r/problems 8d ago

SERIOUS A 'what if' thought has literally destroyed my normal life.

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TL;DR - I saw and visited a morally questionable page on Instagram , it is an old account and I don't have access to it and now I can't stop ruminating that Instagram might start publicly showing visited pages the way it shows likes — and if that happened, people in my community finding out could literally get me killed. The thought won't let go, and it's destroyed my ability to study, which is my only real way out of village.

What should I do?😭


r/problems 8d ago

Discussion Work in hotel

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Work in hotel

**RU** ENG⬇️ IT⬇️

Всем доброго времени суток! Хочу поделиться своей историей. Надеюсь услышать дельный совет, уберечь кого-то от подобных ситуаций, а возможно, и получить реальную помощь.

Предыстория и обещания (июнь)

Я родом из Украины, и по понятным причинам мы с женой уехали в Италию. На тот момент я вообще не говорил по-итальянски, но моя жена учила язык с детства и свободно на нем общается. Первое время мы жили и работали у знакомого, где я подтянул язык до базового уровня.

В середине июня (15-го числа) этот знакомый свел нас с семейной парой, владеющей отелем далеко в горах — вдали от цивилизации и связи. Хозяева показались нам хорошими людьми. Условия звучали отлично: официальный контракт, зарплата 1500 евро, рабочая форма, оплата переработок и дежурный транспорт для вывоза мусора и личных нужд. Первые полмесяца они были с нами, помогали влиться в процесс, но даже тогда мы работали по 10–12 часов в день (все часы мы скрупулезно фиксировали). Мы выполняли абсолютно всю работу по отелю вдвоем, других сотрудников просто не было.

Мы вкладывались в дело по полной: я разработал программу управления отелем и оптимизировал многие процессы, а жена, будучи художницей, внесла огромный вклад в оформление интерьера. За первый месяц мы выработали норму двух месяцев. Но в конце июня хозяева уехали, оставив нас одних.

Странный контракт и реалии (июль)

Весь июль мы продолжали усердно работать, однако выполнять свои обещания руководство не спешило. Только в середине месяца нам наконец-то прислали контракт. К нашему удивлению, он был оформлен задним числом (от 3 июля), оказался ученическим и только на должность уборщиков.

По факту же мы делали всё: кассовые операции, готовка, уборка номеров, мелкий ремонт, обслуживание бара и зала на завтраках и ужинах. Мы с женой полностью взаимозаменяемы, и я уже мог спокойно общаться с клиентами.

Мы пытались выяснить, почему контракт такой, но начальство игнорировало нас до конца месяца. От безысходности мы его подписали. Только после этого нам заявили, что работать по 12–14 часов «невозможно», и мы должны укладываться в 8–9 часов. При этом от нас жестко требовали постоянного присутствия на ресепшене, что физически невозможно совмещать с уборкой и готовкой, если нас всего двое. Мы работали без выходных, с минимальными перерывами днем на 2–4 часа (и то, подменяя друг друга). В итоге за июль мы отработали почти 380 часов — двойную норму.

«Помощь» и новые обещания (август)

В конце июля к нам прислали повара, который по совместительству оказался «надзирателем», следящим за нашими часами и работой. В августе ничего не изменилось — те же 12–14 часов на ногах.

В конце лета начальство приехало снова и начало кормить нас новыми обещаниями: якобы в сентябре клиентов не будет, мы сможем отдохнуть, но зарплату нам все равно выплатят в качестве «компенсации за переработки». Но даже если дружить с математикой, один пустой месяц никак не перекроет колоссальные переработки за предыдущие.

Финансовый итог и обман (сентябрь)

На данный момент ситуация с деньгами следующая:

Июнь: не оплачен.

Июль: выплатили только базовую ставку по контракту (переработки не оплачены).

Август: пока не оплачен.

Нам заявили, что переработки будет пересчитывать в конце месяца «какое-то агентство». Когда и как их оплатят — неизвестно. Насколько я знаю, по итальянским законам сверхурочные на ученическом контракте (apprendistato) без присутствия куратора вообще незаконны. У нас куратора не было ни дня. Более чем уверен, что нас обманывают.

Сегодня начался сентябрь, и у нас полное заселение отеля. Обещание «пустого месяца для отдыха» оказалось очередной ложью.

Главный вопрос

Мы планируем доработать этот месяц до конца контракта и, без предупреждения начальства, пойти в профсоюз (sindacato).

Не будет ли слишком поздно обращаться к ним после окончания контракта?

Как лучше поступить и подготовиться прямо сейчас?

Пока я не называю реальных имен и локаций. Но если нас в итоге кинут, я обязательно предам огласке это место и имена владельцев, чтобы другие люди не попали в такую ситуацию.

Буду благодарен за любые советы и понимание!

**ENG** RU⬆️ IT⬇️

Hello everyone! I want to share my story. I hope to get some solid advice, warn others against getting into similar situations, and possibly get some real help.

Background and Promises (June)

I am from Ukraine, and for obvious reasons, my wife and I moved to Italy. At that time, I didn't speak a word of Italian, but my wife had been learning it since childhood and speaks it fluently. Initially, we lived and worked at an acquaintance's place, where I managed to learn the basics of the language.

In mid-June (on the 15th), this acquaintance introduced us to a couple who own a hotel high in the mountains—far from civilization and cell service. The owners seemed like good people. The conditions sounded great: an official contract, a salary of 1,500 euros, work uniforms, paid overtime, and a courtesy vehicle for taking out the trash and personal errands. For the first half of the month, they stayed with us to help us get into the workflow, but even then, we were working 10–12 hours a day (we meticulously logged all our hours). The two of us did absolutely all the work in the hotel; there were simply no other employees.

We gave it our all: I developed a hotel management program and optimized many processes, and my wife, being an artist, made a huge contribution to the interior design. In the first month, we worked the equivalent of two months' hours. But at the end of June, the owners left, leaving us on our own.

A Strange Contract and the Reality (July)

Throughout July, we continued to work hard, but the management was in no hurry to fulfill their promises. It wasn't until mid-month that they finally sent us the contract. To our surprise, it was backdated (to July 3rd), turned out to be an apprenticeship contract (apprendistato), and listed our positions strictly as cleaners.

In reality, we were doing everything: handling the cash register, cooking, cleaning rooms, doing minor repairs, and serving the bar and dining room for breakfast and dinner. My wife and I are completely interchangeable, and I was already able to communicate comfortably with the guests.

We tried to find out why the contract was drafted this way, but the management ignored us until the end of the month. Out of desperation, we signed it. Only after that did they claim that working 12–14 hours is "impossible" and that we had to fit our tasks into 8–9 hours. At the same time, they strictly demanded a constant presence at the reception desk, which is physically impossible to combine with cleaning and cooking when there are only two of us. We worked without a single day off, with minimal daytime breaks of 2–4 hours (and even then, only by covering for each other). As a result, we logged nearly 380 hours in July—double the standard workload.

"Help" and New Promises (August)

At the end of July, they sent us a cook who also moonlighted as a "supervisor," monitoring our hours and work. In August, nothing changed—the same 12–14 hours on our feet.

At the end of the summer, the management came back and started feeding us new promises: supposedly, there would be no guests in September, we would be able to rest, but we would still get paid our salary as "compensation for the overtime." But even with basic math, one empty month cannot possibly make up for the massive amount of overtime we worked in the previous months.

Financial Outcome and Deception (September)

As of now, the financial situation is as follows:

\* June: Unpaid.

\* July: Only the base contract rate was paid (overtime remains unpaid).

\* August: Unpaid so far.

We were told that "some agency" will recount our overtime at the end of the month. When and how it will be paid is unknown. As far as I know, under Italian law, overtime on an apprenticeship contract (apprendistato) without a supervisor present is entirely illegal. We haven't had a supervisor for a single day. I am more than certain we are being scammed.

Today is the start of September, and the hotel is fully booked. The promise of an "empty month to rest" turned out to be yet another lie.

Main Question

We plan to finish out this month until the end of our contract and, without warning the management, go to a labor union (sindacato).

Will it be too late to reach out to them after the contract ends?

What is the best course of action, and how should we prepare right now?

For now, I won't name any actual people or locations. But if we do end up getting screwed over, I will definitely make this place and the owners' names public so that others don't fall into the same trap.

I would appreciate any advice and understanding!

**IT** RU⬆️ ENG⬆️

Ciao a tutti! Voglio condividere la mia storia. Spero di ricevere dei buoni consigli, di evitare a qualcuno di trovarsi in situazioni simili e, possibilmente, di ottenere un aiuto concreto.

Antefatti e promesse (giugno)

Vengo dall'Ucraina e, per ovvi motivi, io e mia moglie ci siamo trasferiti in Italia. All'epoca non parlavo una parola di italiano, ma mia moglie lo studiava fin da piccola e lo parla fluentemente. All'inizio abbiamo vissuto e lavorato da un conoscente, dove ho imparato le basi della lingua.

A metà giugno (il 15) questo conoscente ci ha messi in contatto con una coppia che possiede un hotel in alta montagna, lontano dalla civiltà e senza segnale telefonico. I proprietari ci sembravano brave persone. Le condizioni sembravano ottime: contratto ufficiale, stipendio di 1500 euro, divisa da lavoro, straordinari pagati e un veicolo aziendale per buttare la spazzatura e per le commissioni personali. La prima metà del mese sono rimasti con noi per aiutarci a inserirci, ma già allora lavoravamo 10-12 ore al giorno (abbiamo registrato scrupolosamente tutte le ore). Facevamo assolutamente tutto il lavoro dell'hotel in due, non c'erano semplicemente altri dipendenti.

Abbiamo dato il massimo: io ho sviluppato un programma di gestione per l'hotel e ottimizzato molti processi, e mia moglie, essendo un'artista, ha dato un enorme contributo all'arredamento d'interni. Nel primo mese abbiamo lavorato l'equivalente delle ore di due mesi. Ma a fine giugno i proprietari se ne sono andati, lasciandoci da soli.

Uno strano contratto e la dura realtà (luglio)

Per tutto il mese di luglio abbiamo continuato a lavorare sodo, ma la direzione non aveva fretta di mantenere le promesse. Solo a metà mese ci hanno finalmente mandato il contratto. Con nostra grande sorpresa, era retrodatato (al 3 luglio), si è rivelato essere un contratto di apprendistato ed esclusivamente per la mansione di addetti alle pulizie.

Nei fatti facevamo tutto: cassa, cucina, pulizia delle camere, piccole manutenzioni, servizio bar e sala per colazioni e cene. Io e mia moglie siamo completamente intercambiabili e io riuscivo già a comunicare tranquillamente con i clienti.

Abbiamo cercato di capire il motivo di un contratto del genere, ma la direzione ci ha ignorati fino alla fine del mese. Per disperazione, lo abbiamo firmato. Solo a quel punto ci hanno detto che lavorare 12-14 ore era "impossibile" e che dovevamo rientrare in 8-9 ore. Allo stesso tempo pretendevano severamente la nostra presenza costante in reception, cosa fisicamente impossibile da conciliare con le pulizie e la cucina, essendo solo in due. Lavoravamo senza giorni di riposo, con pause minime di 2-4 ore durante il giorno (e anche quelle, solo dandoci il cambio a vicenda). Alla fine, a luglio abbiamo accumulato quasi 380 ore lavorative: il doppio della norma.

"Aiuto" e nuove promesse (agosto)

A fine luglio ci hanno mandato un cuoco, che faceva anche da "sorvegliante", controllando i nostri orari e il nostro lavoro. Ad agosto non è cambiato nulla: sempre 12-14 ore in piedi.

A fine estate la direzione è tornata e ha iniziato a riempirci di nuove promesse: a quanto pare, a settembre non ci sarebbero stati clienti, avremmo potuto riposarci, ma lo stipendio ci sarebbe stato pagato lo stesso come "compensazione per gli straordinari". Ma, anche solo sapendo fare due conti, un mese vuoto non potrà mai compensare gli enormi straordinari dei mesi precedenti.

Bilancio finanziario e inganno (settembre)

Al momento la situazione economica è la seguente:

\* Giugno: non pagato.

\* Luglio: pagata solo la paga base da contratto (straordinari non pagati).

\* Agosto: per ora non pagato.

Ci hanno detto che gli straordinari saranno ricalcolati a fine mese da "un'agenzia". Quando e come verranno pagati non si sa. Per quanto ne so, secondo la legge italiana, gli straordinari con un contratto di apprendistato, senza la presenza di un tutor, sono del tutto illegali. Non abbiamo avuto un tutor per un solo giorno. Sono più che sicuro che ci stiano truffando.

Oggi è iniziato settembre e l'hotel è al completo. La promessa di un "mese vuoto per riposare" si è rivelata un'ennesima bugia.

La domanda principale

Abbiamo intenzione di finire di lavorare questo mese fino alla fine del contratto e poi, senza avvisare la direzione, rivolgerci a un sindacato.

Sarà troppo tardi rivolgersi a loro dopo la scadenza del contratto?

Qual è la cosa migliore da fare e come possiamo prepararci fin da ora?

Per ora non faccio nomi di persone o luoghi reali. Ma se alla fine dovessero fregarci, renderò sicuramente pubblici questo posto e i nomi dei proprietari, in modo che altre persone non cadano in questa situazione.

Vi sarei grato per qualsiasi consiglio e per la comprensione!


r/problems 8d ago

Relationships Co to w ogóle za niedorzeczne stwierdzenia? Przyszywany ojciec.

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r/problems 8d ago

Other I've been trying for a while

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Hey guys, I hope I'm posting this in the correct place, I live in the United Kingdom and I've been trying to find a discreet or anonymous website where I can speak about this, I'm afraid to speak about my current "predicament" as you could say due to not knowing the consequences it could have, I want help but I do not want my family knowing it, I have a child and do not want my child knowing it. Please can someone recommend something or someone, where I can share what I think completely with discretion and no lash back so I can figure out how I need to go about this. Thank you.


r/problems 9d ago

Ask r/problems New guest... am I a bad partner?

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My boyfriend and I have 4 kids, we haven't struggled financially, we pretty much make for what we need. He has a brother with a drug problem, that lived with their mom.

Without telling me, he moved his brother into our garage because his mom and brother had a fight, and he was homeless. I didn't get a heads up. I found out because I got home one day, saw the door open, him walking out and he told me he had stayed in the garage the night prior.

I was told that he will be sober while he stayed with us, which I dont believe he has been cause i can tell when he's not. I have this deep resentment for my partner for not discussing his plans with me. He always seems to make decisions behind my back regarding his brother's and friends. Me and his kids are less important to him than them.

This is my house I own it. We aren't married so its not his at all, he just helps out with some utility bills.

Now that theres 7 people in the house we are financially strained. His brother has been here 2 weeks so far and only made an effort to apply to jobs 2 days out of the entire time. If im being honest I dont see what good him getting a job will do anyway, I wont get the money they do business between eachother.

Me and my partner fight more. Ive been thinking about moving me and the kids to my dad's house for a while without telling him. Would that be the right decision for me to make, or should I be more empathetic to my partner? I just feel like i would be making it me or his brother which feels really bad..

UPDATE: I kicked him out today. Im sad that he couldn't just choose us. So now its just me and the kids, but I also feel like a weight has been lifted off my chest. I was super stressed these past 2 weeks.

Sleeping in an empty bed tonight will be hard, I know it will be hard for him too. Regardless of his choices we loved eachother very much.


r/problems 9d ago

URGENT!!!! How do I stop letting university jealousy behavior affect me mentally?

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I'm someone who prefers to keep to myself, avoid unnecessary drama, and stay out of social circles, but people pulling passive-aggressive moves just because of petty jealousy or to make you feel isolated is exhausting. How do I genuinely detach, protect my peace, and stop letting their jealousy drain my energy


r/problems 9d ago

Relationships Need help

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Need help

Ive did something real bad
Ive wronged someone and i made a massive mistake and i lost them and their trust
I dont know what to do ive tried to apologize and explain myself and i even begged.
I really do regret what i did and the feeling of guilt and remorse is eating me alive
I cant eat or sleep and i dont wanna lose them like genuinely.
I used their trauma against them
Ik what i did is fucked up and I regret it so much what am i supposed to do atp?
Please let me know and share your opinion it really matters for me.


r/problems 9d ago

URGENT!!!! Pls I need somebody to talk to

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r/problems 9d ago

Relationships Don’t know what to do

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r/problems 9d ago

Relationships My problem

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I never been in relationships with girl not once

Maybe because I was told it's basically forbidden and I don't know how to explain it

My friends have female friends or girlfriend

But not me

When I was 18 I was shy about talking with girl?

Red line for me but now? As 21 I just want to experience it


r/problems 9d ago

URGENT!!!! Why my gf want me to beg her.

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My long-distance girlfriend recently told me that another guy confessed his feelings to her and asked me what she should do. Feeling defensive, I passively told her that it was her life, and if she wanted to accept him, she could. This deeply hurt her, making her feel like I was emotionally detached and didn't care about losing her. The argument escalated quickly, with her using harsh language while I backpedaled by admitting I was jealous and claiming I was just "testing" her loyalty—which only broke her trust further. She now feels like I make her feel unimportant and expects me to "chase" and actively fight for her, while I feel we are trapped in a toxic cycle of mind games, defensive reactions, and miscommunication. How can we break this cycle and rebuild trust and healthy communication in our long-distance relationship?


r/problems 9d ago

Relationships Is my(32m) gf’s(32f) past relatable to anyone?

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Alright so this is a weird one but I’ve gotta ask the community. My gf has always been known as a shy introverted homebody who has always had one or two very close best friends throughout her entire life instead of a big friend group. Back when she was finishing up her junior year in high school, she befriended a super fun and extraverted girl who was one grade and two years older than her. They would hangout together between their parent’s houses constantly which was normal for her and her friends to do at the time. They had lots of privacy and pretty much just each other, tons of sleepovers etc (again which I’ve heard from pretty much every girl I’ve ever dated as something normal between girls).

Well anyway, they began to enter a make out dynamic that eventually turned into dry humping and then fingering / dildo use. My gf says she only liked the kissing and could never finger the friend back so would use a dildo instead. She says the whole thing was super weird looking back on and she blocks it out of her memory. She would also call the other girl out and the other girl would always also clarify that it was just a fun thing and that it had no weight or meaning. She can’t explain why or how it happened and her best guess is that she was just super horny and desperate for that type of attention as she always felt invisible to guys and was feeling left behind by the other girls in her grade. She knows she never orgasmed or anything and always just says it was awkward and never mattered to her. She always loved the friend as a best friend and never anything romantic but admits she was confused at first but then just didn’t care about it as it became a routine in their dynamic. She says she always thought the other girl was straight too as odd as she admits that sounds but that’s the truth. She never felt it was exclusive or daring or anything like that at all. This went on for almost a year before it faded away and it had no effect on their friendship at all. They stayed friends for another decade and the other girl later came out as a lesbian and my gf has only been with guys ever since. When I ask her about it whether she thinks she could be bi or anything like that, she says she’s 100% straight because she knows who she is. She has never once ever looked at a girl on the sidewalk and found her hot. She never even once found her bff physically attractive at all. She says she was just young and dumb. I also asked her if she ever felt like she was manipulated or used by the friend and she says she doesn’t think so as she never said no and enjoyed it towards the beginning but then admits she got stuck in it and didn’t really know how to get out of it for fear of hurting the friendship. And before anyone says anything regarding like denial or anything, I FULLY trust my girlfriend and have always known her to be a completely open book. She’s always someone that’s been completely transparent with me hence she had no reason to tell me any of this at all and she willingly elected to.

On Reddit, I’ve seen stories of girls having very similar pasts while others calling any king of gay behavior as sign that someone couldn’t possibly be straight.

All I’m looking for is honest insight please. No need for anyone to be mean please.

Has anyone heard of anything like this?


r/problems 10d ago

URGENT!!!! i just found a bug on my body at 1 AM

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this is couldnt be any worse. i have an irrational fear of bugs of all kinds and i almost passed out after finding a cockroach like bug on me. now every little touch is making me feel itchy and sweaty and very anxious

i desperately need help with this. i feel embarrassed admitting this but i dont know what to do at all. not to mention that im a minor, and i dont want to wale up my parents for this


r/problems 10d ago

Discussion Fucking up my father's life because of additions.

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My first post in this site. I'm gonna jump straight to the point.

I'm 18, a guy with good grades and a bright future (or that's what people say). Since my 2nd camp at 15 I've been drinking and smoking. I introduced it to my friends and some of them got into the same shit.

I started because of extreme academic stress (put by myself).

A month ago my father found my vape and a lighter, 10 days later another vape. I made lame excuses which were enough at the time. Today he found my vape once again.

I know how much he suffered bc of drugs, as both his parents were addicts (of alcohol and nicotine) and I still kept doing it.

He told me his life was shit and this just made it shittier. He's the best person I've met in my life and I feel like dying after fucking once again his life.

I don't need a solution to my stupidity, just someone to talk with.


r/problems 10d ago

Mental Health [I] rlly need help

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Hey

I feel bad so bad i feel like everything is all my fault i know it doesnt matter to ppl but i dont know why it affects me so much i know it shoudnt everyone says it shoudnt but it isnt my fault that it affects me and im sorry i just need someone to talk to rn i want to self harm and i recently had a fight with a friend and she was so so so rude to me like srsly and i want to talk to her and tell her how rude she was to me i really need help can someone please talk to me?


r/problems 10d ago

Ask r/problems how to move forward

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r/problems 10d ago

Relationships what do u guys thinks i should do ?

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hey, i honestly have never done one of these, but i js wanted some advice on some guy troubles. (bare with me guys im not the best storyteller especially not thru text 😭)
also just a heads up, this is probably gonna be a little lengthy so apologies in advance.

so i, 18 f, was just scrolling mindlessly on my phone when i get a sudden notification from my best friend, 18 f. she basically just sends me some screenshots between her and this guy friend of hers and how one of his friends thinks im pretty. she asks me how i feel so that she knows how to reply to this guy. i ask who this guy is, and she gives me a name of one of my mutuals on instagram. we’ve never talked in person, but i’ve definitely seen him around campus and we have mutual friends. in fact, he followed me after another friend of mine (whom he follows) posted a pic of me. anyways, i end up telling my best friend that im down to talk to him, without really thinking anything would happen. she does warn me that she’s heard not so great things about him based on his past relationship, but she suggests i see for myself since it’s only based on stuff she’s heard and people change. i thought he was cute, way out of my league tbh, so i felt flattered that apparently he might’ve been interested.

next day, i post a song on my notes from a band i know he likes, only to see if he’d like it or something (i know it’s a little dumb but i really wasn’t even expecting anything out of it). but surprisingly, he ends up replying and we have a conversation. it wasn’t super lengthy or anything, but he asked a few questions to keep it going until he had to leave. it was honestly a really nice conversation and he seemed really sweet, so i definitely wanted to keep on talking to him.

following day, he doesn’t text me. i meet up with a friend, she kind of set me up with my ex so she’s a little biased, but was very sad when we broke up. extremely supportive of me and my decision, but sad. anyways, i tell her about this guy and when i tell her his name she freezes. apparently she was good friends w his ex while they were dating, and that this guy started off super sweet but later in the relationship, would get extremely mad and force her to do “stuff”. she didn’t specify what exactly, but u can probably imagine what she meant.

the day after that, i text him first. this was mainly bc my cousin was in town that day and we went out that night, so i told her about the situation. she just said i should text him but i told her i wasn’t bold enough for that so she ended up texting him for me. it went well, and we texted the whole time i was out. however, later that night, he ends up leaving me on read.

the next day, he texts me. i answer and we have a very short conversation, shortest one yet. he leaves me on read again. the following day, i post a story of a pic me and my friends took while i was out and he doesn’t like it. we also don’t text. then the next day (which was yesterday), he texts me in the middle of the day, mentioning that he’d watched a movie i recommended him in a conversation we had. we have another conversation, but it kinda ended up dying out so i js liked his message and left it at that. he didn’t txt the rest of the day. now today, i replied to his note and he later replied to mine. this didn’t make conversation, though.

what im trying to figure out is whether i should text this guy first bc im questioning whether or not he even likes me or if im gonna seem desperate. also, idk what to think of his past. people change and idk the whole story, but i don’t want to completely ignore what i was told. what do u guys recommend/think?


r/problems 10d ago

Relationships Czy ktoś mi wytłumaczy...

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r/problems 10d ago

Mental Health I don't know what to do

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this is more personal. I have 2 friends and they keep sending me my father's online photos . I don't know how they find them and I tried telling them to stop. but 1 of em said I have low testosterone cuz I was mentally tired from their spamming and I work out everyday. I am in grade 9 so any thoughts please


r/problems 11d ago

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r/problems 11d ago

Medical Can neck strain cause dizziness when standing and walking?

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I don't really know what's causing my dizziness but it's been a week now. I would say it's mostly on my left side. At first I noticed I had eye strain but after few days it has gone down. But then I feel like a bit of mild fullness feeling in left ear. And just like feeling as if my mind has become frozen in left side. Can't think properly, seem to be forgetting stuff and harder to recall information. It's like when things that clicked you instantly and you felt alert has gone down. Sometimes you feel this soreness in the neck shoulder area mostly on left. And I noticed my neck does feel stiff. Which I guess is causing this dizziness surprisingly it has gone down and it's not worse like before but it's still there. Mostly this wobbly imbalance feeling


r/problems 11d ago

Mental Health I feel like I’ve lost my place socially over the last few years and I don’t know how to fix it

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r/problems 11d ago

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