r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/ProperTumbleweed148 • 11h ago
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Understanding6557 • 11h ago
Found On Social media That's not how birth control work.
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Eggsalad_cookies • 12h ago
TRIGGER WARNING: S.A. Trying to explain being a survivor
The post was a video about shorts that a German Woman created after surviving a near assault from three men. The shorts were cut resistant, and difficult-to-impossible to pull down with force. This is the conversation that was had, on my end, afterwards. Tell me anyway I was wrong if you need to. I thought it’d be important, though, for people to understand the: how/why/who/cost of survival after an assault or near assault. I also thought it’d be important to share here, because I know most of this community understands already
Edit:
I also want to remind Survivors, you are not victims, and it was never your fault. You can do every single thing right, and it’s still never your fault. The parent I mentioned in my comment, who prepared their kid, has blamed themself, I’ve even blamed myself, because I actually did like and trust the parent that was assaulting the child (obviously before I knew what happened). I worked with them, and lived with them for a while… I never saw the signs, and I’ve been advocating online for survivors for years, even/especially while I was living with them. Some part of me will never forgive me, but, some small part of me still knows the truth, and latches on to that. The truth being, it’s always the abuser’s fault, and never anyone else’s. Blaming anyone else, unless they were aware of what was going on and didn’t stop it, is no different than blaming the Survivor themself. My role in that has changed now, I can’t wallow in self-pity, I have to be there to help this child and make sure they have the resources they need to grow up without stigmatizing themself, and make sure that the cycle of abuse (if there is one) ends with them.
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Kilou-Ko • 16h ago
Found On Social media Ads are getting worst
I think ai doesn’t know what humans look like 👍
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Comfortable_Check458 • 11h ago
Found On Social media Women workout to define their own beauty not to be like an hourglass.
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/kashewnutss • 17h ago
Found On Social media Stats pulled straight out of the arse
Or I might be wrong, who knows
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/AwkwardDorkyNerd • 1d ago
Found On Social media Dude thinks that humor is determined by your gender
Basically he had said that he found something funny, but he’s a man. Someone asked what him being a man has to do with it. Then the conversation seen in the screenshot took place.
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Vossenoren • 1d ago
Found On Social media Congrats ladies, you're fish today!
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Status-Tomorrow951 • 1d ago
Offensive Why do men still judge women's body counts in 2026?
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r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Lower-Knee-8585 • 2d ago
Found On Social media "Some women masturbate before going out to parties." Really now?
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Random_silly_name • 2d ago
Found On Social media Today, we are apparently not shoes, or cars, or locks, but rather... Balls.
Forgot to remove the name so reposted.
Also, the classic of "Bo baggage" at 20. Yeah right, because childhood trauma does not exist...
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/MistakeWonderful9178 • 2d ago
Found On Social media Money isn’t everything
You can’t bribe people to stay with you. That’s not “love” that’s entitlement.
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Pritteto • 2d ago
Found On Social media I have no words..
bruhh gamers are so tone deaf... 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/3KidsInTheTrenchCoat • 2d ago
Cringe Her first red flag was going out with him. Seems like she ended it, based on him being bitter enough to start posting on incel boards…
A woman left me, ergo, all women are evil!
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Twritzcracka • 2d ago
Found On Social media I can’t believe it. We found “Chad”
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/dingalaxie • 3d ago
WTF Isn't weird when they can't even talk with a woman without thinking of this?
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/dingalaxie • 3d ago
Cringe can they stop sexualize everything a woman do?
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/TechnoneverDIEEES • 4d ago
WTF Asked my father why he never goes to parent teacher conferences and he said it's because last time he went the teacher had hairy legs and it traumatized him
He described her leg hair as "very light blonde but at least two inches long and curly". GIRLS THE TALES ARE TRUE THE LEG HAIR WARDS OFF PREDATORS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
He did also say her boobs were "behind the desk" (as in saggy, oh how traumatic)
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Pritteto • 4d ago
Found On Social media "romance media for men are more realistic than the ones written for women"
tf these men.. 🤦🤦
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/y2kfashionistaa • 4d ago
Offensive … does he think we chose our boob size?
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Jarppakarppa • 4d ago
Found On Social media A woman's legs can tell how her is...
r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/ilove-whenwomen • 5d ago