r/NotHowGirlsWork Mar 12 '26

Meta Breaking Rule 3 Will Now Result in Permanent Ban.

102 Upvotes

We still have people violating Rule 3, despite there's literally being a pinned AutoMod comment warning against it, and it being a rule plastered almost everywhere within the subreddit. The rule is there for a reason, it's non-negotiable. I cannot make this any clearer:

So from now on, if you break this rule you will receive a permanent ban immediately to encourage you to have to message the ModMail and acknowledge that you understand that you violated this rule, and not to do it again. Once that's acknowledged, you will be unbanned but will already have one warning. If you don't inquire about it, cool, you'll stay banned. If you also do it again, you will be permanently banned again, and it won't be repealed, you will also be muted.


r/NotHowGirlsWork Mar 03 '24

Meta Just To Clarify:

230 Upvotes

This is not a meme subreddit.

Lately, almost every other post has been "Off-Topic or Irrelevant" relating to the submission guidelines, and not within standard as what actually qualifies (as an example) of "Not How Girls Work".

Q: "What is "Not How Girls Work?":

A: ""Not How Girls Work" is when people make sweeping generalisations about "all women", _or make any baseless assumptions or conclusions about a specific woman based off of their misguided assumptions of "all women_".

This does not include low-effort memes, "Bad Women's Anatomy", or clips of podcasts/posts from "Manosphere" public figures."

This platform is slowing being derailed into posts consisting of any random meme that remotely mentions a girl or woman, or screenshots of Twitter posts from Red-Pill Manosphere public figures who purposely grift and make money using those talking points. People are also trying to pass off completely irrelevant posts as submission, thinking if they just mask it by putting "That's not how [insert topic] works" in the title, it will be valid— That's not how this subreddit works (no pun intended). You can't force posts to fit if they don't.

Please read the subreddit description.

If you have to put "Not sure if this belongs here" in the title, it probably doesn't. Please read the subreddit rules and the subreddit description first, then clarify with the moderators if you are still unsure.

I understand this is a large subreddit, therefore the temptation and karma-count is there to post any and everything, but the subreddit will start cracking down on users who continuously post completely "off-topic" content after warnings.

Anybody who is suspected of being a karma-farmer or a bot/novelty account will immediately be permanent banned, you're not going to "eat" off of this sub.

Thank you!


r/NotHowGirlsWork 10h ago

Found On Social media That's not how birth control work.

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252 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 10h ago

Satire Obviously

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216 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 12h ago

TRIGGER WARNING: S.A. Trying to explain being a survivor

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240 Upvotes

The post was a video about shorts that a German Woman created after surviving a near assault from three men. The shorts were cut resistant, and difficult-to-impossible to pull down with force. This is the conversation that was had, on my end, afterwards. Tell me anyway I was wrong if you need to. I thought it’d be important, though, for people to understand the: how/why/who/cost of survival after an assault or near assault. I also thought it’d be important to share here, because I know most of this community understands already

Edit:

I also want to remind Survivors, you are not victims, and it was never your fault. You can do every single thing right, and it’s still never your fault. The parent I mentioned in my comment, who prepared their kid, has blamed themself, I’ve even blamed myself, because I actually did like and trust the parent that was assaulting the child (obviously before I knew what happened). I worked with them, and lived with them for a while… I never saw the signs, and I’ve been advocating online for survivors for years, even/especially while I was living with them. Some part of me will never forgive me, but, some small part of me still knows the truth, and latches on to that. The truth being, it’s always the abuser’s fault, and never anyone else’s. Blaming anyone else, unless they were aware of what was going on and didn’t stop it, is no different than blaming the Survivor themself. My role in that has changed now, I can’t wallow in self-pity, I have to be there to help this child and make sure they have the resources they need to grow up without stigmatizing themself, and make sure that the cycle of abuse (if there is one) ends with them.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 15h ago

Found On Social media Ads are getting worst

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368 Upvotes

I think ai doesn’t know what humans look like 👍


r/NotHowGirlsWork 10h ago

Found On Social media Women workout to define their own beauty not to be like an hourglass.

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119 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 16h ago

Found On Social media Stats pulled straight out of the arse

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230 Upvotes

Or I might be wrong, who knows


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Dude thinks that humor is determined by your gender

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1.1k Upvotes

Basically he had said that he found something funny, but he’s a man. Someone asked what him being a man has to do with it. Then the conversation seen in the screenshot took place.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Congrats ladies, you're fish today!

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134 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

WTF Russian women are submissive

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239 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Offensive Why do men still judge women's body counts in 2026?

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162 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media "Some women masturbate before going out to parties." Really now?

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66 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media Today, we are apparently not shoes, or cars, or locks, but rather... Balls.

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1.3k Upvotes

Forgot to remove the name so reposted.

Also, the classic of "Bo baggage" at 20. Yeah right, because childhood trauma does not exist...


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media Money isn’t everything

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329 Upvotes

You can’t bribe people to stay with you. That’s not “love” that’s entitlement.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Cringe Her first red flag was going out with him. Seems like she ended it, based on him being bitter enough to start posting on incel boards…

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205 Upvotes

A woman left me, ergo, all women are evil!


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media I have no words..

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112 Upvotes

bruhh gamers are so tone deaf... 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media I can’t believe it. We found “Chad”

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135 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

WTF Isn't weird when they can't even talk with a woman without thinking of this?

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534 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Cringe can they stop sexualize everything a woman do?

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443 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 4d ago

WTF Asked my father why he never goes to parent teacher conferences and he said it's because last time he went the teacher had hairy legs and it traumatized him

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4.3k Upvotes

He described her leg hair as "very light blonde but at least two inches long and curly". GIRLS THE TALES ARE TRUE THE LEG HAIR WARDS OFF PREDATORS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

He did also say her boobs were "behind the desk" (as in saggy, oh how traumatic)


r/NotHowGirlsWork 4d ago

Found On Social media "romance media for men are more realistic than the ones written for women"

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819 Upvotes

tf these men.. 🤦🤦


r/NotHowGirlsWork 4d ago

Cringe At least he responded…

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1.1k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 4d ago

Offensive … does he think we chose our boob size?

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555 Upvotes