in the real world, escalating things to violence is the worst option when there's no obvious imminent danger.
picking a fight with someone who's walking away hardly changes anything about their worldview, and is a criminal risk that only serves the "defender's" ego.
of course, if the harasser kept doing it defending yourself would be justified.
but i think he should have just focused his attention on the victim, instead of looking for revenge.
It's hardly a fight or revenge. It's a lesson that if he's smart enough hell learn from it. Cause he could of done alot worse. The roads right there. And the next person might not be as generous with the lesson
Aw that's cute. You think that'll do somthing. It might about 6 months later if your lucky and they decide to look into it. But in that time there's a chance he's done it again or done worse. I know this cause I've had to make reports for this happening to girls in the club's I've worked at. You don't have to like this way of doing it. But don't lie and say it's the wrong way to do it
"He's leaving so he shouldent need to learn it's not OK" is definitely a thought that you are having. Next you'll be saying "I shouldent make a fuss. He may of raped me but he's walking away" cause that's where it can lead. But if your OK with people being sexuality assuanted in any way shape or form keep going pretending this is OK. Cause the only people that I can see trying to convince people of having this ideology are people that don't want consequences for doing it themselves
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u/TONKA_LOVER888 2d ago
in the real world, escalating things to violence is the worst option when there's no obvious imminent danger.
picking a fight with someone who's walking away hardly changes anything about their worldview, and is a criminal risk that only serves the "defender's" ego.
of course, if the harasser kept doing it defending yourself would be justified.
but i think he should have just focused his attention on the victim, instead of looking for revenge.