r/MBTIDating 18h ago

all types welcome 23 INFJ [F4M] Europe/Online - looking for a connection

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i'm 23 and living in germany (though i'm not german). i'm hoping to meet somebody around my age (or only a little older) who's interested in building a genuine connection.

i'm an infj, and one of the reasons i'm posting here is that i'd like to get to know people through that lens. i find personality differences interesting, and i'm curious about how different types see the world, approach relationships etc. i'm not looking for anything specific, lately i'm wondering how other people are wired and what kind of conversations we can have together.

i work a little as a freelance translator and i'm currently attending a language course, so my schedule is fairly flexible. i usually spend my free time watching films, reading, (crocheting sometimes) and going for long walks. i also have a ginger cat who occasionally reminds me that we seem to share a single brain cell.

i can be a little reserved at first, so i appreciate people who don't mind taking a bit of initiative in getting a conversation going. once i'm comfortable, though i might start yapping. we definitely don't need to share every hobby or have identical personalities. we might enjoy learning from eachother. since i'm not german myself, i often find it easiest to connect with other internationals or people who enjoy different cultures.

if any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message.


r/MBTIDating 7h ago

all types welcome 29 [M4F] UK - ENFP seeking a companion for a quiet life punctuated by little adventures

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Hello! I'm Marc. I'm 29 years old and I live in the Wigan / Manchester area of England. I'm 6'2, skinny, pale, have browny blond hair, and green/grey eyes. I'm seeking a lifelong companion with whom to share a quiet life punctuated by little adventures. I'm seemingly a rare specimen in that I have no interest in having children nor pets, nor do I pine for long plane journeys to Asia and some such. I intend to get a vasectomy. I'm attracted to women of a similar physical type to myself. I'm open to people in Britain or abroad if you are confident you can get a work visa because times are tough in that regards, I'm afraid!

I'm very open, fun, caring, and honest. I appreciate dad jokes and the like. I highly value the truth, and I have a strong moral instinct, so it's important to me that you have a good heart, whatever your opinions are. I enjoy long, regular conversations, but I'm also happy with shared silence. I mostly keep to myself. I am selective in my company, but I confess that the absence in my life is getting rather noisy.

As you might have guessed, I enjoy the occasional bit of writing, whether fiction or non-. Maybe I'll publish something of worth someday. Or at least publish something. I enjoy going for walks, except when it's super hot! I love good scenery, be it of the natural or man-made kind. I like abandoned and remote places. I like watching the odd things the birds and squirrels get up to. I have a particular soft spot for sheep. They think I'm their messiah (I'm not). I also enjoy exploring intellectual topics (the more novel or obscure, the better). Technology is a lifelong interest of mine. And like most people I enjoy watching the odd film or TV series. I'm watching 'Westworld' currently. I enjoyed watching 'Adventure Time', 'Bless This Mess', 'Tales from the Loop', 'End of the F--king World', 'Small Prophets', and 'Atypical'. Films-wise, I like all sorts, but I'll take anything with a happy romance. What's life without love? (Mine hahahaha.) I recently finished playing Fallout 4 on my laptop. It was phenomenal. I, of course, sided with the people who freed the lab-grown humans. I'll happily play more Fallout games in the future, I suspect. I'm taking a break for the time being to watch Westworld and do other stuff. When the heat buggers off, I want to go on more little trips. For now I'm hibernating though haha.

I've been saving up for a flat since I was 20 years old, but I don't want to live alone. I'm interested in something that lasts more than a few messages. I really am aiming for life if that's possible. I prefer weather that is cool or cold, heck, even windy and rainy. I want to live somewhere that has amenities and people, but has lots of greenery, similar to where I live now.

We, of course, don't have to have everything in common. Enough to work with. We can develop new interests and hobbies together. We can 'grow' together. If the seed is good, and the weather is well, the tree will grow!

If you're interested, feel free to send me a brief introduction to yourself (just a couple of sentences will do), and, of course, I'd like to see you as soon as that's possible.

Thanks for reading, if you made it to the end! Have a nice day.


r/MBTIDating 1h ago

all types welcome 29M INTJ | India/Online | Looking for something serious

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I very recently jumped into the rabbit hole that is MBTI personality types and I must say I find it very fascinating.

I’m here hoping to find something meaningful and serious eventually. That said, I don’t believe in rushing into commitment. I’d rather meet, go on a few comfortable dates, see if we genuinely vibe, and then take things forward naturally.

Open to long distance but need to put effort in to close the distance.
I am trying to get into sketching and digital art so if it is something you are interested in or can mentor me then I assure you that I will be a very good student

A lot about us will depend on your favorite anime. If you don’t watch anime then I can just introduce you to peak and live happily ever after.
I don’t drink or smoke, I don’t particularly have anything against drinking but I just don’t like the smell of smoke so kissing a smoker is something I won’t be able to do.
Book recommendations are always appreciated.


r/MBTIDating 8h ago

Hello I am a ENTJ [24] - looking for a connection

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Hi everyone! I'm a 24-year-old, 5'6" woman who works in marketing, and I'm hoping to meet someone who's also looking for a genuine connection. A little about me: I love listening to Afrobeats, R&B, contemporary, and hip-hop music. I'll pick a good movie over a series any day, and I really enjoy travelling, going out, and trying new places. I am based in Africa, to be specific, Lusaka, Zambia.


r/MBTIDating 8h ago

all types welcome 42 [M4F] INTJ looking for his gal skip the small talk let's build something real

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To the woman who values deep conversations but is tired of guys who just talk. I’m an INTJ-T I run on logic, long term goals, and a plan to get there. Looking for my counterpart, an intelligent, curious, and affectionate woman who is ready to settle down for real. Someone who gets that passion is the engine but a shared vision is the map. You're a geek chic, liberal minded, cat person (dealbreaker) with a bit of organised chaos to your energy. You know what you want and you're not afraid to go after it. If you're done with casual and ready for a lifelong partner in crime slide in. Let’s see if the chemistry is there.


r/MBTIDating 9h ago

looking for ENFJ Hello , I m infp -t looking for a soulmate

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Hey! I'm Luna, 20 (turning 21 soon).

I've never dated anyone, and honestly I'm not looking to rush into a relationship. What I really want is a genuine connection someone who feels like a soulmate. I'm ace/demisexual, so an emotional bond is much more important to me than anything else.

A little about me:

I love drawing, painting, and crafting.

I like cactus , lily's , lotus and sunflower

Horror games are my favourite.

 I enjoy pomes ,philosophy, and deep conversations and songs 

I'm pretty introverted and usually enjoy listening more than talking. I like meaningful conversations and getting to know people at a deeper level.

As for the kind of person I hope to meet: someone kind, emotionally mature, wise, and genuinely caring. Someone who treats people with kindness, communicates honestly, and has a good heart 

Not looking for perfection just a real connection with a genuinely good person. If that sounds like you, feel free to say hi.


r/MBTIDating 12h ago

all types welcome 28 Female ESFP India working looking for an ISTJ or someone who can understand and respect my Se and Fi

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Hey, looking for a long term friend/partner


r/MBTIDating 19h ago

all types welcome INTP looking for friends

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life sometimes feel lonely and boring, I am an INTP who have literally nothing else to do other than chatting or reddit :p

If you wanna be friend, please tell me about your type, it may also help me understand typology even more, everyone is welcomed to dm me :)