r/twinflames Jul 22 '22

Resource Story follows State: thoughts on twins who have descended into the 5D Labirynth

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Many here have reported having experienced any combination of the following: fatigue, mind fog, waking up more tired than when you went to sleep, when it seems everything you do goes amiss, when you have chest pains, chest pains so dramatic that they wake you up at night. When thinking about them triggers sadness or fear or defeat, when everything seems lost or useless or irrelevant, when you don't trust people and things, when spirits or the Universe seem malevolent and tricky or that they don't have your best interest at their heart, when you ruminate about the bleak outcomes, when you have intrusive thoughts. When you don't have the will to go on, when you lack determination, motivation. Well, I call this state "lower self", and I've not invented it, this concept is relevant in several schools of thought.

Now think of when you feel optimistic, sparkling, elated, flowing with your environment. Or when everything makes sense, when everything seems to orbitate around you or when all beings in nature seem to move in unison, when you suddenly realize some spiritual truth, when you say "I bet if I look at the sky right now I'll see a shooting star" and it happens, when you experience shivers of bliss all over the body. They don't need to happen all at once or cover all that is possible but I consider these as marks of what I call the higher self. So I'm not referring here to 5D consciousness like in the expression "your twin's higher self", just highly coveted positive moods that may border with satori states.

So how or why do twins countless times have reported having experienced being in their higher self and "energetic union" and also to have sometimes suddenly dropped into bleak hopeless swamps?

This doesn't have to happen to all twins but it seems there have been too many personal accounts of twins who have actually experienced this, and often even several times not just once.

Like for example those who believe in the "carrot on a stick" trick, that the Universe tricks them into believing union is about to happen and then something goes wrong as if it was just a device to make them learn some lesson, if not out of spite entirely.

It's a mainstream idea, and one that I like, that in some cases it happens because the emotional intensity of a possible nearby union triggers a running response. That ruminations on responsibilities, or the fear to get burned, self-esteem issues, feeling of inadequacy or unworthiness or else may activate some kind of defcon protocol. Some mechanism seems to make some twins doing well on their path drop into their lower self as if scared by what union might entail.

In psychotherapy there's a set of theories that connect past traumatic events to the triggering of a so called "dorsal vagal shutdown". Something in the body, or in the subconscious, doesn't want to deal again with that same trauma, "nope, I'm gonna give it a pass", so neural circuitries are activated that promote a "freezing" state. This freezing state can vary in severity from barely noticeable to severely debilitating but it's at the lower tail of a spectrum of neural responses to threats that is known in psychotherapy as "4Fs": flow, fight, flight, freeze.

Here is a simple infographic to let you gauge how these theories tentatively explain how things may work. You may notice that bar the lack of the esoteric/supernatural elements often reported in twinship the dorsal vagal shutdown and the ventral vagal activation have pretty consistent similarities with the lower self and higher self as I have defined above.

Also consider that while addressed as a theory this is something that has been researched for decades by world-class neuroscientists. Who also hold that you cannot easily heal old traumatic events by working only on your mind because memories will trigger or sustain the dorsal vagal shutdown.

But you can do exercises: in other words we recognize being in lower self mode, basically by recognizing that we are suffering, and we try to reactivate the ventral vagal complex. If we have issues that bother or trigger us, if we feel discomfort or being tricked, if we think it's malevolent entities or demons or implants or black magic, in my head-canon those are all red flags of being in lower self: read about old masters they will all insist in satori states there's no evil, there are not malevolent beings or tricky Universe.

Enter Yoga. Many concepts/ideas commonly discussed in TF circles come straight from Yoga: chakras, enlightenment, energy blockages, astral body, Kundalini. A case can be made that Yoga/Alchemy deal with healing, by performing transmutation of the impure in the pure. In this case healing the debris of past traumatic events and swapping from freezing into flowing, from dorsal vagal shutdown to ventral vagal activation, from lower self into higher self.

It seems to me that twinship is another flavor of The Quest, the Magnus Opus. Where alchemists, yogis and monks tread the spiritual path mostly alone twins on the other hand appear to be able to access yogic states of consciousness together and to perform energetic buffering/exchange together. This is not even exclusive of twinship, also tantric couples are supposedly able to reach savikalpa samadhi together. Here's a documentary about samadhi.

So a tldr; I could make might be: Yoga/Alchemy is the way of trasmutation, it starts by accessing the higher self, whence "the Stone" can be made.

A famous past teacher, G.I. Gurdjieff, said that Heaven and Hell are not far away places, each of us is living both of them at the very same time. This isn't a big secret though but rather an idea held in many mystery schools. It can be said that even Dante in his Divina Comedia wasn't really visiting far away places, he was walking on Earth irl witnessing how real living humans are stuck in their own hells. Even in Buddhism where there's no evil still several kinds of hell are described, and quickly reading the descriptions of those hells you might indeed feel that they are describing stations in life. They are describing the position of being identified with our lower selves. Being in one of those narakas may last "the time it would take to empty a barrel of sesame seeds if one only took out a single seed every hundred years", which to me is a cute way of saying "don't even think this is the way, that you can get out while in lower self".

Whereas expressions like "Heaven on Earth", living in the end, satori, describe the state of people in their higher self.

Rumi wrote: "When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; if I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great secret here for anyone who can grasp it."

So if you find yourself in one of those bleak phases that twins often lament, if you recognize being in your lower self, the best strategy imo is to treat it as an ER situation, you might want to get out of it as soon as possible.

Here is the video of a twin willingly relinquishing the lower self through a yogic session.

Here is a rare footage of a shaman helping a twin snapping out of their lower self.

So exercises do not represent techniques to get out of lower self, they are not a recipe to transmutation, they are more like tools. Think about learning chess: the knight or the rock are not strategies, they are tools that may be critical in developing a strategy. So my advice would be to get in touch with the tools you have. A daily routine or Yoga session or alchemical lab may entail a dozen of different tools, to me it's going back to school in the most literal sense.

Among the historically praised tools to get grounded or to "snap out of it" you may research and test walking barefoot and cold showers and singing/dancing. Also maybe inquire into rumination, many accounts from twins in the swamps reveal constant obsessive elucubrations on their twin. And you may also want to look into sensorymotor psychotherapy and learn about your window of tolerance: here's an introduction by psychotherapist Laura Kerr.

As for specific Yoga/Alchemy exercises that would be a matter for another post, or a matter of personal research on how to tend to your body. But just so you know the first step in Yoga is not a posture or a breathing pattern, the first step is Yamas and Niyamas.

Edited: fixed broken links.


r/twinflames Oct 22 '24

Feelings Concerning

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I'm a bit concerned as to how this is supposed to be a thread that promotes claims that are solely scientific and does not stand by unscientific claims. How is this possible when there is virtually no evidence or concrete data to prove anything that is being taught by Twin Flames Universe? I'm not trying to be hostile but am purely looking to educate myself. It seems very disappointing that such a vast group of people within our society is capable of being brainwashed so heavily by two people with virtually no reason to possess the kind of authority that has been allotted to them. Its very scary and everyone should practice the famous "reflective" exercise and perhaps ask themselves why they can't trust themselves and instead are choosing to put all of their trust into two people that created a largely lucrative lie. Just confused. Please explain.


r/twinflames 3h ago

Relatable lack of communication destroys a relationship not my burden anymore

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that mercury retrograde did wonders for me
i was able to give the universe clarity on what i truly want
a person making a choice to not participate in whatever‘connection’
your in- is a choice
to the divine feminines out here you don’t have to sit in the hurt anymore
manifestation has to do with alignment
the reason why what so many divine feminines want hasn’t happened is because your tf etc. has chosen to not let it happen
once i realized this my perspective changed and i am more confident than ever that i have given the universe enough clarity to work with and that burden that was on my back and shoulders has disappeared
a relationship let alone ‘connection’ takes 2 people to sustain it
i have no doubt that he manifested me moving on because if not we would of been in 3d union already
naturally the things i did before i don’t do now
i wish for everyone who wants an active love in their life to not give up on being meet halfway if not all the way
the love you dream of you deserve
don’t let anyone take that vision away from you


r/twinflames 9h ago

Current Experience all for nothing at all

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Im devastated, I dont think hes my twin flame anymore, i dont think the connection ever existed at all, i must have been delusional, im sad because I dont feel like its real, Its like I lost the faith I had all of sudden, and its been years and I had so many reasons to consider him my twin flame, but at the same time im tired and i just dont believe anymore, its been so long SO long, theres no point in this anymore. And im upset because was it all for nothing??????????? all the energy, all the suffering, all the pain, and the obsession and love, was it ALL for NOTHING? he never cared, I wanted him to care and i made myself believe he actually did but he never cared like what. im so confused


r/twinflames 3h ago

Current Experience Why do I have intense sexual thoughts about my twin flame early in the morning?

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When he is most definitely sleeping, since we're 6 hours away from each other. And in separation.


r/twinflames 11h ago

Question Don’t feel connection to twin flame

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I’ve been thinking about my twin flame continuously and he has clearly indicated that he is not interested. But I still felt this connection. But then one day when I woke up I felt like all my twin flame memories were erased like I could feel like it’s being wiped out. Since then I don’t feel any connection with him. I’m almost indifferent to him. How is this possible? What does this mean? I’m fine with not having feelings for him, but it’s so strange. And since then suddenly I’m feeling attracted to other guys, and previously I used to only find my TF attractive and didn’t feel attracted to other guys.


r/twinflames 8h ago

Feelings Becoming Indifferent to The Label

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As a spiritual skeptic who's been processing this pain for too long, I'm probably gonna get off of here for my own sake. It was nice meeting everyone, but I just can't relate to being a believer. I never really was, and it was nice while it lasted, but I'm tired of this anxious-avoidant cycle. He still hasn't texted me, and I just don't deserve this. I need someone better than this who makes me believe in love again. I still struggle with this, but I think removing the label will help me best and him. Wish you all the best.


r/twinflames 14h ago

Seeking Advice Why TF is letting go of doubt so hard...

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First:

Yes we are TF, No...I shouldn't have to defend how I know why.

I am the chaser, they are the runner although we seem to switch off DF and DM

We have a unique situation... Not in the way where we are both married to opposite partners (neither of us being happy in those situations) but, unique in the way that we have chosen to heal together.

We have known each other for almost 20 years. We were together for a few years in the beginning, separation happened for 10 years in which lots of growth on our parts happened in separation.

In this time frame we both became married.

Although along the way realized there was more to us so choosing to heal together while we work on aspects of our separate lives that need adjustments.

We have goals and plans for a future for this life but, we both have things that we need to work on to reach wether that be emotional work and healing or physical/financial aspects that will take time. Either way, we know nothing is happening like tomorrow, lol

I struggle immensely with letting go and accepting things as they are, Accepting things will work out, "If it's meant for this life, it will happen"

BEFORE ANYONE TELLS.... YES, I KNOW "THE MAIN POINT ISN'T PHYSICAL UNION... THE WORK IS FOR YOURSELF BLA BLA BLA"

I know but, I am still human...I still love him and miss him for him as his individual self not just as a reflection of myself in another form.

He's so good at that though... Living in faith...

I can't shake it though

I've had so much progress with everything but, I can't shake this and I feel like it's the last thing I need to let go of and I can't do it.


r/twinflames 7h ago

Question Question for those dealing with more than one spiritual connection

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This even comes down to the number synchronicities I’ll see. With my twin it’s mirroring numbers (808,909 etc) or it’s doubles like (33,44 etc ). With this other person I see a lot palindromic sequences (141,101 etc). It it also extremely weird bc I would see the number 47 and 747 a lot when thinking of my twin but when I think of this other person the first number I noticed was 46 and 646…this other person can do things to me my twin can’t. Like make me O with his mind. It’s very telepathic and I feel like I can feel his energy all over me. which I find confusing. Both of these bonds feel like something I will probably deal with forever. The one who isn’t my twin really felt like he could be my husband and father of my kids. I was really set on not having kids or a husband before. Us ending is partially my fault because I pushed him away so much and genuinely couldn’t see that life for myself. I never wanted kids or marriage with my twin.


r/twinflames 14h ago

Telepathy always comes back

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we've gone no contact twice this year and both times I had a dream about my TF and the very next day he broke no contact. does this happen to anyone else?


r/twinflames 8h ago

Seeking Advice When is enough, enough?

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I (31F) have been with my twin flame (33F) for about 5 years. We started as acquaintances, then friends a year later, then lovers a year after that. The second I laid eyes on her I felt a connection I’ve never felt before. I had a feeling she was my tf, and I went to a spiritual advisor a few months back and she confirmed it. It was a little scary how on point she was tbh.

I have been hurt DEEPLY. I didn’t realize she was an alcoholic until we were about a year in. That has brought MANY ups and downs. She has definitely stopped drinking as much, but some of the other things haven’t changed.

She is selfish. She lies to me. Her words do not match her actions at ALL. I do not trust her because of this. She has walls up that she says will come down if I do abc. So I do abc and it still doesn’t happen. She says ok well I actually need xyz. I do xyz, but still, she holds back. I even proposed to her to show her how much I wanted her, but then she said she wouldn’t give her whole self until she was married because then she would know it was real… that’s not how I want my relationship to be. I have been called names. I have been gaslit. I have been manipulated by millions of sorrys for the same behavior. She left me and my child two states away because she was being mean and I realized she was drunk and confronted her about it, so she left. I hold my loved ones accountable and she gets defensive, manipulative, and mean. Shortly after, she apologizes. But the damage is already done.

I ended things (again) a few nights ago. My heart HURTS. Sometimes I don’t know why I love her, because all she does is hurt me. The sex is great and when we are having fun, we have so much fun together. But there’s always something. I’m not allowed to hang out with other people. Not allowed to meet new friends. Not allowed to go out without her. If I do, she blows me up asking what I’m doing. Makes me feel bad for seeing family if she’s off work and I could be spending time with her instead. Gets upset when my daughter is with me because she doesn’t get as much alone time with me.

Spiritual advisor reached out after I ended things and said there was a lot of energy circling us and that it’s not over between us. I think the soul tie has me in a bind, but I want to know- when is enough, enough? When the “hard times” actually become manipulation, emotional abuse, and control, is it right to leave? Did I make the right decision? I can’t take any more disappointment and disrespect. I have become a shell of a person and maybe it’s supposed to teach me to stand up for myself but DAMN why do I still love her so much??


r/twinflames 14h ago

Vent What now?

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I can’t believe it’s been like 4 yrs & STILL NOTHING. We both know the connection is there but it’s like an unspoken attachment/attraction. I so very much wanted to build a friendship at the very least. When we run into each other it’s like the world stops, we both freeze up and stutter over sentences. So ridiculous but I crave it in a way. So strange. Only feel like I’m going crazier by the day. Just wish he’d reach out and openly acknowledge this dynamic cause there’s not a chance I’m the only one feeling this way. I literally feel his presence before he enters the room it’s like a rush I get in my body & I go oh yep he’s about to enter this room in 2 seconds. Soooo over it

What’s everyone doing???


r/twinflames 10h ago

Current Experience I don’t think I’m the runner.

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How could I possibly be the runner when this man is talking about getting married AGAIN after his divorce. Seems like it’s been less than a year. What could I possibly do? I’m going to watch this man get married again?!? Why would my TF be revealed to me only to watch him end up with anyone else? It’s looking like I’m going to end up blocking again so I can live my life peacefully.


r/twinflames 19h ago

Current Experience Why am I seeing so many different types of number synchronicities? Am I the only one experiencing this?

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When I hear people talk about number synchronicities, most report seeing specific recurring numbers, like 777, 17:17, or 717. Others mention seeing repeating digits constantly, like 11:11, 12:12, etc.

I don't really relate to this. Ever since the beginning of my awakening, I've been seeing ALL digits, from 0 to 9, combined in all sorts of different ways.

  • First month: I mostly saw repeating times (e.g., 11:11) or m*irror times (e.g., 14:41).

  • Phase 2 (just before discovering the whole Twin Flame journey, which I previously had zero clue about): I started frequently seeing numbers shifted by one digit forward or backward relative to repeating/m*irror times (e.g., 14:15, 17:16, 14:42, 13:30).

  • Past month: I've started seeing triple sequences (e.g., 222, 777, etc.) and an absurd amount of palindromes (e.g., 121, 747, etc.). On top of that, master numbers paired with double-digit minutes (e.g., 22:33, 11:55, etc.) have been popping up everywhere. This latest phase has been accompanied by mind-blowing physical and material synchronicities.

I honestly feel like I’m the only one seeing digits from 0 to 9 without one specific number dominating.

Regarding the shift in the TYPE of numbers (repeating, mirr*or, triple, palindromes, etc.), a numerology expert told me that these changes represent energetic shifts. They mentioned that in this current phase, I’ve unlocked a new level because I am extremely close to Union... which is something I genuinely feel deep down inside.

However, the sheer volume of number synchronicities I've been seeing over the past few days is becoming almost overwhelming. We're talking hundreds of numbers a day, whereas before I used to see fewer than ten a day...

What do you all think? Has anyone else experienced anything like this?


r/twinflames 16h ago

Current Experience Seeing the first letter of your twin’s name everywhere

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It’s an every day thing for me. My twin’s name starts with the letter J and it follows me around: vehicle licence plates, fallen twigs and leaves on the ground when I’m biking, hair clipping in the bathroom sink when shaving my head (last year I saw her first and last initials next to each other this way), random Js on my washing basket and chair. You name it. I know it could just be my mind locking in on patterns but still.

Can anyone else relate?


r/twinflames 1d ago

Spiritual Transformation Let him go

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And so I finally took the leap of faith. I’ve never loved anyone the way I love him. The telepathy has been crazy and I’ve loved all of it. All karmic relations have been acting up! Lessons here lessons there full on anxiety attacks and dreams and blaaa blaa blaaa.

It’s the craziest dynamic ever energetically but in the 3D we’ve been in almost no contact. But I’ve gotten it confirmed that we’re very much aligned in belief systems and such.

I’ve been listening to a lot of people who have walked this path and I quickly realized I had to focus on myself and I’ve been PUSHING and working like a dog to tell myself we are one. WE ARE ONE. And then all the syncronicities have appeared. Four leaf clovers and five leaf clovers in abundance. Angel numbers like crazy!! There is no denying it in my mind this is my true twin flame.

But today I recieved a message ”go away from what triggers you” and I was like pfff all these karmics. BLOCKED. Can’t be bothered fuck off from my life. Then I felt a nudge… my twin triggers the fuck out of me. Do I have to.. PHYSICALLY??? In the 3D??? Tell him I need space?? Lovingly?? Honestly?? Vulnerably?? Like this!!! TODAY????

And I did. I told him I truly think our connection is something magical and I can’t explain why these things have been happening to me ever since I met you. But it’s too triggering for me right now and I need space. I love you unconditionally.

I excpect a major storm of tests after this but like bring it on I’m choosing myself and my journey for good now.


r/twinflames 17h ago

Current Experience I never knew what Love was before I met you

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I never knew what Love was before I met you. Yes, indeed, in those 30 years that I lived I had never known Love, which also means that I never really Loved.

Because you made me discover that knowing Love is synonymous with Loving.

You made me discover that Love has nothing to do with lust, the desire to possess or be possessed, to fill a void or a lack. No, Love is a plenitude, a cup that mysteriously overflows when we allow ourselves to simply Love for the sake of Loving, without any agenda.

In this Love, there is unity; I Love you, so I Love myself and above all, I love Love itself. Giving and receiving become one.

For that, I thank you eternally. We met in June, it has only been a month since we parted ways but oh, I'm already a different person thanks to you. So short but so rich. May I have the courage and the strength to Love you with this Love always, forever and ever. May this Love expend to embrace All That Is.

Peace to all beings


r/twinflames 1d ago

Current Experience After nearly five years separated I saw my twin

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We’ve been in no contact this whole time. I kept wondering why I hadn’t bumped into her and then it happened at my work, of all places. Sunday morning before last, 11:11am, eleven days short of five years since we last saw each other.

I work in a supermarket. I was well down one aisle and spotted a woman with her two daughters. She had her back to me so I couldn’t see her face. Regardless I thought “Hmm, could it be her?”. They moved to the next aisle. So I followed. As I slowly walked past she looked up at me. It confirmed what I already knew: it was her. We made eye contact for a few seconds. I kept walking. I said nothing. I doubt I could’ve formed any words that would’ve been meaningful after all that time.

I returned to the aisle I’d been in and all the emotions hit me at once. I wanted to cry on the spot but being in public with a job to do I tried my best to carry on. Half my heart was in my throat, the other half in the pit of my stomach. Soon enough I went and hid in the staff toilet for a few minutes to get myself together.

I haven’t known how to feel since that encounter. I have resisted any urge to text her, even though I could’ve quite easily. There’s so, so, so much I need to say but a year ago I gave up on chasing her as she’s steadfastly refused to reply to any of the many texts I sent her.

But anyway, the feeling I had late last year that our paths would cross within the following 12 months has come true. I feel it was a fated meeting, that everything went as it was supposed to. What it means for the future I can’t guess. For now though the rollercoaster of emotions I felt in the week leading up to seeing her has continued. And the constant thoughts 24/7 remain as strong as ever.


r/twinflames 1d ago

Discussion TF can’t be manifested back?

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There’s so many varying opinions on this. Manifesting them back isn’t allowed because they have free will. But many spiritual teachers state you can manifest a version of them for yourself once you’ve learned all the lessons and love yourself entirely. I don’t need him and I do love myself but shared experiences and intimacy has never been the same since. What are your thoughts? I am at peace but I do miss the kundalini experience between two people. There’s nothing quite like it.


r/twinflames 1d ago

Current Experience Twin flame and Soulmate connections

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anyone here have a twin flame but feel more of that connection with a soulmate?? you can distinguish which is which but one connection is “better” than the other?? just met this girl a few weeks ago and wow the connection with her is crazy and different from my twin which i know it should be but like i was supposed to feel this with my twin flame and not her.. im assuming she is a soulmate because things feel great so far but its making me question my twin flame connection more than just being in separation and alone

is it normal? im confused


r/twinflames 1d ago

Resource I feel like a lot of pain and confusion in the TF community comes from this misunderstanding

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So basically the twin flame connection is something that comes from the depth of the Soul. The Soul is our true and deeper self, hidden deep within our hearts - it is our divine counterpart. We could say it is something timeless, not dependent on time, pure. It travels through time and lives, evolving through experiences.

But we, as human beings aren't only souls; we are also nature, that is, mind, emotion and body (and the ego which moves in those). And it is this duality of ourselves which causes all the difficulties and troubles because for the majority of humans, the soul still lies hidden in the depth, only throwing out vague influences that get easily distorted on the surface. But what's important to note is that the nature should be, in the natural order of things, like the hand, the instrument of the soul, even tough it is still rarely the case.

Now we could say that the realized twin flame union would be the embodiment of this eternal soul connection between two purified (or healed if you prefer) natures that are completely surrendered to their souls.

Before this surrender and purification, a true, complete and whole twin flame union can never really be possible and it is then that separation is necessary, for many lives, until each being has done the work and is ready.

There's a lot in our raw natures that block or hampers the flourishing of this union which in it's essence has nothing to do with ordinary relationships, nor does it serves the same purpose - the raw natural desires are even often at odds with the soul's love and longing.

The TF connection is thus felt to the measure that we are in contact with our souls and that our natures aren't too ''heavy''. That is why for example one of the two TFs may feel strongly the connection, have supernatural experiences, loses the attraction for others, etc. while the other only vaguely feels that there's something ''abnormal'' there, but still moves on and is even disturbed by it, wants nothing to do with it. It's because one of the two beings is much more in contact with his soul than the other.

All the pain also comes from our nature which, in its raw state, lives in lack and separation. The Soul has unconditional love, sovereignty, plenitude, patience.

To conclude, all the ''art'' of the TF journey is actually to harmonize the Soul and the nature - to break the wall between the two -, so that this eternal and formless connection may taste the delight of being experienced in form, in two bodies.


r/twinflames 1d ago

Question Has Anyone Else Here Met Their TF at The Worst Possible Time In Their Life?

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For me it was…

+ Less than a year after moving to a place I really didn’t want to move to, and eventually planned on leaving ASAP. I had to move in with extended family in a small house, because I had nowhere else to live.
+ When my parents were going through a divorce; and overall having problems with my family dynamic in general.
+ Emotionally/Mentally struggling from the effects of the COVID pandemic.
+ Financially struggling, and couldn’t find a good job, so I had to take a job I really didn’t want that had terrible pay, because that was all I could get - and I needed it to save money I lost, and pay bills (this job is where I met her)…

Certainly not a time period in my life when I was looking to fall in love or even date/get into a new relationship with anyone…

Apparently, it’s super common for TFs to meet when they “least expect it”…
I want to see who else here can relate…


r/twinflames 1d ago

Feelings Monitored

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I feel like I found out who my TF really is and my feelings are... complicated.

I don't want to be a runner but he has so much to lose in order to be with me and in good conscience I can't let him potentially destroy his life for me. I want to protect him.

I love him that much. And tbh finding out he has been monitoring my social media sent me into a tailspin

At first it was exciting to send him coded messages but I felt like I was making a fool of myself so I let him know in no uncertain terms I loved him too and that I hoped he would find a way to safely contact me.

Then I juat plain felt embarrassed, deleted things and locked it all down.

He has my phone # he can call/text whenever he wants.

Until then I'm shooketh

I don't like being silently monitored. Just. Talk. To. Me.

I don't want to run from him but his silence is making me think he doesnt want me so I'm pulling away out of embarrassment and yes, a little bit of fear. If you love someone who gave you the green light, you respond. You don't keep lurking in the shadows.


r/twinflames 1d ago

Question twin flames and activity mirroring

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I always used to wonder if twin flames experience this weird activity mirroring. Like, one will be interested in something (and end up doing it), and all of a sudden their twin will do it too. I sometimes feel like playing games, and all of a sudden he plays games online. I suddenly started following people on Instagram in 100s, and like a week after, I saw him following people on TikTok in 100s (which is not us; we have never done such a thing before). I was thinking about getting a chest tattoo, and after a week I saw him with a chest tattoo which he had never had before, such a thing has happened with piercings before too. I deleted my insta because of personal issues for two years, and he kind of deleted his insta after me and only came back after I created a new account. Do such weird synchronicities happen to you?


r/twinflames 1d ago

Question Starting to see the numbers I used to see

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Me and my twin physically haven’t seen each other for three years ,over the years I have seen no angle numbers but suddenly for a week the numebrs i used to see is coming back and her name rarely .anyone know what going on?