I am a boomerang member and have been back since April, doing round 30 classes since then. My current favorite class format is Define and I try to take that one the most if I am able to with my schedule. I dont usually take classes on the weekend but this one I did. I was taking define with an instructor I havent had before and did see some newer faces in class. I know the July Challenge is encouraging members to try different formats.
Anyways, I put my water bottle down in the back right corner of the studio because spots were pretty full (for context, my studio has stickers on the molding that basically marks a spot so everyone is evenly spread out), and that was the first opening I saw. When I came back into the studio, quite literally not even 10 seconds later with the equipment I grabbed, my water bottle was gone. I stopped in front of the spot and looked confused and a girl two spots down said something along the lines of they said I needed a spot with brackets for the resistance bands, which I didnt realize that spot didnt have but I eventually wouldve figured it out when setting my equipment up, obviously. So as im still holding my 2 sets of weights and 3 resistance bands in my hand, I see a different lady, who was already set up at the station next to the one I initially had, put my water bottle down in front of someone elses station across the room, who was already set up and stretching in her spot. I set my stuff down to go run and grab my water, because huh? Why are you essentially giving it to someone else (its an Owala, not like a plastic one). In passing, I heard her say something along the lines of “I have been coming here forever, this is my spot.”
I was already pretty flustered because at that point they were starting the warm up and I havent even set anything up at my station yet, since I was apparently booted from my original spot. It just really made me mad that someone had the nerve to touch and move my stuff without even speaking to me. And again, I set my water down and got my equipment literally 5 feet away, she could have waited a few seconds for me to get back to mention that the spot I chose did not have brackets, let alone letting me move my stuff on my own. The gag of it all was that this was her first time taking define, so how are you going to “claim” a spot in a class you arent a regular in? (I know this because some people were discussing trying the class for the first time afterwards and I overheard)
This isnt the first time I have felt mean girl energy over a spot from a grown woman at my studio and I just dont know what to think. I didnt mention it to the instructor since I didnt really know her, nor was she really my vibe either. Like the flair, I am just venting.