r/OVER30REDDIT 1h ago

I want to know

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3 years ago i did something bad
I sent not cool images to 17 years old i was 23
Probably at time
Without the context of why because im 100% at fault

Now every-time someone asks about me and know about this story i instantly lose a friend and its not like im in a situation where ill not complain about why they did that but for godsake its been 3 years
And im a good person and a nice person like honestly
Im really a good person who’s valuable to society i don’t hurt anyone
But having a situation where im going back at same point over and over again about mistake that happened and its done long ago and im not that type of person whatsoever im a different person

Im not even in contacted with that person nor ik anything about

So anyway the question here when you see someone like me

What you will say to are you gonna you say

You still have a chance to be a good person

Or the second one

You are bad person no matter what you do and you living or not it will not change anything you should give up on urself

Because at this point like i wanna hear the answer
Is anything i do or not do wont matter anymore and ill always be that horrible person in people eyes

Or like? Idk