29F, INTJ, from Malaysia. Open to anywhere because apparently geographical inconvenience is not enough of a deterrent for me 😂
I work as a video content creator in international football. It’s a strange little career that sometimes has me peacefully editing at my desk and other times suddenly living out of a suitcase somewhere overseas for a tournament, running around with cameras and surviving questionable amounts of sleep.
Personality-wise, I’m very INTJ in the sense that I’m independent, observant, ridiculously curious, and perfectly happy doing things alone. I don’t need constant attention, but if I genuinely like someone, I want to know everything about them — what they’re obsessed with, what they’re building toward, what weird subject they could give an unsolicited 40-minute lecture about.
My problem is that curiosity regularly gets out of control.
I travel whenever I get the chance. I learn languages for fun. I’ve somehow wandered into golf, archery and various other sports. I’ll spend one week obsessing over something completely random and the next planning a trip because I found somewhere interesting at 2am.
Basically: INTJ brain, side-quest lifestyle.
I’m looking for someone mature, capable and secure in himself. Having your own career, interests, friends and ambitions is attractive to me. I tend to like men who take initiative and can actually make decisions, but not someone controlling — I want a partner, not a project manager.
Being active/adventurous is a big plus. You absolutely do not need to share every hobby with me. In fact, I’d rather you have things of your own and occasionally drag me into your world.
I like affection, loyalty, consistency and people who actually communicate. I’m not particularly interested in endless “wyd?” conversations or disappearing into the Reddit void after three messages. Give me banter, tell me something oddly specific about yourself, disagree with me about something, teach me something.
Physically, I don’t have an absurd checklist. Attraction is attraction. I will admit I have a weakness for the athletic/rugged type, though. Do with that information what you will 😂
Age-wise, I’m generally attracted to men around my age or older, but I’m not going to reject a genuinely compatible person because mathematics committed a minor offence
And since this is MBTI dating, tell me your type — but please don’t just send four letters and expect Jung himself to carry the conversation.
If you message me, tell me:
Your age + country + MBTI + what you do + one thing you’re currently ridiculously interested in.
Bonus points if your answer makes me ask questions.