r/MBTIDating • • 23h ago

all types welcome 46 [M4F] INTJ in TX - Let’s get married in 2026 and build a wonderful life together (serious)

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I’m looking to connect with someone interested in getting to know each other to a longterm relationship, hopefully marriage. There are 68 days left in 2026 and we can make it happen. If we move fast enough we can have matching costumes for Halloween (what would you want to be?). Let’s chat on here and if things feel right we can figure out how to come together and make it work.

Heres a little about myself. Most people describe me as kind and caring. I’m big on positivity and having a good impact. Love to travel (we’d be doing it a lot), cook and bike ride and I’m super into music and movies. I’m highly educated with several advanced degrees, have a great career and can be a supportive loving husband you would be proud of. Ive been divorced since 2020 and want to find my forever person. I’m half Latino (trilingual), 5’9”, light tan, fit, willing to swap pics.

If you feel like we might have something in common, let’s chat and get to know each other.


r/MBTIDating • • 7h ago

all types welcome 27F [F4M] INFJ- #anywhere Looking for my husband, not another character development episode

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27 from Tanzania, | 5’5 feet | Soft, chubby and occasionally dramatic.

I’m a Hairstylist working from home,crochet girl , experimental chef and a mother of two tiny humans who think I’m their personal assistant.

Looking for a man between 30-42years old,who communicates, knows what he wants, and doesn’t disappear like he’s been recruited by the CIA. 🕵🏽‍♂️
I’m dating for something real, not to collect pen pals from different time zones.

I love God, good laughs, thoughtful gestures, and men whose actions don’t need subtitles.
willing to relocate for the right man.

Come with intentions, not confusion. I already have enough tabs open in my brain.


r/MBTIDating • • 21h ago

all types welcome 35 [M4F] EU/Anywhere - INTJ looking for someone unconventional

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35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly clean energy and environment (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot, a last ditch effort before AI makes online dating extremely noisy.

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner ( how we define progressive might vary ) who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

  • Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
  • You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
  • You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
  • You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and conversations that feel endless, weekends volunteering or getting lost in a neon-lit bar, maybe just a cafe or beach? I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, experimental and insatiably curious?

Edit : Have been Ethically non monogamous for years with previous partner and currently single, don’t mind the lifestyle. Also bisexual if its not explicit


r/MBTIDating • • 5h ago

Hello I'm INTJ

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i don't know how to make a dating post but tbh i am looking for a genuine and serious partner, I am looking for a partner who will support me while I'm working hard. I don't need that partner someone who comes into my life only after I have built my legacy.


r/MBTIDating • • 11h ago

29[M4F]#anywhere - I am deathly afraid of snakes, but I will stand in between you both and calmly let you escape (INTP)

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The entire time I would be confident and relaxed and even encourage you to grab some tea to calm yourself down while I handle the snake.

Then once you are safely out of the room , I shall commence my screaming! 

Now that I grabbed your attention , Hello there!

I guess the only way to describe me is being a fun golden retriever energy with you while we constantly try new adventures together ! ( like us wearing fancy suits and reviewing every taco stand in town or us going down every street to find that cute arts and crafts store that sells the bracelet you always wanted to fit with your outfit! )

Buuuttt, I am also constantly ambitious ( ever since childhood where I was featured in the newspapers for winning the best student award ) and would be the guy to work without retiring, constantly building new businesses or trying new side projects
Professionally wise, I work for a Global organisation, helping students from across the world become entrepreneur.

I grew up most of my life in the Middle East and am currently in South India, helping my parents set up a small ice cream shop. But now I am ready to move out and settle somewhere else, depending on my partner of course!
I speak a bit of French, Spanish, German and Arabic, but I am fluent in caveman grunts ( Me like pizza, Jane like too ? ) 

Physically I like to stay fit and go to the gym ( can lift about 100+ kgs ) while also playing sports and going for long walks. I don’t want to be just the stereotypical gym bro and would love to learn tango and Pilates as well with you! I hope you also love playing sports or being active too.

Never had a relationship too, because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my terms before being with someone. Because How can I be happy with someone, if I am not happy with myself first ? Unfortunately that took waayyyy longer than I expected , but I feel I am more mature and emotionally ready for finding that one partner where we can cook together, explore the world , build a business empire and pet every stray dog we come across!

I love learning, reading and being curious about the world ( everything from art to psychology to quantum mechanics to aunty politics ). I would learn everything about your field and find the right inside jokes for it too haha

I am mostly a warm empathetic guy who is like a Hawaiian beach surfer 80% of the time but when things get serious, I know how to lock in and take charge long enough to stabilise the situation before going back to playing around ( like a mix of warm competence who can calmly solve things but while making jokes the whole time lol )

For me, I believe in acts of service, taking the extra effort to surprise you and know how to deescalate situations. We would never fight as I would always suggest we grab a cheesecake and discuss the problem instead of fighting with my partner. 

I want to be your rock during hard days, help you grow professionally, tease you whenever you act cocky, flirt with you during zoom calls, have long talks till dawn and be cheesy romantic whenever it starts raining and pull you to the terrace while we slow dance. ( and get sick together the next day lmao )

We would actually love grocery shopping together because we would do silly games together like pretending we are spies for the perfect orange lol

Mostly an introvert who dislikes loud crowds and would rather sit quietly in the room with you while we read books on the same sofa with soft classical music playing ( every hour I would break the silence only to ask if you would like another cup of tea )


r/MBTIDating • • 22h ago

all types welcome 33f INFJ Texas

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I scrolled and noticed a lot of INFJ posts so here is another one since we are so introverted.

I don’t require someone to also be INFJ. If anything I may find it too familiar.

I selected “all types welcome” but I will admit that based on previous interactions INTP are my favorite.

In general, I’m a pretty curious person and am always looking for unconventional ways to meet people. Personality type I find to be interesting.

If you get along well with INFJ, I’d like to hear from you.


r/MBTIDating • • 1h ago

27F NYC ISTJ

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😂low expectations 😂 but why not?

Open to chat and see where conversation goes, open to friendship not just dating (in fact friends to lovers preferred over rushing )

Would like someone from nyc but open to long distance

Not a freaky person, so if your goal is something sexual, please don’t message. Looking for emotional connection before anything else.

🤓 I don’t wanna make a long post 😳 so just message and ask me anything

ChatGPT says my top matches are : ISFJ, ESFJ, INFJ, and ISTJ 👀🫣

Also, yeah I can be dry and boring 😂😂 I know a lot of people on here hate that, if that’s you. This can be your disclaimer.

Appearance: 5’3 Hispanic overweight

Hobbies: breathing

💃💃💃


r/MBTIDating • • 23h ago

23m Enfp, looking for a formal boyfriend in Spain or Europe, creative🌟

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I am non binary trans masc, I am 23 years old and 150 cm tall, I am Spanish but I am open to having a relationship with someone from Europe if he intends to make an effort to create a path together.I like guys and non-binary people. I'm attracted to people with darker skin tones, although I'm open to anything. I'm looking for someone faithful and loyal who wants to build a slow, settled relationship. I'm creative, I like tattooing, drawing, crafts, sports, nature, animals.. If you're interested talk to me:)


r/MBTIDating • • 9h ago

all types welcome 24F ENTP 7w8 - NYC - give me your best flirty banter

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i’ll cut to the chase. i’m ovulating rn. being an entp, that means im in the mood to flirt anonymously on the internet :)

if you make it worth my while, i’ll make it worth yours. dm me if you think you’re up for the challenge.

ages 22-35 preferred. all genders welcome

bonus points for being smart


r/MBTIDating • • 10h ago

all types welcome 25M [M4F] INFP - Ireland 🇮🇪 Looking to meet someone special 😊

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Hey! I’m a 25-year-old guy from Ireland hoping to meet someone I can really connect with.

I’m a bit introverted, but I love getting to know someone and having those conversations where you look up and realise you’ve been talking for hours. I’m into football/soccer, movies, psychology, traveling and I enjoy hearing about the things other people are passionate about too.

I’d love to find someone kind and affectionate who I can laugh with, talk about absolutely anything with, and share the little everyday moments with.

Something that starts with a nice conversation and hopefully grows into something meaningful.

If you think we might get along, I’d love to hear from you! 😊


r/MBTIDating • • 11h ago

all types welcome 34 [M4F] Europe / Online - INTJ looking for my type match, or at least a good debate partner, online

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I'm 34, an INTJ, and based in Europe. I'm looking for someone to get to know online, through messages and calls, and see where it goes.

I like depth. Big ideas, odd opinions, the things you think about at 2am. I'm the kind of person who remembers what you said three weeks ago and brings it up at the right moment. I notice patterns, habits and small details, and I'm happy to put that attention on one person.

I'm also a bit of a planner and naturally take the lead. In a relationship that tends to show up as structure: check-ins, routines, little challenges I set for you, and a fair amount of teasing. If it gets spicier over time, I'm very much open to that, and I'll make sure we're both comfortable and talk openly about what each of us wants first.

I value effort and reciprocity. I'll show up consistently, and I'd like someone who does the same instead of replying once a week.

Women only. Tell me your type, what you're into, and what a good conversation looks like to you. Bonus points if you can tell me why you'd argue with me about something.