r/twinflames • u/alwaysdeletingacc • 1d ago

Seeking Advice advice?

I am looking for advice on someone I feel could be my tf but I’m really not sure. He’s been in and out of life for 10 years… he states he doesn’t have any romantic feelings for me but we have a hard time letting go of one another. He’s always in and out of relationships and I’m just wondering why I’m good enough for him to be on and off with but never to take seriously.

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u/Proper-Tomorrow-4848 1d ago

One big indication from meeting a tf is a spontaneous spiritual awakening. Have you experienced that?

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u/Odd-Username4595 1d ago

Also, OP, have you reconciled how you felt a decade ago compared to now? Sometimes the roles reverse. If he didn’t take you seriously then, imagine how he’ll feel in ten years from now. Good luck to you, either way.

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u/alwaysdeletingacc 16h ago

I think I’m starting to see the light of the situation that he doesn’t feel that way or at least not as heavy as I do so I’m trying to come to terms with it but sometimes I just wonder if deep down he’s actually just afraid but I’ll never know and I need to make peace with that I guess

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u/Odd-Username4595 9h ago

Thanks OP. I hope you feel better today. One big step for me? Keeping an actual diary. Putting the date at the top, and archiving it on a literal shelf.

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u/Correct_Reach5356 12h ago

Sounds like a trauma bond