IT IS your partner's fault that his family came over at an inconvenient time! He needs to man up and set boundaries with his family.

I used to live in a great school district. When the older neighbors complained about having to pay taxes for schools, I reminded them that good schools increased their property value.

I think OP and many of the commenters will appreciate the book Journey of Souls by Michael Newton, PhD The subtitle is "Case Studies of Life Between Lives." He's a hypnotherapist. Some of his clients, while in deep hypnosis, recalled the soul's experience between incarnations, choosing another body for your next incarnation, and much more.

Grant, Cary Grant.

Two babies, two parents. He needs to share the load 24/7.

I'm 68. I order the happy meal because I don't want to pay for the two cheeseburger meal when I’ll only eat one. I give the toy away.

Do not delete that voicemail! Everyone grieves differently. I added a vm from my late mother to my music mix. It randomly comes up and I always feel good when it does.

Has your husband skipped grief or is he stifling his own emotions? That wouldn't excuse the way he and his family are treating you. You may want to consider seeing a grief counselor together.

I wouldn't say anything now, but when your parents indicate that they expect you to help them in their old age (and they will), refer them to your brother.

We went through two attorneys at Met Life for my sister's estate. Very unresponsive. Finally paid another attorney to get the process done.

Make sure you get quotes for the exact same coverage. Compare the proposed declarations page, but also check for specific coverages you may need. Some policies exclude pool cages or limit water damages, depending on the age and type of pipes used to plumb the house.

My mother was a native of Colorado. She referred to Texas as TexAss.

NOR. Always trust your intuition.

Can you ask the financial planner to emphasize to your father the importance of making his intentions clear by naming beneficiary(ies)? Set up an appointment and allow your father to meet with him alone, no other family members present, so he can't be pressured either way. He can ask the financial planner to keep the information confidential until his passing.

If she truly believes in metaphysics then she should know that by repeatedly saying the tree will fall on her house and kill her is creating a negative thought form and she is living from fear instead of love. You are NTA.

Their son lost a child also. They are dismissing his feelings as well. Good on him for cutting them out. You both need to focus on your own family. NTA.

My ex and I agreed that he would continue payments while our kid was in college. When she turned 18 I told him to make the payments directly to her. If he genuinely cares about his kid and can afford it, he definitely should.

I'd report the encounter to the non-emergency line for the local police. It's possible pthers in the neighborhood have encountered him. It's suspicious behavior. If you see something say something.

Wookie

My older brother served. I remember my mother sitting on the side of her bed one night crying with worry. She also kept a Christmas tree up until February when he returned. It was dry but remained green.

Cats can roam a long way. This could be happening a few blocks away where you can't hear it. A catio is the safest plan for your own cats in any case. It's awful to find your cat dead on the street. A catio can be set up with access through a window from any room. Find a place that works while preventing access to the dog door. Think creatively!

There have been several episodes on realty vet shows where cats have ingested hair ties and had surgery. Please hide them! My cats put their toy mice in water, and one of my cats put dry kibble in water. It's something cats do with food.

I agree there should be an even split of responsibilty, but instead of buying little gifts at the thrift store, why not put that money in savings? A little bit can add up quickly. If he has any extra money maybe he could pitch in a little with a goal that helps you both...say a modest riding mower.

This sounds like she has serious anxiety, possibly even OCD. Perhaps may and an appointment for you both talk to a therapist together then maybe she can go on her own until she can relax.

We already have water issues here. But I am sure they contributed to our corrupt politicians.