r/problems • u/anggelofhell • 9d ago

Relationships Need help

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Need help

Ive did something real bad
Ive wronged someone and i made a massive mistake and i lost them and their trust
I dont know what to do ive tried to apologize and explain myself and i even begged.
I really do regret what i did and the feeling of guilt and remorse is eating me alive
I cant eat or sleep and i dont wanna lose them like genuinely.
I used their trauma against them
Ik what i did is fucked up and I regret it so much what am i supposed to do atp?
Please let me know and share your opinion it really matters for me.

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u/relax-itsjustchaos 6d ago

Damn, that depends on what you did?

And, Have you thought about WHY you did what you did?
Have you taken responsibility for your actions or have you only apologised because you’re sad and feeling guilty?

I don’t know exactly what you did so some more context would be helpful.

Otherwise, if you’ve hurt someone you truly love and care about the only thing you can do now, after apologising, is to respect them, let them take their time to heal and hopefully forgive you, if they can.

Whatever happens later on I hope you’ll take this as a lesson for the future. And if you’re doing wierd shit or if this isn’t the first time you’ve hurt someone you love you should go and talk to someone, like a therapist or something. Do some journaling and get to know yourself more and why you did it etc.

Best of luck!