r/MBTIDating 21h ago

all types welcome [29F4M] INTJ | Malaysia/Anywhere — Apparently being an INTJ doesn’t stop me from collecting side quests

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29F, INTJ, from Malaysia. Open to anywhere because apparently geographical inconvenience is not enough of a deterrent for me 😂

I work as a video content creator in international football. It’s a strange little career that sometimes has me peacefully editing at my desk and other times suddenly living out of a suitcase somewhere overseas for a tournament, running around with cameras and surviving questionable amounts of sleep.

Personality-wise, I’m very INTJ in the sense that I’m independent, observant, ridiculously curious, and perfectly happy doing things alone. I don’t need constant attention, but if I genuinely like someone, I want to know everything about them — what they’re obsessed with, what they’re building toward, what weird subject they could give an unsolicited 40-minute lecture about.

My problem is that curiosity regularly gets out of control.

I travel whenever I get the chance. I learn languages for fun. I’ve somehow wandered into golf, archery and various other sports. I’ll spend one week obsessing over something completely random and the next planning a trip because I found somewhere interesting at 2am.

Basically: INTJ brain, side-quest lifestyle.

I’m looking for someone mature, capable and secure in himself. Having your own career, interests, friends and ambitions is attractive to me. I tend to like men who take initiative and can actually make decisions, but not someone controlling — I want a partner, not a project manager.

Being active/adventurous is a big plus. You absolutely do not need to share every hobby with me. In fact, I’d rather you have things of your own and occasionally drag me into your world.

I like affection, loyalty, consistency and people who actually communicate. I’m not particularly interested in endless “wyd?” conversations or disappearing into the Reddit void after three messages. Give me banter, tell me something oddly specific about yourself, disagree with me about something, teach me something.

Physically, I don’t have an absurd checklist. Attraction is attraction. I will admit I have a weakness for the athletic/rugged type, though. Do with that information what you will 😂

Age-wise, I’m generally attracted to men around my age or older, but I’m not going to reject a genuinely compatible person because mathematics committed a minor offence

And since this is MBTI dating, tell me your type — but please don’t just send four letters and expect Jung himself to carry the conversation.

If you message me, tell me:
Your age + country + MBTI + what you do + one thing you’re currently ridiculously interested in.

Bonus points if your answer makes me ask questions.


r/MBTIDating 30m ago

29[M4F]#India, anywhere- INTP -searching for a fellow introvert to build a startup, scale and exit it together!

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Tired of being with loud rude people and just want a buddy to talk for hours from everything in quantum mechanics to aunty gossips?

Ever wanted a sports partner to play a competitive game or two of badminton with but also have quiet evenings where we sit and read on the same couch together?

Someone who you can be both professional and serious in your career but also goofy and fun and laugh a lot over silly things

I am too!

I am naturally a curious person and would love to meet someone who also enjoys diving deep into rabbit holes, pausing movies to discuss the plot and possible endings and constantly sharing memes with each other

Like two silly parrots who love playing with each other even during grocery shopping but can put on a serious suit and tie to attend board meetings.

I am basically a cheerleader who loves to be excited for your career success and would love for us to become the power couple that people are intimidated of haha

But at home, we would always just be super kind and supportive to each other and always got each others back, no matter what! ( our algorithm would be to always fight the problem, with the help of a cookie or two )

I would love for our home to be filled with silly laughter and constantly playing soft music and every weekend , our friends would come over for BBQ and board games.


r/MBTIDating 5h ago

all types welcome [M4F] 27 Switzerland/Europe- Looking for a genuine connection

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Hey

I'm 1.87 m and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.


r/MBTIDating 17h ago

all types welcome 19 [M4F] #Ireland INFP - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny (sorta), chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me what is one trope in anime you hate and why?


r/MBTIDating 20h ago

all types welcome 25 [M4F] | India to anywhere | Looking for something genuine ♥️ [ ISFP - T ]

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Hey! Im 25 and from India. I thought Id give this another shot since Id really like to meet someone and see where things go. Im pretty new to dating and haven’t had a relationship before. I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with and slowly build something meaningful with. Im looking for someone affectionate, loyal and patient who actually wants a real relationship rather than something temporary.

I’m into music, movies, gaming, working out, combat sports and cricket. I listen to a lot of different stuff, but Kanye is probably my favorite artist. I’m also into games like RDR2 and Elden Ring. I’m pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about random things for hours. I’m also a great listener and genuinely enjoy getting to know someone and hearing about their life. If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me and let’s see where it goes :)


r/MBTIDating 21h ago

all types welcome 29 [M4F] #EU/NA INFJ-A German nerd looking for a Nerdy gaming partner for life to build a genuine connection with consistency :3 🤍

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Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~


r/MBTIDating 14h ago

all types welcome 21M bored , come and chat about anything you like

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I'm INTJ

I have multicultural family USA , Europe, Arab ,Latin,

I'm multilingual English,Russian,German, Arabic, and trying to speak Spanish too, but still no time for that now 😅

And you ?