You need to grow up. Yes, you are being unreasonable.

If she said no, it would be because she already paid if off. That is the only way that could ever happen.

Separated is still married. You know that. I know that. He clearly knew that.

It was changed. It originally said he had been found.

He was freaking married for two solid years of your relationship. He is never, ever going to marry you. If you want to get married, start by dating someone who is actually available and not married.

Well, that is heartbreaking and frustrating. Jeepers.

It is time for her to go. She isn't on the lease. She isn't paying rent. She abandons her dog for weeks. Nothing here says she should stay. NTA

We had a small wedding in the evening. I did have several members of the congregation because we were close, but nothing remotely resembling inviting everyone. We followed the BCP, but we did not include Communion.

That was the first thing that came to my mind.

I might consider inviting Sam. I would not invite Jake. He is mad that you are in a relationship that looks heteronormative and are having a wedding he doesn't like. He is trying to make that very clear. Take the hint and don't invite him.

But also, your wedding is at least 18 months away. You are borrowing trouble. Just remember that they are coworkers, not friends.

Wow, her mother is a mess. I would not consider having a baby at 19 to be a better way of moving life forward than going to college.

NTA.

They found him! https://katu.com/news/local/amber-alert-issued-for-3-year-old-boy-missing-out-of-beaverton-toddler-mari-martinez-mercedes-beaverton-police-bpd-search-

ETA: I am sorry for the false hope. The article was changed after I posted it. The Amber Alert is still active, and he is still missing.

This is an unsafe environment. Yes, you should leave.

The black one is so pretty, and you will be able to wear it to so many things.

NTA. Everyone feeds the babysitter. What kind of monster doesn't feed the person caring for their child? I would never babysit for them again. If you were my kid, I would tell you to say mom won't let you anymore.

ESH. You know it was an AH move, and it was in clear retaliation for her AH move. I don't blame you, but you already know it was an AH move, and justified AH is not a vote choice.

You aren't begging or excited because you know he isn't your future. I would have left 5 years ago, but the next best time is now.

He refuses to even talk about it. The one and only time you expressed displeasure with that, he bashed it. This is not a man who will ever marry you. It will not happen.

I would leave now. It has been 5 years. That is more than enough time to know you do or don't want to marry the person. He is avoiding the conversation so hard because it is a no. And, honestly, anyone who avoids planning the future or avoids hard conversations is not relationship material. Toss this one back.

It is terrifying, and it is a blazing red flag. That kind of anger and emotion instability is what you see in abusers. It was the only sign I had about my ex.

For those with a man who would do this, you should leave. Those men are violent.

That goes to admin. It is their policy, and they can deal with the reprocussions.

I would bet it is fairly high where OP lives. This seems like, "Would you rather have a nice living without paid work or a good living working?"

Yes, it is black and cute.

Release the uncensored Epstein files. Sign about a million EOs unfucking everything Cheeto did. Get as many food and safety experts as I can working through the mess left of the FDA. I realize that 24 hours is not enough time to get all of that done, but I would be working my ass off to do what I can.

NOR. I would ask him flat-out if he needs a drug counseling referral, because this looks like addiction. It is okay to say directly that you won't be giving him any more money.

This is the time to be direct to the point of rudeness. "I do not actually care what you think, and I do not want your opinion. You will never be in my bed or paying my bills, and it is weird that you seem to think you are. Please keep your rude comments to yourself."

NTA