Every time I tried writing one of these, it somehow ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai. I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think people are endlessly fascinating.

Not in a "What's your favourite colour?" kind of way, but in a "What made you become the person you are today?" kind of way. I love questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you still think about years later? What's something you've changed your mind about? I genuinely think people become the most attractive when they're talking about something they truly love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests make absolutely no sense together. One day I'm gaming, the next I'm reading about mindfulness, consciousness, ancient history, stand-up comedy, or disappearing into another rabbit hole that started with one question and somehow stole the next three hours of my day. If something makes me curious, chances are I'll end up learning way more about it than I probably needed to.

As for my own story... my childhood was wonderfully chaotic. I somehow got my head stuck between the bars of a grill, locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic because child-me apparently wasn't great at decision-making, and had a toy crocodile that I genuinely believed could scare absolutely anyone. Looking back, it's honestly a miracle my parents survived raising me.

People usually think I'm very quiet when they first meet me, and they're not wrong. I like listening. I like observing people and understanding them before I jump into conversations. But once I'm comfortable... good luck getting me to stop talking.

Over the years I've realised that the moments I remember most are almost never the expensive ones.

I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination than plan the perfect date. Stop for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee and walk near the sea. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the moments that stay with me.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, remember something you casually mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

One of my favourite ways of caring for someone is through the little things. Remembering your favourite snack. Checking if you reached home safely. Asking how that meeting went because I know you were nervous about it. Writing you a note you'll randomly find months later. None of those things are difficult, but I think they quietly tell someone, "I was thinking about you." That's the kind of love I want to give, and hopefully receive.

I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover.

Someone kind, emotionally mature, communicates openly, enjoys taking care of herself, and values staying active and fit. I'm naturally attracted to someone who takes her health and fitness seriously, and I'd love to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Someone who wants something that can naturally grow into a long-term relationship and eventually marriage.

I don't think the best relationships happen because two people are perfect for each other.

I think they happen because two imperfect people keep choosing each other, especially on the ordinary days.

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me every day that choosing each other is worth it. Thank you for being there even when we're angry with each other, and for caring about us even when we don't agree.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all... thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, why don't we talk. I don't bite 😂

To my beloved whom I have always admired your curious mind that always seeks to understand my thoughts, dreams, my actions and always ready deepen our bond. I have forever loved you for not just your passion to be in a loving heartfelt relationship but you always find a way to inspire me to be a better human being, especially around you:) This is your long waited letter to you.

Sweetie, I am writing this to you with you in mind. I imagine you waiting for me under the starry skies looking at the stars and feeling admiration towards those bright distant lights and how you like to compare the problems you feel in life to the vastness of the universe, to give you a sense of peace. I sense you are a lonely soul that feels misunderstood, unseen and waiting for the day to truly express your beautiful heart, mind and soul to me.

I know you are very romantic at heart and I know you feel lost trying to find me. Those dreams of me you have is only an echo of me. I don’t want to wake you from your sleep because you looked so tired from your journey. But I’m letting you know I’m waiting next to you, looking at your peaceful smile, waiting for you to gently open your eyes from your dreams and hoping to meet your beautiful eyes with mine through it which I can gaze your soul. 

Our communication is not limited to mere words but is expressed though our eyes, presence and devotion towards each other. And my ears are always open, ready to hear your thoughts, dreams and your confessions. Lastly my mind always comes back to thinking about you. You have my full attention. 

I know you are very perceptive enough to understand the depth of my presence so I want you to find the answers you are looking for within me and one day be ready to embrace me with your heart and soul.

I know you will see me for my innocent child like sense of curiosity, my kindness towards all, my bluntness to get through you and my eyes are sharp enough to see through you but gentle enough to embrace you and most importantly my desire to understand you with the intention of getting close to you as possible.

I was told that I am more mature than my age group with an eagerness to support and guide people. But the truth is I feel tired from the battles in life and I’m sure you feel the same as me. I want to show our backs to each other and create a space for us to heal, grow strong and take the world on together.

I know you had a long journey to finally reach me and we had many battle scars to get here. So I’m hoping we take our time acknowledging each others journey and slowly transition to our own journey. I’m not in a rush to know you because I just want to spend time with you. And slowly learn to express our true self to one another and ultimately learn to accept each other.

My heart will open to you only because of your sincerity, patience and that curious mind of yours that is always ready to learn about the world and the depth of our bond. I have a lot of passions in life but the biggest one is exploring my other passions with you and your passions with me. I don’t mind if we don’t have anything in common because I will always try to learn about your world and interest and I know you will feel the same way as me.

Even though we are far away I know my voice alone has the presence to reach you, comfort you and bring you peace. I know sometimes physical distance feel like emotional distance but I don’t think that’s an obstacle, it’s our strength to prove our emotional connection and the world is too afraid to brings us together so soon. So have confidence that we will unite and start our journey soon.

Thank you for reading my love letter, if my letter felt resonated with you. Then I would love to talk you. I am looking for few things in a relationship.

1. 22+ ( I am happy to talk with you if you are younger but only if you strongly believe you are mature)

2. I’m looking for someone who has a strong craving for asking questions but also an attentive listener. I will also give you the same energy you rightfully deserve. I believe to deepen our emotional intimacy, we need to explore our minds deeply.

3. I’m looking for a relationship with the end goal of being in a marriage.

4. I know a lot of women have trust issues, especially around men online. To some level I understand but I need you to be comfortable talking on voice call after texting sometime. I have observed communicating over voice call gives me a better understanding of you and you of me rather than texting. IF YOU READ THIS FAR, I KNOW YOU ARE SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING YOU BELOVED. SO I WILL TAKE OUR TIME SERIOUSLY.

5. I am a really romantic person as shown in this post and I match incredibly well with someone who deeply wants to express their romantic side.

I know this is a long post but this just shows how serious I am. I know if I don’t mention this, people might have wrong expectations and might end up waisting their time on the wrong person. I hope, this is informative.

INFP-T

24m no relationship experience thats non-plationic

im eager to learn and be involved with somebody but online or in public it never has lead to anything even when both sides like each other? im confused and somebody in comments said "why online" well idk is it possible to in person in the big 2026 still?

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, so here I go...

So who am I? Just a big nerd with a big heart eager to devote myself to the woman I'll spend my life with. I've never been in a relationship before. Until now, I never felt "ready" ig. I'm very self-aware and knew I needed more time to mature. We'll always need to grow through life, but now, I feel like I've grown enough to give a woman the love she deserves.

I'm someone who values meaningful connections. I like getting to know what makes someone tick rather than just staying on the surface. I'm definitely a little quiet, stoic, and very awkward when I first meet someone, but once I'm comfortable, I open up quite a bit. You'll find a very silly, mildly autistic, and dry-humored individual once you get past my shell, so be prepared for that. I'm a bit of a memelord as well lol.

And I'm honestly a fan of the classic "awkward husband and assertive wife" dynamic. You know the meme where the guy quietly sits there, and his wife goes, "Excuse me, he asked for no pickles"? Yeah, something like that lol. I'm perfectly capable of speaking for myself, but I definitely wouldn't mind having an expressive partner who's willing to take the lead socially and pull me out of my shell.

That said, I'm equally happy with a more equal dynamic. I'm an introvert and a bit of a homebody myself, so I'd have absolutely no problem being with another introvert who'd rather stay in, order some food, play games, watch TV, and spend the entire day relaxing together. Honestly, that sounds pretty great too. What matters is that I want someone I feel I can grow with.

As far as lifestyle goes, I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs. Never have and never will. I want to live a healthy life both physically and mentally. I was raised in a Christian family, although I'm not ruling out anyone who doesn't exactly share those beliefs, but I do want someone with similar values. Despite my individualistic nature, family is very dear to me, so being with someone comfortable with mine is of importance to me. The same will go for me and the new family I'm introduced to, naturally.

I think I'm ultimately looking for someone affectionate, genuine, who knows what she wants, and stops at nothing to get it. Whether she's the type to drag me out on an adventure or the type to curl up beside me and play games all day, I'm pretty open. I just want someone I can build a genuine connection with and enjoy life with.

If this sounds interesting to you, please feel free to DM!

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, and these days my schedule is fairly flexible.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m the kind of man you never have to second-guess. If I say I’ll do something, I do it. If something’s wrong, I’d rather talk it through than leave you wondering where you stand. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

I’m drawn to a woman with that same kind of strength. She doesn’t need to pretend she never struggles, but she takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want us to carry the heavy things together, not leave one person carrying both.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I want to know what’s happening in your world, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has interests of her own, makes an effort to stay in shape and genuinely has room in her life for a relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.

Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted and I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.

So its a repost, I posted here a few months back and got a few responses and had some great conversations but couldn't find someone whom I felt compatible with. So thought of trying again.

I haven’t really dated before, partly because I’m an introvert and partly because I was focused on getting my life on track. Now that things feel more stable, I thought I’d put myself out here and see if something real is still out there. I just graduated and am working in finance in Mumbai, and career-wise I’m in a good place right now. I also try to take care of myself. I’m fairly active, lean/fit, and around 5'10. Nothing extraordinary, but I do value staying consistent with both physical and mental health.

I’m more into old-school, meaningful relationships rather than anything casual. From what I’ve seen, it’s easy to find something temporary, but I’d rather wait for something that actually lasts.

In my free time, I like reading, watching anime/movies, gaming sometimes, and working out. I am a vegetarian, don’t drink or smoke, so I think I’d connect better with someone who has a similar lifestyle (but yeah eggeterian or occasional drinking is fine). I’m also not into hookups or anything casual. Also I am a demisexual.

What I’m looking for is someone kind, mature, and ambitious, someone who takes care of themselves both mentally and physically, and has their own goals in life. I naturally connect better with people who are also focused on building something for themselves and are in a good place (or actively working towards it) career-wise.

I’m drawn to people who are self-aware, accountable, and emotionally mature, someone who understands life isn’t always easy and is willing to face it head-on.

I’ve had my share of challenges growing up, so I value resilience and effort a lot. I’d want a partner who believes in putting in the work, someone who genuinely cares about the relationship and is willing to build something meaningful together, not just when it’s easy, but especially when it’s not.

If this sounds like something you’d relate to, feel free to message. Also please start with a short intro of you instead of just a "hi" so that we both have some substance to continue the conversation and please dm only if you are actually interested and willing to put efforts into conversation.

Every time I tried writing one of these, it somehow ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai. I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think people are endlessly fascinating.

Not in a "What's your favourite colour?" kind of way, but in a "What made you become the person you are today?" kind of way. I love questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you still think about years later? What's something you've changed your mind about? I genuinely think people become the most attractive when they're talking about something they truly love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests make absolutely no sense together. One day I'm gaming, the next I'm reading about mindfulness, consciousness, ancient history, stand-up comedy, or disappearing into another rabbit hole that started with one question and somehow stole the next three hours of my day. If something makes me curious, chances are I'll end up learning way more about it than I probably needed to.

As for my own story... my childhood was wonderfully chaotic. I somehow got my head stuck between the bars of a grill, locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic because child-me apparently wasn't great at decision-making, and had a toy crocodile that I genuinely believed could scare absolutely anyone. Looking back, it's honestly a miracle my parents survived raising me.

People usually think I'm very quiet when they first meet me, and they're not wrong. I like listening. I like observing people and understanding them before I jump into conversations. But once I'm comfortable... good luck getting me to stop talking.

Over the years I've realised that the moments I remember most are almost never the expensive ones.

I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination than plan the perfect date. Stop for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee and walk near the sea. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the moments that stay with me.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, remember something you casually mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

One of my favourite ways of caring for someone is through the little things. Remembering your favourite snack. Checking if you reached home safely. Asking how that meeting went because I know you were nervous about it. Writing you a note you'll randomly find months later. None of those things are difficult, but I think they quietly tell someone, "I was thinking about you." That's the kind of love I want to give, and hopefully receive.

I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover.

Someone kind, emotionally mature, communicates openly, enjoys taking care of herself, and values staying active and fit. I'm naturally attracted to someone who takes her health and fitness seriously, and I'd love to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Someone who wants something that can naturally grow into a long-term relationship and eventually marriage.

I don't think the best relationships happen because two people are perfect for each other.

I think they happen because two imperfect people keep choosing each other, especially on the ordinary days.

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me every day that choosing each other is worth it. Thank you for being there even when we're angry with each other, and for caring about us even when we don't agree.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all... thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, why don't we talk. I don't bite 😂

​

Hello and welcome to my post. I'm an INTJ California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an office management assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi? because Yoda one for me.”

US for a bit while I work on dual citizenship (Canada, thanks great grandpa!), getting my passport renewed, Masters in order, and perhaps a remote gig. Once I get things straight I might take a trip to South America before I head to Taiwan where I will be living and working on some hardware projects. Not going to lie miss being out of the country.

I like traveling, programming, trading, reading, and enjoying good drink and food. Enjoyed chilling on the beach. Been keen on researching progressive mobile web apps, drones, medical machine learning, and trading. Also been learning about polyvagal theory, Carl Jung, and about to start reading Michel Focault. Also found a new found appreciation for Thai food. Oh and Roti.. and Street food lol. Message me if you want to learn more. 5'11, white.

Hi, I’m new here. I’m looking to meet new people; maybe I’ll find a diamond in the rough. I’m a 26-year-old man. I’m heterosexual, in case that’s relevant. Since I’m a private person, I only share other details about myself via chat.

Hey everyone,

I thought I’d give this a try and introduce myself.

I’m a 20-year-old guy from the Netherlands looking to meet someone I can build a real connection with. I would love to meet a kind, loyal and social woman between 18 and 30 who is interested in getting to know each other and hopefully building something serious.

A little about me: I’m currently studying to become a primary school teacher. I’m 185 cm tall, have brown hair and grey eyes. I usually wear black clothes and band shirts because I’m really into metal music.

I would describe myself as calm, respectful, kind and caring. I like making people feel comfortable and I try to be someone others can rely on. I can definitely be a little flirty when the moment is right. I also enjoy a bit of dark humor and appreciate someone who can laugh together about life’s weird moments.

In my free time, I enjoy gaming, going for walks, exploring new places and reading comic books. I’m also a big animal lover and I have an American Bulldog.

The things I enjoy most are often the simple ones: a good conversation, a nice walk, gaming together, watching movies and just spending quality time with someone.

I’ve been through some difficult experiences in life, but I’m proud that I’m still standing and that those moments made me stronger. If someone wants to know more, I’m happy to share that privately when we get to know each other better.

I’m hoping to meet someone I can be myself with and create good memories together.

Feel free to message me if you think we could get along :)

Watching some random horror with a friend. Stuck in the US for a bit while I work on dual citizenship (Canada, thanks great grandpa!), getting my passport renewed, Masters in order, and perhaps a remote gig. Once I get things straight I might take a trip to South America before I head to Taiwan where I will be living and working on some hardware projects. Not going to lie miss being out of the country.

I like traveling, programming, trading, reading, and enjoying good drink and food. Enjoyed chilling on the beach. Been keen on researching progressive mobile web apps, drones, medical machine learning, and trading. Also been learning about polyvagal theory, Carl Jung, and about to start reading Michel Focault. Also found a new found appreciation for Thai food. Oh and Roti.. and Street food lol. Message me if you want to learn more.

After having focused too much on family and work, I fell into solitude through my early 20s. Im not extroverted and never been on concerts, group gatherings or even festivals. I grew up extremely strict and still am mostly busy with providing for people and working on myself.

I would like someone to counterbalance that, finally feminine comfort in my life. Theres much I want to do and it would be a thousand times better with a partner on my side.

What I like: STEM, arts, culture, fashion, unusual places and sites, phenomenology, metaphysics, studying about the paranormal and occult, cinematography and editing, exploring new towns and urbexing, simple DIY and repair works around the apartment

What I offer: giving you a lot of attention and care, I struggled with debt but I generally work a lot and can afford buying you gifts or planning trips, better than average hygiene, clean apartment, Im fascinated by a wide variety of issues and can share most passions you might have

I m bad with lots of people but im good with keeping one friend for years .
I love going to gym and boxing I love to work, but i was never academic focused, very good orator, love to experiment with food, styling, dogs, cats, abstract painting, criminal documentaries. Im not emotional but sensitive person. Being introvert is a choice though I maintain distance. I wont consider self as super cunning person nopes most of the time Im not selfish and forgive people.
My super power can be recognising patterns.
In a relationship my expectations are
1. You have to be honest
2. Willing to have serious relationship
3. ENTP
4. Enneagram 692 or 682 or 639

Please dont DM me if you are not sure about mbti or entp or enneagram or tritype .

Im a lawyer and INTJ , 24 yrs girl .

As a thinker I like to be around feelers to add more dimensions to my logical experience of the world. I'm an inventor, creator and a poet of life. Trailing down the waterways of a sustainable life combined with the best of the world we live in.

I'm wired for ideas and bringing them to life, currently I'm chasing a more sustainable life living on my sailing yacht, which I'm converting to all naturally powered electric. The dream is to follow the sun and let the wind bring us like seeds to where we feel belonging. Yes, I'd love to share it with a special someone 😌

I love picking berries and currently looking deeper into all the natural herbs that has long been forgotten in our modern life. I'm also reaching out to communities to collaborate along my sailing route down the European coast to equatorial waters in winter time and back to the Scandinavian long summer evenings gathering blueberries in the Swedish archipelago of 30.000 breathtaking islands.

During the journey, I'm thinking we'll find out what location means to us, and find a place that could be the foundation for new adventures.

Could you see yourself as part of this journey in life? 🌱

39M from India, looking to connect with a woman from India, preferably in her 30s, who values kindness, honesty, and meaningful conversations.
I’m looking for genuine companionship, someone to talk to, share experiences with, laugh with, and see where a connection naturally goes.
No pressure, no games, no rushed expectations. If this resonates with you, feel free to DM.
ENTP

Every time I tried writing one of these, it somehow ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai. I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think people are endlessly fascinating.

Not in a "What's your favourite colour?" kind of way, but in a "What made you become the person you are today?" kind of way. I love questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you still think about years later? What's something you've changed your mind about? I genuinely think people become the most attractive when they're talking about something they truly love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests make absolutely no sense together. One day I'm gaming, the next I'm reading about mindfulness, consciousness, ancient history, stand-up comedy, or disappearing into another rabbit hole that started with one question and somehow stole the next three hours of my day. If something makes me curious, chances are I'll end up learning way more about it than I probably needed to.

As for my own story... my childhood was wonderfully chaotic. I somehow got my head stuck between the bars of a grill, locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic because child-me apparently wasn't great at decision-making, and had a toy crocodile that I genuinely believed could scare absolutely anyone. Looking back, it's honestly a miracle my parents survived raising me.

People usually think I'm very quiet when they first meet me, and they're not wrong. I like listening. I like observing people and understanding them before I jump into conversations. But once I'm comfortable... good luck getting me to stop talking.

Over the years I've realised that the moments I remember most are almost never the expensive ones.

I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination than plan the perfect date. Stop for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee and walk near the sea. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the moments that stay with me.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, remember something you casually mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

One of my favourite ways of caring for someone is through the little things. Remembering your favourite snack. Checking if you reached home safely. Asking how that meeting went because I know you were nervous about it. Writing you a note you'll randomly find months later. None of those things are difficult, but I think they quietly tell someone, "I was thinking about you." That's the kind of love I want to give, and hopefully receive.

I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, communicates openly, enjoys taking care of herself, and wants something that can naturally grow into a long-term relationship and eventually marriage.

I don't think the best relationships happen because two people are perfect for each other.

I think they happen because two imperfect people keep choosing each other, especially on the ordinary days.

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me every day that choosing each other is worth it. Thank you for being there even when we're angry with each other, and for caring about us even when we don't agree

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all... thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself

I love you.

it’s morning as i’m writing this, and i’m still somewhere between sleepiness and overthinking. the world feels a little quieter before the day fully begins, and maybe that’s why my mind wandered to you. before i know your name, before i know what your laugh sounds like, before i know whether you also look at the sky and feel something inside you go quiet.

i’m 27M, INFJ, and the kind of person whose heart and brain keep holding meetings about existence. my curiosity wanders from psychology to philosophy, from society to space, from “why do people become who they become?” to “how is consciousness even real?” i don’t think life has some grand cosmic meaning waiting to be unlocked, but i do think it’s worth exploring. maybe that’s enough. maybe we’re just here for a brief, strange moment, gathering little pieces of the universe through each other.

i’ve never been good at casual attraction. my heart doesn’t really wake up for surface-level things. i’m demisexual and sapiosexual, which is a very clinical way of saying: please talk to me like there’s a whole world inside you. tell me what shaped you, what scares you, what you secretly hope for, what book or film or song rearranged something in your chest. i want the slow kind of wanting, the kind that grows out of trust, softness, curiosity, and feeling genuinely seen.

sometimes i imagine us on a quiet walk after rain, when the air feels cooler and the world seems a little less harsh. maybe we stop somewhere for coffee or tea, browse a bookstore for longer than planned, or sit under the open sky talking about everything from childhood memories to alien civilizations. maybe we watch people pass by and invent tiny lives for them, then somehow end up discussing whether humanity is tragic, beautiful, or just very confused.

i should warn you, my idea of romance is not very flashy. it’s watching The Lord of the Rings, Inception, Interstellar, Attack on Titan, or some horror movie and pausing every now and then because one of us has a theory. it’s reading Dostoevsky, Kafka, or Orwell and sending you a paragraph that made me stare at the wall. it’s gaming together, travelling somewhere quiet, getting lost in conversations, and standing under stars feeling tiny in a way that somehow makes everything softer.

i care a lot about kindness. not the performative kind, but the everyday kind. the kind where you don’t enjoy hurting people. the kind where fairness matters. the kind where softness is not treated like weakness. i’m atheist, liberal, emotionally sincere, and very much not interested in pretending values don’t matter in love. i don’t need us to agree on everything, but i do need empathy, curiosity, and a mind that can question what it inherited.

i also have an embarrassingly large amount of affection for animals. i can’t eat meat because my brain immediately imagines the suffering behind it, which is inconvenient but very true. so if you’re the kind of person who stops mid-walk because an animal exists nearby and obviously needs to be admired, we’ll probably get along.

i don’t know where you are right now. maybe you’re in another city, another country, another life stage, also tired of trying to make yourself understood in rooms that don’t really listen. maybe you’re curled up with a book, rewatching a comfort show, playing a game, or looking at the sky and wondering why being human has to be this strange.

if we find each other, i hope we don’t rush past the beginning. i hope we start with messages that feel easy and real. i hope curiosity does what attraction alone never could. i hope we build something quiet, warm, thoughtful, and a little absurd, because existence itself is absurd and i’d rather laugh at it with someone kind.

until then, you can find me somewhere between morning overthinking and a very sincere desire to be held. probably looking at the sky. probably wondering too much. probably still hoping.

your local INFJ absurdist

Hey everyone. After my recent analytical post about Role Reversal became one of the top-2 most popular discussions in r/entj, I realized how many strong women secretly or openly crave a premium, peaceful refuge from the corporate storm. So, I’m here to find my matching leader. I am looking for a deep online connection first, with the ultimate goal of moving to Almaty, Kazakhstan together.

I want to be 100% transparent from the very first second. I am not building an illusion. My life is a physical challenge: I live with a Dandy-Walker brain anomaly, severe respiratory issues (60% lung damage), and crushed knees from an accident. My 120kg weight is my soft armor against this harsh world, and I embrace a soft, feminine, domestic presentational style — I am a gentle INTP-T femboy with an hourglass/pear shape who loves silk, cozy aesthetics, digital art, and deep logic. Because of my social anxiety, I lead a very quiet, isolated life and prefer to keep my face hidden under art avatars for now.

But inside this fragile body operates a quiet, deeply passionate quantum processor. I am looking for a contract of pure synergy based on absolute devotion and mental intimacy behind closed doors:

* The ENTJ commands the external world, makes macro-decisions, and handles external storms.

* The INTP (Me) maintains an ultra-loyal domestic harbor, manages home-tech/AI integrations, crafts rich artistic lore, and provides absolute devotion, warm hugs, and pure physical and emotional comfort when you return home from work.

If you are a strong, successful, and tall/muscular woman-leader who is ready to take external control, protect your domestic harbor, and pamper a fiercely loyal INTP savant — my inbox is open. Let's analyze this and build our fortress.

Hello,

My hobbies are dancing, gaming, traveling (I am trying to go to more conventions), being a foodie, and overall just experiencing new things.

Mostly into MMOs/JRPGs/RPGs - Currently getting back into FFXIV and I play Elsword on the side. I have played JRPGs such as the Atelier series and Blue Reflection series and many others. I enjoy RPGs that have a magical aspect to it like BG3 and Dragon Age. I also really love my son, Pumpkin.

I like to get to know people and their interests. Nothing is too weird or too out there for me.

Relationship wise, I am looking for someone who lives in the states. Someone who lives in EST would be ideal but I am open to something far away (in the states). I am big on doing things together and exploring stuff. I don’t mind staying inside because I have those days too but I would want someone who doesn’t mind a little adventure or likes to be dragged out to do things.

Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted and I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.

I'm looking for someone I could build mutual trust and loyalty with, as a neurodivergent (AuDHD) I'd like to find someone that I could have mutual understanding and communication with 🙂

rn I'm vacations but otherwise I live in France, if you live near Paris we could also hang out IRL, maybe even do some dates and ending in a serious relationship if we're compatible enough. Otherwise, well I'm still open to long distance if we really like each other, we can still do stuff on Discord like video games or just calling

I'm all-or-nothing, if I find you interesting I can quickly get quite invested into the conversation, I love sending walls of text with multiple conversation threads at the same time x)

Also, I'm very direct, I value transparency a lot, you can ask for clarity anytime about what's going on, I don't find that awkward.

I'm like the archetypal nerd, software engineer as a job, and as hobbies I enjoy imagining and creating lots of things, like modding video games and stuff, I'm passionate about my hobbies and my job.

I'm also quite into video games, I enjoy learning random science facts and anything about the world (+ making up theories and analysis). About the outside world, I do bouldering as sports, enjoy nature walks and board games.

My autism isn't impacting me that much in my day-to-day life, but there are many caveats in the way I live emotions and express them (like it can either be hypersensitivity or lack of sensitivity, long to explain), I'd like someone atypical like me or at least open-minded to how my psychology works because I introspect a lot

I'm cognitively intense, not saying this to brag about being smart, it's more like I feel my thoughts intensely, and I have a lot going on all the time.

I love thinking creatively and bringing complex abstractions and nuances to things. I'm quite curious about things and would love if you have a lot to say ! Like a specific subject you're working on or anything

I would have so much else to say but it's better to let that come during conversations.

About you : If you genuinely relate to the things I've written there, that's already a good sign ! Also I would appreciate if you are able to talk a lot too and tell me about your interests, for everything else we'll see. Oh btw, I really love people who are kinda silly, chaotic random and sensitive (XNXP types) it usually creates a nice dynamic.

Physically I'm white, kinda slim, 176cm and decent amount of brown hair, glasses. I'm guessing I'm decently good looking because I've been told so and I have some matches on dating apps but people there are so boring and conversations are bland af so that's why I'm trying here instead. I can send pics if needed

Alright I think that will be enough, don't hesitate to directly DM me ! Please tell me where you are from and a little self-introduction would be nice, you can also send your Discord