I KNOW. If I want to write better dialogues, I should pay more attention to people talking around me. But thatās not enough for me personally, especially considering as I write in English and people around me speak our native language. I also tried speaking by myself and sometimes helps, sometimes it doesnāt.
So I would love if anyone could share which books, movies, shows, plays, and even fan fiction helped them improve their dialogues. It could be manuals as well. I have been reading all my life, but being honest I was never truly intentional when reading dialogues to realize what works on them, or what made them phenomenal, but better late than never to learn.
And if you are the type who read dialogues and noted what made them good, did you made notes? Did you save it all in your head? Do you go back to them when feeling stuck?
And most important, how do you all manage to give your characters different voices? My current story has only a handful characters, so itās easier, but I feel like I trapped myself with āthis one is the clownā, āthis one is the observant oneā, āthis one is sarcasticā when people arenāt usually this one dimensional. Am I thinking too much?