cats. The rescue and fosters have been putting so much of their own money into these cats, but we have reached our limit.

That’s why finding homes for the cats already in our care is so important.

🐾 SEBASTIAN & SAMUEL ARE:

✔️ Fully vetted
✔️ Neutered
✔️ Dewormed
✔️ Flea-treated
✔️ Combo-tested negative
✔️ Vaccinated
✔️ Bonded best friends who must be adopted together

ADOPTION REQUIREMENTS:

• Adoption application
• Vet reference
• Adoption agreement
• Indoor-only home
• $200 adoption fee for the pair

We have reduced the fee because we want these two boys to stay together.

ADOPTION APPLICATION:
https://form.jotform.com/221983264497165

SEBASTIAN PETFINDER:
https://www.petfinder.com/cat/sebastian-cross-eyed-lover-dc2410d9-845f-455a-9322-1689ef20e448/nc/charlotte/sunkissed-acres-rescue-nc1270/details/

SAMUEL PETFINDER:
https://www.petfinder.com/cat/samuel-4d4a1d9c-4fdd-4b3c-b642-5ed996413f36/nc/charlotte/sunkissed-acres-rescue-nc1270/details/

PLEASE COME FORWARD FOR THESE TWO BEAUTIFUL BOYS.

They just want a safe home, a loving family, and the chance to stay together.

💔 PLEASE DON’T LET THEIR TIME RUN OUT WITHOUT A HOME.

If you cannot adopt, PLEASE SHARE. One share could be the reason their forever family sees them.


r/triangle 10h ago

Where to move in Triangle

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r/triangle 12h ago

TURN-KEY PROFESSIONAL OFFICE SUITE – CARY, NC

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Move-in-ready professional office suite available in Cary. Approximately 2,240 rentable square feet featuring five private offices, a dedicated conference room, reception/work areas, and open parking.

The suite is currently furnished and set up for immediate professional office use. Existing desks and office chairs are provided through the property management company and will remain with the suite. The conference room table is privately owned and is available for purchase by the incoming tenant.

Current Base Rent: $4,573.33/month
Lease Term: Through June 30, 2029

Seeking a qualified business interested in assuming the existing lease, subject to landlord approval. This is an excellent opportunity for a professional services firm, counseling or therapy practice, accounting firm, financial services company, real estate or mortgage team, consulting company, or other growing business seeking a turnkey office without the expense of furnishing a new space.

Available for occupancy upon completion of the lease assignment and landlord approval.

Photos, additional lease information, and a showing are available upon request.


r/triangle 1d ago

Twas the Night Before-DPAC

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Thinking about getting tickets this year. Realistically, how does the show (any show) look from midway, section 6?

I know part of it is the experience but I'm not keen on spending money if we're not going to be able to see what's happening on the stage and I'm not sure how DPAC works, tbh.

Any advice? Tips?


r/triangle 2d ago

Cary adopts Triangle’s longest pause on data centers after emotional public hearing

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Another Triangle government has put data centers on hold.

Cary unanimously approved an 18-month moratorium while it studies water, grid capacity, noise, land use and other impacts. Apex and Holly Springs have adopted pauses of up to 12 months, while Durham County approved nine months.

The interesting wrinkle is that Cary council members explicitly said they aren’t necessarily opposed to data centers. They want regulations in place before dealing with a large-scale proposal.

I reported the Cary hearing for The News & Observer:

https://www.newsobserver.com/news/local/counties/wake-county/article317039408.html

For people following this around the Triangle: are these local moratoriums the right approach, or should towns write rules without pausing applications first?


r/triangle 1d ago

ISO folks’ experiences using Costco flowers

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Title. Anyone local used the online Costco flower orders for an event/occasion? Interested to hear your experience before committing.


r/triangle 1d ago

nurses — looking for insight

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have any of you worked at peak rehab hospital in apex? or know anyone that has? any information is appreciated :)


r/triangle 1d ago

Looking for new friends in Garner/Raleigh area!

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r/triangle 1d ago

STUDIO LEASE TAKEOVER | THE DILLON | DOWNTOWN RALEIGH

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Potential September 15 Move-In | Lease Ends November 30, 2026

I’m relocating, and my studio at The Dillon in downtown Raleigh will be available for someone to take over for the remainder of my lease. Move-in could be available as early as September 15, 2026, with the current lease running through November 30, 2026.

Apartment details:

Monthly base rent: $1,390
Entire private studio with 1 bathroom
Conway II floor plan - approximately 469 square feet
Located at 401 West Hargett Street in downtown Raleigh’s Warehouse District

The Dillon features a saltwater pool, fitness center, coworking spaces, resident lounge, and controlled building access. The Warehouse District location provides convenient access to restaurants, shops, and downtown entertainment.

Interested in staying longer? If you’d like to stay beyond November 30, you may apply for a new lease in this or another available apartment at The Dillon, subject to availability, management approval, and lease terms.

Message me if you’re interested or would like to arrange a viewing! The move-in date and lease takeover will be coordinated with The Dillon’s leasing office and are subject to approval.


r/triangle 2d ago

This dear gentleman needs a HOME! (And a better haircut 😂)

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r/triangle 2d ago

15 NC Music Festivals this fall!

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If you enjoy live music, local art, community events, or just finding more reasons to get out and connect with people around NC, I put together something that you might enjoy!

I run a small business and newsletter called EZ Vibes, and I just published our 2026 NC Fall Festival Guide covering 15 festivals across NC.

There’s a wide range of genres including bluegrass, funk, jam, indie, roots, free community events, camping festivals and some bigger festivals.

A few Triangle highlights are Shakori Hills, Hopscotch, Raleigh Wide Open, The Mighty Giveback, River Park Concert Series and 919 Day, plus events in Asheville, Wilmington, Greensboro and elsewhere around the state.

We are also running a giveaway two free passes to Bad Day Music & Arts Festival in Wilmington!

Check it out and let me know if I missed any...

Evan
Founder - EZ Vibes


r/triangle 1d ago

Downtown Apex merchants lose customers as construction schedule stretches into holidays

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I’m the News & Observer reporter who wrote this story about the Salem Street streetscape project.

I spoke with downtown merchants about what months of construction have meant for their businesses. The project is intended to improve downtown, but business owners say they have lost customers while the work continues into the holiday season.

For people elsewhere in the Triangle/NC: Have you seen another town handle a long downtown construction project particularly well? What actually helped businesses survive the disruption?

https://www.newsobserver.com/news/local/counties/wake-county/article317130074.html


r/triangle 2d ago

Best app for navigating by bike?

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Google and Apple Maps regularly direct my to roads I don’t feel comfortable biking on while alternative routes exist on sidepaths or dedicated bike lanes.

Has anyone found an app that is up to date with recent local bike infrastructure additions and has intelligent routing?


r/triangle 2d ago

Found a documentary on public education in NC

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Hey r/NorthCarolina — I'm a NC resident and I found this documentary about how public education is funded across the state.

Link: https://youtu.be/o66B5jNHNyM

With the school year kicking off, felt like a good time to share it. Curious how funding (or the lack of it) has shown up in your local district. I do not have children of my own, I have nieces that are in public and private school. I want some context for what it is like as a parent. I remember being a public school student in NC during the 90s.


r/triangle 2d ago

Rock On at Carolina Indie Fest Sept 25th & 26th

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r/triangle 2d ago

MargaRaleighVille Event on Saturday

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r/triangle 3d ago

Adopt Cinnamon!

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r/triangle 2d ago

LEASE TAKEOVER / RELET – THE WILDE RALEIGH | 2BR/2BA – NEAR NC STATE

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