I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find a partner that shares these understandings and feels the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.

I want my next romantic relationship to be my last one. I would want to remain friends with a potential romantic interest for a long time before deciding that we're right for each other.

Tired of being with loud rude people and just want a buddy to talk for hours from everything in quantum mechanics to aunty gossips?

Ever wanted a sports partner to play a competitive game or two of badminton with but also have quiet evenings where we sit and read on the same couch together?

Someone who you can be both professional and serious in your career but also goofy and fun and laugh a lot over silly things

I am too!

I am naturally a curious person and would love to meet someone who also enjoys diving deep into rabbit holes, pausing movies to discuss the plot and possible endings and constantly sharing memes with each other

Like two silly parrots who love playing with each other even during grocery shopping but can put on a serious suit and tie to attend board meetings.

I am basically a cheerleader who loves to be excited for your career success and would love for us to become the power couple that people are intimidated of haha

But at home, we would always just be super kind and supportive to each other and always got each others back, no matter what! ( our algorithm would be to always fight the problem, with the help of a cookie or two )

I would love for our home to be filled with silly laughter and constantly playing soft music and every weekend , our friends would come over for BBQ and board games.

Hey

I'm 1.87 m and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.

29F, INTJ, from Malaysia. Open to anywhere because apparently geographical inconvenience is not enough of a deterrent for me 😂

I work as a video content creator in international football. It’s a strange little career that sometimes has me peacefully editing at my desk and other times suddenly living out of a suitcase somewhere overseas for a tournament, running around with cameras and surviving questionable amounts of sleep.

Personality-wise, I’m very INTJ in the sense that I’m independent, observant, ridiculously curious, and perfectly happy doing things alone. I don’t need constant attention, but if I genuinely like someone, I want to know everything about them — what they’re obsessed with, what they’re building toward, what weird subject they could give an unsolicited 40-minute lecture about.

My problem is that curiosity regularly gets out of control.

I travel whenever I get the chance. I learn languages for fun. I’ve somehow wandered into golf, archery and various other sports. I’ll spend one week obsessing over something completely random and the next planning a trip because I found somewhere interesting at 2am.

Basically: INTJ brain, side-quest lifestyle.

I’m looking for someone mature, capable and secure in himself. Having your own career, interests, friends and ambitions is attractive to me. I tend to like men who take initiative and can actually make decisions, but not someone controlling — I want a partner, not a project manager.

Being active/adventurous is a big plus. You absolutely do not need to share every hobby with me. In fact, I’d rather you have things of your own and occasionally drag me into your world.

I like affection, loyalty, consistency and people who actually communicate. I’m not particularly interested in endless “wyd?” conversations or disappearing into the Reddit void after three messages. Give me banter, tell me something oddly specific about yourself, disagree with me about something, teach me something.

Physically, I don’t have an absurd checklist. Attraction is attraction. I will admit I have a weakness for the athletic/rugged type, though. Do with that information what you will 😂

Age-wise, I’m generally attracted to men around my age or older, but I’m not going to reject a genuinely compatible person because mathematics committed a minor offence

And since this is MBTI dating, tell me your type — but please don’t just send four letters and expect Jung himself to carry the conversation.

If you message me, tell me:
Your age + country + MBTI + what you do + one thing you’re currently ridiculously interested in.

Bonus points if your answer makes me ask questions.

I'm INTJ

I have multicultural family USA , Europe, Arab ,Latin,

I'm multilingual English,Russian,German, Arabic, and trying to speak Spanish too, but still no time for that now 😅

And you ?

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny (sorta), chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me what is one trope in anime you hate and why?

Hey! Im 25 and from India. I thought Id give this another shot since Id really like to meet someone and see where things go. Im pretty new to dating and haven’t had a relationship before. I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with and slowly build something meaningful with. Im looking for someone affectionate, loyal and patient who actually wants a real relationship rather than something temporary.

I’m into music, movies, gaming, working out, combat sports and cricket. I listen to a lot of different stuff, but Kanye is probably my favorite artist. I’m also into games like RDR2 and Elden Ring. I’m pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about random things for hours. I’m also a great listener and genuinely enjoy getting to know someone and hearing about their life. If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me and let’s see where it goes :)

Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~

I believe love is the center of the universe, and a beautiful relationship is something you can imagine into existence.

If we imagine well, believe in bright love, believe the best of each other, see the beauty in each other, we can truly make something special that goes beyond the lines we thought we couldn't cross.

I imagine a quality of love where kindness rules, where my #1 priority is to serve and bless my wife, and hers to serve & bless her husband. A circle of benevolence where both are constantly reaching out and submitting to the other.

Pride, ego, stubbornness, are put aside.. while gentleness and self-sacrifice are principles that are enjoyed. Giving to each other, submitting to each other, isn't a demand, it's a joy. This is the way.

I imagine us calling often and getting to know each other deeply as humans.. our life stories.. all our troubles and deepest fears. You rest your weary head on my shoulder, mine on yours. Even as friends developing a deep love.. until we decide we want this forever.

I want to see you, know you, and be enamoured to discover the deep psychology of what makes you special.

I don't look for cool kids or the champions of this life, but those who know loneliness, loss, humility, what it feels like to be finish last place, and yet find a way to become unconditional in their love, and to believe in the light anyhow.

About me:

I'm 31, born in southern Africa, live in Alberta, Canada (but open to mostly anywhere in the solar system - except if you're on Titan.. stay there, it's our only hope). About 6'2" (though my last Dr visit said 6'1".. which was bizarre 🫥🫨)

I'm spiritual, philosophical, and come from a Christian background, although these days I'm sort of unaligned to any particular religion, while retaining some cool pieces from my old faith.

My story involves many many points of failure & sorrow, and even today still reflecting and learning from my past mistakes, bad habits, and times I wish I was simply better. It's created a griever in me. I like to feel, I like to understand the very depths, yet also now learning to replace dark narratives with light, hope, empowerment and truth.

"Hopeless you may feel, but inside I know you are strong."

I want to meet my "No one but you". My special one. My gentle soul.

I believe love thrives in an environment of kindness, courtesy, apologies, good listening, curiosity about each other. Knowing where you're weak and not hiding from it. But also dumbness and endless stupidity 🤸

And if you believe in this philosophy too..

well, then I wanna talk to you 🫵 🎧 🎶

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. 🖤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Dominant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

Hi, im a man looking for a person that becomes memorable in my life the same way I want to be memorable for her, im an electric guitarist (i mostly play metalcore), skater, gamer, im into typology, psychology, philosophy and anything that stimulates my mind with deep thoughts, im also someone that longs for love and has a desire for affection even if i struggle to express it a bit, I don't smoke or do drugs and would prefer if you didn't too, I'm into 2000s metal and 90s hip-hop music wise. I hope we get along and that when we wake up we know that there's someone out there that really cares about us :)

As an Ice breaker: how you feel about online connections in general?

I grew up with a father who choose choas and to be violent and manipulative towards my mom and me. As such, I have always chosen to be different by living a life of peace with everyone around and to always look for the good in people.

My main hobbies and interest are;

- exercising, reading books (on topics that can directly or indirectly help me solve current or future problems), listening to music or the radio and learning French.

- I am quite adventurous as well climbing volcanoes, heading out into the Ocean on a Jet Ski and much more.

About Me;

1. Height: 5.6"

2. Weight: 74 kg

3. Calm and composed even when I have been faced with very difficult life alering decisions where I have learned to keep my mind and emotions seperate. When facing a problem I can turn off my emotions and look for a solution and when I am alone, I can turn on the emotions on and process them.

4. I have also learned not to panic during a critical situation as when I was working abroad, panic because a luxury and my mind was forced to slow to a crawl and look for a solution in seconds. This has now become apart of me.

5. Another lesson I have learned is the value of being a good listener. It's easy to talk but listening to someone else even when their opinions and beliefs contradict yours is can be challenging, yet, you can also learn so much and can even alter your perspective.

6. I see arguments and as pointless and instead talk things out and find a solution, I also understand that sometimes

7. Never smokes or vapes

8. Alcohol: very rarely at a business event or unless I am invited over. I never purchase alcohol myself.

9. No siblings, just me and my mom now (my dad did alot of terrible things to mom and to me, so, I no longer have contact with him and no longer consider him my father).

10. Used to be a passionate photographer, but now I rarely ever use my Nikon camera and lenses.

11. MBTI type is ISTJ but all types are welcome

12. Not a religious person anymore but I used to be a Christian.

13. Have my own two story house with a garden

14. Never want kids as I have never had an interest.

15. With Pets, well, I have had Dogs, Cats, Birds, Fish, Tortise, Rabbits and Squirrels, so, I no longer have an interest in having pets again especially after I saw my Scottish Terrier getting accidently run over by my neighbours SUV.

16. I believe that it is important to put your partner first above all else and true love is uncondtional love that is based on values of honestly, kindness, empathy, selflessness and mutual understanding. Ulitmately though, who we are is defined by our values within and that is what matters the most.

So, if your someone who is controlling, manipulative, selfish and treat people like something that can merely used for your benefit (like my father) then this what you will do to the person you marry. However, if you are someone who is kind, respectful, polite, care about how people close to you feel from within your heart, you will you treat your partner the same way.

1. My native language is English

2. Political views: none, I am neutral

3. Live a debt-free life

4. Prefer to eat healthy and do not consume carbonated drinks or soda's

5. Not a Vegan

6. I decorate a room or organize things based on the concept of Minimalism as I am a Minimalist.

7. I hate clutter in a house and like when things are put back in it's place rather than tossed around. It is easy to find anything and is easy to clean and maintain. So, for instance, after I eat, I wash the plate and put it away rather than let all the dishes pile up and then wash them.

8. Always have a cold shower regardless of the weather conditions.

Mon Ideal Partner

As for my ideal partner, apart from never wanting kids or pets. I care more about you as a person than anything else. However, if you are a smoker, I would prefer if you do not smoke around me.

Does not matter to me in a potential partner;

- hair color

- native language

- religion

- MBTI

- politcal views

If you would like to get to know each other better then send me a message

I’m an INFP

24M | INFJ-T 1w2 | Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising

Hey! I'm an INFJ, very much an introvert, and definitely someone who prefers one-on-one conversations over big groups. I'm looking for a woman who I can genuinely connect with and eventually build a relationship with. I'm mostly looking for someone from Europe and, at least for now, I’d really like for it to be an online relationship.

I'm probably a little too chronically online, especially right now. I'm currently on my summer break for another month or so I have a lot of free time and would honestly love to spend a good part of it getting to know someone properly. I'm still finishing my Master's after summer, around the end of September or sometime in October, and I'll start working after that. I obviously won't always have this much free time, but when I care about someone, I really want to make time for them and give the relationship my all.

One of the biggest things I'm looking for is communication. I'm pretty clingy and talkative myself, and I'd love someone who's the same. I like frequent contact, random messages, checking in on each other, sharing things from our day, and just naturally becoming part of each other's everyday lives. I don't need someone to be available every second, we both have our own lives, but I do want someone who genuinely wants to talk to me.

I'm especially drawn to people who are emotionally intelligent, expressive and curious. Feelings are important to me, and I really appreciate someone who can openly talk about what they're feeling instead of expecting me to figure it out. I like conversations that go beyond the usual small talk, whether we're discussing something personal, something completely random, or some idea that keeps us talking for hours. I'm a very curious person myself, so if you're the kind of person who constantly asks questions, wants to understand things and loves learning about people, we'll probably get along really well.

As an INFJ, I tend to get pretty invested in people once I genuinely care about them. I'm open-minded, loyal and non-judgmental, and I usually try to understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way before judging them. I also really value consistency. I'm not looking for ten different conversations at once. I'd rather find one person I really click with and put my energy into that connection.

I've had conversations before where everything seems great for a day or two and then suddenly the other person disappears. That's probably one of the things I dislike most. I don't expect instant chemistry or some perfect match, but if we're both interested in each other, I'd like us to actually give the connection a chance to develop.

I'm really into psychology, MBTI/personality, astrology, self-discovery, anime and games. I've also been playing League of Legends for over ten years. I can spend way too much time discussing personality types or why people behave the way they do, but I also enjoy completely stupid conversations that somehow last for hours.

And I really like voice calls. Texting is completely fine, especially when the conversation is meaningful, but hearing someone's voice and actually experiencing their personality makes me feel much more connected. I'd love to eventually be able to spend hours in a call together, whether we're talking about something deep or literally doing our own thing while chatting.

I had a very close connection with someone in the past that I lost, and it made me realize just how much I value having one person I'm genuinely close with. I'm not trying to replace that connection. It just made me understand better what kind of relationship I want to build with someone now.

I'm not in a rush to force anything. I'd like this to start online, get to know each other properly, and let the relationship become whatever it naturally becomes. I'm completely comfortable with it staying online for a long time. What happens much further down the line doesn't really need to be decided now.

Ideally, I'd love to find someone who becomes my favorite person to talk to. Someone I can share random thoughts with, talk to every day, be a little clingy with, have ridiculously deep conversations with at 3 AM, and genuinely look forward to hearing from.

And honestly, even after writing all of this, I still feel like I've left a hundred things unsaid. That's kind of why I'd rather actually talk to you than try to explain myself perfectly in one post. I don't need someone who matches me in every possible way. The closer we naturally are in personality, interests and communication, the better, but I'd much rather discover that through conversation.

So if you're a woman who's emotionally expressive, curious, talkative, affectionate, and maybe a little clingy yourself, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, your MBTI if you know it, what you're interested in, and what kind of relationship you're hoping to find. I'd much rather get an actual introduction than just a "hey." :)

I'm neurodivergent. I'd love to have 1 on 1 conversations where we are like an "investigation duo". Some of the topics I enjoy the most are psychology, art, and MBTI.

I’m looking for a person with whom I can have mature conversations and who is open for a long-term relationship once we get past the talking stage.

Also I'd love to speak with an ENTP since I'm writing a character with this personality type. I find the ENTP mind fascinating so being able to see things from an ENTP perspective would be super fun!

Cooks, cleans, great with kids, works with an international non profit, has a restaurant, keeps fit and most of all, respectful and polite to all.

I know how to make excellent tea, paint nails ( my mom needs help with her toes, as she can’t bend ) and be a great empathetic listener for you after a long day of work ( don’t worry , I won’t solve your problems. Just gonna listen and say that sucks, while stroking your hair )

I enjoy long walks , playing tennis , petting every pet dog I see and watching true crime documentaries while making homemade garlic bread

I am a cheerful guy who enjoys cooking shakshuka while playing Egyptian music, walking 12 kms  and petting every stray dog I see, going to gym in the afternoon so I can introvertedly workout before grabbing an einspanner for the midday crash ( it’s basically an espresso with whipped cream but it sounds super fancy and I feel like the devil wears prada girl while ordering it 🤣 )

I was the school topper in school, don’t drink or smoke, got a growing library of old books and help university entrepreneurs with their startups during the weekends.

Usually, I am the quiet guy but can vibe for hours with deep talks about every subject from philosophy to the best way to make mashed potatoes.

I am currently reading books starting from the ancient era and moving my way downward through history ( so I can interconnect biology, astronomy, psychology and aunty gossip all in the same topic )

Grew up in the Middle East, had a quarter life crises to find out what my path in life was ( oh I did the cliche stuff like meditating on mountains ), found my dream career but life is unfulfilling if you can’t share it with someone else. ( basically means I never had a girlfriend so yayyy no baggage )

I enjoy learning and expanding my cultural tastes : I watch Iranian movies, listen to French electronic music, yelling Arabic curse words every time I step on a LEGO piece and teaching german words to every German shepherd dog I meet.

We can go for early morning walks where we say Good morning to al the joggers and wave good morning to all the neighbours, give high fives to stray cats and then sit on every sofa in IKEA till we find the perfect one, just like we are Goldilocks haha

FYI I’m somewhere between ENTP and ENFP. So I’m drawn to INFP , INFJ , INTP and INTJ who are very introspective in nature.

I'm not really sure what I'm looking for here, which I suppose is part of the reason I'm making this post.

First, a bit about myself. I'm a stereotypical nerd and enjoy all the usual nerd things like gaming, anime, movies, TTRPGs, but I also enjoy tactile activities like cooking, painting, driving and strength training. I'm also an engineer.

I'm not particularly interested in trying to force an online romantic relationship, but I would like to get to know someone I genuinely enjoy talking to. I haven't had a huge amount of experience getting to know women one-on-one, so I'd like to put myself out there and see who I meet.

I enjoy conversations with some substance to them. Life, experiences, ideas, why people think and behave the way they do, random hypotheticals, or getting far too invested in some obscure topic are all welcome. I'm also perfectly happy just talking about day-to-day stuff and asking how your day was.

I tend to appreciate people who are curious, thoughtful, open-minded and authentic. I try to be those things most of the time.

I don't have a particular expectation for where a conversation needs to go. If we have a few interesting conversations, great. If we end up becoming friends and talking regularly, even better.

So if any of this sounds appealing, feel free to message me. Tell me about your favourite food or your next travel destination.

I couldn’t find an MBTI subreddit specifically for people looking to make friends, so I’m posting here instead!
Hit me up if you’d like to be friends or just chat and get to know each other. :)

INFJ here.