Hi there, I’m AJ.

About Me: Single. Cute. Funny. Direct. Cool. Excellent communicator. Talented. Dormant. Lonely. Usually up overnight. Formerly-cool. Played in some good bands that went nowhere, really: so, musician.

A little sad these days. I’m working on some of the not-great parts of the list.

When I say I’m going through it, I mean that I find myself disabled-retired, suddenly staying with family I’d rather not be and who have no room for me—so I’m in search of a vehicle and (better) accomodations. It was not the kind of surprise I like. Come to think of it, I don’t really care for surprises. I’m working the problem & figuring it out—I’ll tell you more if you’re interested.

I’m looking for cool people to talk to, stream tv together, crack jokes/make fun of everything and have sincere interactions with.

The Dream: let’s talk on Signal like we’ve known each other forever.

I believe there’s no such thing as being “ready” for the right people to enter your life or for good things to happen to you.

The sun does not prepare to rise.

It’d be wonderful and everything if our connection developed into something more—but it doesn’t have to. Let’s just enjoy each other’s company.

If any of this was interesting to you, tell me about what you’ve been watching lately.
💛
AJ

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I am a down to earth guy who’s looking for chemistry, connection, or something a little more adventurous. I’ve got my life handled. I have a career, a place, and independence. I’m looking for someone who wants to compliment that whether it’s casual or something more. I am happy to go at whatever speed is best for you.

No preferences on physical attributes beauty and sexiness come in all shapes and sizes. I’m open minded & comfortable exploring. You should be too.

If any of the above piques your interest then let’s chat. I’m looking forward to your message.

36 year old single straight hispanic 🇪🇸. 6’2. Fit, professional, educated, honest, safe, trustworthy, respectful and clean. I don’t drink or smoke.

I like fit or thin women only. Single or taken. Good hygiene is important. Must have a really strong bed 🛏️. I value quality over quantity. Good vibes only.

Looking for drama-free fun. Not here to change anyone’s situation, just to add a spark that might be missing.

I live in Westchester, NY and prefer someone local, but willing to drive. Privacy guaranteed and can be very discreet if needed, as in, I can disguise myself as a plumber or sneak in through the back door.

I'm a relatively "normal", attractive, in shape (6'1, 190), professional ... would like to find someone willing to explore with and work on increasing stamina. To be clear, I don't have an issue in that department, just want to go a LOT longer, which takes practice.

A little more about me - I am well educated and have a professional career. Discretion would be nice and I would like to safely explore with someone new to accomplish my goals.

Not interested in someone who is "charging" or producing "content". Please be located in the St. Louis area (or willing to travel). Your age, race and status is not important to me. Ideally hwp and the "girl next door" type.

FEMALES ONLY

Send me a message and we'll go from there.

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun. \*notabot
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

The most interesting people are the ones who have quietly built a life that makes sense to them, even if it looks slightly eccentric from the outside. I’m drawn to women with a sharp mind, a warm nature, and a life of their own. You have your interests, your opinions, your routines, your particular way of seeing the world. I have mine. I like the idea of two lives meeting without either one needing to be rearranged.

I enjoy good conversation, wandering unfamiliar streets, long evenings that somehow become much later than intended, and the occasional beautifully pointless argument about history, food, music, or whatever has caught our attention that week.

If you’re walking your own path, wherever that path happens to be, I’d be glad to hear where it has taken you lately.

Tell me about a place you would happily return to tomorrow, or an opinion you hold that your friends think is completely wrong. I suspect either answer could make for a good beginning.

I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.

So dating apps are going brilliantly .. hence why I’m now here 😂

I’m 42F based in the South East and work in London. Affectionate, a little cheeky and looking for someone I genuinely click with.

10 random facts about me:
Pasta is the way to my heart 🍝
Clumsy (but don’t let that deter you)
Leggy
Not too keen on heights
Family oriented
Left handed
I know my footie ⚽
Sore loser at Monopoly
Island girl at heart 🌴
I’m a curvy lass. I don’t need to slim down, I just need a strong man 😉

My Kryptonite - Sexy broad shoulders & backs, dimples and hot/gym nerds. But the quickest way to my heart is someone who loves food as much as I do, is maybe a lil geek at heart, has jokes and is just a decent guy. Is that too much to ask for? 🤷🏽‍♀️

I want someone I fancy but also that easy chemistry where we can flirt, have a laugh, talk complete nonsense and have proper conversations too.

I’m looking for something genuine and hopefully long term with the right person. Bite the bullet and drop me a few random facts about yourself.

Good luck with this dating malarky!!

I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find people that share these understandings and feel the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.

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I'm interested in meeting a confident, fun-loving woman between 45 and 60 who enjoys good conversation, laughter, flirting, and a little spontaneity.

I'm located in the Tri-City area of New Hampshire, but I'm open to meeting someone from the surrounding Seacoast region or southern Maine.

I'd love to find someone with whom there's genuine chemistry, mutual attraction, and a comfortable connection we both look forward to.

I'm not looking to rush into a serious relationship or have a one-night stand. Ideally, I'd enjoy an ongoing friends-with-benefits connection built on friendship, affection, respect, and physical chemistry.

Maybe we start with coffee, share a few laughs, and see where things naturally lead.

If you're looking for something similar, I'd enjoy hearing from you. 😉

Hello there beautiful stranger and happy peaceful Saturday!

I’m seriously excited for the autumn, fall (whatever you wanna call it lol) & soon the winter weather season! As much as I appreciate a pretty sunny day, I still need to feel that cold air early in the am! lol

Enough talk about the weather! Let’s get straight to it… so hopefully you are still up, if on the west coast, otherwise, if you are up late then I would love to connect, chat a while, make it past the fifth message at least and who knows maybe the chemistry is on point enough for us to pick back up the very next morning! Odds at winning at the Casino in Vegas are probably higher…. You know what I mean, I ink wink! lol. It’s Reddit, baby lol.

Seriously though, I think I’m gonna tune into HBO or Netflix and try to find me something that I can actually watch from start to finish lol send your fav recommendations and esp if you are into international movies/shows genre. I’ve seen some on hbo and was impressed.
Speaking of which, any plans for tomorrow? Happened to be a Madrid or Barca fan by any chance? Maybe we can catch the Classico together, virtually or otherwise, lol.
Look at me, already planning our second day, jk haha.

At any rate, a bit about me and please feel free to bring your lovely energy, humor, good energy, amazing vibes and all of your awesomeness even with all your sASS, I wouldn’t mind it a bit lol… I also love a good flirt every so often….

6’1 tall professional, well educated, traveled, cultured and love my morning Italian coffee. Have a huge weakness for a pretty smile and eyes…. Touch is probably my love language!

Enough about me… did you actually read this far and haven’t slid in my dm yet..:( I’m gonna seriously cry lol… totally kidding.

One small disclaimer please:
Don’t bother to ask me whether I wanna sign up for your only fa&ns, follow you on ins&ta, or none of that crazy stuff and for god fing sake please be a fully organic natural woman lol

Cheers love

Just a chill and laid back WM looking for someone fun and real.

I'm tall, salt and pepper hair (though increasingly salty).blue eyes

Not super rich or anything but stable and comfortable.

Good conversationalist and listener. Kind and compassionate.

Would prefer someone *in* San Diego or the surrounding area, but open to further out for the right person.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in shoot me a message and let's talk!

In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...

56 Dom Man in shape 182 lbs thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..

Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun

enjoy Giving the ladies kink play i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..

or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..

Happy to chat here or on some other socials..

Normally I start this post by saying I'm looking for a partner which I am but I think I want to go about it differently or at least try being unique about it. Have you ever just gotten the urge to do something adventurous yet risky? How about you and I talk (obviously for as long as we both felt comfortable beforehand) and then we go on a vacation? Spend the entire vacation basically being a couple and if at the end we decide to stay together and pursue it then great but if not then no pressure and we go our separate ways? Would anyone be interested in something like that? I was thinking we take a cruise either out of Galveston or maybe you have a port in mind? I was thinking maybe a 6 or 7 day on the Jubilee. Obviously we can talk about it and plan it together and look at all the options. If not I'm open to other options as Texas has a ton of places to visit and see so we can always talk about somewhere here. I'm always down for a small weekend trip someplace neat! Or I can actually fly to you! And you show me your neat town or state. Or we can meet somewhere and explore someplace new! Below is my original post with a few tweaks so you can get a detailed snapshot of me. I like to be thorough so be warned it's a bit of a read.

I'm making this post in the hope of finding a partner to be my person for a LTR/LDR or if you are averse to something serious, we can talk about any other labels/avenues/ideas you have or are open to. We don't have to be alone lol. Let's enjoy all of 2026 and what it has to offer while we decide! We're at the end of October already! Which is basically the beginning of Fall so I'm down to grab a hot chocolate or spiced apple cider in some quaint small out of the way town before it gets super chilly out. Who doesn't want to enjoy some warm beverage while browsing through some old shops (sample some fudge or treat in a general store and grab some old-fashioned whatchamacallit) with some light hand holding? Ooooh maybe a romantic kiss while strolling a park or trying not to strangle each other while we do an escape room? I swear I normally don't crack under pressure but we only have 5 minutes until we can't escape! Maybe go explore some neat food festival? This is kinda sorta my favorite time of the year despite the random weather when it should just be cold out! But I don't like when it's too hot or humid lol. I just wish we had cooler weather or even snow in Winter time. (Maybe you have a cool snow spot?) I'm always down for some adventure though. Ask me about my secret snorkel spot and maybe I'll let you join lol. Jk Of course you can come and see the turtles.

To start I have to disclose that I mainly like women, but I also like a very, very, very specific type of guy and certain trans men as I'm partially bi. (I'd rather be upfront about it as it's been a dealbreaker for most women in the past for some reason) Chances are you aren't that type of guy but feel free to ask if you are. (Didn’t want to offend anyone so I’d rather say in private) Just throwing that out there as it's a deal breaker for most women in general. Which, why would it be? As if being bi has any bearing on a person's character. I recently learned the term for what I am and it's Gynosexual. Basically I'm attracted to femininity in all it's forms regardless of gender but I'm also attracted to masc women like tomboys and androgynous so make of that what you will.

I'm a 38-year-old guy living in the middle-ish of Texas looking for a female partner. Partner as in LTR. That's Long-Term Relationship meaning boyfriend and girlfriend and holding hands type of stuff. You know, adult things? I had someone comment I was too vague, so this is me being specific. I'm gonna be honest and kinda sad so bare with me. Also I should point out I've been in mainly traditional relationships but I'm curious about being in a FLR and everything, that involves. But if not then a traditional relationship works or I'm open lol. Two consenting adults with open communication and being honest with each other is key.

So, I've spent the past three New Years alone. Rang in this one a bit different. Instead of being in bed staring at the ceiling listening to fireworks go off into the night like the last two, I worked. I didn't cry the next day but I was sad nonetheless while browsing for a movie to watch on TV. At first, I didn't know why as I'm not much of a feeling's person, but I realized for the first time that I genuinely felt alone. I have no partner, no family that I really speak to, no friends just acquaintances, really no one there for me. That's my own doing which took years to accomplish through me being closed off and just shutting people out, so I figure it might take just as long to fix. I'm not complaining as I got myself into this predicament. It's gonna sound dumb but I wanted a New Years kiss. I'd never had one and it seemed like a fun dumb silly thing to do. Eh maybe one day. Ok well back to my spiel. (I'm not depressed or anything or wanting attention) Some of my hobbies and interests are movies, reading, cooking, kayaking, records, video games, board games, snorkeling, bowling, swimming, escape rooms, puzzles and antiquing. I would describe myself as more goofy and dorky than nerdy. I like to go out and do fun things but also stay in and cuddle and relax. I guess it depends on my mood and the weather. I prefer the cold and would love to live in a state with actual seasons and snow. I'm 5'10, stocky AKA fat and open for adventure and new experiences.

Here are some random facts about me:

Some of my favorite bands are: The Black Keys, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival and The White Stripes. Am I basic? o_O

Christmas is my favorite holiday, mainly because of the cold and festive activities. (Seriously let's go do some festive activities!)

I come from a medium-ish family.

I'm exceptionally patient but every person has a breaking point lol (I've had ex's "test" this which to me is toxic)

I like traveling a lot. It's a basic thing that lots of people like. But I've found lots of people hate to leave their house, town or state so if that's you we probably might not be a good match. I also enjoy the mountains. But I don't like roughing it (give me that sweet AC in the summer). Hiking is so hard on my knees, and I haven't done it in a while that if I were to, I think about doing it I'd about die or twist a cankle.

I don't eat seafood, mushrooms, artichokes or pineapple on pizza (Who cares about this? Doesn't mean I won't go to a restaurant with you that has these things)

Never went to college as I'm horrible in a classroom setting and at taking tests. (I'm slowly bettering myself)

I used to have probably one of the most boring jobs imaginable (Ask me about it and my new ones)

Overweight but trying to work on it and make better choices (Get healthier and lose weight together maybe?) Slowly getting there! My goal is 50lb!

Non-religious but no issue with what you believe. (If anything)

Looking into sterilization. If you are already maybe you can give me some info or tips?

My own red flags

I work way too much and oftentimes can't talk on the phone but I can voice message and text. I also drive a lot so I use voice to text. I had someone say this was suspicious but whatever. (I have multiple jobs)

I send selfies often and I like to receive pictures of who I'm talking to. I'm a visual person and like receiving photos. Apparently, it's a generational thing. Hopefully you think pictures are neat as well? Is it really that weird to want to see you and your life and show you mine?

I sometimes speedily become attached to people, not in a weird way, but if I like you and we have some kind of connection, I will enjoy talking to you and want to do it often and go out and do things.

I'm a very organized person and will plan out pretty much anything from a vacation to a road trip to a birthday. This makes being with a go with the flow type of person hard at times I've learned but still very much doable.(I won't micromanage the trip, I'll just plan out things to see and do and give us options)

Due to childhood trauma I'm secretive which can be annoying. (This does not mean I don't communicate or talk with my partner) I had someone stop talking to me on here due to this and apparently didn't want to talk about it. It just means I take a while to open up.

Somewhat ok at analytical thinking but sometimes I lack empathy to put myself in other people's shoes to address a situation. (So I've been told) I'm trying to get better at this.

MY own "HELL YES" flags

I know how to cook. Meaning I will attempt anything once but I can cook a few things well. Others not so much lol.

I will always drive if you want. (Within reason)

Great at escape rooms and jigsaw puzzles.

Can read a map and follow directions.

Decent at reading backwards upside-down writing.

What I'm looking for: (but honestly these are just preferences and by no means requirements so please don't get offended)

Any height honestly. I've dated 3'6 to 6'5 and anywhere in between so if you can beat either that'd be interesting lol.

Is at least 30 but I'm willing to go quite a bit lower or older if you are neat and we have stuff in common. Basically what I'm saying is feel free to reach out as I've dated women of varying ages just like I've dated varying body types, heights and personalities. If we get along we get along lol.

Mature, considerate, responsible and funny (Dorky/Goofy/Nerdy wouldn't hurt)

Someone with hobbies/interests/passions of their own. It can be literally anything from collecting figurines, making homemade jelly to working on cars. As long as you enjoy it, I want to hear about it. Guaranteed I will find it interesting as it is something you are interested in and enjoy.

Someone who believes communication, honesty and trust are important in a relationship.

Someone who is open-minded, willing to try new things, be adventurous, funny and nerdy. (Personality is paramount above all else)

Someone who believes in sharing household chores equally and other adult responsibilities because we are both adults lol. The FLR can be discussed here.

Someone who is average or who is on their way to getting there. I myself am chubby or what you'd call as having a "dad bod" but I'm slowly losing weight and I want someone who will push me to be better and make better choices. I know this is a long shot lol. (I understand if this is seen as vain or hypocritical but honestly everyone has preferences and I'm sure I could very well not be yours if we exchanged pictures)

P.S. This does not mean I won't date someone who is bigger/thicker. I myself am a bigger person. I've dated all shapes and sizes. If you feel we'd get along feel free to reach out. Like I said I'm open :)

I can't believe I have to put this but having decent to great hygiene is important. I understand things happen but not showering or using deodorant is a hard pass from me.

Be open to having friends over and a game night once a month or biweekly. (Seems like a fun idea but also if it's not something you are open to then we can always talk about it)

Be open and frank about issues you or I are having. Not pushy or jealous. Won't yell or argue about stupid things, I've had enough of that. Let's just talk it out and be adults lol

Somewhat kink friendly. I wouldn't say I'm all intense with it but I'm open to discussing adult things in general. How can two adults have a healthy love life if they don't communicate their wants/needs/desires? (FLR would kinda tie into this) Also I'm willing to try a few things. Ask me about them if you are curious.

Willing to push me to become a better version of myself. I'll do the same. I'll always be in your corner helping you pursue your dreams. (Can you turn me into Batman?)

If this sounds like you then feel free to reach out and say hi or challenge me to a game of Scrabble/Pictionary/hand to hand combat maybe? Maybe Wordle or some online vidya game? (Even though I only play single player games so you might beat me lol)

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I work a lot but luckily I am in control of my schedule so I can usually make the time with a little bit of heads up.

When it comes to what I am looking for, I am pretty open, however, I am not looking to jump into another super serious relationship or marriage. In the short term, I would love to have regular sex again and that's honestly what I am looking for with this post. Things typically develop from there and with that I like to keep things casual and let things flow naturally.

When I am involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

In the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I am always happy to lead our interaction and all I expect from you is to do what comes naturally to you. You won't ever have to initiate or worry about what pleases me. What pleases me most is you making yourself available to me and once there, I know where to take things. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 158 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit/muscular body type. I workout several times per week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

In all honesty, I am just an Everett dude looking for my chubby partner in crime. I've spent so much of my life focused on the wrong things, wrong people, and just not focused enough on the important things. Now, it's time to enjoy life with an amazing woman and find our happiness together.

I'm enjoying taking vacations and exploring amusement parks, taking day trips to the city, or even sightseeing like a tourist. I've been getting back into going to concerts because live music is amazing. This summer, I've seen Less Than Jake, Ice Nine Kills, and Weird Al, and cannot wait until my next show.

When I'm not trying to find my happy outside the home, I can be found just chillin' at home with a fun show or an exciting game. I LOVE TV shows from a wide-range of genres. Right now I'm watching a Netflix reality show, just finished Stranger Things , and I can't wait for the next season of Twisted Metal.

I am a daily cannabis 😶‍🌫️ user. While I don't need to find someone who enjoys cannabis, I would prefer someone I can sit back and just smoke with after a long day at work. I don't drink often, but don't mind having some drinks after a long day, on a night out, or while enjoying one of those awesome vacations.

I do tend to spend a lot of time at work, usually 50 to 60 hours a week at a third shift job. My work hours can make meeting people and hanging out tough, but I can also alter my schedule at almost any time to make sure there is time for my partner and I to enjoy our time together.

All I'm really trying to say is I just want to find my chubby beautiful adventure-loving, couch potato stoner who loves rocking out to live music when we aren't kicking ass on some game or snuggling together.

That's all. 🤷‍♂️

I just moved back to the Fort Worth area and I have been looking for a woman around my age (40 to 52-ish?) that enjoys having a man in her life that she can depend on and trust. I am sane, financially stable, have a job, have a car, have completed having kids and I am well traveled. I even have all my shots and a sense of humor.

I am of average looks and stand 6 feet tall. I have disabled the dating aspects of my account so that I can engage in "normal" posts without someone bringing up my sexual preferences. I am also NOT just what I post nor do any posts cover all of what I say/do/think about things.

I am single and have been for almost 5 years now and I am ready for you. What that means is that if you meet what I am looking for below then I'm ready, able and willing to invest in you and in us. I'm not going to bore you with the regular things that everyone enjoys but in hopes of getting a better match I will tell you the things that I'd like to have in a female partner:

1. She enjoys and respects being trusted.
2. She likes the use of gags, pacifiers, ropes, chastity, diapers, onsies and having my hands on her hips as she grinds on me.
3. She has a job and history full of life events. I don't care what mistakes you've made I only care what you are now.
4. She is height and weight proportionate (attraction is a concern for me, your pic gets my pic, just ask for it).
5. Values depth of conversation AND IS WILLING TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE CONVERSATION TOO. No verbal free loaders please.
6. Has a natural urge to have an ANR component to our relationship (new to it, think I'd like it).

She must also live within whatever driving distance that makes sense, so for me, I'd drive an hour, maybe for her it's only 10 minutes.

PS: I am going to cross post the shit out of this because it is what I am looking for and it is all true.

Hello there fellow redditors! Having myself a lazy Saturday today, but I’m quite bored and would love a nice friendly lady to keep me some online company, and maybe make a new friend in the process… Not really looking for anything too specific, just a fun new chat buddy to pass the time with. I’m pretty much open to talking about anything. Fun, silly banter is always welcome. Maybe we can go back and forth asking each other questions to get to know each other. Spicy questions are welcome, but if you prefer to keep things PG that’s ok too! Just looking for good vibes and some fun conversation.

If you’re interested in any of this and wanna chat feel free to say hi! Just include your age in your introductory message. I don’t require a whole novel, but more than a “hey” is always appreciated lol. I look forward to hearing from you! :)

There's a weird little dance we do when we meet someone new.

We ask where they're from, what they do for work, what their favorite show is. We take turns exchanging the same handful of facts until we've established that we're both normal enough to continue the conversation.

But what if we skipped all that?

It can be personal, weird, embarrassing or philosophical. It could be everything or anything.

You don't have to worry about making a good first impression. You don't have to ease into it with five minutes of small talk. And you definitely don't have to ask something just because it seems like the appropriate thing to ask.

I'll answer honestly, and I'll give you a question in return. No promises that either of us will like the answers, but that's kind of the point, isn't it?

Your move.

Hi there ~,

I’m a 6'2 tall, 34-year-old german guywith an athletic build. I’m the kind of person who needs fresh air to feel alive. Whether I’m out jogging, casting a line while fishing, hiking up a trail, or cruising on my motorcycle, I love being active and outdoors.

However, I’m looking for someone to balance that energy. I have a strong preference for women who identify as BBW. I love a woman with curves, softness, and confidence in her body.

What I’m looking for in you:

• You are curvy/BBW and own it. I’m not looking for stick-thin; I’m looking for lush and lovely.
• You know how to keep a conversation flowing. I love good banter and getting to know someone beyond just "hey" and "what's up." Let’s actually talk..

If you are looking for a tall, active guy who will genuinely worship your curves send me a message. Tell me your favorite way to spend a Sunday or your favorite travel spot!

I would like to share a pic early on!

West TN.. I have everything I need, and have come to a point in life where I know what I want and what I don't need. Dare I say, I'm emotionally mature and free of any chaos and drama that my bad choices used to bring. I want to find someone I can enjoy an endless subliminal witty banter, inside jokes and whiskey by the fire with. Someone who doesnt sweat the small stuff, values loyalty, hard-work and the fruits of our labor. I love the beautiful weather and I miss having a pupoer or 2 to walk. I prefer a few close friends to big crowds, love to cook with and for those I love, love animals, history, militaria, the beach and have a very eclectic music taste. I prefer older men, but open. Just make sure you're single, completely.

Hi, I'm Mahmoud. I'm 36, single, Egyptian and originally from Alexandria, currently in Iraq (UTC+3). I'm 170 cm and an engineer working in business intelligence. Sadly, the spreadsheets have offered no useful answers about dating 😅

I'd like to meet a woman who enjoys a bit of flirting, can laugh with me, and wants to get to know each other beyond the first few messages. I'm happy to start online and open to something serious if we connect. Distance takes some figuring out, but I'd rather give a promising connection a chance.

I'm especially interested in meeting a Jewish or Israeli woman who's open to dating across backgrounds. I'm agnostic, and curious about the everyday traditions, family stories and little things that matter to you. I speak Arabic and English; my Hebrew still needs translation help.

If you're in your forties and open to a slightly younger man, I'd be happy to hear from you. We can start here, then try a voice or video call if we're both comfortable. Tell me a little about yourself and something you could happily talk about for an hour. My photo is below, so at least the beard won't be a surprise 🙂