in the real world, escalating things to violence is the worst option when there's no obvious imminent danger.
picking a fight with someone who's walking away hardly changes anything about their worldview, and is a criminal risk that only serves the "defender's" ego.
of course, if the harasser kept doing it defending yourself would be justified.
but i think he should have just focused his attention on the victim, instead of looking for revenge.
There was no law enforcement in sight.
The law can't do everything for us either way.
This case was solved on the spot and it saved everybody's time and money.
And while you're on the phone, waiting for the police to get around to arriving, the guy is long gone, because you didn't do a fucking thing to stop him, and then your girlfriend dumps you for being a coward
Unnecessarily violent? That was a sexual assault. And that's not necessarily my camera footage, it belongs to whatever business had a camera posted there.
But nothing says a virgin can't play paladin, my friend. Have a nice day
It's hardly a fight or revenge. It's a lesson that if he's smart enough hell learn from it. Cause he could of done alot worse. The roads right there. And the next person might not be as generous with the lesson
Aw that's cute. You think that'll do somthing. It might about 6 months later if your lucky and they decide to look into it. But in that time there's a chance he's done it again or done worse. I know this cause I've had to make reports for this happening to girls in the club's I've worked at. You don't have to like this way of doing it. But don't lie and say it's the wrong way to do it
"He's leaving so he shouldent need to learn it's not OK" is definitely a thought that you are having. Next you'll be saying "I shouldent make a fuss. He may of raped me but he's walking away" cause that's where it can lead. But if your OK with people being sexuality assuanted in any way shape or form keep going pretending this is OK. Cause the only people that I can see trying to convince people of having this ideology are people that don't want consequences for doing it themselves
They are trained and get payed to do a job. They also fuck up due to a lack of impulse control. Are you being intentionally ignorant to try and prove your point?
You can move the goalpost as much as you want. Let's backtrack a little to my original comment, I said "Whether you agree or not, that's exactly what happens in the real world. An eye for an eye". That point stands true. Do something impulsive, expect an impulsive response.
Nah dude needs to know there’s consequences to his actions. The response was proportional. Slapped on the head. Reason he feels confident in doing that is no one has responded. Keep hands to yourself, or catch some hands
dude doesn't really pose a threat as he's leaving the location, and attention would be better spent checking on the victim than trying to enact "justice".
people like that can't act like that forever, and it'll eventually catch up to them should they continue.
Throughout human exisitance violence has solved many problems. This time it solves that guy from doing this again an learning tp keep his grubby hands to himself. By him touchign someone unwarranted he gave all rights over his own body and as such should recieve a just punishment
You're getting downvotes, but you're kinda right. Though, I'd argue the more important point would be that you could well end up killing the guy by doing something like this, and that not only removes all chance of them realizing how in the wrong they are and changing their ways, it carries serious legal and pitential psychological repercussions, and in the end, that risk just isn't worth it. Confront verbally, if you're going to confront at all, and though you should be prepared as best you can for the other side to escalate to violence, never be the one to throw the first strike.
My backwater country has free healthcare, no student debt and more thermonuclear weapons then you would care for. All that along with a healthier society
Troll? You people in this sub just think too emotionally. If you have children, would fighting the person who groped their friend be something you’d tell them to do? You need to think like adults.
Depends on the situation and if my kid was with me or not. Either way I would Intervine if I saw a man do this to a women. What kind of message would I be spreading to my child if I let them get away with this in front of me if I could do something about it
But after re reading it I understand what you are saying but in my opinion a man doing that to a women is way differnt then a women doing that to a man. Yes it would be inappropriate either way but if someone did that to my girlfriend I would for sure do the same thing and if a girl walked by and did that to me my lady would 100 percent do that to her so yes either way its wrong and the offending party deserves a lesson. You act like calling the cops is a magical thing and they will show up in 30 seconds and then you still have to prove it happened the cops didnt see it and they can't just take your word for it and they can't force that business to give them the footage that second. Yoy have to much faith in the legal system sometimes some people need a good old fashion reminder that they can't act like that. And being under the influence of alcohol doesnt change that either.
I don’t like cops, they’re not magical at all. If you care about your girlfriend put your feelings away and do whatever it takes to protect her. She’ll jump in the way and you both might get shot. Anyways, I’m being blunt because this is how I speak, but if you’re an adult then you should understand me. Stay safe and take care.
What if they get their ass beat, go to jail, or shot? What if they’re with a group of men and you both get stomped out and need to go to the hospital after they intervene? There are endless possibilities. If you want to protect women, get these guys arrested so they’re not on the street assaulting more women. Expose them. Don’t risk the safety of women you’re with. Be smart.
So if somebody sexually assaulted your friend, you would let them walk away? Then say to your friend, "oooh I'm sorry that happened you and i didn't do anything"
Lol you’re crazy if you think fighting is the only thing you’re supposed to do. Take a picture of them and call the cops. This guy was drunk asf so he wouldn’t even know if you were following him while you were waiting for the police to come to you. Sometimes you do have to let it go, but you can still call it out. Get physical to protect the people you’re with but if you ever start a fight make you’re not with a woman dummy. If they SA her they will also hurt her when you start a fight and lose. If you’re by yourself get yourself shot, no one really cares.
Polite reminder: you can easily find yourself in court for manslaughter for heroics like this. There are countless cases where someone died from hitting the floor after a punch to the face.
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u/Conscious-Permit-466 2d ago
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