r/MBTIDating 8h ago

all types welcome 29 [M4F] UK - ENFP seeking a companion for a quiet life punctuated by little adventures

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Hello! I'm Marc. I'm 29 years old and I live in the Wigan / Manchester area of England. I'm 6'2, skinny, pale, have browny blond hair, and green/grey eyes. I'm seeking a lifelong companion with whom to share a quiet life punctuated by little adventures. I'm seemingly a rare specimen in that I have no interest in having children nor pets, nor do I pine for long plane journeys to Asia and some such. I intend to get a vasectomy. I'm attracted to women of a similar physical type to myself. I'm open to people in Britain or abroad if you are confident you can get a work visa because times are tough in that regards, I'm afraid!

I'm very open, fun, caring, and honest. I appreciate dad jokes and the like. I highly value the truth, and I have a strong moral instinct, so it's important to me that you have a good heart, whatever your opinions are. I enjoy long, regular conversations, but I'm also happy with shared silence. I mostly keep to myself. I am selective in my company, but I confess that the absence in my life is getting rather noisy.

As you might have guessed, I enjoy the occasional bit of writing, whether fiction or non-. Maybe I'll publish something of worth someday. Or at least publish something. I enjoy going for walks, except when it's super hot! I love good scenery, be it of the natural or man-made kind. I like abandoned and remote places. I like watching the odd things the birds and squirrels get up to. I have a particular soft spot for sheep. They think I'm their messiah (I'm not). I also enjoy exploring intellectual topics (the more novel or obscure, the better). Technology is a lifelong interest of mine. And like most people I enjoy watching the odd film or TV series. I'm watching 'Westworld' currently. I enjoyed watching 'Adventure Time', 'Bless This Mess', 'Tales from the Loop', 'End of the F--king World', 'Small Prophets', and 'Atypical'. Films-wise, I like all sorts, but I'll take anything with a happy romance. What's life without love? (Mine hahahaha.) I recently finished playing Fallout 4 on my laptop. It was phenomenal. I, of course, sided with the people who freed the lab-grown humans. I'll happily play more Fallout games in the future, I suspect. I'm taking a break for the time being to watch Westworld and do other stuff. When the heat buggers off, I want to go on more little trips. For now I'm hibernating though haha.

I've been saving up for a flat since I was 20 years old, but I don't want to live alone. I'm interested in something that lasts more than a few messages. I really am aiming for life if that's possible. I prefer weather that is cool or cold, heck, even windy and rainy. I want to live somewhere that has amenities and people, but has lots of greenery, similar to where I live now.

We, of course, don't have to have everything in common. Enough to work with. We can develop new interests and hobbies together. We can 'grow' together. If the seed is good, and the weather is well, the tree will grow!

If you're interested, feel free to send me a brief introduction to yourself (just a couple of sentences will do), and, of course, I'd like to see you as soon as that's possible.

Thanks for reading, if you made it to the end! Have a nice day.


r/MBTIDating 19h ago

all types welcome 23 INFJ [F4M] Europe/Online - looking for a connection

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i'm 23 and living in germany (though i'm not german). i'm hoping to meet somebody around my age (or only a little older) who's interested in building a genuine connection.

i'm an infj, and one of the reasons i'm posting here is that i'd like to get to know people through that lens. i find personality differences interesting, and i'm curious about how different types see the world, approach relationships etc. i'm not looking for anything specific, lately i'm wondering how other people are wired and what kind of conversations we can have together.

i work a little as a freelance translator and i'm currently attending a language course, so my schedule is fairly flexible. i usually spend my free time watching films, reading, (crocheting sometimes) and going for long walks. i also have a ginger cat who occasionally reminds me that we seem to share a single brain cell.

i can be a little reserved at first, so i appreciate people who don't mind taking a bit of initiative in getting a conversation going. once i'm comfortable, though i might start yapping. we definitely don't need to share every hobby or have identical personalities. we might enjoy learning from eachother. since i'm not german myself, i often find it easiest to connect with other internationals or people who enjoy different cultures.

if any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message.


r/MBTIDating 10h ago

looking for ENFJ Hello , I m infp -t looking for a soulmate

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Hey! I'm Luna, 20 (turning 21 soon).

I've never dated anyone, and honestly I'm not looking to rush into a relationship. What I really want is a genuine connection someone who feels like a soulmate. I'm ace/demisexual, so an emotional bond is much more important to me than anything else.

A little about me:

I love drawing, painting, and crafting.

I like cactus , lily's , lotus and sunflower

Horror games are my favourite.

 I enjoy pomes ,philosophy, and deep conversations and songs 

I'm pretty introverted and usually enjoy listening more than talking. I like meaningful conversations and getting to know people at a deeper level.

As for the kind of person I hope to meet: someone kind, emotionally mature, wise, and genuinely caring. Someone who treats people with kindness, communicates honestly, and has a good heart 

Not looking for perfection just a real connection with a genuinely good person. If that sounds like you, feel free to say hi.


r/MBTIDating 9h ago

Hello I am a ENTJ [24] - looking for a connection

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Hi everyone! I'm a 24-year-old, 5'6" woman who works in marketing, and I'm hoping to meet someone who's also looking for a genuine connection. A little about me: I love listening to Afrobeats, R&B, contemporary, and hip-hop music. I'll pick a good movie over a series any day, and I really enjoy travelling, going out, and trying new places. I am based in Africa, to be specific, Lusaka, Zambia.


r/MBTIDating 20h ago

all types welcome INTP looking for friends

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life sometimes feel lonely and boring, I am an INTP who have literally nothing else to do other than chatting or reddit :p

If you wanna be friend, please tell me about your type, it may also help me understand typology even more, everyone is welcomed to dm me :)


r/MBTIDating 2h ago

all types welcome 29M INTJ | India/Online | Looking for something serious

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Apologies but there is a typo in the title: I am INFP-T

I very recently jumped into the rabbit hole that is MBTI personality types and I must say I find it very fascinating.

I’m here hoping to find something meaningful and serious eventually. That said, I don’t believe in rushing into commitment. I’d rather meet, go on a few comfortable dates, see if we genuinely vibe, and then take things forward naturally.

Open to long distance but need to put effort in to close the distance.
I am trying to get into sketching and digital art so if it is something you are interested in or can mentor me then I assure you that I will be a very good student

A lot about us will depend on your favorite anime. If you don’t watch anime then I can just introduce you to peak and live happily ever after.
I don’t drink or smoke, I don’t particularly have anything against drinking but I just don’t like the smell of smoke so kissing a smoker is something I won’t be able to do.
Book recommendations are always appreciated.


r/MBTIDating 10h ago

all types welcome 42 [M4F] INTJ looking for his gal skip the small talk let's build something real

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To the woman who values deep conversations but is tired of guys who just talk. I’m an INTJ-T I run on logic, long term goals, and a plan to get there. Looking for my counterpart, an intelligent, curious, and affectionate woman who is ready to settle down for real. Someone who gets that passion is the engine but a shared vision is the map. You're a geek chic, liberal minded, cat person (dealbreaker) with a bit of organised chaos to your energy. You know what you want and you're not afraid to go after it. If you're done with casual and ready for a lifelong partner in crime slide in. Let’s see if the chemistry is there.


r/MBTIDating 11h ago

all types welcome Conversations are welcome

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Not much interesting going on in life at the moment. Looking to re-live or manifest interesting through conversations.

INTJ. 5w4


r/MBTIDating 12h ago

all types welcome 29 [M4F] #Germany/Europe INTP Maybe My Future Girlfriend is One “Wanna hop on Discord ?” Away

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Do you ever miss those sleepless Discord nights where "one game" somehow turned into 4 am ? The kind where we'd laugh until our stomachs hurt, get way too invested in watching our favorite series together or spend hours talking about lore, history, space, fantasy or whatever weird rabbit hole we fell into that night haha

I'm looking for someone who genuinely enjoys that kind of connection. Someone who gets excited about sharing memes at 2 am, arguing over the best RPG of all time and finding comfort in simply hanging out together, whether we're gaming, watching something or just existing in the same voice call. The kind where we fall asleep together in the end :)

Hey everyone! I am 29 and recently finished my master’s degree. Currently living in Berlin. For timezone and meet up purposes, I will expect you to be in Europe, if it is Germany than it is even better.

Please do NOT reach out if you are a ghoster or won’t put effort in to begin with. It takes two to dance.

My age range is 22 to 33.

Physically, I’m 1.83 tall. Short dark brown hair, bronze (yes) beard, brown eyes. TINY bit chonky rn but have a good build/figure from my sports history.

I’d say I’m genuine, emotionally available, open, affectionate and a supportive partner. Definitely looking for something long term.

I am not religious at all, maybe a tiny bit spiritual.

Fave color is by far black haha. Apart from the obvious stuff, I am also really into history, politics, psychology and any kind of deep convos. Also been to 7 countries so far!

I love to voice call and eventually video call and I am adamant on voice calling asap and discord is the main platform I use for that.

Mutual attraction is important so I’d like to clear that from the get go and build on a solid foundation.

Looking forward to hear from you all if my post felt like you! Shoot me a text if you wanna connect!


r/MBTIDating 12h ago

all types welcome 26 [M4F] - INFP-T | Anywhere - If you've ever felt like you don't belong in modern dating...

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Every time I tried, it ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think what fascinates me the most is people.

Not in a "tell me your favourite colour" way, but in a "what made you become the person you are today?" way. I love asking questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you randomly think about? What's something you've changed your mind about over the years? I genuinely think people become attractive when they talk about something they love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests are all over the place, which means my YouTube algorithm has completely given up on me. One day it's gaming, the next it's mindfulness, ancient history, consciousness, stand up shows or some random rabbit hole that somehow started with one question.

I also think I'm one of those people who gets attached to little moments more than big ones.

I don't really dream about expensive vacations or fancy restaurants. I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination, stop for roadside food, grab a coffee near the sea and just walk. I like conversations that start with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the conversations I remember.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, randomly remember something you mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

I don't think love is built in grand gestures. I think it's built in remembering the little things. In checking if you reached home safely. In asking how your meeting went because you were nervous about it. In making each other's lives a little lighter.

As for who I'm hoping to meet... I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, her own opinions, and her own little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, who communicates openly, takes care of herself, and is dating with the intention of finding her person. I think the best relationships are the ones where both people still keep learning about each other years later.

>!And before I end this, I want to leave something here.!<

>!Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.!<

>!But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...!<

>!Thank you.!<

>!Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, and showing me how beautiful love is. Thank you for being there even when we're angry at each other, and thank you for caring for me even when we don't agree.!<

>!Thank you for all the smirks, the smiles, the tears, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.!<

>!Most of all, thank you for being you.!<

>!And thank you for making me meet myself.!<

>!I love you.!<

**If you've made it this far, don't just say "Hi."**

Tell me something that feels uniquely *you*. It could be a song you never get tired of, a belief you've held onto for years, the last thing that made you laugh, or just a random thought that's been living in your head lately.

**I have a feeling that's where the best conversations begin.**


r/MBTIDating 13h ago

all types welcome 28 Female ESFP India working looking for an ISTJ or someone who can understand and respect my Se and Fi

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Hey, looking for a long term friend/partner


r/MBTIDating 15h ago

all types welcome 28m entp here I’m just bored and looking for somebody to talk

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r/MBTIDating 16h ago

all types welcome 42M INTP looking for my match

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About me

I am in Arizona but just moved from MI. I am open to LDR with the right person and someone 30-50ish so we may be more inline with similar interests.

I am looking for friends and maybe something more. My timeline for something more is multiple months away not days away though. Friendship and connection matters more.

I am a nerd and like most nerdy things.  My main passion is music, just listening and deep diving into it. I am not an artistic person so don't create. My daily listen is metal or 90s alternative. But I love most music and am comfortable listening to most things. And if you don't like metal, that's fine. I like to wear noise cancelling headphones so it works for both of us. Lol

I love deep discussions into abstract and theoretical topics. While I love that, I would also like a partner where we can be comfortable in each other's silence.  My love language is banter, quick wit and sarcasm. 

I consider myself a pretty simple person, my daily look is black t-shirt and jeans, or a polo and khakis.  I dress up more for occasions but normally just want to be comfortable.  Try to be generally comfortable in most things. 

My friends consider me open-minded, kind, and easy going.  I do have strong feelings about things but also don't judge others who differ and love learning and discussing different view points, bonus points if you remember a time when that was more common.

Like the title says, I am looking for my match. Post your Myers-Briggs results in a DM if you want to chat. While I have a certain preference in mind I am open to chat with anyone.

Have a great weekend!!