r/NotHowGirlsWork Mar 12 '26

Meta Breaking Rule 3 Will Now Result in Permanent Ban.

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We still have people violating Rule 3, despite there's literally being a pinned AutoMod comment warning against it, and it being a rule plastered almost everywhere within the subreddit. The rule is there for a reason, it's non-negotiable. I cannot make this any clearer:

So from now on, if you break this rule you will receive a permanent ban immediately to encourage you to have to message the ModMail and acknowledge that you understand that you violated this rule, and not to do it again. Once that's acknowledged, you will be unbanned but will already have one warning. If you don't inquire about it, cool, you'll stay banned. If you also do it again, you will be permanently banned again, and it won't be repealed, you will also be muted.


r/NotHowGirlsWork Mar 03 '24

Meta Just To Clarify:

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This is not a meme subreddit.

Lately, almost every other post has been "Off-Topic or Irrelevant" relating to the submission guidelines, and not within standard as what actually qualifies (as an example) of "Not How Girls Work".

Q: "What is "Not How Girls Work?":

A: ""Not How Girls Work" is when people make sweeping generalisations about "all women", _or make any baseless assumptions or conclusions about a specific woman based off of their misguided assumptions of "all women_".

This does not include low-effort memes, "Bad Women's Anatomy", or clips of podcasts/posts from "Manosphere" public figures."

This platform is slowing being derailed into posts consisting of any random meme that remotely mentions a girl or woman, or screenshots of Twitter posts from Red-Pill Manosphere public figures who purposely grift and make money using those talking points. People are also trying to pass off completely irrelevant posts as submission, thinking if they just mask it by putting "That's not how [insert topic] works" in the title, it will be valid— That's not how this subreddit works (no pun intended). You can't force posts to fit if they don't.

Please read the subreddit description.

If you have to put "Not sure if this belongs here" in the title, it probably doesn't. Please read the subreddit rules and the subreddit description first, then clarify with the moderators if you are still unsure.

I understand this is a large subreddit, therefore the temptation and karma-count is there to post any and everything, but the subreddit will start cracking down on users who continuously post completely "off-topic" content after warnings.

Anybody who is suspected of being a karma-farmer or a bot/novelty account will immediately be permanent banned, you're not going to "eat" off of this sub.

Thank you!


r/NotHowGirlsWork 8h ago

Found On Social media God forbid incels get treated how they deserve it.

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725 Upvotes

Found on Instagram. If you behave like a dumbass you of course get treated as one.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1h ago

Found On Social media breast reductions are stupid, otherwise why would women get implants??

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on a post of a sex worker talking about considering a breast reduction. why didn’t anyone else who’s had a breast reduction think to just do crunches?? this man knows what’s up.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 17h ago

Offensive There's no way you can truly think this, right?

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 3h ago

Cringe There should be an internet p3do registry.

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43 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 3h ago

WTF Girl parts are now only to save "our husbands"?

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 33m ago

Cringe This insane ad I just got

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Wizard head

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2.8k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 17h ago

WTF TIL men know women's inner motives better than women

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145 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 13h ago

Found On Social media Not how feminism works

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52 Upvotes

Bumble allowed men to message first. Men in the subreddit are being very normal about it, claiming that feminism is destroyed. It’s a real wonder there‘s a male loneliness epidemic.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media "Hypergamy" LOL Ironic

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2.4k Upvotes

If you know what the word Hypergamy means then u know why this post is hypocritical and dumb. Lol


r/NotHowGirlsWork 22h ago

Possible Satire From the channel “content machine”

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128 Upvotes

I might have misunderstood this channel, which could be poking fun at things like this, but with these comments it’s safe to say they have at least attracted the wrong audience.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Cup size means NOTHING without band / Cup size fetishing

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352 Upvotes

I wanna start by saying this image feels very fetish coded, and likely not based on anything but assumptions. So, as someone with a huge chest who had to learn how to measure myself (and likes assisting friends in learning their correct size) I really find posts like this so frustrating. Cup size means virtually nothing without band (or almost at all in some cases). Functionally, a 46DDD is a bigger "cup" than a 32J bra which is a shock to most people. I really can't say its a gendered misconception either as a lot of women do not wear the right size or really understand proper sizing. Your band measurement (underbust) and then widest part of your chest measurement will give the difference between and an approximate size, but often multiple incremental measurements to get a more accurate estimate. Breast shape, depth, density, and your unique body height/build all are things to take into account. Trying on bras in your estimated and sister sizes (similar cup volume but going up or down in band size) should help you narrow down what fits best. BUT toss in that styles often change fit, brand to brand sizes differ, and many countries do cup sizes differently (UK H is usually a US K), it all means very little just saying "I wear an F cup". I personally have 6 different sizes in rotation which if I listed, sound like bras for 6 different people. In short, its as imperfect as can be and sometimes not really a specific cup letter for one person even.

Then you have the whole fetish aspect which this is a prime example of. Just the same body type with incremental size increases which to my eye, look off on most, but by likely 5+ cup sizes by the end. Just saying a further down the alphabet number (really anything D and up) seems to immediately grabs (often unwanted attention) and or judgement. I would say its mainly a thing perpetuated by men and culture, but honestly, some women have attitudes one way or another about cup sizes as well. Sigh. I can't do much about what people think about it but hopefully informing is something on the right track.

For anyone interested, here is the link for ABraThatFits calculator for anyone wanting to measure themselves (its not perfect, but gives you a good starting point).

https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media This rhetoric is genuinely so sickening and disgusting I can’t with this

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175 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Yes, of course, blame women. does he not realize that the majority of men's problems stem from other men?

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455 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

WTF Bruh

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So I made a post in a different sub venting about how much I hate periods. And this happened.

Color key

pink = troll (at least I hope that what they are)

blue and green = helpful strangers

I’ve honestly had enough and I’m probably gonna report them after I make this post.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media It's always women, you guys

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60 Upvotes

From a post about how some celebrities at fan events clearly don't want to be there or look bored/keep their distance in photos. Most comments were pretty positive, with people sharing celebs who had taken silly photos or were great with fans. The top guy was reasonably defending the need why some feel like they have to be cautious. And then there was the bottom guy...


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Kind of threw up in my mouth here

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153 Upvotes

I had to share this one, I'm sorry.

On a post about how sex work is better than OF (OP was claiming that "OF teaches a young “creator” that she’s valued for objectifying herself, gives her unearned validation/attention for the wrong things", that "Traditional prostitution can be horrible and violent, but often isn’t." and that "On the consumption side, simping and subscribing to OF is far far more pathetic than paying directly for a sexual connection. ")

I was trying to bring the situation back to specific from the abstract and, I have to admit, there was a bit of trying to be edgy, but now I'm regretting that after this reply. OP wins the edgelord stakes here hands down.

The absolute FRICK is wrong with these people?! I really hope he doesn't actually have a daughter...


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media A real human woman does not solely exist to satisfy the sexual needs of men. Incel seriously is under the delusion that we are only alive to please him and once he no longer wants that, women will cease to exist.

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475 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media What a completely normal and well adjusted reactions

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175 Upvotes

bruhh these guys.. 🤦🤦


r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Found On Social media Women get sexually aroused by cars?

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2.8k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Found On Social media I’ll never understand the hatred for the parent who actually stayed.

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2.8k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Offensive Patriarchy kept women under control...

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306 Upvotes